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Communicating sexually

  1. justanie profile image61
    justanieposted 5 years ago

    Sex is the higest form of communication in marriage,why then do most couples fail to keep up with it?Why would a man deny his wife sex and  vice versa.

    1. OutWest profile image60
      OutWestposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      So many reasons.  In the basic sense it might be that one is being childish and witholding as a form of punishment.  Anger or resentment could be behind this.  In other ways it might be that their love has just faded or that the sex is routine and boring.

      1. justanie profile image61
        justanieposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        When sex becomes boring,they should get creative and not worsen the boredom by turning off. I never knew sex is a form of punishment,wow,that's bad!

    2. Greek One profile image80
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      ..because there is a hockey game on and I am tired for just having shoveled the snow!

      What am I, a machine!?!!?

      1. wilderness profile image97
        wildernessposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Yes.  The love machine of the ages. big_smile

        1. Greek One profile image80
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          http://images.cafepress.com/product/200959319v1_240x240_Front.jpg

      2. justanie profile image61
        justanieposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Self is a form of relaxation and that's the more reason couples should not use tiredness as an excuse to withhold sex.

        1. Greek One profile image80
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          oh, i do it by myself

        2. Greek One profile image80
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          She can try to block me from watching the game if she wants.... but if I have to lock her out of the house until it's over.. then don't blame me

          http://t1.thpservices.com/fotos/thum4/010/949/vae-u11227835.jpg

    3. psycheskinner profile image81
      psycheskinnerposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I still think words is the highest form of communication in a relationship.

      1. justanie profile image61
        justanieposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I agree with you,every other form of communication should begin with words. smile

    4. whiteorchids profile image71
      whiteorchidsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      It depends on what is happening behind close doors and lack of communication can cause a ripple in the relationship.

  2. justanie profile image61
    justanieposted 5 years ago

    Nice shirt,you don't have to be a love machine,easy does it...smile

    1. Greek One profile image80
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      ,,pays the bills

 
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