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I don't know what your situation is,but I can tell you that trying to deal with a liar and the lies they tell is like trying to win a physical fight against a ghost,nearly impossible.because most of the lies are spread behind your back,when you are not around that is when the liar acts,nine times out of ten the liars are cowards,they have something against you for something you may have down to them.they don't have the balls to address their problems to you so they lie about you behind your back it's safer that way.or you might have someone that's just plain jealous of you.they might want something that you possess, they might want to be more like you,it could be anything.are you could be dealing with a pathological liar a person that lies for no reason,a person that lies all the time,a person that lies even if everyone knows they are telling lies they still lie.lieing is gossip and in the bible it Say's that gossip is worse than murder.the only way to deal with a liar is to confront the liar,and once you have confronted them you have to shut them completely out of your life,because by associating with the liar you are verifying their lies as the truth because they are lieing about you and you are still hanging with them.let the liar lie and you go on and live your life don't worry about the lie's keep on moving and the liar will find someone else to pick on that's what liars do, they lie and cause chaos in people's life until that day comes when no one will want them around.don't let the liar be a drain on your life.because when you show anger and other negative emotions,the liar enjoys that,it gives them satisfaction.never let them see you sweat.show no anger are negative emotion even if you are pissed to the gills,smile and keep on pushing ahead.

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Chef Jeff 8 years ago from Universe, Milky Way, Outer Arm, Sol, Earth, Western Hemisphere, North America, Illinois, Chicago.

Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens) wrote in one of his books that the peole of his region would lie about a man and then shoot him in the back because they were cowards.

Are you speaking about a personal experience here, or just venting in general?


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bill yon 8 years ago from sourcewall Author

personal experience,I know what it feels like to be attacked by lies and rumors,the frustration of trying to figure out where it's coming from,and who is responsible,I lost a fiance a couple of years back to gossip,once I finally found out who the gossiper was,I banished them from my universe,that might seem extreme but a gossiper(liar)can cause pure chaos,and havoc on your relationships,the only way I know of to stop gossip is to cut them out my life completey.


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Chef Jeff 8 years ago from Universe, Milky Way, Outer Arm, Sol, Earth, Western Hemisphere, North America, Illinois, Chicago.

Well, we certainly see how "gossip emails" have ruined the reputations of political candidates, on all sides of the political spectrum.

I am particularly angry that those disproven emails about Obama are still making the circuit.  I also received one about Palin that I know is totally false, and when I replied to the sender and all those listed on the TO: list, I received back a few nasty notes about my "lies" in calling this eamil a lie.

I favor Obama but I am sick of receiving negative, false emails about him just as much as I do not like receiving them when they are about the other partys' candidates.

Lies are lies, and gossip is hateful, destructive. so you have my sympathy.  Although not on a scale as large as your case, I have at times suffered gossip.  When I was in the Air Force, 1978 to be exact, I was accosted by white supremicists who told me I was a race traitor because I was dating a black woman.  We were not all that serious, but she was a good friend and we went to dinner, museums and all that, and these guys told me it was wrong for a white man to date outside his own race.  What a load of garbage that is!

First of all, I don't recognize race as a real-world term.  It is an artificial construct of society, an artificial barrier put in place by people who do not like people of other cultures or regiona backgrounds.

But try talking like that as they are beating you and kicking you.  Now this wasn't exactly gossip, but it did stop me from hanging around with a friend because they also threatened to hurt her.

And, the worst part was, I think that at least one of them was in the security police squadron, because one of them said they would know if I reported this.


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bill yon 8 years ago from sourcewall Author

when it comes to the realm of politics gossip is part of the game,I think OBAMA/BIDEN really need to scorch the earth on MCCAIN/PALIN hit them with attacks based on the truth,such as the fact that MCCAIN was born in panama and is not really eligible to run for president,OR the fact that palin lied at the convention about the bridge to nowhere,palin still received the money but instead of a bridge they built a road to nowhere.the fact that MCCAIN votes against veterans,the fact that PALIN is under investigation.the fact that cindy mccain has a drug problem,and has been caught stealing money from her own charity.the fact that MCCAIN has senior moments and is undergoing cancer treatments,there is so many ways to come at MCCAIN/PALIN with the truth that I am beginning to think to think that the media and the democrats are scared of the republicans,they treat PALIN like she's made of glass,rip into her like like you ripped into all the other candidates because if MCCAIN does win,he could drop dead at any minute,all it takes is a stroke,a heartattack,are for his cancer to get worse,and PALIN would be president with all her task from god crap going to war with russia crap.As far as race goes I don't discrimanate,especially when it comes to women.

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