My husband is deployed in a war zone and granted he is 23 after all, but he seems to think that when he leaves for an extended amount if time the kids and I remain in suspended animation and only come alive at his behest. Sorry it does not work like that. I become mommy and daddy, if the car breaks down I have to push it and figure out what is wrong with it. By the way the battery died on the neon and it was parked across the street and I moved it by myself. I have to clean a 4brdm 2bathroom house with a 13yr old disabled kid. I tube feed him diaper him and shower him. Did I mention the 2yr and 7mos old and their needs? So please be more considerate and realize that although you are out there in a highly stressful situation I am here worried about you but keeping the household afloat. So please don't get an attitude if you msg me to chat online and expect me to be awake.
I also agree with Grannie--My wife died in November, and what I would give to just have the stress of who does what back. I too, take care of everything now and I would give anything to get a message from her, even if I was dead asleep. Hang tuff girl--we are only here for a very short time