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What about soulmates?

  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
    schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago

    I used to believe in them, some say you have more than one
    What about people who are divorced? etc etc

    How do you find your soulmate?  Will they just drop out of the sky? What is you can't stand being lonely and being with "someone" is better than none?

    What if you had someone you loved being w/ but it ended and now you can't find someone that good? What if?

  2. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    I wouldn't go as far to say "soul" mates, but everyone can find someone. wink

    1. saleheensblog profile image60
      saleheensblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      i don't find one sad

    2. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
      schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      hmm hard to find someone when one is always on the computer! sad

      1. saleheensblog profile image60
        saleheensblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        lol lol

      2. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I guess that depends on where you look while on your computer. hmm

        1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
          schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I wouldn't know where to look for the kind of guy I want! hmm

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Not much I can say to that. lol

      3. ItsThatSimple profile image60
        ItsThatSimpleposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        The computer, or at least internet can be a perfect place to meet someone!

  3. sofs profile image86
    sofsposted 6 years ago

    Hey ... you guys are only guessing I have had mine for the last twenty years.. can never find another like him.  smile just the right one for me... smile

    You will find your soul drawn towards the person... no way will you miss him/her.

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I'm very happy for you Sofs. smile Always nice to hear great things like that. smile

      1. sofs profile image86
        sofsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Oh thanks Cags.... that is the truth!  smile

        1. Cagsil profile image60
          Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          You're quite welcome Sofs. My grandmother and her boyfriend spent 30 years together, before she came down with dementia and was hospitalize. He was like a grandfather to me and I was saddened when she had to leave me alone. They both have died since then and in the same year. But, they were always happy. smile

    2. saleheensblog profile image60
      saleheensblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      hello sofs big_smile big_smile big_smile long time no see

      1. sofs profile image86
        sofsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hi Saleheen, good to see you, I can see that you are feeling better now!!
        Had a rough day yesterday at the Extreme makeover??.. .. hey don't worry we all learning!! Take care!  smile

        1. saleheensblog profile image60
          saleheensblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          feeling better now.
          had a rough time in hubmakeover but I never mind. Every stumble is a stair of learning. I was still happy as my information were correct though written in poor English.

          1. sofs profile image86
            sofsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Hey don't worry ... all you need to know is that you have a great attitude and that will take you much further than most!
            You are getting better and better...keep at it.. .
            Nobody not even the experts, started off as experts...all start small...cheers! smile

    3. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
      schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I believe that. Bet you're not bored with each other after 20 yrs hmm? wink

      1. sofs profile image86
        sofsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Never a moment of boredom  my dear ... not if you work to make it fun.

    4. Diane Inside profile image86
      Diane Insideposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      what if your soul is drawn to someone but you are already with someone else?  I wonder?

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hey Diane, that is going to create a bad situation sooner or later. hmm

        1. Diane Inside profile image86
          Diane Insideposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Yeah I agree, but nontheless, it does happen.

          Hi Cags, I'll miss arguing with you. lol

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            We don't argue. hmm But, be safe on the road though. smile

            1. sofs profile image86
              sofsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              A veiled threat !!

              You can't have your cake and eat it Diane ... smile one soul, only one soul mate,  wait until then.. or make the best of what you have!!  lol big_smile

          2. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
            schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I love arguing w/ him too.

            1. Cagsil profile image60
              Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              But, I don't argue with you Schoolgirl. lol lol

              1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
                schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                you dont? I thought we did, we used to

                1. Cagsil profile image60
                  Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I don't argue. You might consider it arguing, but I don't. wink

                  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
                    schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    oh smile

      2. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
        schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I am thru w/ the person I'm with. Completely. I'll only see them if I am desperately lonley....that's not a relationship. That's more like a one night thing. I am single
        and I'm going to date as many people as possible till I find someone nice.

      3. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
        schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Diane, that happens alot, as we are "more confident" when with someone and we attract people more so.......that's what I hear.

        If you are drawn to someone else, you have to figure out how much you care for the person you're with, or how committed you are,
        then,
        figure out who the other person really is.........

        It must be a hard thing.

        In my situation, I don't have ANY romantic feelings left for the guy. At all
        I just want to continue being friends, but at times I get lonely and weaken though I still don't like to ....so I'm confused

  4. Lifeallstar1 profile image60
    Lifeallstar1posted 6 years ago

    I haven't found my soulmate. Guess I haven't looked but I hope he is awesome! Would suck to have a crappy soulmate. That kind of defeats the purpose. I honestly didn't think they really existed but after reading sofs post, I now have hope! smile

    1. Jillian Barclay profile image85
      Jillian Barclayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Don't give up so easy! I found my soulmate in the least likely of all places. My best friend while growing up called me and she said she had found the perfect man for me! Told her I never liked her taste in men (which I didn't) and that I was sure she was wrong! She had already given him my phone number-he called and on our first date I just knew! He was the one! We were married not long after. We had 3 children and I loved him deeply. He died unexpectedly ten years later and I miss him til this day! Don't know if two soulmates come along in one lifetime, but I know for sure that one can! Look for someone who makes you laugh, even when things look grim! If you can laugh with someone, it is the best! Our kids all have his sense of humor, so I still have him in my life! I see him everyday in our children.

  5. Disturbia profile image60
    Disturbiaposted 6 years ago

    I believe in soulmates.

  6. Cheeky Girl profile image85
    Cheeky Girlposted 6 years ago

    You will know if someone you meet is a soul mate if they feel like you have known them all your life. They will be strangely familiar to you, and you will just get that "I know" vibe. No one can really tell you what it is, only you. Open your heart to it, and sooner or later, you will meet that special someone. Barriers won't help too much, unless you have been badly hurt before. In which case be obviously cautious. Best of luck.

  7. ItsThatSimple profile image60
    ItsThatSimpleposted 6 years ago

    Finding a great match is difficult. Most people spend at least a few decades looking. It's a process that would be great to push a button and rush.

  8. LondonGirl profile image90
    LondonGirlposted 6 years ago

    I don't believe in the whole "soul mates" idea, that there is only one person out there. It's an idea which is likely to breed discontent and unhappiness, in my view.

 
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