This is somebody I love and claims she loves me too.we have been in arelationship for a long time, more than 4yrs.she had hurt me a countless times and I have told her off so many times after she had hurt me so bad.I decided to leave her and go into another relationship which I did.The first time I did,she pleaded for forgiveness which I did forgave her and left the girl I was dating with no reasonable excuse because I thought she had changed,samething happened the second time and I left the second girl,and now the third time. I made up my mind that I will never forgive her this time and she keeps calling and texting everyday asking me to forgive her for the last time,eventhough I have vowed never to take her back,I still ask myself does she still deserves me?
...dump her....move on....sounds like that 'long time' has not been a fun time, yeah?...life's too short
Remember Pharuk, " Not every ex that comes back loves you; some just test the level of your stupidity...
I think you have given enough chances to her...she doesn;t deserve any more.. It;s understandable to forgive someone, once or twice, but this time I can see the water flowing out of the well..
It's hight time !!
She don't deserve you,time to clear this uneasy relationship-- nothing won't change its a pattern where she playing with your weakness ,do what best for you in the end all you have is you. .
Thank you so much somewayoutahere.I so much appreciate your comment.Yes that long time wasn't a fun at all. Thank you so much
Alisha, I thank you so much for your contribution... Afterall you are a lady like her, I have given more than enough chances before I decided that no more chances and she keeps begging me day by day and making me feel guilty. There is no going back from my decision. I remember not all ex that comes back loves you.
by David Hunt5 years ago
This question was pulled as a question, so I'm submitting it in the forum instead:If, with his dying breath, Hitler had asked Jesus for forgiveness, could he have been admitted to Heaven?
by underhiswings7 years ago
Reasons for or against?How many times do you forgive for the same thing?How many times have you been forgiven for the same thing?What kind of proof do you need in order to believe the offender really seeks forgiveness?...
by haj33967 years ago
Matthew 12: 31 Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy [against] the [Holy] Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men. why can't we be forgive when we blasphemy...
by jerami7 years ago
Scripture says that while Jesus was on the cross One of the last things that he said (Decreed ??) was something like this "Father forgive them for they know not what they do" One of the last things...
by Susannah Birch7 years ago
How many second chances should you give? What if the person and situation changes?
by SJmorningsun256 years ago
"Seventy times seven" is a clear instruction to always, always forgive. But forgiveness doesn't erase consequences. How do you draw the line between reasonable consequences of a sin someone commits against you...
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