For some poor souls the third time is a charm. When you marry in haste you are more than likely going to repent in leisure. It took me three times to get it right partly because I did it right that time. I spent a year getting to know my future wife. It was time well spent because we knew we were right for each other, actually we knew it on the first date and still waited just to be sure. The sad truth is when you marry someone you become part of their family. If you can't get along with the future in laws sometimes it is best to find someone new.
My case and point and why I was married three times. My first wife slept with one of her relatives while we were married. I actually walked in and caught her in bed with him.
The second wife threw my father to the floor when he came to watch the children so she could work. They had been sick and my father told her he was going to take them to his house to watch them. She expected him to stay and clean up the mess behind two children who had lost their supper more than once.
A few months later my mother sent me to check on my grandmother who was 1300 miles away. My wife became so upset she blew up the car, closed all the checking accounts, and moved to where I couldn't find her after she threatened to kill my mother.
Hi wheelinallover,"its better to be late than to be the late" I appreciate your comments and your story is to be told.its always end up sorrowful when you don't know them well before you get married to them...