The problem is... He a coward and a blackmailer. He alawys will send emails abusing me and my family but when we come face to face he will not talk at all and he starts following me wherever i go! He is a bloody idiot and he is harrasing me all the time for no reason at all! What to do? Please tell me.
Wow! How can people been so mean and cowardly? Lifes far too short to hold onto any grudges. Probably the best way you can resolve this issue would be if you stop him and explain that abusing you and your family is uncalled for and highly immature, ask him what he wants and explain you will try you best to resolve his grievances against you. Tell him that this is a ONE TIME offer and if his behavior continues there will be very serious consequences for him. Leave it an open threat and stand firm that it is a threat. Hopefully, the guy will tell you what he wants and what will make him stop. If he does, no matter what it is, be polite and reassuring. Then accept anything he proposes.
Oh and I forgot to mention, make sure you have Dictaphone recording the conversation.
I don't know about the blackmail part. Sometimes, such issus can be resolved peacefully by having someone help out as a mediator; a trusted third party who is not emotionally involved can get things calmed down to path the way for a compromise. At other times, legal action may be required - restraining orders come to mind.
That is why I suggest having a third party contact him on your behalf. If he is unwilling to talk to that third party, this won't work. But if that third party writes to him respectfully, he might respond. What have you to lose?
Website Examiner, You are right! I will try it out and i have something to loose and that is my friend. Right now he is hiding behind the bushes of my neighbours garden and looking me with his binocoulars.
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