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how many time should couples sex in a week?

  1. joebee profile image59
    joebeeposted 6 years ago

    please i want to know if it's right to have sex the whole of the week as a couple

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      Sword of Fireposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      sex is by consensus, but both parties should be honest, not say what they THINK the other wants. Two adults (or more if everyone is into it)
      consenting together. Partners.

    2. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      you mean with each other?

    3. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I would suggest taking a break at some point during the 7 days...

      if for no other reason than to keep my record safe

    4. paradigmsearch profile image89
      paradigmsearchposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      "How many time should couples sex in a week?"

      As many times as it takes for the male to be carried out of the room on a stretcher.

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        Beth37posted 4 years ago in reply to this

        I don't know why he'd need to be carried out of the room, he'd already be in bed.

  2. WryLilt profile image87
    WryLiltposted 6 years ago

    It's completely up to you. If both of you have high sex drives, then go for it as much as you want.

    If you're both comfortable with other intimacies (such as hugs and hand holding), that's fine too.

    No one outside your marriage or relationship should set the rules for what goes on inside it. It's a mutual agreement between the pair of you.

    1. IntimatEvolution profile image82
      IntimatEvolutionposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I completely agree with this.  I think you should have sex as much as you all want.  It is such an important part of living together.

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    ryankettposted 6 years ago

    http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ODa44Ca3Qog/SskxGrYV33I/AAAAAAAAA-Y/WEvTRiy8_M4/s400/sexfreq.gif

    1. waynet profile image50
      waynetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I feel tired after looking at that chart! smile

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        ryankettposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I think that it is mightily impressive how married men over 70 still manage 1.5 times per week on average. Although I am sure that Hugh Heffner brings that average up a fair bit!

        1. alternate poet profile image77
          alternate poetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          You are buying into the 'young guy' myth  -  us older guys have more than enough for twice a night every night, it is just that as you get older them little fillies seem to be able to run faster and get harder to catch !

      2. Wendy Krick profile image51
        Wendy Krickposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        LOL!

    2. WryLilt profile image87
      WryLiltposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hahaha, my only question is this:

      If married men are having more sex than married women most of the time, does that mean they're cheating? lol

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        ryankettposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        It could include Mormons wink

        Or it is more likely men adding a few more onto their totals, and women detracting a few smile

        1. WryLilt profile image87
          WryLiltposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          LOL!

      2. alternate poet profile image77
        alternate poetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        No - it means some wives didn't notice.

      3. JustJets profile image60
        JustJetsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        @WryLilt: I love your comment! I saw that trend too and wondered why the married men are involved in sex more frequently than their wives. Maybe because of extramarital relations! Tsk tsk!

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          china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Maths does not lie !!   it must be about the same for male and female or all those guys are having sex with the same woman !!

  4. BRIAN SLATER profile image86
    BRIAN SLATERposted 6 years ago

    after checking out the graph i'd better have a few more early nights- my stats are slipping lol

  5. BRIAN SLATER profile image86
    BRIAN SLATERposted 6 years ago

    lol -brilliant smile

  6. sid_candid profile image60
    sid_candidposted 6 years ago

    This is an interesting discussion. The number of times a couple should have sex in a week depends completely on them and factors like their sex drive etc.

  7. prettydarkhorse profile image62
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    1000 times









    3 "quality"

    1. BLACKANDGOLDJACK profile image85
      BLACKANDGOLDJACKposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Well I hope this doesn't apply during the football season. I don't see how you could pay close attention to what the Steelers are doing.

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    Tilecleaninghubposted 6 years ago

    Wow Maita 1000 times a week.  Are you sure you can hang?

  9. waynet profile image50
    waynetposted 6 years ago

    I sex a few times everyday....me and my right hand have fun!

    Hairy palms and going blind!!

    1. WryLilt profile image87
      WryLiltposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hahaha but at least you'll be happy while you sit with the other chimps, staring off into the blackness....

    2. Castlepaloma profile image22
      Castlepalomaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Funny, what ever works

  10. SomewayOuttaHere profile image61
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 6 years ago

    ...lots - if it's good....

  11. schoolgirlforreal profile image72
    schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago

    I think the chart is rigged!

    I think it includes masturbating cause it says unmarried men
    have more sex than unmarried women lol
    and we know a woman just has to offer sex usually and gets it
    while men don't and they masturbate more, don't they? lol
    ?

    1. pisean282311 profile image57
      pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      difference is not much as it was thought before..both men and women masturbate regularly ...men do slight higher in frequency but difference is not much...

  12. Mancini profile image59
    Manciniposted 6 years ago

    As often as you both like!

  13. Catering101 profile image60
    Catering101posted 6 years ago

    That's for both of you to decide. It definitely depends how often you both want it, it doesn't matter as long as both of you are pleased about it. smile

  14. dawnM profile image75
    dawnMposted 6 years ago

    Well I wrote a hub on this subject in marriage and the average was three times a week, but I think that is not what most people are having but what most people thought was the average.  I thought that this was amusing, so I decided to dive deeper into the murky waters of sex in marriage and found that more than 50% of the couples that were married were in a sexless marriage.  The couples that were having good sex in the marriage were having it quite often and many times even into their 80's.  Yes statically sex does decrease as couple‚Äôs age, but the most important factor was that the couples that were still sexually attracted to one another and had good sexual chemistry were having sex many times a week.
    One last bit of information that I found promising was that is both husband and wife were equally willing to work on the sex in their marriage, and then the outcome was better than expected.  They learned to better communicate with one another on what turned each of them on and explored new positions and other ways to improve the sex in their marriage.

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    AlphaMaleeposted 5 years ago

    ohh man i want to have it all the time may be i am ill but i just want it all the time

  16. iamageniuster profile image78
    iamageniusterposted 5 years ago

    As much as possible. Haha.

  17. Merlin Fraser profile image79
    Merlin Fraserposted 5 years ago

    The three Ages of Man and Sex:

      Tri Weekly   20 - 50

      Try Weekly   50 - 70

      Try Weakly   70+

  18. Bhanu.Jas profile image67
    Bhanu.Jasposted 5 years ago

    Should do not more then 7times a week..

    Bhawana

  19. Cardisa profile image92
    Cardisaposted 5 years ago

    As often as the mood strikes. If it strikes ten times per day then so be it. Research shows that sex helps to keep the mind in balance.

  20. schoolgirlforreal profile image72
    schoolgirlforrealposted 5 years ago

    2-3 times minimum tongue

  21. 4tune profile image60
    4tuneposted 5 years ago

    For me it depends could be one time - Could be 10 times in the same day, "There is no right or wrong amount."

  22. freecampingaussie profile image49
    freecampingaussieposted 5 years ago

    You can't go by charts as I read that men over 60 have sex about twice a month yet my husband is 64 & I am 45 & we make love on average 5-7 mornings  a week so it all depends on how much you enjoy it as a couple !

  23. kat11 profile image60
    kat11posted 5 years ago

    I agree with freecampingaussie charts and stats don,t mean anything.  Although my spouse and I are the same age. We on an average have sex on an 6 to 8 times during the week. We are high school prom sweethearts. So our sex relationship has grown together. I believe that most people should continue in any relationship try interesting positions. When you are in the mood take advantage of the time you have together and enjoy it as a couple.

  24. Jonathan Janco profile image80
    Jonathan Jancoposted 5 years ago

    If a couple is together in the true commited sense and they are in love, then they should make love constantly. Whether its reproductive intercourse, non-reproductive intercourse, necking, dry humping, kissing or just projecting their perfect (for them) partnership to the world, then go to it .  .  . and good luck!

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    klarawieckposted 5 years ago

    Every day!

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      logic,commonsenseposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Agreed!  A day without sex is like a day without sunshine! smile

  26. ubanichijioke profile image50
    ubanichijiokeposted 5 years ago

    20 times in a week is enough. . .

  27. makusr profile image60
    makusrposted 5 years ago

    Sex is not just an act. It is a joyful act.


    If SHE agrees for that,
    And HE  has a hard fact,
    Then play on,
    Be it soft bed, or, hard mat.

    Remember, don't count the days of your life, count the life in your days.

    1. Dawn the Chip profile image61
      Dawn the Chipposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      It depends on the sex drive of each person.....trouble starts when 1 is more highly sexed than the other. If you manage to find someone with equally high sex drives, then sexual bliss is bound to follow. I have had sex nearly every day and about 6 times at weekends since we met 18 months ago and I cant see anything changing! woohoo! :-)

  28. lovelypaper profile image69
    lovelypaperposted 5 years ago

    If both parties agree, as much as you feel like it. It's a personal decision for each couple. Some married couples that have been together awhile may only come together like once a month, but if you two have that passion, that's awsome. When the kids come along, good luck with keeping that desire burning.

  29. lockgirl profile image60
    lockgirlposted 5 years ago

    As many times as possible anywhere anyhow smile

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    guardedheart9posted 5 years ago

    Interestingly enough, the more sex you have the more appetite you have for it!  I can't think of anything more fun that (as least for me) is free!!  I have been married 11 years and have two kids, and to be honest it only keeps on getting better.  I think practice makes perfect!  It is vital for a couple to be at it as a rock-bottom minimum of 2-3 times a week.  The health of their relationship is intimately entwined in it. Twice a day a doable maximum in this household.  Practicalities mean there are kids to feed, jobs to go to, etc.....so that can place limits on time for pleasurable leisure activities anymore than that!!

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    Beth37posted 4 years ago

    I like to have sex at least 3 times a week, even better if there's a man involved.

    1. BLACKANDGOLDJACK profile image85
      BLACKANDGOLDJACKposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      You must think about sex a lot if you resurrect old threads about the subject.

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        Beth37posted 4 years ago in reply to this

        It was one of those recommended on the right of the screen... why do they advertize those if they're not supposed to be used? You'd think they'd publicize current ones.

        1. BLACKANDGOLDJACK profile image85
          BLACKANDGOLDJACKposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          Hey, well you gave a real good answer, and this subject never gets outdated no matter how old the thread is, 'eh?

          I also like the answer by prettydarkhorse of 1000.

  32. freecampingaussie profile image49
    freecampingaussieposted 4 years ago

    As sex is a natural and enjoyable part of everyday life we love to start off the day that way . As you get older and with the right person it gets even better so 7-10 times a week is good !

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      Beth37posted 4 years ago in reply to this

      You're a rock star. smile

  33. ocbill profile image74
    ocbillposted 4 years ago

    Vague question as it presumes that all couples are physically healthy. Some couples work away from home as much as 11 months of the year (military, actors/actresses, musicians, athletes,etc.)
    There is no "should have at least" answer, maybe "on average" yes. some couples are fine without it for months as love is much more than sex. There are online couples who consider themselves a couple too (Manti Teo).

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      Beth37posted 4 years ago in reply to this

      You mean online couples?
      Im not familiar with that name... Manti' Teo.

  34. freecampingaussie profile image49
    freecampingaussieposted 4 years ago

    I agree some have health issues or are not together the whole time so that changes things . Love does include more than sex however Love Making is an enjoyable way to show love to each other and a lovely way to spend some time together !

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    allhailtexasposted 4 years ago

    3 times a week for a healthy life.

  36. paradigmsearch profile image89
    paradigmsearchposted 4 years ago

    http://memecrunch.com/meme/HD42/you-want-me-to-do-what/image.png

  37. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 4 years ago

    Depends on the couple.

 
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