How hard is it to find a decent mate?

  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
    schoolgirlforrealposted 5 years ago

    Just wondering.

    What do you think?

    ---Very hard

    ___Somewhat hard


    ----Hard


    ____Neutral


    ____Somewhat easy


    _____Easy


    And include your reasons why

    Also by mate I mean relationship not necessarily marriage, just healthy, happy, loving, fun, attractive, etc

  2. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 5 years ago

    Neutral.

    The hardest part of finding a mate is being honest with oneself about what they are actually looking for and wanting. lol

    1. schoolgirlforreal profile image74
      schoolgirlforrealposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Maybe people may know what they want...but when they meet or run into a person, then it gets distracting...as they may like the person but they realize that person has traits they've always been attracted to ( and shouldn't in many cases...like bad boys or abusive men) or they may like the person but later find out the person is a shut in or has traits they don't like. So I say friends first but as for how easy, I don't even wanna go there!

 
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