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How do you react to public attraction

  1. Jaitto Jeffrey profile image62
    Jaitto Jeffreyposted 5 years ago

    If a pretty lady or handsome guy walk up to you publicly in the midst of your friends and say:

    "Hi, i was just looking at you from afar, and i can't control myself but to tell you how handsome you are"

    How would you feel and what would you do?

    1. Greek One profile image80
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I usually just tell them to "take a number and get in line"

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image62
      prettydarkhorseposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I was at the supermarket when somebody told me that I am beautiful. I just smiled and I don't know how to react, whether to say thank you like that.

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      V Qisyaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I'll just smile...don't know what else to say ;D

  2. SimeyC profile image90
    SimeyCposted 5 years ago

    I normally give them the phone number to the local eye doctor!

  3. Cardisa profile image91
    Cardisaposted 5 years ago

    As a female, it can be both flattering and embarrassing. If I'm with close friends then it's kinda flattering because my friends and I will joke about it afterwards. But if I'm with people I hardly know I might be a little embarrassed.

  4. ahorseback profile image45
    ahorsebackposted 5 years ago

    You might do something to show them you are a real person instead of an image, sounds like that person is centered on "looks" and not substance , Id feel better if they said  "hey , I like your personality".  Even if I was really  that good looking !

    1. marriedwithdebt profile image90
      marriedwithdebtposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I would be much more weirded out if a stranger came up to me and said "I like your personality."

      There's nothing wrong with people being spontaneous and honest.

  5. ahorseback profile image45
    ahorsebackposted 5 years ago

    Don't you mean being hormonal and shallow  and not spontanious and honest ?

    1. marriedwithdebt profile image90
      marriedwithdebtposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      "Hormonal" actions are a form of pure honesty, and if these human traits offend you, then I am not sure how to respond. Some people just prefer their interactions to be scripted and dull, i guess.

      "Hormonal" and "shallow" are your words, not mine, and I'm sorry that you judge people that way.

      I would much rather have a conversation with someone bold and confident enough to say something like that then someone so rigidly confined to the "rules" of life.

  6. Pcunix profile image88
    Pcunixposted 5 years ago

    I've had that happen (yeah, hard to believe, I know).

    My wife was a bit taken aback and I couldn't help a bit of a laugh.

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    mtsi1098posted 5 years ago

    I would say your are making my hands turn red smile

 
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