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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    what's the one thing about yourself that you've been waiting on your partner to notice and compliment?
    mine would have to be my willingness to put others needs before my own. but yours could even be a physical feature for instance i have a cute freckel on my right foot.

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I have a brain too, you know..... roll

      1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
        TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yes, this one is related to mine...It sounds like we're in the same boat.

        1. myownworld profile image80
          myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          big_smile yes, paper doll...you nailed it there!  Funny part is, every man I meet (not just my hubby) treats me the same...! Is that why you decided to turn into a spider instead? wink

          1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
            TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            That's right, MOW...and very insightful of you.

            Up here in my web, I have no need to worry about such things...and in the spider world, the ladies rule. wink

            1. myownworld profile image80
              myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              ....or they can bite.....! ah.... wise spider....fragile yet strong!

              1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
                TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Thank you smile *bows*

                1. myownworld profile image80
                  myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  smile shine on....!  I'll call you our 'glow in the dark' spider...!

                  1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
                    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    AWESOME!! I love it.


                    I would suggest that if a man gets into a woman's mind and can stay there, he should have no problems revealing anything her more sensual nature has to offer.

      2. tony0724 profile image60
        tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I knew that !

  2. TheGlassSpider profile image74
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    The fact that I'm an actual human being and not the paper doll that he imagines I am. wink


    ETA:...although, I suppose he really doesn't count as a "partner" anymore. Though we share the same space (economic and other reasons), we are certainly no longer "together."

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    lol, that would be a big compliment coming from a man. big_smile

    1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
      TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LMAO So, you've found that other men have problems in that department as well?

      THank god...I was feeling so stupid for choosing this one...Lol

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    lol...you're not alone. i think i'm stupid becomes our motto until we realize it's not us it's them. but shhh don't tell anyone i said that. i don't want to have to do the dishes for the 14th time this month.lol

    1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
      TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey! I found the secret to not having to wash dishes....I STOPPED COOKING FOR HIM MWahhahahahaha! LMAO...

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        Lecieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        i never thought of that. thanks for the tip.lol

  5. Rafini profile image88
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    hhmmm, I have to think back to when I was married....hhmm...Anything that wasn't sexual in nature!  lol

  6. TheGlassSpider profile image74
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    I swear...I'm not even all that hot, okay...but I can wear a burlap sack (or just a bulky t-shirt) and STILL have to tell guys "Uhh, hello...my face is UP HERE."

    1. alternate poet profile image64
      alternate poetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Did he notice (like I just did) that you appear to have two left legs missing ?

      1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
        TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        HAHAHAHAHA!! That's an old pic...that problem has since been corrected. wink

      2. myownworld profile image80
        myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        see, now you're making the same mistake: look BEYOND the legs....! big_smile

        1. alternate poet profile image64
          alternate poetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Ahhhh   you are talking about feelings big_smile  now you have me interested.

          1. myownworld profile image80
            myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            oh no no! You jump from one extreme to the other!

            Looks............................. thoughts ............................... feelings!

            Get into her mind first....then see what follows! wink

            1. alternate poet profile image64
              alternate poetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              NO NO NO stay with legs and things under that burlap sack, and feelings YUM YUM YUM  big_smile

              Sorry, I just don't know how to control myself, I try really hard to look girls in burlap sacks directly in the eye when I am talking to them, and really hard not to turn and look when a super pair of legs go by, I really do.  Really.

              1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
                TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                hehehehe...well, at least you can talk about it honestly. Apparently it's quite difficult. Perhaps us ladies will have to try to understand...

              2. myownworld profile image80
                myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                big_smile oh, you sound convincing alright!  now now...it's ok...we are complicated, aren't we? But glow in the dark just gave you the best advice ever up there!

                Mind...then heart...then body!! All yours to keep!... wink

  7. TheGlassSpider profile image74
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    Yep! It's a top down thing rather than bottoms up...LOL

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      big_smile

      ((( problem is, once they've had us, they DON'T want to keep us!  roll )))

      1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
        TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yeah...I've heard this is a hard-wired thing. I wonder if  human morality gets in the way of the reality of instincts...I struggle with this issue...since I believe in the power of choice and free will.

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          myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          hehe...now you're talking! See, that's where it gets more complicated: we want them to want us - in every possible way....and YET not chain us down....!

          anyway, keep glowing... see u around..! smile

          Edit: sorry Lecie for the hijacking!

          1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
            TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            You got it! Hey...am I following you? *goes to make sure I am*




            Yeah! Sorry Lecie!!! I'll bow out now...gotta finish my taxes. Ya'll have a good one!

      2. alternate poet profile image64
        alternate poetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        This is a little sad sad  go and read my (only) love poem it might make you feel better!

        I have had many relationships, and for some reason, given that I am not such a pretty sight, many have been with beautiful girls. In my case it is them that did not want permanence or commitment when it came down to it, once they tired of 'using' me! As I learned literary criticism I read this phenomenon as to do with how men and women see each other, the old idea that men are 'presence' and women 'looked at', but this just disguises the division between the two that has been forced by many modern (last few hundred years) issues like the rise of commodity forced the issue of 'property' which leads on to feminism which leads on to separation.  One line of this argument says that women are free (quite rightly) and so must have certain rights but they can only take these from men who already possess them.

        The result is people too concerned about their own self to be able to give up enough of themselves to the other.

        BTW I am told I have a cute a*s.

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          Lecieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lets see a pic. of it sometime. wink

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    i vote that tomorrow we all go on strike until our partner compliments us. no mre lifting a finger for them until they tell us what we want to hear and they have to mean it.

    1. TheGlassSpider profile image74
      TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Good luck. I have already attempted this strategy...it's been months now. wink

    2. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yikes not a good idea! Think of the things you'll have to do for them AFTER they've complimented you and all....!

      smile @ Glow...um...best of luck with THAT... (taxes I mean...!)

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    You are all great and your partner needs to wake up! Just make sure you know what you want.smile

 
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