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Do guys prefer "bad" girls over "nice" girls? Poll vote now.

  1. LadyTwizzelton profile image60
    LadyTwizzeltonposted 6 years ago

    The never ending battle of good girls vs. bad girls. Taking a poll now with your votes for Bad Girls or Good girls.
    Bad
    Good
    The nice guys say the like nice girls and don't want to deal with ego driven, bossy women. But, the nice girls out there observe that guys date girls who they are afraid of; i.e. "I have to go or my girlfriend will get mad." They seem to have a boss that they can get in trouble from.
    Opinions wanted to find out the truth. Do nice girls stand a chance in the dating game? Vice versa as well (nice guys)

    1. thisisoli profile image64
      thisisoliposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      From personal experience I would say I have only ever used bad girls for one thing.

    2. JeffreyBrown profile image59
      JeffreyBrownposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Howdy,

      I feel many younger men prefer the bad girls and the older men prefer the good girls most of the time,the reason is younger men are more interested in sex then a relationship and older men are more interested in a good partner and a relationship.This is not how all men young or old feels,but I feel safe to say this is the majority.

      Wish you a great day

      1. albc profile image61
        albcposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Could not agree with you more. I can handle bad children quite well, but bad girl - I wish I did not meet her anytime in my life..

    3. onlinearticlespk profile image61
      onlinearticlespkposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      nice girls are preferred

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      subtalkposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      when ever a guy need a fling ,they don't care if they turn a good girl bad.but with good moral ,i hope they choose a nice girl

    5. Dave Mathews profile image59
      Dave Mathewsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Do you know the difference between a "Good girl" and a
      "Nice Girl"?
      A "Good girl" goes to a party, goes home, goes to bed.
      A "Nice girl" goes to a party, goes to bed, and then goes home.

      1. thebluestar profile image81
        thebluestarposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Oh dear that's an old one lol

    6. dusy7969 profile image60
      dusy7969posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I'd have to say bad girls. All of the "nice girls" that I ever dated turned out to be as manipulitive as the bad girls, if not more so.

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      KerryMaxCookposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Definitely bad girls. Girls who know how to take charge, know what they want and put the male in his place and keep him in line.

    8. webguyonline profile image61
      webguyonlineposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      i prefer nice girls, why? well it's because they're nice, they doesn't cause you headaches

    9. Mikel G Roberts profile image89
      Mikel G Robertsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      The desire for an absolute this works everytime answer is not possible. The true answer to your question is that we all want a "someone" as unique and different as our mental images of our perfect matches are.

      For me personally I want a publically "nice" woman that is naughty when we are alone. A woman not afraid of life and not closed off to new ideas and new things. What I don't want is a "bad" woman in the sense of a user, lier, manipulator, cheater or abuser.

      Being a "bad-girl" in the sense of being an unconventional sometimes non-follower type that brings excitement and spontenaity to the relationship is the positive connotation to this term. As the boring and never compromising prude is the negavtive connotation to the "nice" girl concept.

      The bottom line is there are good and bad in all of us in varying measures, the trick is finding the correct mixture that compliments our own unique mixture.

    10. esllr profile image60
      esllrposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Being a good girl has it's privileges. You will always find out quickly who is the bad boy plus you are the one with the marriage proposals. Men don't take bad girls home to meet mom.

  2. shynsly profile image60
    shynslyposted 6 years ago

    That's a tricky question... and could possibly be worded a bit differently. I'm married now and got what I wanted, lol... but I think for me, at least... I prefer a girl who is MOSTLY nice but definitly has her "bad" side.

    I think we may have a different definition of "bad", though... I think of it more in terms of "naughty", or at least not a goody-two-shoes, prude, stick in the mud, etc. But that's not the same as "mean".

    I wouldn't tolerate a flat-out B-word, nor do I know many guys that would. It's exhausting and just makes life miserable. It's one thing to have a spine and to have your opinions, but to be a you-know-what just for the sake of it, why?

  3. MadCowWritings profile image61
    MadCowWritingsposted 6 years ago

    I love the yin and yang of them so I must pick both.

  4. Don Simkovich profile image61
    Don Simkovichposted 5 years ago

    A bad girl with a nice personality . . . or a nice girl who can have a bad personality . . . and a nice smile -- whether straight on smiling or seductively.

  5. Libra Rajani profile image60
    Libra Rajaniposted 5 years ago

    I think younger men may want a bad girl simply because of what he assumes she will do. As he ages, his wants and needs will change. For most older and wiser men, the play will be out of him and he will lean towards a good girl;someone he can take home to mommy. However, some men luck out and get a good girl in the boardroom and a bad girl in the bedroom.

  6. skyskater profile image60
    skyskaterposted 5 years ago

    What you are really asking is: Are there more bad guys than good guys... being good deals with the heart, no matter the weakness of the flesh that may make one unreasonable. Choosing a bad girl or a nice girl all depends on character

  7. RDSPhD profile image80
    RDSPhDposted 5 years ago

    hmm hard to say but I would say nice girls are preferred when it comes to a long term relationship. I mean if she was bad when you first met her in a club or a bar chances are she won't change much even in a relationship. Same counts for men who are trying to pick up girls by playing a "bad guy" that's just more a "short-term focused strategy" wink.

  8. bturn12 profile image61
    bturn12posted 5 years ago

    I think men perfer bad girls not a nice girl.

  9. ndnfoodie530 profile image60
    ndnfoodie530posted 5 years ago

    bad girls.

  10. Greek One profile image80
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    i prefer the ones who know how to make a good ham sandwich.

    vaginas are all the same.. but a good ham sandwich is hard to come by

    1. thebluestar profile image81
      thebluestarposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      what a sexist remark, but sad that many men like the same.

      1. Greek One profile image80
        Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        on the contrary...

        I am saying that body parts are interchangeable.. and that there are more important things than a woman's body

        1. Bronson_Hub profile image61
          Bronson_Hubposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Surely you jest!

          1. Greek One profile image80
            Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            No, I don't.. and don't call me Shirley smile

            1. Bronson_Hub profile image61
              Bronson_Hubposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              Greek One,  do you like movies about gladiators?

    2. esllr profile image60
      esllrposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Only inexperience can say that and you can duplicate a good sandwich smile

      1. Greek One profile image80
        Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Madam, only EXPERIENCE (too much of it), can make me say that...

        and I'm talking about a GREAT ham sandwich, not just a good one tongue

        http://www.family-getaways-melbourne.com/images/Ham-and-Cheese-Sandwich.jpg

        1. esllr profile image60
          esllrposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          lol!

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            kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Now that's good big_smile

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    logic,commonsenseposted 5 years ago

    I love good girls that are "bad"!

    1. thebluestar profile image81
      thebluestarposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      best of both there. Good answer

  12. Black Lilly profile image60
    Black Lillyposted 5 years ago

    There's only one thing I know about good and bad:

    Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere wink

  13. Pcunix profile image90
    Pcunixposted 5 years ago

    I prefer MY girl.

    Forty four years married this summer.

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      awesome

    2. thebluestar profile image81
      thebluestarposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Gosh, prison sentences are less. I have been with my guy 14 years now and don't know who needs the medal most. Nice to hear of someone being happy, and wishing you many more years.

      1. Pcunix profile image90
        Pcunixposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Prison sentence?

        More  like endless vacation, never ending party, perpetual friendship..

  14. thebluestar profile image81
    thebluestarposted 5 years ago

    What if we say that men marry brunettes but date blondes. (no reflection on blondes). I think that most men like a bad girl but when it comes to marriage and trust they go for a good girl instead.

  15. pisean282311 profile image57
    pisean282311posted 5 years ago

    In my dictionary there are only two types of girls....good girls and very good girls...tongue

  16. Moonchild60 profile image85
    Moonchild60posted 5 years ago

    When I was 15 my grandmother shocked my sister and I by telling us "Always present yourself as a lady to the world, but be a whore in bed".  We turned to look at each other to check if we had both heard correctly.  This meant never leave the house looking frumpy, get your hair done, nails done, look clean and well taken care of, never curse in public or act inappropriately and never discuss sex or politics in mixed company.

    I am a good girl with a "bad girl" side.  This has worked great for me in my life.  I strongly advise it.

    1. Bronson_Hub profile image61
      Bronson_Hubposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I think we have the same grandmother.

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      KerryMaxCookposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I probably like the "bad side" as a submissive male who believes in the Superiority of the Female.

  17. Keith Worth profile image60
    Keith Worthposted 5 years ago

    Depends on what I'm looking for at the time: if I'm looking for a long term relationship with a girl, more than likely she'd be a good girl.

    If I want something more casual and fun: then I'd go with the bad girl route. Bad girls can be more fun, in small doses at least, but it's the good girl you want in the long run as what starts as fun can quickly become drama.

  18. Bronson_Hub profile image61
    Bronson_Hubposted 5 years ago

    I've been afraid of girls yet attracted to them as far back as I can remember.  I avoid, yet seek both good and bad girls at the same time. This may not end well.

    1. cheaptrick profile image78
      cheaptrickposted 5 years ago

      The perfect woman..."A women should be the epitome of a lady in public...and a complete whore in the bed room"...Queen Victoria
      I'm lucky enough to have just that.

    2. know one profile image61
      know oneposted 5 years ago

      "For innocent pecks she turns out her cheek, yet
      longs for the tongue that turns all resolve weak.
      But nice girls don’t ask for - and rarely will get -
      what bad girls demand and almost never regret."

      And I second what moonchild60 says. It's the only way to go!

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      logic,commonsenseposted 5 years ago

      All girls are good, just some better than others! smile

    4. Jeff Berndt profile image91
      Jeff Berndtposted 5 years ago

      So, you mean, "Mary-Ann or Ginger?"

      Mary-Ann, no question. I might be able to talk to her about something other than Hollywood, for one thing.

    5. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago

      It depends on what you want from them, at that time. You must be talking about a first date, or you know what you've got. H

    6. luvpassion profile image60
      luvpassionposted 5 years ago

      How about sometimes Bad? wink

      1. gguy profile image61
        gguyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Sounds like a plan, I like moonchilds M.O. above!!

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      kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago

      Bad to the bon
      Alway your best bet

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        kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        smile

        sad)

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      kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago

      http://s3.hubimg.com/u/4633182.jpg

     
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