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Does size of breasts matter to men, and size of a private part matter

  1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
    Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago

    to a women? I couldn't fit it in the subject box. No pun intended, sure. H

    1. thooghun profile image86
      thooghunposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Breasts: If I'm in love they don't matter, If I'm not -- they do.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I was surprised to find out how high school girl's view each other or themselves. Guys don't look down. That was off topic. It's not love for me, like helps. H

        1. couturepopcafe profile image60
          couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          No.  Yes.

          1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
            Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            I see things a little differently. Some women can't handle large, some want to know it's there. H

    2. Daniella Lopez profile image87
      Daniella Lopezposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      As a woman I can say that the size of a man really does matter... despite what those crappy magazines might tell you. As for breast, I suppose it depends on the man. I've known guys to like a variety of sizes. So eh...

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Daniella, Some women really do fell pain, when it's to large for them. Most guy are just happy if they get laid. Size has disappointed me at times. Say I went out with a lady that looked to be good sized. Then I find out they were pushed up and together. H

        1. couturepopcafe profile image60
          couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Yes, it's the pain of picking the wrong...well you know.  I guess there will always be an exception to the rule.

          1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
            Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            cout, Who can argue with what you said. H

    3. Borsia profile image60
      Borsiaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      We all have different things, fetishes if you will.
      Personally it matters to me but many of my male friends don’t care.
      I am most attracted to a beautiful face and especially eyes.
      But given several women with equal faces I will usually go for the one most endowed. I don’t like fake breasts though.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Bor, I think most guys would agree. But when you feel the warmth, that thought goes away. H

    4. dannyjohnson1027 profile image60
      dannyjohnson1027posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      luxuriance is attractive.http://www.jpopo.info/g.gif

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        danny, If t doesn't t in our pants or hirt,  that's a problem.  H

  2. Pearldiver profile image86
    Pearldiverposted 5 years ago

    I'm sure the size one's nose is most important when it comes to having a good nose for business!

    Where one sticks it though is a far different matter isn't it smile

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Pearl, Keep it out of your hand! H

  3. mistyhorizon2003 profile image90
    mistyhorizon2003posted 5 years ago

    From a woman's point of view, the male 'member' size does not matter unless very unusually tiny, (I hubbed on this ages ago and ran poll's, but deleted it due to HP stopping Ads on it after it had been up for a year or two). As for breasts, I guess men vary, some like small, some like big. Women assume men like 'big' even though this is not always true.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Misty, I'm sorry Hub did that to you, they simply unpublishment mine. I can't disagree with anything you've said. I've spoken to many about this during my many decades on earth. H

    2. habee profile image91
      habeeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I totally agree about a man's size. Men seemed to be more concerned about it than women are.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Habee, What me worry, could you lend me your magnifying glass.H

    3. couturepopcafe profile image60
      couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      A little know secret that will now be made public on HubPages.  I've seen hundreds of them.  Honestly, they are all measurably about the same with about 3-4% exception so the odds are in our favor. 

      And men are smart enough to not try to change it to please women, unlike women who go to great lengths to try to change theirs.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        cout, May I ask what profession you are in? H

  4. Greek One profile image79
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    we can only hope so!

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Greek, Just don't say, "HOPE & CHANGE" to me. H

      1. couturepopcafe profile image60
        couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Hey, maybe that too will come with the 'healthcare' package.

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
          Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          cout, No, it's the "STIMULUS PACKAGE." H

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Greek, Is that "HOPE & CHANGE? H

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    marieclaptonposted 5 years ago

    personally no size doesn't matter.  It's what in the persons heart that does matter.  But, that is just me.  I think most people would disagree

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      marie, You have to admit, sometimes you just go at it. H

  6. mistyhorizon2003 profile image90
    mistyhorizon2003posted 5 years ago

    It is what they do in the bedroom that counts, not the size of the instrument used!!! I know this from the poll results on the hub I deleted, and that had over 12,665 views when it was published, so the poll results were a pretty good indicator of women's opinions overall.

    1. habee profile image91
      habeeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Yes, yes, and YES!!

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      misty, Is that how many you've seen, wow? It's basically the same the other way around. No guy wants to hear; Is that a crack in the ceiling, Are you finished yet, Is it really in, etc.  H

  7. paradigmsearch profile image89
    paradigmsearchposted 5 years ago

    The questions in this thread have never been an issue for me....

    As she lay there dozing next to me a voice inside my head kept saying, "Relax, you are not the first doctor to sleep with one of his patients."  But another voice kept saying, "Howard, you are a veterinarian."

    1. habee profile image91
      habeeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      ewww...was it consensual? Don't laugh - I had a student who was found guilty of raping a dog.

      1. paradigmsearch profile image89
        paradigmsearchposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Now that is tacky! I'd be inclined to toss that person into a mental facility as opposed to a prison though. I mean really, what kind of guy could even get it up for that.

        1. habee profile image91
          habeeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          True. It really "grossed me out."

          1. couturepopcafe profile image60
            couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Yes, I met a friend of a friend who 'gave' foreplay to his female dog.  When I commented on its grossness, he said she likes it.  True story.

      2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Habee, I hope it wasn't a Maltese! H

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      para, That's an old one, but still good. H

  8. Kurant82 profile image77
    Kurant82posted 5 years ago

    I as well totally agree that... YES! Breast size does matter to men. Also as habee mentionioned how men seem to more concerned about their personal size than woman are I would also like to state that woman are pretty darn self-conscious and concerned about their own breast size, or lack there of, that is why breast implant surgery is a multi, multi million dollar industry in our present economy. Also women with fake breasts seemingly even out number woman who are built exactly the same and have natural breasts that are the same size as their female counterparts with fakebreasts. But this is simply my opinion here.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Kurant, A friend let me hold her silicon iomplants when they were taken out, she went smaller. I can't understand how a woman doesn't fall foreward with a '"D" implant. It's like lifting weights. But in clothes, it does add to the figure.

      I think the moment matters. When in an oral mode, one doesn't think of size. If so, you might as well think of your favorite cartoon. H

  9. stclairjack profile image78
    stclairjackposted 5 years ago

    i can certainly agree that size does indeed matter. it just deoends on the size of what. i personaly am very interested in the size of the brain,... ifyou cant hold a onversation beyond french fries and beer,... this not going to be a relationship beyong the life span of the 4 shots it took to make you look good.

    i've always said that i'd rather have a good mechanic with a pair of pliers and a scre driver,... than some idget with a 6 foot tall tool box full of tools that he has no clue how to use,...

    better to know what your doing with a 1/2" wrench,.... than to be caught using a 3 foot pipe wrench for a sledge hammer.

    as for me personaly,.... i dont have tons to offer in the breast department,.... but if thats tops on your list of things to require,.... our requirement lists probuly werent going to match up well anyway.

    of course the requirements for mr right are far different than the requirements for mr right now! ha!

    1. stclairjack profile image78
      stclairjackposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      obviously my requirements in a keyboard just got changed.

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      stclair, Something the ladies should knoww if they don't. A guy can be verry small when soft, and very large when erect. Some that appear large , don't grow. It's wonderful for a man to hear, I had no idea it was so...... H

      1. stclairjack profile image78
        stclairjackposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        once more i must say,.... skill set vs tool kit.

        and yes,... first looks can be decieving,.... i've known more than one man why was atractive at first glance,... then he spoke.

        i hate it when they do that.

        har dee har har!!

  10. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 5 years ago

    It all depends on whether he has little or big hands. Plus it does matter if he is also a cross dresser and wants to borrow Norma's bra at nights haha

    1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image59
      SomewayOuttaHereposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      hey...good to see ya back....it's been awhile...

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Hey hey oh look at you on the bike can u come pick me up, lets go on a outback road trip, wind in my hair, yea lets rock. Missed u x

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      blonde, I don't want to borrow your panties. When I sold lquor to many gay bars , (years ago) I was asked to participate in a beauty pagent. I think it was a compliment. H

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Oh my......why not I say Harvey...I am a makeup artist ...ooo could have primped up your hair real dandy and I have just the gloss for you haha

  11. LeanMan profile image81
    LeanManposted 5 years ago

    Breast size is not that important - as long as they have a nice shape and are firm and .......... dream, dream, dream....

    As to the size of the "instrument"; an ex of mine once said that she wished that I had 9inches ---- but I said I'm not cutting it in half for anyone!!!

    1. couturepopcafe profile image60
      couturepopcafeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      lol  It helps to have a sense of humor, King Snake.

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Lean, That name makes one wonder if you're telling he truth. H

  12. CyclingFitness profile image91
    CyclingFitnessposted 5 years ago

    Men are very simple creature and I know to many size does matter.

    I had a few male friends growing up whose slogan when out on the town (and the "pull") was 'More than a handfull is a waste"

    However I think if you asked a man individually he would give a much more civilized response when compared to when he's out with the 'lads'

    Regarding men's obsession with breasts. boobs mammaries, bazooka's, chests, fun pillows etc, etc, etc. I have previously written a hub regarding this matter (sadly I can't post a link to it due to forum rules I beleive!)

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      cycling, So were simple, huh. Men know what they want, and usually go for it. Such as as marriage. A man wants the woman he married. Many women want to change their man.

      We all know the saying, "more than a handful........" Women can go crazy, I'll give an example.  A woman see's a guy on the street, and wants  to stay away because he's ugly. At night she see's him in a band, and wants to go to bed with him.As they get older, all women say they  never did that.

      I sang in clubs, and was fairly popular in my small pond. Let's just say, I had a choice, if I wanted them. There is nothing more infuriated than a woman that is turned down. Which gender is stranger?

      I know I got off topic, but I was compelled to. H

      1. stclairjack profile image78
        stclairjackposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        agreed,... an ugly man can learn to play guitar,.... an ugly woman had better have a ripping good personality,... you can LEARN guitar,... you cant LEARN personality.

        i myself am at least better looking than quasimoto,.... and i also play guitar,... i also own my own home, have my own shop full of tool, yes i know how to use them,.. and i clean fish and butcher my own meats,...

        so i may be a bit hard to date for most men,.... i realy only need a man for three functions,... conversation, sex,.... and,... well,.... ok two functions.

        1. blondepoet profile image79
          blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Men are like fine wine.  They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with."

          1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
            Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Blondie, I'll bet you have been the submissive one at times. I see a lot of willingness in you at times. H

        2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
          Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          stclair, You just need to fnd the guy that will put you in your place. H

  13. WD Curry 111 profile image60
    WD Curry 111posted 5 years ago

    I went to KMI (military school). I left this level of thinking back there with the 25 cent peep shows in Louisville.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      WD, You look to small to understand all this.Wait, I'm back on topic. H

  14. profile image0
    GirgisAgeebposted 5 years ago

    it is not the body that man should look to i think that the real love is more important than the body
    i don't say that sex is missed but love + sex is better than sex only.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Gir, I think the older we get face, and mind sys most of it. H

  15. TLMinut profile image60
    TLMinutposted 5 years ago

    It's not the same for everybody of course. One of my friends is totally flat-chested and she hates it. But I see her husband looking at her all the time and the guy quite clearly does NOT feel shortchanged!

    About men, there is such a thing as too small but it isn't something women seem to find too often. One guy and his wife just used toys to help and they've been married over 25 years now. (He's the one who told me this, TMI, I don't even know them very well!)

    I do know two women at least who have walked out on men who were abnormally large, looked more like a weapon than an instrument of pleasure supposedly.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      TL, A fraternity brother always said, little, but educated. H

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      TL, Pain hurts! I knew a girl that had trouble getting a Tampax in, anyone would be big. H

  16. profile image0
    klarawieckposted 5 years ago

    Everything matters! And I mean EVERYTHING!

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      klara, Are you nitpicking? H

  17. Pearldiver profile image86
    Pearldiverposted 5 years ago

    I don't give a rat's butt about guys or the size of a woman's chest.  However, I would have to say that if my tattooed giraffe was for some strange reason unable to reach their leaves... then I would be quite concerned smile

    And for the 2 minute terriers out there... roll
    Size Makes No Difference! smile
    At the end of 120 seconds...
    Irrespective of how you see yourself - you're Still Too Short on the Back 9 big_smile  :

    1. blondepoet profile image79
      blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I say eh???? What you talkin' bout Willis xx

      1. CyclingFitness profile image91
        CyclingFitnessposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        If that's the case- There's NO back 9!!!

        1. blondepoet profile image79
          blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          'BP scratches her head'.....I apologise but I am a blonde....what is a back 9...is that a perfume like Chanel 10......I need a translation lol

      2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        blondie, Everyone should talk about you, that would be nice and interesting. H

        1. blondepoet profile image79
          blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Hell yeah Harvey.....'one minute got to go apply my fushcia red lippy first' LMAO

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            klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Oh My GOD!!! Prepare everyone!!! Blondepoet's back!!!

            1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image59
              SomewayOuttaHereposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              ..yeah....i think it's cool she's back big_smile

              1. blondepoet profile image79
                blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                Yes the double D's are back yahoooooooooooo

            2. blondepoet profile image79
              blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              Hell yea I am back@@@@@ But I am still waiting for my mojo LMAO

              HEYYYYYYYYYY BUDDDYYYYYYYYYY XXX

              1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
                Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                Blondie, How many inches of mojo do you need? H

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      pearl, Any tattoo would turn me off. I'm too old to change. Think what the tat will look like years from now. H

  18. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 5 years ago

    So while we are on the subject what about man boobshttp://twitc.com/me/175305322/man-boobs.jpg .....ooooo.....does this matter to women....personally I prefer a bloke with a chest smaller than mine.....

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      blondie, He doesn't excite you, good. H

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        No he is not my type but ....well he might be a very nice man.....I bet he would be fun to mud wrestle

    2. stclairjack profile image78
      stclairjackposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      like visual salt petre,.... uhg

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I only recognised the last word here ugh, ooo....and I second that notion

  19. CyclingFitness profile image91
    CyclingFitnessposted 5 years ago

    I know a big number of women who are concerned about a man's size! However most of those women also have adverts on  your 'Adult Meetup' sites requesting men who are well endowed and requiring proof of it too.

    1. blondepoet profile image79
      blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Haha how did we go from breasts to a man's whatsit ohhh...golly gosh this is all going downwards....from now...and I am not responsible LMAO

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        logic,commonsenseposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        That's usually the way I go, downwards that is! smile

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
          Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          logic, That's great, get things started. H

        2. blondepoet profile image79
          blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Only way to go Logic......'I raise my glass of midori to that lol x

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Cycling, They want pics in advance? H

  20. Tom Rubenoff profile image90
    Tom Rubenoffposted 5 years ago

    Personally I prefer small breasts.  If I had large breasts, I think that would not look so good on me.  As for my private part, yes, thank you, it still matters.  Thanks so much for asking.

    1. blondepoet profile image79
      blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I just knew you would say that Tom xx

  21. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 5 years ago

    Seriously I dont think the size of a mans tallwhacker matters

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      blondie, The look on some women's faces is worth it. H

    2. profile image70
      logic,commonsenseposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      This must be a Freudian slip, a "tallwhacker".
      If a man's equipment is a tallywhacker.  Then the women's equipment must be a tally?  nest pa?  smile

  22. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 5 years ago

    http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSAQgOlH-EqoGLx3JgcX-xqSxmlw_XZTWZ5VdN-FkJSviD8tDW-W0yXNLVngQ

    And my friend Brock Lee agrees (next door neighbor)

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      klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Can I have his number?! oh, wait... what does he agree with again?

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I have no idea hahaha...what was it?......chipmunks?????......bugs bunny....ohhhhhhhh

      2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        klara, I woud think he's big on oral, ouch. H

  23. femiry profile image60
    femiryposted 5 years ago

    Size and all of that comes to play depending what you want. Is it love or just a flint? Personally, i prefer small breast, I don't mean minute. A friend once said "Big tits, Big problems" lol... I don't believe that anyways.

  24. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    I believe I must have missed this whole thread - size of the private? what? your place or mine?  I mean exactly what, if you know what I mean!

    and shall we just have a nice cup of tea then?  spot on!  chip chip! and as for a talleywhacker, I've never met one I didn't like.  That is, size of eh?

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      mega, Meet you in the park, guess which one. H

  25. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    I feel so flustered now!  and I do believe I will blush!  smile http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-ashamed002.gif

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      mega, By your name there is no need to blush. H

  26. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-ashamed005.gif

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      mega, At least you know what direction to look. I can reach you from here, can reciprocate? H

      1. mega1 profile image79
        mega1posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        could reciprocate but your little poodle is in the way!  lol

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
          Harvey Stelmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          mega, That's my neighbors Maltese. We have one being delivered to us in 2 weeks and 5 days. She's even cuter.

          40 years ago I would have.......... H

 
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