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what are your relationship requirements?

  1. stclairjack profile image80
    stclairjackposted 6 years ago

    for instance, i have 3 basic requirements,... for a live in relationship,...
    A)conversation beyond MTV and asking when supper will be ready
    B) be useful, if you cannot contribute to the household financialy, then be helpful in the domestic sense
    C) be phisicaly available,... put out.

    a non-live-in relationship needs only A & C,... a one time ticket only needs C

    how bout you?

    1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image61
      SomewayOuttaHereposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      ...hey StCJ....i luv it....lol

      me?....ummmmmmm.............   big_smile

      1. stclairjack profile image80
        stclairjackposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        you are the only fish to bite,..... i thought that question woulda got more of a response,.... i supose the question assumes that people actualy think about what they want,....

        mabye thats why so many are so unhappy,.... if you cant identify what you want or need,.... how will you recognize it when you see it?

        ha!

        thanks for the post

    2. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      What are your relationship requirements?

      Accept me. Simple enough. wink

      1. stclairjack profile image80
        stclairjackposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        you sure nailed an all important one,.... acceptance.

        certainly not happy if you cant relax and be yourself.

    3. Onusonus profile image86
      Onusonusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Marriage, monogomy, and fidelity.

      1. stclairjack profile image80
        stclairjackposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        i joked one night that i love it when a man uses words with more than 4 sylables, stating that an IQ is sexy, trouble was the last guy that used a 4 sylable word on me said "monogomous",.... then my boy friend turned around from the BBQ and said "hey, that was me!",.... it got a big laugh,.... and he laughed too,.... we may be hard to define as relationships go but we are exclusive to one another,.... so he got what he wanted,.... monogomous.

  2. PrettyPanther profile image84
    PrettyPantherposted 6 years ago

    My relationship requirements, in their simplest terms:

    ability and willingness to give and receive emotional intimacy
    ability and willingness to give and receive physical intimacy
    intelligent conversation
    mutual respect
    ability and willingness to work together to achieve goals

    1. stclairjack profile image80
      stclairjackposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      i've often said that i dont need someone to walk on a sun drenched beach with, but rather someone i can change a flat tire with,... working together is very important.

      1. PrettyPanther profile image84
        PrettyPantherposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I want both, and finally have both, after a few misses.  smile

        1. stclairjack profile image80
          stclairjackposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          always glad to hear when someone finds "it".

 
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