Respect. If they have respect, they were raised well. If they were raised well, then I'm sure they have a lot of respect for their mother and then of course love and adore her. If they have respect for their mothers and treat her well. They will definitely know how to respect you and treat you well.
Nothing is more sexy to me, then a man who always treats me with respect and shows respect for himself through his choices and actions.
Only one? lolololo If I had to choose only one I would say Chivalry, it is nice when they open the doors, slide your chair and send flowers. I love Chivalry to me it reflects respect and class to the woman they are with.
too many things - honestly, I can't just pinpoint one quality without something to complement it; But, if I had to name one, intelligence is waaaaayyyy up at the top of the list for me and then of course some 'candy' to go with it!
That he knows what it really means to be a man. He's not some stereo type or some macho caricature. He knows how to be honest, has common sense, is careful with his words and always knows how to make a woman feel special.
Not sure I can say one single quality... I suppose intelligence. But there is also other qualities that intelligence should be paired with like; Compassionate, respectful,understanding, honest, he should possess integrity,a sense of humor and maintain control over his temper when stressed.
thats assuming they have integrity for a reason that would be commonly accepted as good.
I knew a guy who truly believed he was right in all things, and he had a wacky set of morals, but he had alot of integrity for those beliefs. He held on and never gave up on his deep set beliefs. I am pretty sure he is still in prison.
Hey Justine, I take it that you've met very few people with Integrity. And, I mean, people who understand the word and it's meaning. A person with Integrity knows how to find balance, so you wouldn't have that problem about different views. Unless, your own integrity was in question or on the level of him. Otherwise, it all falls into place.
If you did not agree with them and you were honest with yourself in making that assessment, then apparently they were liars, because their integrity actually didn't stand up to what they claimed themselves. Therefore, you are incompatible for that reason and no other.
Integrity is the foundation of honesty and love. End of story!
I can understand where you are coming from, but you have to realize that it really does come down to an individual's integrity.
Because, if another person sees that a person lacks integrity, then ONE person can determine whether or not compatibility actually exists.
You can tell the integrity of a person, via the words they speak and every action they do. You do not even have to meet this person. You could be overhearing a conversation, become impressed by the person's way of speaking. You could see someone do something that shows obvious integrity trait, and assume whether or not you are compatible with that person, even though you do not know them.
when I ask "how do I look", I actually want to know. If I look awful, and dont know it, I would really like to be told before I go in public. If I don't want to know, if I am fine with how I look, I don't ask. Honesty is never mean. Mean implies an intention to cause hurt. Truth simply is what is. Yelling out what your opinion is, without being asked, can be mean.
Yep - U R right - went back and read the posts - should be an individual's desire/expectation. we change qualities from time to time; i think it comes down to experience and where you are in life. but the candy has always been there 4 me anyway
if possible, could you get him to ride the tractor up to my door! playing the guitar! that would be splendid. If he's not available, and even if he is, perhaps it would be better if you would just ride over on your tractor some evening. (I need a bigger garden) hahaha - but seriously, a man on his tractor always gets me going!