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Women!

  1. thirdmillenium profile image70
    thirdmilleniumposted 6 years ago

    How do you find out if a woman means yes or no when she says no?

    1. dutchman1951 profile image60
      dutchman1951posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Take it as a no. your going to get in trouble either way!    lol

  2. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 6 years ago

    You invite Dr. Cal Lightman over for pumpkin scones from the show 'Lie To Me', and he will let you know.

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
      Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      that's interesting.  however, i think i'd rather learn from you bp. big_smile wink  lol

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Awww and how right you are LMAO. I could teach you much more than Dr Lightman about twitches and eye lash blinking. I just checked my black book, how does 20/10/10 sound at say 6.00pm.

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
          Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          it's a date then. i can hardly wait for my first lesson. wink

          1. Rajab Nsubuga profile image61
            Rajab Nsubugaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I didn't hear a 'yes!', from bp

    2. couturepopcafe profile image60
      couturepopcafeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      BP - I love that show!!

  3. ediggity profile image60
    ediggityposted 6 years ago

    Just do the opposite of whatever you think is the correct response, and hope for the best.

  4. couturepopcafe profile image60
    couturepopcafeposted 6 years ago

    Please, not that old chestnut!!.  No means no.  The problem is some women are weak.  They don't say no hoping you will coax them into what you think they really want, which is you, sex, a kiss, whatever. 

    They are just weak, maybe double minded.

    The best thing to do is give her space.  If she says no, step back, observe, give it a day.  If she has time to think about it, she'll know what to do. 

    Women, particularly young women, have a need to be needed or wanted.  That's why they send mixed messages.  The "no" is no to what you're asking, but they give in because they feel it's the way to keep you around.  Don't use this to your advantage.

    Be kind.  The best woman/relationship is had by letting her decide what's right for her, not by coercion.

 
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