how to win her heart over

10 things you can do to win her heart.

1. Be Honest - Nothing turns a lady off more is a liar. I mean they are even making Hollywood movies about liars....LOL don't do it.

2. Be yourself - You want her to love you for who you are.if you aren't yourself it may work for awhile but it won't last.

3. Be Independent - Most women want someone who is stable and can take care of them.If she see's that you can take care of yourself,then she will know that you can take care of her if she needed you to.

4. Good Hygiene - This should go without saying - Take a shower,brush your teeth and dress for the occasion. Don't put on to much cologne.

5. Don't be to clingy - A woman can't stand a clingy guy, they need their space and if you are to clingy you ain't gonna make it.

6. Don't be jealous - They want you to want them but if you are too jealous it will ruin everything. If you try to control a person it won't work.

7. Be Confident - Confidence is sexy, many attractive girls never get asked out on a date because guys think that they are gonna get rejected and most guys are scared of rejection. Look at it this way,every no you get is getting you closer to the one YES you need,imagine that you are Brad Pitt and be confident,it will work

8. Shower Her with gifts - you don't have to spend a fortune on gifts remember it is the thought that counts. But don't be a cheapskate either.

9. Have a sense of humor - It is amazing that if you can make a girl smile you can win her heart, have fun in life and don't be afraid to make fun at yourself occasionally,trust me the ladies love a guy with a good sense of humor.

10. Have your own House - If you are living at home with your parents and you are over say age 22 - that is a deal killer. You need to have your own pad. If you can't afford one get a job. Women aren't going to be impressed with a guy who lives with mama.

I hope this hub helps you to win her heart,if not let me know and I will try to offer some more suggestions.

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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

@uban - Thanks for stopping by - I certainly am not a master of anything but I do appreciate the kind words.

I write these hubs to try to help people and I hope it works, take care my friend


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ubanichijioke 5 years ago from Lagos

This is well written, easy and simple to follow. I love this piece. You re the master counselor. Great work!


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

Thanks you Easy

I don't know why your comment didn't show up quicker..LOL


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easylearningweb 5 years ago

Another great hub!


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

I agree LeeLee but there are also some things that some women can't stand and that guys shouldn't do and that is what I was trying to write on, I know every relationship will have somekind of trepidation.


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LeeLeePortCity 5 years ago from Wilmington

when it comes to love there are no rules or regulations...chances are if the girl has an outline for her perfect idea of a man she probably also has issues and goes after the wrong guy all the time. The truth is the right person you can't deny...even if they live with their mom :)


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

No Arlene - That does not count..........LOL

Thanks for the comment


Arlene V. Poma 5 years ago

Have your own house as #1? This doesn't count when the travel trailer is in Mama's backyard where you have to go into the house to use the kitchen or the bathroom. How do I know this? I ain't saying, but trust me, guys. Get your own apartment or a house with no roomies.


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

HAHA - That is funny - Thanks for the comment Blondey you have given me a good laugh for the day.


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blondey 5 years ago

So am I, brutally honest thou in the past years, I try and tame it down, but when it comes to important things like politics/religion It tends to come out one way or another! I respect honest people, but if I ask "do this look fat on me..." you prob should say "No" LOL!


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

Maybe I need to write a hub on honesty - I'm brutally honest, it has cost me friends because I am honest and have strong opinions..LOL

TY for your comment - Blondey


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blondey 5 years ago

Very good points, like Ms Chievous, I liked the gift part and the honesty first :)


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

Its Ok Rhoda ;0) TY & Susan for leaving a nice comment - I hope this hub helps a lonely guy somewhere - that is why I write these hub to try to help people.

God-Bless


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Rhoda Talisaysay 5 years ago from Philippines

Oh sorry, manthy i thought anyone can help here , someone just acknowldged she did it !.........my daughter.


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Just Ask Susan 5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

Ten out of Ten! I hope a lot of men read your hub:)


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Rhoda Talisaysay 5 years ago from Philippines

Sure, you are a winner!! Are you the one editing my 2nd hub? It was an impulsive writing at 1Am today without preparation for I just can't sleep back until 5AM.If it's you I would like to thank you if not thank you for following too. You inspired me.I don't know much yet how to publish correctly but I am working on it.Thank you again.


thanks for all 5 years ago

Thanks great hub, Just execute it men and it will work.


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manthy 5 years ago from Alabama,USA Author

Honesty is the best policy & ladies always like a gift ;0)

Thanks for the comment


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Ms Chievous 5 years ago from Wv

Yes! Shower us with gifts! LOL I like that you started out with Honesty first!

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