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Ways to show your boufriend you really care?

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    Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago

    Some tips please? Nothing s

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Nothing sensual please

    2. Inspired to write profile image76
      Inspired to writeposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Hello Emily Sparks

      1: Boldly: Steal a kiss quite often.

      2: Reach for his hand when your walking together.

      3: DO NOT BE MOODY AROUND HIM! EVER!

      4: Send him the odd text ensuring your thinking about him.

      5: Be humorous, in fact, maybe a little dipsy at times (show your little girlie YOUTHFUL side remembering not to take things in life & this relationship too seriously, have some humour & plenty of fun.)

      6: Treat him like he is the one. In your eyes, treat him like a king & let him know how special he makes you feel when you are together with all these traits mentioned above!

      7: Remember a man & a woman needs personal space, when you are apart allow him some space & time without you without constantly bothering him, just send him the odd message & make out you have a bit of a busy life all by yourself

      8: When you feel he is taking advantage or belittling you, let him know how he have upset your feelings of disrespect in a MATURE way, without blowing your top, & what ever you do, DO NOT ALLOW YOUR PERSONAL LIMITATIONS of what you expect from your guy, your standards enabling him to walk all over you, drop, just to please him! Just make sure he knows that you are not frightened to live without him if the going gets tough!

      These are just some of the traits that make a woman attractive to her man & I hope they help you so please let me know Emily Sparks.

      All the best for now. Regards Dale

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        Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks for your reply! smile

  2. Tmonica profile image59
    Tmonicaposted 5 years ago

    I would have to say to pay attention to the things he likes it will go a long way and then bring it up in conversation and he will be so happy you were listening. If there are things that you can't express sometimes, you can leave him little notes here and there saying sweet things. Just show him how much you care by your actions.

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Thankyou for your advice....I appriciate it! smile

  3. Tmonica profile image59
    Tmonicaposted 5 years ago

    You welcome smile

  4. Sabrina Tells All profile image60
    Sabrina Tells Allposted 5 years ago

    I prefer to go to a higher plane than limiting myself to thinking in the context of showing a boyfriend that I really care.  With mutual respect it would be approached on the lighter side of fun.  Do you remember what it was like to be a child and look at the world with eyes of promise?  This is how you approach a relationship.  Take time to listen more than talk, laugh, smile, be yourself, be clear on who you are and what you believe, be playful without the limitations of putting everything in a neat organized segment.  Spend less time worrying and more time living.  - Sabrina Tells All -

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      We do have fun together!  We enjoy being with each other!  We both talk and listen to each other.  Thankyou!

      1. sofs profile image86
        sofsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Emily, be yourself, if he cannot accept you for who you are, your relationship is not really going last.
        Relationships need to be based on mutual trust and respect ,all others are just  the frills..
        You have got yourself a lot of advise so ... I'll leave this here.. Best wishes.

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          Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Thankyou smile  I am myself.  I do not pretend to be something I am not.  I admit my shortcomings and faults, but obviously he still loves me with them!

  5. colpolbear profile image89
    colpolbearposted 5 years ago

    Make him some baked goods!  Everyone likes baked goods!

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I do......thankyou!

  6. Stevennix2001 profile image83
    Stevennix2001posted 5 years ago

    Be supportive of him whenever he's down.

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I will do my best, thankyou!

  7. Max Shelley profile image59
    Max Shelleyposted 5 years ago

    From your profile my guess is you're busy just about all the time. Try setting an entire day aside and spend it with him, make it his day, and see what he wants to do, if he wants to go out, YOU pay for it. If you do have to say no to him about anything do it politely. Most of all though NEVER NAG him about anything, you're there to be supportive, he already has a mom. After you do this if he still doesn't think you care, cuddle up with him, look right in his eyes with a sad/worried look and ask him directly what's wrong, if he thinks you think you're doing something wrong he should tell you.

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      Max Shelleyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I'm not saying don't be yourself, but chances are it's just a little thing, maybe you spend too much time apart (that's been the big one with my relationships) or maybe he doesn't understand something about you and it's bothering him.

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        Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I did not mean to imply that something was wrong between us, there isn't.  I just wanted some more ideas to show him smile  Thanks for your advice!

        1. Max Shelley profile image59
          Max Shelleyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          any time smile

  8. momster profile image61
    momsterposted 5 years ago

    Dont forget to say "Thank you". Thank him for the little things that matter.
    All those little things add up. Sometimes people forget the simpliest things.
    Thank You
    Your Welcome
    Nice Job
    I love you

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      Emily Sparksposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      That's very true, thankyou!

  9. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
    Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago

    Need some help.
    thanks.
    Rebecca

  10. neeta chauhan profile image60
    neeta chauhanposted 4 years ago

    Be expressive in love by words
    send sweet nice messages
    say i love you 5 times a day
    be understanding towards him

  11. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
    Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago

    I had been witg him for 11months, we split up two days and I still loves him. We finished becus we jusy had the arguments, control his life and not happy the way we are. Id told him I still loves and 2nd chance etc...id left him a card.so whats the best thing to do? He still got pics of me in his flat since the break up.

  12. prettydarkhorse profile image64
    prettydarkhorseposted 4 years ago

    you should be attuned with their id and ego

    1. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
      Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      How do u mean?

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
        prettydarkhorseposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        id - basic needs like foods, sex and physical wellnes

        ego - give him a self of self - where he can be confident

        1. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
          Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          i see.
          he asked me to text him when i saw him last night

  13. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
    schoolgirlforrealposted 4 years ago

    I love holding hands smile


    Write him a poem!

  14. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
    Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago

    I have found out that he still loves me (:

  15. Shaddie profile image92
    Shaddieposted 4 years ago

    I make my guy food whenever I want to cheer him up or show him that I care. I also leave little ridiculous love notes here and there where he will eventually find them - maybe on a day when he is feeling down and needs a picker-upper. Notes are nice because they work anytime and are bound to make anyone feel special.

    1. Becca Rose-Hood profile image60
      Becca Rose-Hoodposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      He still got my love card and i'd left it in the draw so he know i means it so much to him no matter what.
      i saw him last night in Walsall and my mate told me all abt him. So, i hope within a week or so i will have him back in my arms big_smile

 
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