The ocean of love
We are living beings, we have a heart and we all need love in life. Yes, love. Blessed are those who use the weapon of love to cross hurdles in their life. Love is a power; strength. It is the emotional requirement of our mind as much as food is necessary for our body. If you have people who love you in life, then your emotional state of mind remains in an amiable and jovial state, otherwise you will be depressed and isolated. Actually, the problem is that we humans are not hundred percent perfect. We can’t have hundred percent good qualities in ourselves; there would be surely one weakness in ourselves. Many times, imperfections in us hurt our mind and we feel broken and emotionally shattered.
You might have witnessed in your life that you hardly come across a person, who understands you completely and have never hurt you in life. Well, this is simply because humans are not perfect and can’t give perfect love to you. There are times when you feel heart broken, you feel hurt in your relations and feel stressful and depressed. So, can you discover someone who is the perfect one and give you perfect love? The one who never hurts you, the one who respects you, the one who cares for you, the one who shares your sorrows and joys, the one who sees his/her world in you and the one who gives infinite love to you, is your perfect love. Whilst you start loving someone, you feel a burning desire to meet that person. You get anxious. The anxiousness arises further more.
When you find someone who can give you infinite unconditional love, then your craving to meet that person shall be very strong and obviously your mind shall always yearn for and run after that person. Whether it is day or night, thoughts about that person will float in your mind. What is the perfect love? In our relationships, we enjoy love and affection. It is the love and affection that bring us together. But, sometimes we encounter these same relationships giving us pain, sorrow; hurt, isolation and at times we feel completely disillusioned. How does it all happen? How? Why? Why when a person gives you so much love and affection becomes the main reason of your pain, sorrow and hurt? Sometimes when relationships turns out to be wrong, then people feel depressed in every situation that they feel entirely lost and alone in their lives. Why such relationship problems enter in your life? Why some of your lives are disrupted by your own relations with whom you received abundant love and affection? The answer to all these questions is that, we are equally human beings and divine. Because of our this divine nature, we are exceptionally lovable and because of our human nature, we fall a prey to anger, ego, mistrust and hatred, which later abolishes our strong relationships.
From now on, let’s understand the nature of love which is, blissful and pure as always. Veritable to say, whether it is you, your partner or any of your relations, is having a ‘Divine Soul’ and each one is part of that ‘Universal Soul’ – God. Yes, each one of us. Soul is the source of love in one’s heart and it only reflects from that person when we fall in love. The nature of ‘pure and perfect’ love is just like a shining sun in the sky, but when the sun of love in the sky of one’s heart is surrounded by dark clouds of ego, anger, jealousy and hatred, then your beautiful relationships will get destroyed. It will vanish right at that moment and you’ll be empty hearted.
When we fall in love with someone, we enjoy and love to be in the company of that person, as the bright sunrays of love come through that person’s soul and we feel abundant joy. It bestows a great blessing on us, when we receive pure love from another person. This kind of ‘perfect love’ makes us to realize the goodness, the preciousness and beauty in our soul nature. One realizes the experience of ‘perfect love’ when our soul is beyond the qualities of our personality traits such as anger, ego, jealousy, hatred and mistrust. When our mind is not full of negative personality traits, we don’t encounter any problems in our relations.
In relationships, we constantly face times when the sun of ‘perfect love’ shines brightly in the clear sky and then dark clouds covers this blissful sun by the negative traits of our human nature. So, the sky is infinite and we know that the clouds can’t cover the sun forever. Similarly, if we keep a staunch faith and strong love in our relationships, then I am sure we can cross all the hurdles. We’ll be able to defeat the dark clouds of ego, anger, jealousy and hatred with our power of love. Whilst, any negative qualities arouse in your relationships, always remember the immortality, loving, blissful qualities of love that is shining through the soul of each one of us in this world. From now on, let’s ignore the negative traits of a human and love unconditionally without any ambiguousness. Just the way a mother loves her children, ignoring the tantrums and naughtiness of her children. Every human being is ‘Divine’ at the core, since God as the ‘Super Soul’ resides in our hearts, from where the ocean of love flows and blesses us with the drops of love. I believe that, God is seated in everyone’s heart. We just have to discover him.