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What kind of man does a woman really want?

  1. Freegoldman profile image60
    Freegoldmanposted 5 years ago

    Suggest 5 things

    1. Castlepaloma profile image25
      Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Money, looks and humor, maybe in that order

      1. Castlepaloma profile image25
        Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Ultimately women want love, or I don't think most women know what they want

        1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
          Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Most women want the type of man that does not believe that a woman does not know what she wants.

        2. Castlepaloma profile image25
          Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          I’ll add sovereignty. to finish at 5 things

    2. IntimatEvolution profile image82
      IntimatEvolutionposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      A good man... 
      One who posses patience, sincere kindness, with a strong listening capacity, and the strength to support your decisions despite how others may perceive them.

  2. Greek One profile image79
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    nude
    horny
    virus-free
    non-relative
    single

    1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
      Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      You've missed intelligent and solvent of that list.

      1. Greek One profile image79
        Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        opps.. sorry.. i misread.. that was a man's list

        1. Sneha Sunny profile image85
          Sneha Sunnyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          lol

  3. profile image0
    Emile Rposted 5 years ago

    That depends on the woman. For me, it's

    1. Physical attraction.  It doesn't matter what your qualities, nothing follows if the relationship doesn't have this. I'm not talking good looking, but pheromones.

    2. Common interests. I couldn't be with a man I don't enjoy doing things with.

    3. Sense of humor. One needs that to put up with me.

    4. A good heart. He has to have compassion for humanity.

    5. Relatives who live out of town. I really hate having to deal with relatives.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image25
      Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      More relationship fails over finance than sex

      You look at the top romance movies of all time, :Ghost and Pretty Woman

      Being dead is not attractive to me, yet looks and money would first get you in the door. After a wail, it will take many acts of kindness, humor and a whole lot of love to keep it together...

      1. profile image0
        Emile Rposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Money doesn't mean much to me. I've seen a lot of miserable rich marriages. But, like I said. What women want depends on the woman

        1. Castlepaloma profile image25
          Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          That is why a said, Ultimately women want love,

          In the end, the man standing there, saying to himself
          Gee, I gave her the car, the house and the kids,

          When she really wanted was his attention and love. Women have a different point system than men

          1. profile image0
            Emile Rposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Gave her stuff? That's one problem with the way guys think. You share, you compromise, you can't just give. That's what gets them in trouble. If you give, give, give; you condition a woman to take, take, take.

            1. Castlepaloma profile image25
              Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              Yes, men think more with their minds, women think more with their hearts.

              Rule is, only give a little extra to anyone or everyone, never too much or they will disrespect you in the end.

  4. Greek One profile image79
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    wealthy
    handsome
    assertive
    confident
    charming

    1. mega1 profile image80
      mega1posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      and funny!

      1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
        Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        and doesn't leave the toilet seat up!

        1. Castlepaloma profile image25
          Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          details details details and most often want to change you, first change: change the sheets.

          1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
            Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            To be honest I don't really want a man at all, just someone who'll pop round and take the trash out for me!

            1. Castlepaloma profile image25
              Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              Hire a sexy professial handy man, set a price.

              1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
                Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                No, I'm not paying- Just like the sound of sexy professional handy man. I'll buy him a beer.

                1. Castlepaloma profile image25
                  Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                  could be a start

            2. Eaglekiwi profile image75
              Eaglekiwiposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              lol lol
              was thinking along the same lines,if I could add changing a tyre and maybe a tune up (car) every once in a while be helpful too.

              But just in case any man is offended at being thought of 'being used' Im willing to trade chores i.e laundry for lawns, meal for car work etc.

              1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
                Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                I'd just buy him a beer, 2 beers for car maintenance and 3 for cleaning the oven! A chore I dislike immensely.

    2. Sneha Sunny profile image85
      Sneha Sunnyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      And he should be a loyal guy....... One of the most important feature.

  5. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    oh, and listen  - he should always listen to me!  always!

    1. Castlepaloma profile image25
      Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Aw yaa, aw yaa, aw yaa works better for men than ignoring them

    2. Greek One profile image79
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      it's hard to listen to your mate when you are making love to their sister at the same time.

      Plus, no doubt what they have to say will be negative and somewhat antagonistic

      1. Castlepaloma profile image25
        Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        OH my God, is that how Christian do it?

        1. Greek One profile image79
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          nah... the sisters were atheists...

          they figured since they are going to get screwed in the afterlife, they might as well get screwed in this life too smile

      2. mega1 profile image80
        mega1posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        you must take your licks as they land - no holds barred - she will be eloquent, and you must compliment her and truly hear what she has to say! AND listen to her sis too, women love it when you are attentive to their family! smile

        1. Greek One profile image79
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          trust me, i ALWAYS take the licks where they land wink

  6. classicalgeek profile image89
    classicalgeekposted 5 years ago

    My mother always said that a good husband was like a good used car:
    reliable
    dependable
    doesn't require a lot of expensive or complicated maintenance
    works, and
    just boring enough so that nobody wants to steal him/it.

    1. Ivorwen profile image84
      Ivorwenposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Forget boring!  Just put a good anti-theft system on him, namely, your lips.  He'll have a very hard time looking elsewhere while kissing you.

      My husband is like a suped up off-roading vehicle.  One would be crazy to steal him 'cause you certainly can't hide him.  And while I find him very dependable, I don't know that he would run well for anyone else -- the tricks of a vehicle you know and love.  wink

    2. Hollie Thomas profile image61
      Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      And doesn't try to control or change you in any way!

      1. Castlepaloma profile image25
        Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Changing is more of a woman thing, women are thinking more like men in relating them to a car, that's ok a degree of detachments is healthy

        I like the kissing policy, like an apple a day, a kiss or more, I would love to give freely daily

        1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
          Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Changing is more of a woman thing

          Is this analysis based on your experiences as a woman in a relationship with a man?

          1. Castlepaloma profile image25
            Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            No,
            Man biggest complaint about women is they are always trying to change them, for Women it's not enough attention from men.

            Do I look like a women?, aw gee thank you, I also eat nails for breakfast

            1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
              Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              No you do not look like a women, sorry if I have offended you. But men also try to change their partners too.

    3. Taleb80 profile image83
      Taleb80posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Really, it is a funny wise opinion.

  7. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 5 years ago

    Take a good look at me and then imagine the exact opposite. You should be real close to finding out what woman seem to want.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image25
      Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      You forgot already, there is a lid for every pot?

      1. Eaglekiwi profile image75
        Eaglekiwiposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Not in my house lol

        1. Castlepaloma profile image25
          Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          I just hope your not in the same Adam's Family way as Creek is.

  8. profile image0
    Natashaxoposted 5 years ago

    sense of humor, a man with drive and goals in life, someone who you can trust, and someone who looks out for your best interests

  9. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 5 years ago

    castle, I understand the analogy but you have to admit that if the handle on the pot's too short, it takes to fun out of cooking

    1. Eaglekiwi profile image75
      Eaglekiwiposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Aint the size of the boat

      Tis the motion on the ocean smile

      1. Castlepaloma profile image25
        Castlepalomaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        That's the spirit! That's why women are my spiritual guilds

  10. MissE profile image81
    MissEposted 5 years ago

    Someone who knows who he is and is comfortable in his own skin.  I find a great personality, kindness, and a sense of humor can make anyone more attractive if they're genuine.  Patience is a must.  Men with anger management problems are unattractive to me, no matter how much money they have or how aesthetically attractive they are.  I don't think that having nice clothes, hair etc... are as important as just taking care of yourself.  Showering regularly is appreciated by women everywhere!  LOL!!!  My husband is a perfect match for me.  11 years and counting! big_smile

  11. kmackey32 profile image80
    kmackey32posted 5 years ago

    A honest one....

  12. profile image0
    Home Girlposted 5 years ago

    Rich
    Stupid
    Madly in love with her
    Never at home, always working, making more money
    Almost blind

  13. mrsvercellino profile image60
    mrsvercellinoposted 5 years ago

    i can say that a woman just need a man who is honest wink .

  14. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    women may say all kinds of things about what they want in a man, but when you look around you see that there just ain't no accountin for taste!  it's not what we want, apparently, but what we're willing to settle for!

    1. Eaglekiwi profile image75
      Eaglekiwiposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Sometimes its all that glitters is not gold either.

      1. mega1 profile image80
        mega1posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        right on!

        1. profile image0
          Home Girlposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          If that glitters we go for it, stupid butterflies!

  15. TheQuietRebel profile image61
    TheQuietRebelposted 5 years ago

    I am the ideal man, now please worship me and feed me grapes.  wink 

    I think an ideal guy, from a woman's perspective, would be someone with their own life.  He is someone who has goals and a vision about where he wants to be.  He is not needy because he has already found what he needs within himself, which in turn makes him ooze confidence.  He may also be funny, cute, hot, have a nice ass, and a devilish grin, but all this is just icing on the cake. 

    I could be WAY of base here though!  Based my experience, woman are very confusing creatures that might not know what they want from one second to the next smile

 
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