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The right time to make a move when in a date

  1. rosariosblog profile image61
    rosariosblogposted 6 years ago

    unspoken signals, body language, awkward silences

    1. Zubair Ahmed profile image74
      Zubair Ahmedposted 6 years ago

      Hi rosariosblog,

      Please elaborate what move when in a date?  Are you talking about walking off because the date your on is simply time waste or are you talking about jumping over and kissing the person?

      1. rosariosblog profile image61
        rosariosblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I mean the latter Zubair.  I don't mean walking off and leaving.  I also mean, what are the signs that your date is ready and will allow your advances to advance. smile

        1. paradigmsearch profile image89
          paradigmsearchposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          You Will Just Know!!! Trust me on this. smile

          1. 6 String Veteran profile image87
            6 String Veteranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            LOL.

    2. paradigmsearch profile image89
      paradigmsearchposted 6 years ago

      There is no such thing as “Making a move.”

      Leastwise, there shouldn’t be. smile

      It just happens naturally.

      1. rosariosblog profile image61
        rosariosblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Paradigmasearch, I agree it happens naturally.  "Talking" also happens naturally but we still have a system of writing where we can rephrase things a little better.

      2. 6 String Veteran profile image87
        6 String Veteranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        @ paradigmsearch, there certainly is such a thing a 'making moves'. It's an art and has been for thousands of years. The hitch--and a major hitch it is--is that some are naturals at it and others are clumsy and ineffective.

        I happen to fall in the latter group but have known many a 'smooth operator'. Such 'masters of move' make advancements that would quickly result in a hard slap for the lesser man. For them, however, it is simply a playful game. From time to time these fellows can be seen running out of a house or down a boulevard with no shirt or shoes...but such trivialities are a small price to pay in the life of a Player.

    3. camlo profile image84
      camloposted 6 years ago

      This may sound cliché, well, it is, actually. But, according to my experience, it's usually that moment when your eyes lock.

      1. rosariosblog profile image61
        rosariosblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Yes.  But sometimes it is good to keep some tension building before something happens, this could actually make the actual experience more satisfying.

        1. lyndre profile image80
          lyndreposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I am moving in to kiss those ruby petals.Is a cyber slap coming my way? smile

          1. rosariosblog profile image61
            rosariosblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            lol They are rose petals, lyndre!  Oh you can kiss them anytime you like, they're there 24/7 for you!  Who would want to slap such a cute looking foot anyway?

      2. 6 String Veteran profile image87
        6 String Veteranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        @ camlo...yeah, and then you realize there's a booger in her nose. It happened to me. Hey, the gal was still pretty and all...there was just a booger in her left nostril.

        1. rosariosblog profile image61
          rosariosblogposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol   So how did you get through that episode?

    4. paradigmsearch profile image89
      paradigmsearchposted 6 years ago

      And not all silences are “awkward”…

    5. paradigmsearch profile image89
      paradigmsearchposted 6 years ago

      And no means no.

     
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