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first date...how was it?

  1. pisean282311 profile image53
    pisean282311posted 7 years ago

    how was your first date?..i remember mine ..i was excited till bill came in lol..on serious notes how was yours?

    1. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      you not asking me out, are you???

      I mean I like and all, but we are both heterosexual guys... and I am married

      1. pisean282311 profile image53
        pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol

  2. Joy56 profile image60
    Joy56posted 7 years ago

    missed out on the dating game, met when we were thirteen, married at 17 could not even drink in the bar at my wedding..... ha ha

    1. pisean282311 profile image53
      pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      17?..well it was too fast..so how has it been?..i mean journey?

      1. Joy56 profile image60
        Joy56posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        can you believe we were both 17....... we are still together.   Our eldest son is 34 and we have 7 grandchildren.   My husband says he has no regrets......

        1. pisean282311 profile image53
          pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          wow..thats great..my mom was 16 when she got married..but it was arrange marriage..marrying around 16-18 was norm for women in those days..

          1. Joy56 profile image60
            Joy56posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            so are they still together, and how do they feel about it being arranged

            1. pisean282311 profile image53
              pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              ya they are together..in my society divorces are rare...arrange marriage are still norms but love marriages are rising...how do i feel?..i still would have preferred my mother to have completed her studies..she was great in it..but social pressures didnt allow her to do that..they are great parents though and  the kind of love , sacrifices they have done for us..i am lucky to have such parents...

              1. Greek One profile image77
                Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                what society is that?

                1. pisean282311 profile image53
                  pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  i mean indian social system...

                  1. Greek One profile image77
                    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    what cast are you?? I can't talk to anyone in a lower cast..
                    unless you give me $4 in Pay Pal donations smile

  3. mega1 profile image81
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    I love remembering my first date because of my youth and innocence and that is about the last time I can remember that I had both!  The boy who took me out was a very nice, very sweet boy whose parents were eager for him to date me, for some reason I cannot fathom, maybe to prove his masculinity!  We were both 13 and he had just moved to town.  His dad drove us to dinner and a movie in their very nice car and we were so shy it was painful!  But cute.  Wish I had pictures.  I think the movie was of James Bond - don't remember which one.

  4. mega1 profile image81
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    I lost interest.

    1. pisean282311 profile image53
      pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      james bond on first date?..you were 13 at time of first date..thats exicting..i was 18 on mine..didnt knew anything when was 13...

      1. mega1 profile image81
        mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        that's the way I remember it, but my memory has been rather sketchy lately!  so maybe we went to a Methodist Youth Fellowship dance instead!  probably.

        1. pisean282311 profile image53
          pisean282311posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          that would have been fun...dating at 13 itself excites me...what was i doing when i was 13?..i was shy too at that time...

          1. mega1 profile image81
            mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            but then I didn't get to have another date until I was 15 l/2 and it was awful! so then I went steady with a guy who was 2 years older and when he went to college I was stuck at home - not dating other people, right - and that was one of the more stupid things I've ever done.  I'd like to tell kids that most of the time the people they date in high school will be out of their lives by the time they're 19 and they will be grateful! so act accordingly.

  5. Loveslove profile image52
    Lovesloveposted 6 years ago

    We went to a pub...after a lovely evening he walked me home,no kiss ....although I longed for one...his hand strayed to my butt and i thought ,this is it ,but No,we hugged and he left.We met again a few days later and things were different ...VERY DIFFERENT !!!

    1. pisean282311 profile image53
      pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      different?..

  6. Joe Badtoe profile image62
    Joe Badtoeposted 6 years ago

    Mine was a blind date


    although I already knew she was a bit older than me) (isn't that every hetero teenage boy's dream?) because we had exchanged through letters after I responded to her dating ad in the local paper.

    I waited at the bus station

    I told her what I'd be wearing Idescribed my look too

    I was almost bursting with excitement
    and then she appeared

    Mother?! oh my god

    I was nine years old this was not my best day.

    1. pisean282311 profile image53
      pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  7. Loveslove profile image52
    Lovesloveposted 6 years ago

    YES Piscean  ....Very different..wonderful...thats all im saying on the subject  so dont ask !!

 
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