Relationships: Few Signs To Tell If a Guy Likes You

Isn't it Obvious?


How can you tell if this guy likes you? You were standing and chit-chatting with a friend when suddenly you noticed him. You thought he noticed you, but probably it was just your imagination or some ambitious thinking. He glanced at you almost the same time you looked at him. Then your eyes met for a few seconds, and then quickly you looked away as if you're looking for someone else. When you looked back at him, he was having a little conversation with some other friends. Was he really watching you as you hang out? Or it was all your imaginative mind? How can you be really sure if a guy is into you? Why are guys so difficult to read?

Here are few signs a guy is also interested in you. If any of these happens, he is likely trying to get your attention to ask you for a date:

1. He informs someone

First sign a guy likes you when he tells a common friend that he is willing to know more about you, who you are or where you from. He is trying to act as if he don't mind asking but his questions signifies more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you captivating, he will likely to know that you will receive the compliment. He's expecting it does.

2. The stare

He gives a deceiving look at you. You feel like melting, from your head down to your toes. Then stares at you for a longer time. Suddenly a bright smile next to it.

3. The nice conversation

When he manages to ask you many questions, then probably it is his way to make the moment longer with you, then he's is interested. He seems to be listening and quickly responds to what you say or do. He may also tell you through joke that you're boyfriend might get angry because you're seeing or talking to a guy, this is his way of knowing if you're already taken or if he still has a chance. You will surely answer him for whatever the truth is. If he doesn't asks you the question of whether or not you are committed to, he may ask some common friend about it.

4. He appears surprisingly

He's really into you if he suddenly shows up unexpectedly. His face may turn pink when he's near you. When you suddenly hear him say, "oh, hi," it's his way of saying, "I don't want to look obvious, but I really like you." If you feel the same way with this guy, don't feel reluctant. Stop and have a little chat with him.

5. EVERYONE around you admires you

If you don't have a nice life, however, now is the right time to start fixing on one. Take a look at your career potentials, personality, future plans, and resources. You may have your weaknesses, but it doesn't matter unless you work on your strengths. Schools and training help boosts your potentials.

These are the few signs that he is interested and he is on his way of dating you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly, but make a limitation. This is where a nice relationships begin.


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Entourage_007 5 years ago from Santa Barbara, CA

I really like the things you mentioned. Especially the one where the guy can appear surprisingly, its definitely a sure sign.


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Alladream74 5 years ago from Oakland, California

Usually guys don't appear unexpectedly-they lurk around in the background and then appear to have "bumped" into you! Good hub


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whoisbid 5 years ago

I say that there are no rules in love and war but I liked your perceptiveness and you wrote very nice


jazee 4 years ago

Helped me a lot thx buddy .:-D


Sarah1234 4 years ago

I told a guy that I liked him and all my friends say that he likes me and he also apperintley told one of my friends he does like me but y hasn't he asked me out??!!


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Bohemian24 4 years ago from Bavaria

Your very talented


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jujanester 4 years ago from Philippines Author

Thanks guys!


unknown 4 years ago

There is this boy who stares at me and likes my jokes i think he lks me he also did something for that was like a gentleman would do if you were walking out a place. i don't like him back and i don't have feelings. NO ONE REPLY BACK TO THIS COMMENT !!!!PLEASLE!!!!! I WANT IT TO BE ON ITS OWN NOBODY COMMENT BACK JUST READ.


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KeriProctor88 4 years ago from Georgia

I LOVE number 4- He appears surprisingly. I use to love that when my boyfriend did that for me when I worked. But now, I do not work to get surprises like that anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. Yes, this is a good way to find out if a guy likes you or not.


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jujanester 4 years ago from Philippines Author

@ keri, WOnderful!, It's good to know that both of you are together now....He really loves you now


choppper of index card 4 years ago

He will tell your BFF


fallon 3 years ago

I have a crush on this guy he stares at me a lot and he shows off in front of me we talk we are naybors he is also a year older than me he looks down a lot he smiles and when his brother comes out thay wisper about me and I say what were u sayin and he goes red he smiles a lot 2 but I don't know if he is in 2 me plzx help


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jujanester 3 years ago from Philippines Author

A girl's instinct are often true! Maybe he's really into you. By the way how did you know that he and his brother talk about you? Why not befriend with him and who knows he might knock into your door and pledge that he likes you! Good luck!


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ThoughtsWriter 2 years ago from America

"The STARE," haha. Classic.

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