If sex is the only thing important to a person, Why bother getting married? Chances are you knew your mate was lousy in bed before you said I do. It would seem that lying to your mate is not a problem and that my friends is a problem. How would you feel if it was your mate trying to find a better lay?
I thought we were talking about a relationship not marriage. Personally I was think of a failing relationship that was ending. No cheating is not good. But in many cases, sex goes very downhill, esp when some men become lazy and selfish (woman can too I guess).
I did make an assumption there didn't I? I also assumed that the person in question was in another relationship. If that is not the case then I would say more power to them.
I know what you mean about things going down hill. Men get lazy, women get tired, and they both end up with a headache. I get the feeling that too many men treat sex like the do their driving privledges. They consider it to be a right to make love to a woman and not a priviledge. Some women view making love to their man as a chore rather than considering the (slim) chance it presents for some personal pleasure.
yeah, agreed. Too bad we all we're completely compatible chemistry wise...then again that could be a dud eventually too. I think both people have to keep the romance alive-pledge to that is. It's not hard if BOTH are willing(:
Never in a million years.... moved on since my ex and learned a lot about myself in the process. What I want now and what wanted then is very much different, and I am not prepared to step back down to a previous 'life'...
If you believe in reincarnation as I do, you might believe in what many people call "soul-mates". I'm not sure I believe in soul-mates the way that these people do, though. I don't think soul-mates are people...