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Y women like older men ? & Y men like younger women? I wonder the ans.

  1. Indazone profile image61
    Indazoneposted 5 years ago via iphone

    Base on my experiences, it doesn't make sense to me. The only answer to these questions is sex.
          From a men prospective, dealing with a younger women is a headache beside sex because they are in a different level. At times, they don't understand each other, they don't see each other eye to eyes. The men wants to relax, build a family, spend time with wife and kids, work hard, travel with wife solo and sometimes with kids too. On the other hand, it is totally different.
          While the older men is at that level, the younger women are thinking about their body, fun, partying, going out often with friends, travel, just like some songs nowadays " Girl just want to have fun. "
           More might come but what you guys have to say about this.

    1. johnakc profile image59
      johnakcposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      That is still a mystery for me too.

    2. ElSeductor profile image61
      ElSeductorposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      The cure for ED is YW.  Young women make older men feel younger.  Young women have a certain innocence about life that makes their presence refreshing.  For the most part, fixing ones eyes on a young woman can be thrilling.  Men are visual creatures, and there is nothing more attractive to the eye than a young woman.  By "young" I mean women in their 20's.

      For the young woman, an older man signifies security.  Older men are typically more financially secure than younger men. Therefore, they can provide for young women in a way that young men cannot.  Additionally, older men understand the value of taking time to warm up a woman.  Young men, however, want to get in and drive the car without bringing it up to its optimal operating temperature.

      R

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        klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Senor Seductor, usted y yo tenemos que hablar seriamente! yikes

        (Fine, I'll translate - you and I... we have to have a serious talk!)

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      klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      The bigger mystery remains that you consider "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" a song from nowadays.

    4. By His Way profile image60
      By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I'm obviously not qualified to speak on behalf of the men. From my own female perspective, guys quit playing games at a certain older age. I have two children. I don't need a third. (Sorry, but that's what it's like sometimes with those under 30...35.)   And I'm not even sayin that they all mean to play games. I think it's just the living life and having experience that makes all the difference. I've always been attracted to older men and I don't have daddy issues. I've just always been somewhat of an old soul and I don't beat around the bush on too many things or get overly dramatic. So, that's who I relate to. My mother has even tried to set me up with someone that was 50, so it's not just me that thinks that's who suits me. (38-50 usually) He was an firecracker of a 50 year old. I'm an old soul but still a goof often. I was independent before I married. I've been independent since divorce (5 years). So I don't need someone to make me feel secure. It's about a man being confident but not arrogant, patient, knowing what he likes and what he wants, and they communicate better. But since someone above said "young woman" was a woman in her 20's, I guess I dont count. lol

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        klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Good for you! I had a boyfriend when I was 17 who was ten years older than me. We went out for five years and loved each other very much. Anyways, he used to always tell me that I had to live on my own first, before I ever lived with a man. I couldn't understand it back then, but he was SO RIGHT! A woman values herself most when she knows she can take care of herself and (in your case) your kids.
        and BTW - HELL NO! I'm 36 and I am still young! Who's saying anything about early 20's being a young woman! yikes

        1. By His Way profile image60
          By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Thank you...and I'm fixing to go find the name of who said that so we can properly harrass.

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            klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Count me in! We'll get him banned! big_smile

            1. By His Way profile image60
              By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              lol   see below. I found the rascal.

        2. By His Way profile image60
          By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Elseductor - Mr. I assume - Quote: "Men are visual creatures, and there is nothing more attractive to the eye than a young woman.  By "young" I mean women in their 20's."

          I didn't know jack when I was in my 20's about myself or relationships. I do now though. Now THATS sexy.    *HIGH FIVE KLARAWIECK*

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            klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            *HIGH*****FIVE!*

            Let's find that ELSEDUCTOR - He's probably never been with a woman in her 30's. Doesn't know what he's missing!

            1. By His Way profile image60
              By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              lol   right on

        3. Indazone profile image61
          Indazoneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Klarawieck, I can relate and currently experiencing what your ex-boyfriend mentioned to you years ago. I told my GF that she needed to move out and feel how it is to live alone. Well, she still here. I believe she wants a mature man and be wild at the same time...

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            klarawieckposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            well, if you let her move in, now it's going to be difficult to move her out. You should have told her before... *sigh* roll

  2. pisean282311 profile image56
    pisean282311posted 5 years ago

    @ts want boring answer....evolution....women seek stability for her offsprings and herself...older man are pretty settled , can provide....men seek women to continue species...younger women are more suited for that purpose than older ones...it is all about gene...

  3. Indazone profile image61
    Indazoneposted 5 years ago via iphone

    @ pisean, so when the " women are more mature then man " kicks in.

    1. pisean282311 profile image56
      pisean282311posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      @Indazone in ur own question...choosing settled man needs maturity, choosing young women shows lack of it tongue ...on serious notes i only wrote what psychologist claim...i am not an expert and my answers are mere my opinions...

  4. Jonathan Janco profile image80
    Jonathan Jancoposted 5 years ago

    I prefer women who are free sprited and young at heart. Their actual age doesnt matter although my actual experiences in this regard has been with women younger than myself.

  5. moiponetsoka profile image36
    moiponetsokaposted 5 years ago

    i have always dated people at least 4 years older than me but older was not a go for me and now i can gladly say that now I am 26 years old and i am dating a 46 year old and there relationship is more fulfilling than any relationship i have been in. so its really not a matter of age but a matter of understanding each other and feeling as one

    1. Indazone profile image61
      Indazoneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      That's good. How long you guys been together? Live together? And how is the sex if u don't mind me asking.

  6. Disturbia profile image59
    Disturbiaposted 5 years ago

    The attraction is more basic and primal than just what is obvious on the surface in modern times.  It's really very simple and it all goes back to prehistoric times and the survival of the species. Not just older men, but men in general are more attracted to younger women because younger women are more furtile and back when our brain was evolving to recognize those things that were necessary for survival, that information was imprinted, just as those things which were dangerous and to be avoided.  Women's brains evolved with a different set of priorities, such as being able to recognize who would be the best hunter, protector and provider for themselves and their babies.  In modern times this protection translates into older men because they are in general more established and financially secure. It's like the fight or flight response. Of course we are beyond the stage where just survival is important and we use reason to make choices, but the basic instincts are there in the deep recesses of our brain.

    My first husband was very old, and left me very well provided for. smile

  7. djeff37 profile image73
    djeff37posted 5 years ago

    The only problem with your line of thinking is that during the times you are thinking people did not have a choice who they married. There was a little something called arranged marriages. No matter how attractive one was to somebody else, who you got could be a total different thing. In some cases matchmaking began as soon as the child was born.

    As far as men being attracted to younger women, I can say there is no one answer to fit all men.
    Some reasons that you may find for this phenomenon are:

    Companionship
    Collection of Beauty
    A desire to regain that youthful feeling
    Sex

    1. Disturbia profile image59
      Disturbiaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      My thinking goes way beyond a time of arranged marriages.  I'm talking of a time when mankind were hunter, gathers, ware animal skins, lived in small tribes, and painted on the inside of caves.

  8. Greek One profile image79
    Greek Oneposted 5 years ago

    Older men = more $ and a father figure who can take care of a woman's needs yet make them feel grown up

    Younger woman have breasts that don't sag to the floor, and vaginas than dont resemble the hanging sleeve of a wizard

    1. Disturbia profile image59
      Disturbiaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Oh dear, now that's a visual I could live without.  And not every woman's breasts sag with age.  wink

    2. ElSeductor profile image61
      ElSeductorposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      @Greek One   Hilarious response!!  LOL!!!  I agree absolutely.  Having had the pleasure of dating young women, I must say that I have not had the misfortunate disgust of viewing the sleeve of a wizard.

      R

    3. By His Way profile image60
      By His Wayposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Good grief...

  9. debbiepinkston profile image82
    debbiepinkstonposted 5 years ago

    Maybe older men have learned a few lessons about life and love.  Younger men tend to be self-absorbed (not all).  BTW, not all older women have vaginas and breasts that sag.  Some take great care of themselves and look great at 50.

    1. Greek One profile image79
      Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      i have to see photographic evidence of this.

      please send all such images to my hotmail

      thank you

      smile

      1. debbiepinkston profile image82
        debbiepinkstonposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Sorry,  no photos :-)

        1. Greek One profile image79
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          etchings?

      2. Beth100 profile image84
        Beth100posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        lol  you're still after photos are you??  lol

        1. Greek One profile image79
          Greek Oneposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          sooner or later.. someone's gonna bite smile

          1. Beth100 profile image84
            Beth100posted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Bet it'll be you. lol

          2. Disturbia profile image59
            Disturbiaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            You have to go to Yahoo chatrooms for that.  My ex-husband was able to score hundreds of pics on there.

            1. pisean282311 profile image56
              pisean282311posted 5 years ago in reply to this

              shhh...why am i then wasting my time of hubpages...u should have told me before....smile

      3. pisean282311 profile image56
        pisean282311posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        @greek i second greek on this...photos are needed to believe...even i would like to look at young woman photo too to compare...seeing in believing after all smile

  10. Gordon Hamilton profile image96
    Gordon Hamiltonposted 5 years ago

    Funnily enough, I've always gone for the older woman. I remember missing a major High School exam when I was 17 because I was at the remote house of the 29 year old divorcee I was seeing at the time and the old banger of the car I had (my mother's actually) broke down.

    That continued for a while. When I was 19, I was seeing a 42 year old. Even my long term ex was 7 years older than me.

    These days, I have settled down as a single man. I hate the stench of nursing/retirement homes... lol

  11. jirel profile image79
    jirelposted 5 years ago

    Well,I don't know about why men like younger women.But I like older guyz because I feel like they are more responsible and down to earth than the ones of your age and younger than you.I don't actually prefer childish guyz.I think older men are serious,decent, experienced about life ,understanding, so they can bear with us and treat us like Princesses.Even if we are naive they can understand as they are older.I also feel that if I get an older guy he will not cheat on me.lol.But I wonder why guys like younger women.That's why I'd prefer to be younger so that my future husband will not cheat on me later trying to find a younger girl.lol.I don't know why but I also feel like older guyz are more caring and they can remain strong in any situation even after marriage.

  12. Indazone profile image61
    Indazoneposted 5 years ago via iphone

    @ Jirel, I am happy to hear how you honestly feel about this topic. The reasons you came up with in why YW like OG is totally true. I felt like you was describing me. How is you relationship now? Still with an OG?

    1. jirel profile image79
      jirelposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      lol.I'm still single.But when I get married I'd definitely choose an older one.lol

      1. jirel profile image79
        jirelposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        I checked it out.Seems like those surveys are only available in selected countries.It's not available in the Philippines.

  13. Indazone profile image61
    Indazoneposted 5 years ago via iphone

    I want to thank everyone that made their comments on this topic. Please, there will be many to come. Let's be friends, family and support each other as long as the topic is juicy, fresh and interesting.

  14. Indazone profile image61
    Indazoneposted 5 years ago via iphone

    Please follow me, thank you

 
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