I am in my early 30s and I have had relationships where I am the providing 100% of income and the relationship brake apart when I reach rock bottom because she can't help me financially. Meanwhile, she is doing something to better herself financially. I feel my life being drain out of me day by day. I have been in two relationship, one after another and that got me thinking of some solution to what I call "A Madness". Both man and woman need to be independent in general to make things very simple. So, when they are in a relationship together, the only thing they have to loose is the touch of each other.