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If You Love Me You'll Wait.

  1. Mrs.Nita profile image60
    Mrs.Nitaposted 6 years ago

    I visited my friend awhile back and I was a bit shocked when he mentioned that it had been almost two months since he had been intimate with his girlfriend.

    She asked him to wait, until they got married.

    What makes people start off in a relationship having sex, and then all of a sudden expect the other person to quit cold turkey because all of a sudden their conscience is getting the best of them?

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      bjphillposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Is his girlfriend religious? Christians believe in waiting until marraige to have sex. It could be that she has these religious convictions, and just had a week moment when she had sex. Being a Christian doesn't make someone immune to sexual temptation.

      My wife and I both waited until we got married, and we don't regret it for one second.

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    Contriceposted 6 years ago

    I think it's good to wait if that's what you want to do, but I don't judge those that choose not too (we live in a changing world)...Sometimes it is a change of heart, especially if it goes against your religion.  If one wants to become more involved in their religion, they may choose to follow it more strictly.

    1. MeGunner profile image74
      MeGunnerposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Well, this sounded more like 'If you love me you'll pause'. It might have nothing to do with religion and that is what the guy needs to find out. Why?