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Afraid of sex

  1. silentsapphire profile image62
    silentsapphireposted 5 years ago

    I am 30 and never had sex as yet. I am going to marry in a few months but am really nervous about it. Can you help.

    1. couturepopcafe profile image61
      couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      What exactly are you afraid of/will happen?

      1. silentsapphire profile image62
        silentsapphireposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I mean I have never have had sex. I have heard its painful and sometimes people even bleed during sex.

  2. Mikel G Roberts profile image87
    Mikel G Robertsposted 5 years ago

    As sexist as this question will sound... Are you a man or a woman?

    1. silentsapphire profile image62
      silentsapphireposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I am a man.

      1. Mikel G Roberts profile image87
        Mikel G Robertsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        In my opinion, you should tell her. Making Love isn't something that should be terrifying. It is something good, even when it is done poorly it's not bad. Tell her everything.

  3. freecampingaussie profile image38
    freecampingaussieposted 5 years ago

    Make sure you take your time and not rush it so it is more enjoyable . I wrote a hub about the diference between sex & love making which might help .

    1. wixor profile image60
      wixorposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Just talk to your fiancee about it, good communciation solves everything.

    2. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
      SomewayOuttaHereposted 5 years ago

      ...just do what comes naturally...don't over analyze it...i'm sure there is some sexpert on the net that has some good tips for you about relaxing and connecting...

     
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