Number one turn on for me is when he's leaving for work and kisses me like there will be no tomorrow and says, "I can't wait to come home!" Then when he comes home and comes straight in and follows up with a tender, passionate kiss and says, "I've been waiting all day for this!" I am putty in his hands!!
Don't get me wrong...he can rock my world by simply picking up after himself and helping to wash the dishes!! After all that leaves me less tired later!!
For me, it is the little things...those deep, passionate kisses that tell me how much I am desired, the sweet smiles for no reason or when he comes up behind me, wraps his arms around me, and kisses my neck just because I was there. It is also nice when he does things for me without me asking, like bringing me something special he knows that I like, or remembering to get me something that he knows I need. I guess it all comes down to being considerate. Knowing that he is thinking about me, and that he cares.
Watching him do housework and doing the dishes, cheerfully no less, is a real turn on for many women, me too. Even new research agrees with that conclusion. Men are usually Never shot while doing the dishes.
Taking this thread a little more literally, my husband can always be sure to turn me on when gets nibbly, or touchy-feely with me like when we were first dating. Whispers in my ear, sly looks across the table that the kids don't get yet. In general, making me feel desirable and sexy, like he still wants me as much as he used to, that puts my mind in the right frame of mind.
It can be hard sometimes, with four-five kids in the house at any given time, non-scheduled work hours, bills, etc, it can all clutter my mind but when he takes the time to focus on me, I take the time to notice. I especially know when he's wanting me when he makes a big effort to put the kids down early! LOL At that point I make sure to put in the effort to do what I know pleases him, too!
OK....so even an old cynic is welcome here. That's great! For the young & in-love and ever-starry-eyed, I'll try to remember something important and interesting to add to this group discussion, in the spirit of community........Now, what was the question? Hey...what can I say? There's ONE in every crowd.
There is no special move in particular. He turns me on just by looking at him, knowing he's my sweetheart, feeling this fire inside, wishing for him to come back home soon, so we can make love again.
I'm Latina, he's Latino. We're totally addicted to eachother and never found anyone like this, calling for such an intense need of making love again. We can't get enough of it and I hope it stays like that for a long long time:-)
I have to say....we're very much in love and it has been like this since day one.
My this reply was @ Ardie above where she wrote "I think this person above wants dirty talk. No way Buster! Go to an AOL Chat Room for that!" Mistakenly it went to some other place. Since here i cant edit the above answer so please consider it as a mistake to post to wrong place. I love Hubpages and respect all the Hubbers here so it was my clarification that i too like good, healthy and polite response that might help others. I agree with Escobana, All the responses are good and extremely polite. Please keep the thread going.Thanks!
ajayshah.....I fail to see any "dirty talk." What are you reading? BTW. what does "keep it PG" mean? Can we agree this exchange appears to have a touch of the Twilight Zone? As though comments are being received in a foreign language from whence they were sent?
ajayshah. I have one more comment (or ATTEMPT at one)...You may want to "call it a day" with this question & answer game. There's either a language barrier or culture issue and a total void of understanding on SOMEONE'S part. You are asking people to be "little open"....if you want trash talk, find another site. Hubbers have class.
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