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Fall in love with a guy/gal contrary to your ideal man/woman?

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    aleyahposted 5 years ago

    will you fall in love with a guy or gal who is entirely different with your ideal man or woman?

    1. Shahid Bukhari profile image60
      Shahid Bukhariposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      The Chemistry of love, is beyond, differences, and similarities !

      Love is Giving, without expecting anything in return ...
      But be careful, don't throw away your life, and dignity, in the name of loving.

      One who truly loves you, Respects you, in both word and deed.

    2. noyon_ku profile image59
      noyon_kuposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I think the term ideal is vary from man to man.

  2. Internetwriter62 profile image86
    Internetwriter62posted 5 years ago

    I guess anything is possible. It depends on the differences, I still think having the same core values such as sharing the same faith is important.

  3. ThisGirlsOpinion profile image79
    ThisGirlsOpinionposted 5 years ago

    What is ideal anyway?  I guess when you are single for as long as I have been, you really just do not measure people that way.  I would prefer to have a healthy relationship over any of the fantasies or criterion that seem so important.

    1. Christy Goff profile image61
      Christy Goffposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I don't think that anyone really knows what is ideal, until you meet them.  When you find them, you can't think of anyone more perfect for you.

  4. recommend1 profile image70
    recommend1posted 5 years ago

    Having a cut-out shape of the perfect partner in front of your eyes just blinds you to the actually perfect partners who you see all the time - but ignore.  Pre-conceptualising a partner is as damaging and stupid as preconceptions generally are.

    The key to finding a perfect partner is to make yourself more acceptable - not try to impose your requirement onto another. or you may as well go out and buy one that fits !

  5. workingmomwm profile image85
    workingmomwmposted 5 years ago

    There is no such thing as an ideal man. There is a right person (or people) for you. And these people may not be right for someone else. But no one is perfect.