I was always one to think I had a very open mind in this regard. However, now that I am receptive to dating again, I'm realizing that I'm a little intimidated by the age dynamics involved in the women I'm attracting and am attracted to.
Seriously, if you have a problem of over-thinking a situation, try to find a distraction. Do something different, take a walk, watch a child or a bird, anything - sometimes by observing something totally off topic, it shows us something about our situation.
I know this sounds very trite, but human life is short and to be lived fully. Enjoy your attraction, it could be fun and rewarding.
Have you ever been told you're complicated? Or maybe that you think too much? Other than poking your brain thru the ear with a screw driver, how do you take the traffic in your head from the autobahn to a horse and...