Loving with Blind Trust and Soulful connections .

Rainbow I saw 5/15/11

Follow your heart

Getting straight to the heart of this matter! Once in a while we meet someone that we completely trust with no background check or references. We take them at their word with very little questions asked. We feel things when they speak, almost as if they take you places that you have never seen or felt. Not saying we will not at times regret...... but I feel most times these people are destined in our lives. The true keepers are the ones that actually feel that very same way ( as described here) as you do about them.

The way some describe love...... fireworks, sun and moon aligned, butterflies, yin and yang. As one becomes older it may be changed to peaceful, calm, tranquil and sweet. I would guess passion is not as important to older people.............. or is it?? I feel that all these words describe love with our soulmate. For without passion and compassion it simply would not be love with the right person.

How do we know when we have a soulful connection. There are so many signs.......... finishing each others thought, answering their question before even asked, thinking of them in the middle of the night or day and receiving a text or call.....repeatedly this will be obvious to each other. Sympathy pains.... they hurt on one side, you may on the other. I have watched this happen for years with people that I truly love and have a spiritual connection with. There are so many more and when one is in the midst of a soulful connection they will be greatly aware. Their dreams will slip into yours, their thoughts will as well. Its no longer about sacrifice but your views of your wants and needs change with this person. Yes it sounds odd but I ask of the readers here to think back to a time when they felt this way.

Now on to blind trust. I tend to trust that way anyway....only because of my spirituality, however I did not always. It is almost going back to an old fashioned age of getting to know others and giving others a real chance ... a chance to be themselves. If we can be comfortable within our own skins that helps to allow another to do the same, thus fully able to share and disclose. It has to be absolutely about unfolding to each other and accepting each other......where they are in life and whom they became along the way. now of course if the two are so different on values......may be hard. Morals, the way we handle money and religion could be a reason not to fully hand over your heart but if you do anyway.........the blind trust is what you will continue to need.

Writing for me is a wonderful therapy outlet and Hubpages is where I choose to do it. In time I may find other places and outlets . For today I would like to ask the readers here to add more to this blog or better yet write a blog on the subject as well Inquring minds really do wanna know.

wishing all well in life and love

Mia

 

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Reynold Jay 5 years ago from Saginaw, Michigan

Powerful thoughts. I enjoyed this very much. You have this laid out beautifully and it is easy to understand. Keep up the great HUBS. Up one and Useful. Hey! I'm now your fan! RJ


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Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thank you RJ

I appreciate you reading and this great comment! Hope you have a funtastic day!

wishingUwell

Mia


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ahorseback 5 years ago

Momma Mia , So true, I think that you decribed love and trust to a -t- Im a 57 years old and I believe we gain something in maturity [Age ]that was impossible in youth. The frantic needs of youth are replace by a more serene beauty. Its true , that trust is instant occasionaly, friend or lover! When that happens its forever it seems. Sex doen't have to be the driving force anymore and perfect peace is! Nice hub , coming from a beautiful soul. :-]


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Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thank you... ahorseback...you have the most wonderful soul as well. Thank you for reading an a fantastic comment!!

WishingUwell

Mia


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Joyette Fabien 5 years ago from Dominica

Yea, age does mellow you and at fifty you don't need all the passion and excitement, just the trust and empathy; the smiling when you smile and hurting when you hurt kind of thing. You know it may be foolish to open up your heart in blind trust, but you want to love not fight so you feel the connection and want to give it a chance


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Tony DeLorger 5 years ago from Adelaide, South Australia

Thanks Mia. Another soulful expression of thoughts and realisations. Yes, I agree. As we get older our values change and our needs. Everything, including love becomes much clearer and we more easily find those who are meant to be in our lives. I'm sure we have done this all before and connections do not fade. Recognition is both joy and a feeling you are in a rightful place. Take care, Tony.


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Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thankyou Joyette and Tony for taking the time to read this and for your insightful comments as well ! Hope you have a great day!

wishingUwell

Mia


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Micky Dee 5 years ago

I've been the "blind truster" too often. God bless you dear.


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Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

God Bless you as well my friend

Micky Dee. Thank you for stopping by and your kind words.

Have a funtastic week!

as always

wishingUwell

Mia


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sligobay 5 years ago from east of the equator

Mia, we can only trust others when we come to trust ourselves and our intuition. You have apparently made this great leap of faith. This is a great article about a difficult subject for so many. Thank you.


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Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina Author

Thank you sligobay

My faith is my structure that makes it easy for me to live outside the box! Thank you for reading ..I so appreciate~

wishingUwell

Mia


Michelle 23 months ago

. Your favorite resoan seemed to be on the internet the simplest thing to be aware of. I say to you, I definitely get annoyed while people consider worries that they just don't know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without having side-effects , people could take a signal. Will probably be back to get more. Thanks


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Momma Mia 23 months ago from North Carolina Author

Thanks so much Michelle for reading and a kind comment:)

Wishing U Well

Mia

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