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Hurting others

  1. thirdmillenium profile image71
    thirdmilleniumposted 6 years ago

    Why do people hurt others who are rather harmless and know they would not hit back? And, all the while knowing fully well that they are being unfair?

    1. Ultimate Hubber profile image80
      Ultimate Hubberposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      They take them as soft targets. They hurt them because they can't hurt others who will react by hurting them back.

  2. timorous profile image93
    timorousposted 6 years ago

    They sometimes don't even realize they're being unfair.  They're way too stressed out and prone to lash out without thinking.  They need to step back from themselves, and learn to relax..not jump to conclusions, be more open-minded and put themselves in the other person's shoes.

    It all comes down to mindset and mental attitude.  Can you change that?  Of course you can..any thought process can be changed..the mind is very flexible..it just takes time.  Of course if drugs or alcohol are involved it takes even longer. 

    Oh yeah..and they need to become a good listener too smile

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      george245posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I know I agree that happened to me with my ex I'm dealing with now she kept attacking me I didn't know why until one night when she told me