How to Seduce a Straight Guy in 8 Easy Steps

Lots of Straight Men Have Gay Fantasies

Seducing a straight guy is easier than you might think. Men are sexual beings, after all. With a little encouragement and the right circumstances, most men would experiment with the same sex. In fact, many men have, but as most gay men know, it's something they would never admit to.

The truth of the matter is, many straight guys do have gay fantasies, but that's all they remain, just fantasies. They would never have the courage to realize those fantasies on their own, and that's why YOU must play your part and help them!


You Can Do It! Getting a Straight Guy to Bat for Your Team

1) Take Charge: If you're a guy trying to seduce a man who identifies as heterosexual, it's important to know that no matter how open-minded the straight guy is, nothing will ever come of it unless YOU are in the driving seat.

2) Don't Push: Never be pushy, touchy-feely, or downright aggressive in your approach. Straight men have no concept of how the mind of a gay guy works. Be careful to skirt the subject matter, drop hints but never be direct about your wants.

3) Start with Camaraderie: If you're in a public place, such as a pub, and you see a straight man that you like, make a statement to them that you know will get a positive response. For example, when buying your drink, make a side comment like "If I wait any longer, I think I'll die of thirst." Say something that they will agree with and then introduce yourself.

4) Approach Him in Private: If you have made a recent friend who's straight and you think that you might have a chance, try to get him on his own. Men usually tend to be more responsive and open with their feelings when they're not part of the pack.


5) Stay Confident: To seduce a straight guy, you will need to boost your self-confidence. Practice on guys you aren't normally interested in. This way, there is no failure involved. What have you got to lose? Also don't forget the law of averages here—you have to succeed some of the time.

6) Be Vague about Your Own Orientation: When seducing a straight guy, the subject of sex will no doubt crop up. Men talk about sex all the time. If he doesn't bring it up, make sure YOU do. Always refer to your ex as your "ex-partner." What you're doing here is dropping hints. See if he does the same.

7) Bring up Sexuality. Scary, I know, but there are ways and means. Talk about your mate at work and his bizarre antics. Casually mention that this guy is gay, but that you don't have an issue with that kind of thing. Test his reaction. If it's positive, then you can explore the subject even more. Mention statistics and how you heard that many people are actually bisexual. Should he agree with you, then you have just seduced him! No straight man would ever agree with that statement unless they felt ready to experiment!

8) Take It Slow. No matter how confident you feel, never invite him back to yours on the first night. Swap telephone numbers/e-mail addresses and arrange to meet up. You don't want to scare him off.


To Conclude

The most important rules when seducing a straight guy (or anyone, in fact!) are: approach with confidence, respect boundaries, and never be afraid of rejection. Rejection is absolutely necessary if you are to ever have any success at seduction.

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Comments 197 comments

macho gay 6 years ago

i didn't understand any step :p, haha, but my option would be:

1.- invite the guy to take some drinks.

2.- then continue at home... and at the 6 drink, put some valium.

3.- make your wishes come true with him! :D

Jamadeus 6 years ago

LOL, damn! After all that hard work and that's all I had to do!!?? ;D

RJ 6 years ago

I'm straight, but its funny, I know that a guy could get me into his bed if he followed this guide.

TR 5 years ago

I'm straight also, but, a smooth approach like this would get me easily.I'd be naked in his bed before I knew what happened ;-)

john adams 5 years ago

i did get a married guy once in a car to say i could do what ever i want, i i rubbed his lag that when he told me i could do what ever i want ever i wanted, but i backed off, did not want to loose him as a friend, was i right?

Nathan 4 years ago

I am afraid to do this, if I mess up at all, I'm afraid that i will lose him as a friend, i am bi, but I'm not sure what he is, he is never really states it.

Harish 4 years ago

hi,i'm too scared to follow this steps what happen if i loose my firend after he know's me as bi person and i dono that he like's sex with me but he like's me lot.... plz send me more steps to

Rodney 4 years ago

Damn that's it i talk about fuckinn but that gottem goin

Rodney 4 years ago

Damn that's it i talk about fuckinn but that gottem goin

dylan 4 years ago

ok now that sounds a little corney, what you really need to do to suduce this "straight guy" is like get really close to em like frend wise. Then "invite" him to your house, get on the topic of sex ( try not to make it awkwad ). then you tell him about some pictures of girls nude you have ( remember your gay and you planned all of this ), show it to him and hill get all hard, get him a drink, after drink, after drink, he'll be so drunk he wont remember a thing. Take him to your room & voila! Get down n' durty :-). hope it helped

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brimancandy 4 years ago from Northern Michigan

Strangely, I agree with this. They key is certainly getting him alone with you. But, being too aggressive will most likely scare him away. When I was outed at work, a straight guy that I was attracted to, started to lay hints that he might be interested. Asking the usual questions about oral sex, and just "What could you possibly do with another guy." Usually questions he would ask me, when nobody else was around.

Then, one day, he asked me if I wanted to go to the local fair with him, because his girlfriend didn't wan to go. It was common knowledge that

I love that stuff, so I said sure! Of course, on the day we planned to go to the fair it rained all day. So, we met at a local McDonalds, and sat and had lunch, and just talked. He asked me if I was Bi. And, I said no, which I could tell he didn't like.

The rain dashed our fair plans, and we parted. But, I'll bet if it had been a sunny day, we could have found a quiet place to have some extra fun, and I would bet money, that he would have wanted to do it all. He never asked me out again, and was kind of stand offish after that. But, he was really cute. But, seriously needed a hair cut.

dan 4 years ago

Anyone ready

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johnnybb75 3 years ago

it's true, I'm straight but I fantasise regularly about being seduced by a gay guy. Would love to be chatted up! Sadly, hasn't happened yet, or hasn't been the right time, place, but I wouldn't need much persuading!

Christopher 3 years ago

I'm bi but I really think my best friend is hot but I knew he had a gay side because everytime he saw me he tried to make me hold his hand and when we were talking he would usually just touch my shirt and all that but tomorrow I'm Gona make my move ;)

Justin 3 years ago

I'm scared to do this I know my best friend is gay cuz when He sits with me on the bus he would lay his head on my lap and if I do it I may lose my friendship with him idk what to do

Poo 3 years ago doesn't always mean he is gay, if you guys are best friends. It is most likely bromance. Unless you know for a fact he is gay, then that is all different

jay 3 years ago

I'm bi and like to seduce straight guys at all.

Iffy 3 years ago

i like this one kid at school. He's straight and really hot. Ive thought about doing something to him but whenever I actually see him I can't. I guess I'm too nervous.

ali 3 years ago

My gay friends had straight marriage & have kids now.. Now the have more same sex.

. Sex or friendship policy.

It's great when straight friends are attached toward you cox I have something beyond sexuality.

If in name of orientation you. Have friends then he she

xoxo 3 years ago

i did friend has a wife and a daughter.i tease him everyday,try to be always be his side (with kidding-side of course) and remember dont show ur real aim to him.

Eli 3 years ago

Cant belive it it ACTUALLY WORKED!!!One of my best friends ever now my boyfreind james actually told me he loves me too!!!He told me he likes everything about my personality and my looks just add on hes such a sweeti and thnx

jr 3 years ago

i played nervous with my straight friend on the bus. before you think that shows any signs?

Confuse-ious 3 years ago

Please help. I admitted to a straight friend that I am curious and like to have a sexual experience with him. He told me, 'it will never happen.' For several instances, he gotten used of he hugging him and eventually we would hug me back, sometimes without our shirt on. This has been ok for him until I started kissing him on the neck and made aggressive sexual advances towards him. He did not want me to continue at first. But he continues to come over to my place and would allow me to hug and kiss him on the nape, neck, tummy and chest. but that's it. We are both single dads and he is currently helping me with a project that why he is always see me at home. Why does after making aggressive advances, he still sees me? Is he straight playing hard to get (teasing or tripping)? Will this progress to something I am hoping for based from what we've been doing? Have I already seduced him into doing gay activities? Confused here.

MK 3 years ago

step number "7" is the best one and I'm absolutely gonna do it soon

yeeeeeeeeee :D I cant wait

o.m.g 3 years ago

I like a boy in my class hes super hot.but if i give him the wrong impression im scared of hes reaction wht is he gonna do to me?? But i thnk ill try that steps! Thanks mwahugs!

Joshua 3 years ago

One time I asked my friend if he would ever make out with me and he immediately said no. I invited him to stay at my house on the weekend and he brought some wisky and began drinking. I just started making out with him and we did it like bunnies. At first he asked me if I was seducing him and I said no lol and I kept going

corts 3 years ago

I have a friend that's straight azz n I invited him over for a night when we went to sleep he came into my room n started on me like huh??? But it was cute

Kevin 3 years ago

I have the opposite problem. I like straight guys sure but I'm looking for a real romantic relationship that lasts with another gay male but gay males are not that interested in me while most straight guys are and I'm not fem. It's always been this way and the older I get the worse it gets. I do look young for my age but I am not 30 anymore but straight guys if alone will follow me around in a store and if in a group, if others are not looking, one will give me a wink or nod. I read 10% of married straight men have gay sex and this is where the 10% of people are gay comes in since reality is gay and bi men combine are the majority but it is usually the straight guy who wants me and you know it is for one thing and guess what? He usually wants a BJ. No shocker there since males don't have the gag reflex that women do and straight guys seem to be catching on to the fact their favorite thing is done better by a gay guy.

Kevin 3 years ago


Funny thing is that you being straight and me as I am, you would probably want me in bed. I am gay and looking for a real relationship but straight guys want me more than gay guys.

I have no clue why other than some say, I look like a young Brad Pitt but I have no clue if straight guys are interested in him in his older films or not per sexually. I could pass as his son even though too old to be his son. I just wish a gay guy wanted me for a loving and lasting relationship and no offense to wonderful straight men. I love you guys and you are so sexy and manly yet you would only want me for sex and not real romance.

I must be doing something wrong since gay men don't seem as interested as straight men although; I don't go to gay bars. I tend to go to mixed places since I like a mixed crowd but if in the restroom, a drunk straight guy at the urinal will tend to tease me with you know what and of course, I can't resist but to give him an orgasm.

Sexy boy 3 years ago

I would love to get in bed with a marry men , it's my fantasy I guess , hasn't happen but I wouldn't mind but what you think ? Am very feminine looking and better looking then most girls and verly 18

Sexy boy 3 years ago

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jjj 3 years ago

Yoh please help me guys to get a straight guy on my side_have A lot I like but don't wanna do sumthng stupid... Bbp ..2B6ADB84 add me if yo can help me...

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Gary Taylor Lees 3 years ago

has anyone ever used the words "abusive" and "predatory" when describing you at all..i assume that you explain you techniques to people as a form of charitable act and see it as you opening the door and giving straight men the opportunity to explore their sexuality with you in a safe environment, and this is me putting a positive spin on it for be honest its behaviour like yours that goes some way to explain certain homophobic attitudes towards our community. if you exchange the term "straight man" for "child" then you would be guilty of producing a manual for "Grooming"....

faghag 3 years ago

Gary Taylor Lees, you're implying that a grown man has no more understanding, power, or control than a small child.

Pedophilia is vile because a large, strong, knowledgeable person uses his/her powers over someone who doesn't have the physical or mental development to protect him/herself against being manipulated. That's certainly not the case here.

Or are you saying that all forms of seduction (men trying to seduce straight women, women trying to seduce straight men, gay men with other men, etc) are equivalent to child abuse?

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Aldric Tinker 3 years ago from Malaysia

A good one! Though I wonder: whatever happened to "listening to them"... X-D Is that why I am always in the Friend Zone??? Hahaha.

Good work, Jamadeus.

Jason 3 years ago

Kevin, if you really look the way you do then I would give you a shot. Of course, looks aren't everything. If you're really looking to date someone stop and ask yourself why you're having such a hard time finding someone. Are you really picky? Do you flirt? Are you outgoing or standoff-ish? When someone gives you their phone number hoping for a date, do you call them? Do you ever offer your number to anyone? If you really look as you describe, I would be all over you trying to get to know you better. But how hard is it to get to know you? How hard are you making it for people to get to know you? Are you even giving guys a chance? If I had a chance I would take it. But again, looks aren't everything. You turn my head and make me horny. But are you making yourself available and friendly and inviting to those of us who would want a chance to date you?

straight guy 3 years ago

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amp 3 years ago

I think I'm going to seduce my landlord

CoCo 3 years ago

It works! I've had sexual experiences with 7 straight men, and Im only 20. But I've lost my game at 18. All my guy friends (that I haven't touched sexually) have me figured out now. Lol but it's okay. It's cute how they see me as their matron or baby sister figure with a dick. :3

Ty 3 years ago


johan 2 years ago

I'm 18 and I'm bi

Were renting this ons house and the owners son and I are good friends he is 21 now. One day I was over their watching tv(revenge) when I told him that these two characters were gay and slept with each other. He asked me if. They ever showed them doing it or kissing and I told him no and he looked kinda dissapointed. Does that mean anyting what might be the chanses that he liked to experiment and how might I get close to him?? (He is straight recently broken up with his girlfriend if that might help) email me pls:

tj 2 years ago

I am a straight guy also and would like to be seduced by some easy-going, open-minded and discreet gay guy. The kind of approach described would most probably get me.

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mfran 2 years ago

like some of the people here i'm straight and all this would work on me but the end i would not be seduced me and alot of my other friends would admit that just saying

Uhhm 2 years ago

Bi-Curious and experimentation is one thing...but...

If your having regular sex or fantasies of sex with a guy, you aren't straight. Period.

I mean, seriously, it defeats the whole purpose of having sexual orientation terminology.

"I'm straight, but I like having sex with guys all the time"


Stop getting sexual orientation and masculinity confused.

You could be the campiest of queens, the most average of joes, or the most beefy of jocks...If you like getting it on with a guy, you're not straight. Bi perhaps, but not straight.


Corey 2 years ago

Ive had plenty of straight guys say yeah everyones bi to some small degree but still not want to experiment. I came here looking for the next step that actually makes it happen, not the steps every gay guy tries instinctively.

Carlos 2 years ago

This seems really risky and scary. One side of me tells me to go for it. But the other side doesn't want to ruin the friendship either. I have a girlfriend and she knows about my bi-curious side.. and I agree with Corey.. all guys mess around with the topic but are never to the point of being serious. Can't say if these steps are legit.

Jake Allen 2 years ago

Hey guys, im an 18 male bi guy in high school this one guy i like he is super cute, strong and funny. We were joking in class about how i can do anything better than a girl, and he said "oh really anything" then he winked. I reached down and touched his leg, and he scooted closer....then the bell rang for lunch :/ ....should i try again tomorrow?

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brimancandy 2 years ago from Northern Michigan

Just want to add another comment to this. If you are an 18 year old kid, don't take this hub seriously, and make attempts to try these "Steps". Just like any other..."do this and it will work"...theory, does not mean it is going to work for everyone, or have any percentage of accuracy.

It should have more of a "Proceed at your own risk." sign. Though younger guys today are far more sexually curious then men were 50 years ago. However those who hate fags have become way more angry and violent too. So be very careful.

jai 2 years ago

I m 24 & I like str8 guys ...i like a boy who takes orders in hotel..where I goes once a week to give order ..he is damm hot ...& I want to make out with him...pls help me..can't w8

rakesh 2 years ago

plzz tell me hw cn i seduce a straight man to gay....i hve cousin 20 years old...he is soooo hot...i wnt to hve a sex with he is nt a gay...plzz tell me an opinion,...sometimes i slept with him in sme fmily i dnt hve any sex... 2 years ago

Hii... I am interested in this straight guy in my class. For a while we were really close and always said that we were dating. When he sits next to me he always lays on my shoulder and this one time on of my friends told him I had a crush on him and said I should come and kiss him. Other things he does is like touching my ass or he wants to feel my junk. He always talks about sex with me. May he be interested???? I really like him!!! Should I make a move??

Unknown 2 years ago

Wat if its my best friend?

leslie 2 years ago

I have a straight friend.. he always joking by touching guy's dick or ass. He I'm straight too but I'm often have a gay fantasies with him. I wonder the steps would be working...

ravi 2 years ago

i m very much interested in one of my friends...but dont know how to propose.....i often hold hios hand keep my hands on his laps but still dont know if proposed he will agree or not.......sometimes talk about sex also but whether he will show interest in gay sex

R!an 2 years ago

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niko 2 years ago

I like the steps but i dont think it'll work...however, there may be a chance...i'll c.

GAY IS A LIE 2 years ago

You all are filthy people. Don't you fear god. I don't know why you guys turn your backs on him when he created you, do you think this is how you will go to heaven? Giving each other emails and planning to do this and that just over a comment. Seducing a straight guy with this shit hole is a lie, he knows nothing just some hormonal guy looking to flounce someone. I hop you all get lives and open your eyes. Don't say God made me like this or I was born like this HORRIBLE EXCUSE!! the thing is God gave all of us free will to follow him or not and be punished like the rest of you. IDC WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY TO ME ITS MY OPNION AND YOU CANT CHANG E IT!!!

someone you may know 2 years ago

I did this before, but it was instinctive, like natural. Haven't reached the last step yet, but I follower every step wothout learning how to. It is also very useful to look at the guy in his eyes and when he looks back, you look to somewhere else. And you repeat this process.

Love 2 years ago

I've done it, will continue to do it, and doing it right now;) Most these steps are meh, but the gist is correct.

K so 2 years ago

GAY IS A LIE needs to get off. I mean, you do know that this is a gay page, so why waste time trying to convert them into your mediaevalist convictions?

help me 2 years ago

I wanna seduce my step dad. He's always really playful around his male friends like he talks to them about skinny dipping, or "helping" them out in the bathroom, and he grabs my nipples. I wanna know if I should make a move when he's drunk. He also talks to his friends about there dicks and stuff and I just wanna know if he's curios about it. Please help!!

kotrekneb 2 years ago

Not the easiest way I've gotten with a straight man

Demio 2 years ago

its just weird that you say you want a straight guy to seduce, if you seduce one, they're just in the closet or experimenting... fact is they gay too

Cutiebooty 2 years ago

This is why I wish I were white sometimes. White people in general are so much more open minded than black people. These steps would never work on a black guy.

Mike 2 years ago

I some how believe these steps won't work.

sexy 2 years ago

Hey guys I'm 15 yrs old, from Cape Town nd I'm inlove wth this guy at my school his in Grade:10 nd I've never spocken to him before nd everytime I want to I cnt face him. Becoz I'm to scared,nervious or shy wht do I do?add me on bbm if u cn help 2B645CF5

James 2 years ago

I had this friend who said he was striaght, but when he hooked me up with a guy we talked about sex and he said that he'd let me stroke his dick but not suck it cause he's not gay, lol, go for a guy with low self esteem, compliment them in a seductive way, cause some guys get excited by that knowing that they're good looking enough to get a guy to like them... Even if they r straight... Worked for me, do all guys no matter how striaght they seem have a gay side?

RD 2 years ago

I'm gay and have had a number of experiences with guys that identified as straight. This "guide" is pretty spot on. You do have to vary your approach though. Sometimes subtle doesn't always cover it. The biggest thing I learned is to not try and change him. You've probably got one shot at this, so have fun, but don't spook him by trying to convince him he's gay. And yes, you will face rejection. I've had my fair share of that as well. Just remember, these are guys not some object to be used and discarded.

Ren 2 years ago

Its not easy you know, i mean seducing a male friend. My friend, whom i like the most to have gaysex with is always in my side and always love to sleep over with me. I really can't do it, I'm so nervous.

Jadin 2 years ago

Hold I'm gay and verse bottom

This is a page of South Africans ?

I love coloureds boys and iv got so many crushers for straights guys if you stay in PE and your coloured and straight add me on what's app 0744315524 and email is my bbm doesn't wanna open

BiCuteey 2 years ago

I have a friend, a very best friend of mine. We both married to womens. We love each other in a way that our wives always make funny comments about us saying "you too have something going".

We are also business partners. I happen to love him and wanna have sex with him but i don't know how. We once went onto a holiday together, only the two of us, we did some massages, facial, all sort of things together, we slept together, holding hands for the whole night.

When we buy clothes we buy together, we buy clothes in pairs, whatever he has i do and same with him.

I don't know if we are this close friends, or there is something we not telling each other. Everywhere you see us we always holding hands, even at malls.

BiCuteey 2 years ago

I have a friend, a very best friend of mine. We both married to womens. We love each other in a way that our wives always make funny comments about us saying "you too have something going".

We are also business partners. I happen to love him and wanna have sex with him but i don't know how. We once went onto a holiday together, only the two of us, we did some massages, facial, all sort of things together, we slept together, holding hands for the whole night.

When we buy clothes we buy together, we buy clothes in pairs, whatever he has i do and same with him.

I don't know if we are this close friends, or there is something we not telling each other. Everywhere you see us we always holding hands, even at malls.

That One Bi Guy 2 years ago

Hah, perhaps I should try this on some guys. Im a bottom when it comes to gay sex, so this guide should help me convince some straight guys to try it with me I hope. Yay!

Pres 2 years ago

You are so lame. Especially those of you suggesting to drop valium into someone's drink i.e. rape. Would you want someone trying to manipulate you into being straight? No. Be with people who WANT to be with you. Stop being psychos.

BiCuteey 2 years ago

How do i tell a straight guy who happen to be a best friend of yours that he is cute.

Brad 2 years ago

This is really funny because there is no such thing as 100% straight. Guys get horny & straight guys love oral & like one said, they are finding out only a gay guy can actually do it right. Studies show men have the most intense orgasms through oral anyway & especially straight men.

With me, I have a hard time attracting gay guys but the straight guys are all over me. I'm not fem either. I'm just a regular guy who happens to work as a model but for some reason the straight guys love me. I catch them all the time looking so I have selected the best looking who has the nicest personality to take care of as in his sexual needs. It started with oral but he eventually wanted to do the top deal so I let him have his way & he's pretty big down there but to me, having feelings for him, it was like making-love.

He is a horny guy so I have to be ready at all times but there is no straight guy 21-31 who is attractive that I have found that can resist me so getting a straight guy is actually very easy.

yorkshire 2 years ago

I'm 23 and class myself as straight but I'm extremely curious but too nervous and wouldn't know how to make the first move. I would love to be seduced by a gay man in a bar or similar. Once he started, I wouldn't take much persuading.

jay 2 years ago


I am 42 married but have strong gay feelings.

I have a big crush on this cute guy 24 yrs in my office.

I am dying to seduce him.

help!!! Is it possible

Gian 2 years ago

hi.. I'm a bi as well.. I have a friend who already has a girlfriend and 2 children.. they're not married yet because of financial reasons.. we've been best friends for almost 3 years now.. I really like him.. and Im really sad that he will be leaving soon because he will have to go back to his province where his family is staying.. one time we got drunk and we slept together in his pad.. that was arround 12 mn.. I was so drunk that time that I fell asleep as soon as i lay on his bed.. at arround 3am I woke up and I got nervous because when i open my eyes i saw him half naked.. and his face was right in front of mine.. I covered my face with a pillow.. then I felt that he turned arround.. after a few mins.. I tried to move near him.. I pushed my face slowly on his back.. and mybheart started to pound like crazy... his body us so warm.. It stayed like that for almost an hour.. It stopped when Ifelt something itchy in my throat and I turned away and coughed really hard... I acted like a really drunk guy who does not know what's happening.. I turned back to him and i saw that he already put back his shirt on.. I moved much closer and hugged him from his back...i know that he is awake but I did not get any signs that he don't like what I am doing.. thatvmade me really hard that time.. I then tried to push my front to his back.. and still no signs that he don't like it.. I did not try to go further because I got afraid.. but we stayed like that for 3 more hours..

I would really love to fuck him that night..

do you think there is a huge chance that he wants that to happen to.. i just really don't want to lose our friendship..

skip 2 years ago

you have to kind of be aggressive (dropping hints all the time, not gay stuff,

like let's hang out, what's up this weekend etc. and mix it in with sexual comments (not about you and him) def. let him catch you ogling him all the time, but if it doesn't work after a month just stop,

lol im a girl 2 years ago

thanks for help this got me a boyfriend just kidding

lol im a girl 2 years ago

straight guys will go gay for you if you're hot and you talk personal stuff with them

Vinz 2 years ago

I'm 18 last year of high school. I have to do something! I like this guy we never spoke before and every time he passes by I just can't stop stare at me. And now he started to noticing me every time. I think he knows I like him. And today I sent an request on fb to him and I'm wating:( I should've said hi to him at school but I'm so nervous. I like him:( I will give up if he won't accept fb. If he did, then I will try to be his frnd and will try these!!'

dylan 2 years ago

i like this hot boy at school that doesn't have any of my classes but he knows me and i a afraid to make my move on him. what should i do?

Cj 2 years ago

I'm too afraid to try this , I don't even want sex I just want a hug or something.

joe 2 years ago

Im working on a 23 yr old body builder Puerto Rican, he loves me, im close, we're going camping :) believe me, ill be on his dick in the night

Gian 2 years ago

Hi its me again.. the one who hugged my best friend when we git drunk..

we got drunk again last night in my apartment..

I got really drunk than he is.. he was doing something in my computer when i sat beside him.. after a few mins I found out that i fell asleep and my head is leaning on his left shoulder.. when I tried to get up.. he raised his left hand and rubbed my cheeks.. his hands were warn.. I don't know why but after he did that I started kissing his shoulder.. then his neck.. my eyes were closed while i was doing it.. and after a few mins.. he took off his shirt and guided my head towards his nipples.. i licked it and sucked it.. i heard him moan.. he stood up after a few mins and said "i'll just lock the door"

when he came back he stood up in front of and he put down his shorts.. I can't remember how i started sucking him.. maybe i blacked out .. the only thing i remember is that he moaned and said "I'm cumming" and so he came inside my mouth.. he filled my mouth with his cum... that i rushed into the bathroom to gag it out..

when i got put of the bathroom.. i asked him.. "what happened?"

then he said "what?" then he laughed

i frowned and asked him again about what happened...

he petted my head and said in a very calm and sweet way "go to sleep, you're drunk"

then he smiled..

so went to bed..

i woke up at around 4 am i think.. and the first thing that i saw was his face.. i then found out that i am hugging him...

now im confused of why he let that happen to us.. we talkedtalked earlier but i never had the courage ofasking hum about it.. im afraid of his possible answers..

scot 2 years ago

Oh come on , this is to funny

Gian 2 years ago

It happened again today... but this time we're just tipsy.. and we both know what we are doing... and after we do it we now act like nothing happened between us... I love him but I know that our relationship can only be "friends" or maybe it's considered as "friends with benefits"

I just realized it's more fun doing it when ur not that drunk haha..

He taste and smell so good..

Gian 2 years ago

again its me.. i just got confused if he is also gay or not.. we talked earlier and out of the topic he asked me if I know how to make love potions.. I said "no.. why?" then he just said "uhm nothing" then he changed the topic...

is he thinking that i'm using love potions on him.. does that mean he is feeling something for me too.. he is acting strange lately.. I'm just too afraid to ask him about it..

Oliver 2 years ago

As him gian

Willy-Wonka 2 years ago

I have this friend at school. He transferred about 3 years ago and on his first day I started to talk to him a little bit and we became friend. I now class him as a best friend but I don't know whether he does. Before, he said he'd share a place with me when we're older and stuff and when we're in the same classes he talks and sit by me and gets disappointed if I don't see a seat by him and sit somewhere else. He always looks me in the eyes and jokes around with me but then my interfering friend got involved and told him that a guy liked him and because he doesn't know her well, he just replied saying he liked girls but I really think that something else is going on but he's too nervous to say anything because his friends are a macho bunch of dicks. When she told him a guy liked him, he guessed me straight away but she said it wasn't and then since then, he barely answers me on Facebook and although I try to tease-flirt, he doesn't answer or even look at my messages.. Should I act clueless and ask if there's anything wrong between us when we're alone together or if he's sick of me etc.? It's really hard because I love him and know how well we go together because we like all the same things but he just doesn't seem to realise it and it breaks my heart because I know how well we could be together. I help him with everything I can to try and get him on my side but he just thanks me and doesn't try to do anything else. If he would answer me, I would ask him to go to the park or something on a nice day and just tell him that I think I like him but I think that'll ruin any chances I have of being a friend with him. I've like him and gotten over him 3 times and everytime I fall back in love with him, it's stronger and the urges get worse and the come-downs are terrible from it. Should I tell him? How can I get him? Someone with a little more experience please help!

gay is a lie 2 years ago

I was going to use these steps but now after when I saw this comment from gay is a lie but now I am stping bieng gay I am never going there again the lord will punish you for this I will stop now In the name of jesus in the holy fathers name may. You all stop bieng gay it ia adultry and the bible saya do not commite adultry with other men and you shall be punished

Gay Christian 2 years ago

I'm a Christian and gay. No apparent horns have grown and the vicar isn't going into cardiac arrest at my touch so it can't be that bad. Keep it in church Gay Is A Lie but actually, keep it to yourself you homophobic pig, God is the only judge, not two-bit little bible bashers. Willy-Wonka, do whatever you think will work, if you've got the feeling that you need to tell him, get him on his own and make sure you're both fully comfortable before you tell him because he may be a little bit freaked out if you sit down and you instantly tell him you "lust his crotch" or something lol. If you can't tell him, hint at him and say "I'm going to have to keep my distance from you for a while, I'm a little bit confused at the moment." If you want to still bother with him and talking to him on Facebook, ask him if there's a problem between the pair of you and that way you can tell if your fiend did actually say something

jake 2 years ago

Hi guys, i am a 15 years old bi.

I like girls for romance but guys for sex, i feel awkward imagining girls in sex coz my friends wc are girls are inocent and clean minded...

I think these steps might work because it is slow and steady...

jake 2 years ago

Hi guys, its me again, I have 4 male classmates and one male teacher that knows my secret being bi and one of my classmates is my type(he is one of the four) and he is avoiding my chats in fb but in real life, he acts as if he wants to get sucked in a shy nervous way... But only my other classmate told me this... So i want to lay in bed with him at my young age... Even if his uncle is the male teacher... I asked all of them in fb if they would like to be sucked but their replies were "you're such a whore but I like it", the other "depends", the other "no comment", the teacher "im busy maybe next time", and my type "sure, how about tomorrow"

I was in complete shock but seconds later, he chatted "joke"

But we had a deal that next camping, I will suck all their cocks...

excited cant wait

michael 2 years ago

I had a friend of mine which is now my boyfriend was completely hot and cute.

one day, while we were walking along the side walk with john(cousin,also gay), john saw

Mark 2 years ago

I have a straight guy friend and we're actually close. He sometimes comes to my house to drink or smoke up. I really thought of having sex with him out of curiosity. He's a triathlete and I think he's hot. I just don't have the courage to ask him before but when I read this article, I think it's a push this time. The problem is I think he's starting to fall for me. We hang out a lot more than he goes out with his girlfriend. 7 days a week we would usually be together. I think I like him but I can't imagine falling for him too without more positive signs that he likes me too.

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jonnycomelately 24 months ago from Tasmania

Wow, this has been such a hugely successful Hub. Well done, jamadeus!

I am in a similar situation, since I see so many awesome straight guys around. Usually afraid to open the subject with them, but just occasionally I score something like a full body massage with them. They like my touch, too!

Gian 24 months ago

Hi.. its me again... it happened 3 times again after my last post on this thread.. I think he wants to suck me too.. cause while I was sucking him he played with my c*ck too.. and we were not drunk during that time... I also think that he wants me to f*ck him... cause I tried to prod my hard d*ck on his back and he did not stop me.. I want to talk to him about what he really wants... but whenever I try he just ignores me..

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jonnycomelately 24 months ago from Tasmania

Gian, what you are writing here is just not appropriate for public discussion here.

There are ways of discussion this subject while keeping it reasonable and acceptable.

This is only my opinion, others might differ of course.

Gian 23 months ago

Im sorry if I've written too much info.. I was just too confused of what is happening with me and my friend.. thanks for your opinion..

Viruss 23 months ago

Hello. I'm bi 20 from Ph.

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jonnycomelately 23 months ago from Tasmania

Hi Viruss. Have you had good experiences that are worth remembering and that left you feeling great? With both guys and gals? Which do you prefer?

james 23 months ago

Hello guys i like two of my best friends and i get hints but iam to scared to follow through plz some one email me and help me 23 months ago

guys iam straight but would like to hook up just once with another straight guy. Email me if anyone is interested

james 23 months ago

Is this a south african page? 23 months ago

Hello guys its me James again haha looking to meet guys who are in the same boat as me and would like to hook up if you know what i mean ;)

PB 23 months ago

I'm straight but if a guy tried this with me he'd have me in bed in no time.

Aaron 23 months ago

Oh yes these are all straight men yeah

Kevin 23 months ago

Yeah I know you gay guys how it works but not like this article so much.

I'm 19 in male college dorms. Broke up with ex GF in Jan after year of sex each day with her so am always horny. I find out being naked some even overheard in bathroom jackin by roommate is gay! He waited until he knew I was totally horny to tell me he wanted to do BJ on me. I thought was joke so said do it then he was coming to me grabbed me in my jeans. I knew then he was gay.

I ended up letting him pull it out then doing that. It did feel good better than jackin so been letting him do that this semester but is only thing that goes on. I know he jacks when he does that or after but I let him do it cause it feels good but I then feel guilty sometimes cause is like what bi sexual might do but am not bi so am total straight.

Gay guys wait until ur horny not getting sex then they use that time to wear you down so not sure about this other stuff it says here cause he didn't take time or a process. He just wanted to BJ when I was horny so he does that now. I know he gets what he wants but I get off so I get what I need for now.

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jonnycomelately 23 months ago from Tasmania

"How to seduce a straight guy?"

"Why, Hulloooo Sweedy!" (Said seductively, you know what I mean, lol!)

But seriously. Kevin, you say you are not gay, or bi... right? That is absolutely fine. I don't question you on that or judge you for it. I am not qualified or entitled to do so. I don't think anyone else is either. YOU, with all your faculties about you, all your inbuilt sense of what is right for you and him, are in control and able to make full judgment of yourself and your actions.

A few questions you can ask your self:

Am I imposing my self on this other guy against his wishes?

Is he trying to impose him self upon me, against MY wishes?

Is everything we are doing together enjoyable? Or do either of us feel dirty, or bad, or guilty about anything we do?

Is it inherently "bad" to have fun and enjoy ourselves?

Is anyone else getting hurt by what we are doing? Is it necessary for us to lie to others about what we are doing? What effect, if any, is our lying to others having upon their lives?

If there is any feeling of guilt, does this in itself have a negative impact upon our lives in relation to others?

You see, regardless of the sexual activity or any fun that ANYONE gets up to, whether it be hetero-, homo-, bi-, trans-, cross-dressing, needs to be addressed in regard to how it affects others.

If the "other" party or parties who might be drawn into the deceit are oblivious to what is going on then they have no control over it. Then every responsibility falls on your shoulders.

It all, in my estimation, falls down upon your own responsibilities and choices. If you give away the judgment for some one else to make, then you can't shoulder the judgment and you must suffer the consequences.

If you take all the responsibility upon yourself and act accordingly, then you will grow in stature as an adult.

Just my personal understanding of your situation...... wishing you well.

jack 23 months ago

I'm 15 years old and I class myself as straight but I am very curious so I think inside I'm bi. I have a close friend and were always messing around with each other but I don't know if its a bromance or more like he always kisses my hand as a joke and he kissed our other mate on the neck once. He's very open like the other day he showed me his shaved pubes but we were In a group of people and I was like let me scratch them for you cause he was complaining they were itchy and he let me scratch them ( over his jeans as a joke) and the other day he said he think me might be bisexual in a group of people and I was like really? And he was like no I'm only joking , whenever we see each other we hug and sometimes he'd like rub his head against mine but again I don't know if its just bromance, I really want to make out with him if I got him alone but I'm scared if he'll do it or not. Can anyone help on my situation do you think he's bi?

nickf 23 months ago

Hi Jack,

The only way you will know is if you take it another step forward.He might be a virgin.That would be good.Some guys come over as all 'rugged' but in an instant you know whether they are a taker or giver.

As to you being 'scared',what can he do? Punch you? 'Out' you? Maybe fuck you? It's all O.K..It doesn't matter,you are you.

I just found out a guy I had an enormous crush on and I thought was as straight as the day is long,has a boyfriend.


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jack67 23 months ago

Okay thank you I suppose the worst that could happen is that he doesn't want to do it!

TJ 22 months ago

Funny!!! I'm straight (I'm really just human), and I don't know how to hook up with another man. Feel awkward. Just a guy that wants try something I haven't experience. Call it whatever you like. I hate labels. I'm attracted to things that catch my eye... Straight or gay. Why not share a good time... Seduce me!!!

Jerker 22 months ago

I'm so felt so scared when i try that!Im straight but curious.

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xyoey123 22 months ago

I am 49 yrs old Bi/Gay man. I know this really sexy good looking muscular young guy who is 22. I meet him at the gym regularly & he is straight. He likes to talk to me about regular stuff , sometimes his school problems. I give him advice. I really want to have sex with him. I think he knows I'm gay.Should I make a move? I am conflicted, he is so cute and innocent!

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jonnycomelately 22 months ago from Tasmania

@ xyoey123 What you are feeling is Lust. Lust usually has no concern for the welfare of the other person. It is selfish, period.

You sort out your own desires.... they are your total responsibility.

If you are really responsible, you will first and foremost consider what is best for that young man. You might question him on what are his real and immediate needs in life. You could ask him about his hopes, his ambitions, how things are going for him. Seek to help in that way, and put your own lust aside at least until you have served his needs before your own.

I am not saying "don't desire." Desire is a normal and natural emotion for most humans, as it is for all the other animal species of this world.

But as humans, we are gifted with brains with which to understand and to modify our basic instincts. Considering the needs of others before our own is what makes our society "civilised."

Stand up and be a man who can be respected.

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jonnycomelately 22 months ago from Tasmania

PS: this is only my opinion of course, a bit old fashioned you might think, and you are free to throw it out if you please. But sometimes I need to speak my truth.

Wishing you well.

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xyoey123 22 months ago

You're right about lust!

I lust for him all the time. I want to feel his gorgeous body but I have never touched him.

Although my desire is physical, I think I love him emotionally too!

But we have a different kind of bond

I am much older to be his friend

He respects me and asks me for advice and I love to help him out

Which is why I am so conflicted- It would break our bond

But I really want him- Should I tell him the truth?

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jonnycomelately 22 months ago from Tasmania

xyoey123, I fully understand where you are coming from, and warm to that emotion. I know those feelings so, so well!

It's all good man. You sound like you have your head and your heart in the right place.

If that truth you speak of is coming from your heart, then you will know the right moment to tell him all of this.... if it really is right to.

I would say, "if I were you...." but that would be sermonising you, and inappropriate.

So, sum up for yourself all that you feel, all that you think he needs from you, then maybe --- ask him. Ask him if he's got any feelings that are confusing him. Does he feel totally hetero? Does he like a bit of fun with a guy? How does he feel about you? You are going to have to work it out using your best instincts. I know what you are probably feeling; will these questions send him packing, and cause the friendship between you to break? From what you have said, I doubt it -- but hell! It's hard one!

Again.... wishing you well.

alex 22 months ago

i am 14 bi.i likes this guy.he has sexy body.i used to always looked him,and he day,after school assemble,i am heading to my class,and i then i bump him,he doesn't say anything but just walk away,can anyone tell me what's going on?i am really confused

Alex 21 months ago

Yes, i agree. How do seduce this guy whos tough loves women but still a virgin. Like he tough. Dumb lol, adventourus, and etc

Kelly 21 months ago

Why do gay men think they can seduce a straight guy but freak out if a woman tries to seduce them .maybe your afraid you might like it. No because your gay gay gay .like I'm straight straight straight it's all I think about women 24 /7 just find a gay man who you care about and be happy

him 21 months ago

hi guys ..... i'm 16 and i like this guy he is super cute. he would be 23 he lives across the street there would be hardly 30 m dis. btw r houses . he watches me all day he look at me all day he can't stay without looking for me but we have never talked . once bcoz of some circumstances we were so close , close enough that if any of us would have moved we would have kissed but i dont know wht struck my mind and i pushed him away but even after that he was looking at me eith so much love. he can:t stand any other male of his age touch me coz once my tutor just put his hand on my waist je got so angry and as fast as i came back my home he had a dispute with him i don't know the reason and his younger brother also watches me he is 20 or 21 maybe and once when i went there home he was alone and he kissed me on my neck and was trying to take my clothes off but all of a sudden there bell rang and i came back i don't what's going on there mind but i know what's on my mind . i want to have sex with the elder one . pls suggest me smthng .

Anonymous 19 months ago

As a straight, I’ve had many gay friends in the past, and the reason I don’t anymore is because of the blatant hypocrisy of the gay community. The community as a whole plays being gay off as a biological thing that no one can choose, and yet, gays in general try to continually play with the idea that being gay or straight is really a sliding scale, or guess what, a choice. Which contradicts your entire premise about being born gay.

Worse, you want others to respect your lifestyle; however, you constantly disrespect others. That is, you don’t or won’t respect the fact that open-minded people who are willing to be tolerant and/or be your friends don’t want to be converted. Nevertheless, you constantly go after straights rather than only picking up people in your community with excuses such as our community’s too small. As if it would be acceptable for a straight guy to try and convert a goldstar lesbian.

The most disgusting part, articles like this and the rest of them on the Internet unashamedly espouse the idea of ignoring your friends’ right to choose and simply raping them instead. I.e. just get him alone and drunk enough to where he’s about to pass out and viola; you can take advantage of him. Or spike his drink and viola. Or hug him until he gets used to you touching him, get him alone, talk about sex, maybe show him some straight porn, make sure to drink A LOT, and when he’s drunk, horny, and about to pass out, pounce on him.

Needless to say, by any legal definition, you all are committing predatory sex crimes and should look at what you’re doing. Still, it seems like this is spun to be a positive in the gay community. Because, after all, you’re simply giving him your gift. Men are always looking for sex, so it’s okay, or he’s so deeply in the closet, you’re only helping him see what he really is. (Like that’s your decision to decide what’s best for another person. But hey, however you can rationalize your predilections.) It’s freaking disgusting that you want others to be respectful of your lifestyle choices, but you can’t and won’t do the same for others.

You wonder why straight people have a fear of gay men, but with articles like this, it’s no wonder straight men are suspicious of you, especially with the way you try to shame others into accepting you rather than being upfront about what you want. That is, you don’t have the balls to say I’m interested in you. Instead, you try to groom and take advantage of people. Plus, if someone says, I’m not gay or interested. The retort is, geez, not all gay men are attracted to you. Just because we’re gay doesn’t mean we’re trying to check you out. Yet, by the very nature of being gay, it means you’re attracted to men and want to see them naked. The hypocrisy and deviance of the community are truly nauseating.

And before you give me this shite about it not being all gays, you’re ALL on a board about trying to get with your straight friends with tons of comments. So, it may not be all gays but enough to make what I’m saying true.

Pieter 19 months ago

My friend is straight. we had 5 awesome play dates. then he changed completely. 5 months later same thing. he admitted he was bi. told me he loved me. then he stopped being my close best friend but just a friend (more like acquaintance), got aggravated for no reason, keeping his distance, making excuses and not showing any form of caring for me in any way. when we drive some where he will say something like, "I wish you had breasts or I love you bro. I am open with him lately and following these rules. he will still get me to do anything to please him as long as sex is not involved. but his body language shows something else. am I stupid to love him or is there someone with advice on handling this.

Anonymous 19 months ago

Pieter, you're not in love, you're in lust. Besides, there are a lot of things that could be causing your friend to act the way he is. Regardless, it's not your problem. Stop wasting your time with someone who's not going to reciprocate your feelings, and go find someone who will.

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jonnycomelately 19 months ago from Tasmania

Anonymous, you are correct to differential between love and lust....but I don't feel we need to denigrate "Lust." It is just one part of our natural biological makeup, one of the factors that may lead to pairing.

However, to give Lust freedom to control and direct our lives is not a helpful or happy thing. It can lead to all manner of disappointments.

Better to hold a few good principles in you life that give you sound advice and deter you from making a fool of yourself.

One principle that you might be happy to hold for your life: it takes two persons to give full consent for anything sexual and intimate. If either partner feels against it, for what ever reason, it just is not worth the energy and bother to force a sexual relationship without the other person's full consent and agreement. You might easily end up hating yourself and the other person.

Ejjj 19 months ago

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Spiffycool 19 months ago

I have a straight friend. That is what he said, he is twin and his twin brother is gay. He know that I am BI. One night we where together and I ask him if it is ok if I just cuddle with him. He said no, and will keep his now. We talked about sex before and we are still the same as before. But I still want to try it again but in a different way. Any idea beside the options above?

Vian 18 months ago

Hey,i'm a teen and i'm kinda hot and popular.i've always done girls and never was interested in boys. Then this new boy who just transfered into my school and class. I do lyk him and i've tried dropping hints but he always tries to ignored them and i can see clearly that he is pretending and thats its hurting him. I'm so sure he is 100% gay, but i'm just confused. He loves hugging me and holding my hands but i'm nt sure what he wants. Pls help me? What do i do????

Ryan 18 months ago

And all this time i thought being gay wasnt a choice

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jonnycomelately 18 months ago from Tasmania

This might sound old-fashioned but I say this to all of you.

Stop playing around with sex at your very young stage of life. Get on with learning to live amongst your mates and friends without viewing them according to whether they are hot or not.

You have young life, young brains, lots of energy. You want and need lots of fun.

Learn the basics of life, how to mix with and respect other people.

Learn to look after your self.

Learn to cook your self a good healthy and nourishing meal.

Learn to write and speak well in your native language so you can express yourself well and communicate your desires and feelings.

Learn basic arithmetic so you can defend your pocket against those who want to cheat you.

All these things you need to learn before you are 18 years old.

After that you will find a lot more joy in having a beautiful friendship and really sharing love with the girl or guy that you gel with.

This is not saying you are bad for thinking as you do now. Just saying there is much more for you to experience in your life if you want it.

But if you DO want it you will need some good sense and control of yourself. No one else can do that for you.

From an old man that cares.

Joe 18 months ago

Ive always wanted tovexperiment with my. Best friend , evan though we are both straight , i had no idea he felt the same way but once when we went camping he started touching my penis , so i just smiled then i dtarted doing it back as ivdidnt want him being left out , then he started rubbing it harder and harder till i was hard thes un did my jeans , and started tossing me off , after i took his jeans of but i wanted tovmake him feel good so i tossd hum of a little bit then started giving him a blow lob , i was hoping he was going to do it back and he did , it felt amazing , i felt like i had to do something so i asked him if he wanted another blowjob but he interupted me by bending me over , i felt awkward at first like it was going to hurt but it felt amazing socafter i did it back he loved it and now we are together and he is tuching my penis now :)

rob frost 18 months ago

I was seduced by my gay acquaintance. He was always really forward at the bar, annoyingly so, but he gave the best shoulder rubs. After the shoulder rub we would have a smoke and talk, found out we were both musicians and had some stuff in common, so I figures he was harmless enough, I went to a party with him once and it was chill nothing weird, just solidified a comfortable bond, then after that he'd invite me over to drink and watch porn, I love drinkin but not watching porn with gay guys so I kindly declined. But he got in my head, I gave it some real thought over a few weeks and then I was drunk at home really horny and couldn't get a girl over so I invited him over for drinks and head, he was there in 3 minutes we drank and talked and finally he pulled out my cock and started sucking it. It was really hard I had to give him directions to suck it easier. He whipped out his cock and started jerking it, I took it out of his hands and jerked him as he was sucking me, before I came, I pushed him back and sucked on his cock it was almost too big for my mouth, couple of minutes and he wanted to continue sucking me off, he swallowed my load it was one of the best bjs I've ever had. I hadn't had a guys cock in my mouth or guys mouth on my cock since grade school. I missed it. I now have a fantasy of a guy in my ass and I guy I my mouth like I'm some kinda spit roast. Dont tell my wife.

kyo 17 months ago

hahaha, funny. me, i did try to seduce a man. sometimes it works, but sometimes it doesnt work. what i did to a man that i like is ask him any questions. talk to to him and invite him into swimming.

afterall, they invited me to go to some bar and have some drinks. then i got drunk then he takes advantages of me. he is like saying something in my ear to the fact that i dont understands his words. next thing i knew, he's kissing me already in my neck and ear and that brought me into wildness.

Anonymous 17 months ago

I need this guy Anthony to like me I think he is straight but he is exactly like me I like football but wouldn't prefer it and I've been dreaming about him over and over non stop I just want him to fuck me or at least kiss me can I get some straight guy to let me know how to grab him and get him with me but he's like way out of my league I'm short and he is like a whole foot taller than me and he is SO hot like every time he looks at me I cum a lil but he doesn't seem in to me but I just want one night with him can some one help me

Kelli 15 months ago

This really does sound predatory. Does anyone here see that this could be used to denigrate the gay community? The person is straight. What part of straight do you not get? It sounds like rape steps.

anonimatovato 15 months ago

Kelli, I totally agree. As a gay man, why would I want to risk a beat down from a so-called 'straight' man?, when I can have any available gay man, like seriously! If you're so into the 'masculine' men, there are those 'straight-acting' types.

This article is garbage and I don't think this is what the gay movement fought so hard for to get a 'piece of 'straight' ass'!

valkyrie 15 months ago

jonnycomelately, will u just shut up & stop interfereing & giving unnecessory advice to other people? mind u'r own business & this kind of behavior is totally repulsive!

goodbye, wishing u luck!

valkyrie 15 months ago

am sry dude , no hard feelings

Scott 14 months ago

I noticed another article on this page entitled "How to pick up straight men at the Gym." Interestingly, yet another article on this page is titled "Why do straight men feel awkward around gay men?" I have no clue.

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superkan 13 months ago

Well, there was this friend of mine who i had a crush on in junior high. Actually i would say that it was his fault that the crush developed because i quiet remember that about two weeks or more after i was transfered there, he became close to me telling me that if i had been a girl, he sure would have made a move on me. He always liked to treat me like a girl, always kind and making moves on me and also playing make-out games in class with me(that was the only place we could possibly see each other). So after we graduated, i finally got the courage to message him on facebook about my feelings for him and his replies were of a total freak out. He was so insisting that i was gay while i tried convincing him that i was a bi. So in the end, i sadly told him that all was a joke and since then he hasn't chat regularly with me. I so got him totally wrong.

Peter PAN 12 months ago

Ok so i have this bestfren wait 1st dont judge how i speak i like to say things differently cuz i like the way it looks and sounds but ok i have this bestfren and we have been bestfrens for about 5 months but everyone at my school knows i am pan but him and we talk everyday on everything he sits next to me everywhere he skips classes with me but i recently told him i liked him while he was walking me home like a ususal day everyone knew i liked him but him but i told him about 3 months ago so i guess not so recently but he said he wasnt gay or bi or pan or any of that but he said it was ok and we could still be frens i was happy we were still frens but i was sad that he wasnt at least bi but he knows i like him and always will, even when i hate him and even when i stop loving him i somehow find myself back in love with him but he uses my love to help him like if he is bout to be beat up by some kids he would use my love to save him and stuff like that but we still do everything together but the other day my other fren dared me to kiss him so i have to do it 2morrow but im scared if he would hit me or kiss me back but i dont know till i do it but i need help with the fighting thing does he really like me or is he just using my love for him and same with gian i think it was, the more im away from him the urges become worse and i dream about him even more and when i c**, lots and lots come out each time i do it and think about him. But yeah if u can help txt me on kik:sleep..tight or txt me on my other kik:jack_skelton

Tony 12 months ago

I had 2 very good Frieds and they are brothers l One of them has been my best friend for over a year now. The thing is that I have a crush on both of them lol yeah but more into my best fiend. We drink, we go to each other houses. We used to work together and we would do everything together. He's married with 3 kids. We talk about sex buy I'm Too afraid that if I say something about wanting to have sex with him I will loss his friendship. With his bother we also talk about sex and we had talked about getting a girl to have a 3 sum but the last time I talked to him about he wasn't sure about it. I really want to do the 3 some. And also I would die to have my best friend cock lol I'm just all confused.. HELP LOL

Some Teenager 11 months ago

I'm just a bi teenager (my preference is guys) who has a crush on a really cute guy, who identifies as straight. He's only in one of my electives. One of my female acquaintances has a crush on him. They talk very frequently and I'm pretty sure he likes her back. Everytime I'm actually in class, he looks at me. When I look back; catching him staring, he winks and gives me a really cute smile. I don't even crave sex at this point… a simple make out session would suffice. But today in class, we were getting ready to leave, and he came behind me and hugged me from the back. He's very playful and I love it. He held me in the air for a second and put me down. I turned around and there he was. Standing at about 8 inches taller than I am. He looked down and smiled. He simply breathed and grabbed me by my waist. I'm pretty sure he signaled for me to put my arms around his neck. So I did! He just hugged me. He treats me the same way he would treat a girl… maybe due to my very very very apparent femininity. I blushed so much, bit my lip, and simply walked away. I was hoping for something more, but I'm pretty satisfied. I really like him, and personally, I care not for my acquaintance's feelings for him. I'm pretty sure our crush is conflicted with the both of us. This isn't the first time something like this sparked up between my crush and I. We were playing truth or dare with a small gathering of friends, and apparently him and I were extremely playful with eachother (according to my best friend) I even stole his hoodie, and he didn't care. But basically, he was dared by the entire group to peck my lips. He conveniently told me days before that he would like to kiss my lips. So he did kiss me, it lasted like 3 seconds and honestly it was the best. He identifies as straight, but I think it's safe to assume that he's not. Or maybe he thinks me feminine enough to be classified as a girl? I don't know.

jamadeus 11 months ago

to be honest with ya; some teenager, you should just continue the playfulness. next time you guys gather or you two are alone, try kissing him. if he doesn't hesitate and kisses back, then keep it going. your desire of a make out session should happen. be warned, this could be dangerous. but seeing as though he already kissed you willingly and has told you he wanted to kiss you, you should be fine. hell, maybe you can even get a little bit more action if you're up for it ;). respond once you've done this! thanks.

Some Teenager 10 months ago

It's been a while. Anyway, so last week… something happened. My friend Stella was throwing a party. It wasn't a typical high school rager. Nothing too much, just a pretty big group of friends. So both my crush and I were invited. And basically I didn't have to make any moves. So basically we were in a hallway together, and he pushed me against a wall and started making out with me. I liked it, but it was just so random that I hesitated and said 'wyd…' . Then we sat down on a pretty nice couch (shoutout to Stella's furniture

Kevin Son 9 months ago

I am a gay/Bi And everytime i saw my dad drunk i want him to play with me . I am touching his body while he is drunk and sleep and i am afraid to make move on him he is my real daddy but why i feel this i reallt want him can you help me what to do?

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brimancandy 9 months ago from Northern Michigan

Kevin Son. If this person is your dad, that would be considered a big no no. I would leave him alone, he may be drunk when you approach him, but if he is sober enough to know what you are doing, you might really piss him off, and he may never forgive you. Or worse.

Kevin son . 9 months ago

Yeah i know thats why i always try to stop my desire on him. I know its a big big mistake to do that but believe me everytime i see him i want to suck . And i dont know how to control things like this

Me 9 months ago

I have a 'friend' who I told 'I love you'. He gave me thirty minutes of 'all the reasons it won't work, including he's straight'...followed by...'you're right about one thing, I 'do' love you'... We've been together ever since...

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Sister Twisted 9 months ago

Or you could respect their right to identify as straight and stop sexuially harassing them. Imagine the same article replacing "straight man/gay man" with "lesbian/straight man"? This is bullshit and offensive. Grow up.

ElI 9 months ago

I don't know what if I mess this up for us I've trusted him since second grade I look up to him as a brother and I might mess this up where he'll not be my frien EVER

Blue Eyed 9 months ago

Attracting a straight guy for a gay guy can be little challenging.But once he`s able to do this,it can be very rewarding! Straight guys are delicious! Believe me,if a guy is very beautiful than a straight guy can`t resist him.I`ve seen it.All you need is little confidence and a charming smile.

Bennet 9 months ago

I love my bestie sooooooooo much. He is a very active person, always in a group of guys or flirting with girls. On the surface, one would think that he's purely straight. But, I know more. We stay in a dorm, and he's in my room. We are very closely related and other people teasingly call us a married couple. He takes it as a joke. Well, I surely don't. To be honest with you, very few guys in my area are gay. That makes it harder. I know that I'm his bestie too, but, when we chat and I try to slowly talk him into being gay. Well, he just leaves the topic and makes a good diversion. OMG, he's really hot. I'm thinking of him right now.

Well, I think I have a good stepping stone because I've slept with him on the same hostel bed a few times. Recently, he's been doing stuff like throwing his leg over me at night when no one's watching or keeping his hand on my butt. At such times, I get really hard that I think I'm gonna cum. LOL. I really love him but he goes back to his normal straight life the next morning. I must win him. I'd love a permanent relationship. Please, I need help. Contact me:

mystic falls 8 months ago

Hi.. im bi 26 i have had a friend he's married and i seduce him almost every night i want to make love with him but he never want it. I tried to be aggresive like to touch his body his chest he alow me but he doesnt want me to touch his penis. I ask him to make love and suck his penis but i failed. Help me i love him so much.

flawless 8 months ago

I like this dude at work and I been with straight men before, but he make me nerves

Swaggy 8 months ago

I am bi, and i have a friend who i want to have fun with, i am planning on asking him to a sleepover then having fun but i need help on the exact words of what to say can someone help me p.s he is straight??

Carl 8 months ago

Hi some teenager, but what is it that you really want with him: relationship or a hit and run romance? To be frank, there are many of us who dream of such an event happening, and, as they say, Opportunity comes but once. So i'll say if you are considering for a relationship, then, you better start taking steps to ensuring that before you lose even this. (Since he identifies as straight)

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Lukey1157 8 months ago

Hi i am bi and i have a friend who is straight. Sometime i joke around by saying me and him are gonna go to bed together and shag and he says yes but as a joke. Although when we were in a cafe we went to the toilet and we were peeing in the urinals i did catch him looking at my penis. I am gonna ask him to come for a sleepover, and i want us to do dirty things like have sex and things but i dont know how to ask him can someone give me there email or skype and then we can chat about what i say to him please help.

Carl 8 months ago

Hi Lukey1157, the fact that he was looking at your penis doesn't necessarily mean that he wants it. Trust me, I have been in boarding school and the boys most at times pretty much do that; maybe checking to see who has the larger one but to be sure if he is really into it, then you should rather observe him for a while before you conclude on doing this. Try checking if you are the only one whose penis he's always looking at. Good luck.

Bennet 8 months ago

Carl, in your previous message (before the response to Lukey1157), were you referring to me?

Lukey1157 7 months ago

Hi carl thanks can you help me what i should say to him at the sleepover cause i hope to ask him

michael 7 months ago

I keep trying these steps but the only guys I'm seducing r the wrong ones :(

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Lukey1157 7 months ago

Hi carl thanks i will invite him round soon but i need to know what to say can you help me

Bennet 7 months ago

Carl, thank you sooooooo very much. I have a boyfriend! He said it's cool with having me touch him at night and he even said that he loves me! Aaaaahhh! But, we both still identify as straight. B-)

jay 6 months ago

Hi ave read yur ideas and am impressed lookin forward to more

Haris 6 months ago

I actually have a straight friend and i had done all of the things i wanted to do with him.

Bryce 6 months ago

Bryce Dan I'm ready

gaysince90 6 months ago

im gay, a girl tried the same with me, it was about to work, but im so gay...

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Homer the Great 6 months ago

I am a straight bloke who wants to be chatted to by a gay bloke who might flirt with me..I do not register any signs or subtle references thus... aaarrgghh! Help..

mjd 5 months ago

I have a straight friend,and he keep on touching me like he likes me , but I don't knw that he's interested in me, am scared that if I start to make a move he'll tell everyone that am gay

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FBobbyF 5 months ago from Buffalo, NY

I'm straight but I have a fantasy of being with a man. Not just sexually. Like going away for a weekend together and being in public holding hands, kissing, etc. I guess it's more than a fantasy. I would actually do it with the right guy.

Albert 5 months ago

I'm bi, but I love this guy emotionally, not sexually, ever since we became friends, I started to have gay feelings for him, cause this is the first time I ever had emotional feelings for a male. idk if he is straight or gay. But he is Catholic and I'm scared his parents will disapproved if this will work out (after I use your steps).Please kindly answer this

Reggie 5 months ago

I'm gay but I'm my friend is straight but he doesn't know im gay.we share the same room..his not agaist gays

We joke sometime that i love to suck or want to sleep in your bed he only laugh..i like him alot..i afraid that if i start doing something i might lose a friend or he will keep a distance with me.what shkuld i do..i feel like he likes guys also

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YYZ 2112 4 months ago

Mine was bittersweet.. For over a year I befriended my straight crush and we always joked around about doing each other. One night after lots of drinking, he asked if I would spit or swallow - I drunkenly admitted that I would swallow for him but no one else, and he said that turned him on. Sure enough, we slept together twice, but when I tried the third time he said he didn't feel right because he was straight and he blamed it on the alcohol (even though he told me it was the best sex he ever had) We never hung out again. I really miss him - not just cuz he was super hot, but he really was a good friend.

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YYZ 2112 4 months ago

You should add "giving massages" to the list. I usually start with a compliment like "damn, I wish I had shoulders like yours" then rub shoulder/neck massage until he rolls his head around and starts moaning. If a man lets you rub on his body for more than a couple seconds, he wants you to. You'll know immediately if he pulls away, just stop - then you can just apologize and act straight. After swimming is the best. (because your almost naked and always have lotion!) When he's laying face down on a towel or lawn chair I give a back rub then work on back of legs up to his butt. When you get that far, most guys take off their trunks at that point. He will turn around on his back with a raging hard on that he's dying to have massaged by hand or mouth!!

Swami 4 months ago

I liked this article very much

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Daishaun Barnes 4 months ago from Springfield

Guys! I need help on this one.

I am gay and I'm 15. I would like to experience or seduce a straight guy but I am too scared of what could happen.

There are tons of teens my age and teens that are older that I found extremely attracted to and they are straight.

I just don't know where to start because normally no one doesn't talk to me and I've been going through a lot of depression for the longest time and I've been wanting to try it out without having any frustration.

Naz 4 months ago

OMG! I can relate to this so much. Im 14 but in love with this straight guy at my church Chris. He is so cute! But 1st problem he is straight, I've already confessed my love for him in a text but he was super surprised and totally oblivious. Before I did so I had been dropping hints. But my bestie is a girl named Nai, and she used to like him too but claims she's over him but I'm trying to set them up. 2nd problem is he is the pastor's son, 3rd problem this b**** Kiki likes him everyone knows it. 4th problem my parents are SUPER Christians, and think a demon is inside of me. Nai said she was sure he was gay and that I still had a chance with him, but Ive fantasied about him all the time and we have so much in common, he's super sexy and way out of my league but every time I think I'm over him I come crawling back. Even when I do jack off I cum a lot because of him, and I write fanfics because of him (not published, working on it). I need serious help. The rumors about me are spreading like wildfire and Kiki is out to get me and Nai for being friends. I don't know what to do and I'm at the point where I wanna suck him at like a sleepover or a lock in. I just can't work up the courage. Someone help, without him I'm going insane!!!!

Panda 4 months ago

I have this friend that I've had a crush on,and I was wondering if the steps would work cause today I asked if he was gay and he just playfully pushed me away, if these steps don't work can some recommend something My Kik is deme50

p.s. looking for love

Jeans 3 months ago

What is the easiest way to separate a guy from his "pack"?

Bruu 3 months ago

Arggh, I have a crush on my best friend and he is always flirting with me but it seems like a joke. My friends think he is Bi I really don't know

YYH 221 2 months ago

Same!!! I sit next to my best friend crush in school. I've tried dropping hints here and there but I don't think he got them. He keeps flirting with me but his friends tell me he is straight.

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Daishaun Barnes 2 months ago from Springfield

There is someone I would like to get to know at my school, problem is...I'm terrified that something might go wrong! I don't want to freak him out because I've made terrible mistakes with a lot of people. I'm willing to try but I don't know if it'll work.

Okay, so a lot of people don't know that I'm attracted to chubby guys and he's one of them. He's not that big but he's chunky. I'll admit that I'll adore chubby guys. We don't know each other but he seems like a pretty chill dude. Well I mean we've never talk. He does look like a senior though, he might be but still. He's right next to my locker & he has B Lunch with me. He sits with a group of people that's near to my area where I eat with a group of people I hang out with. I do know that he has a girlfriend because she sits right next to him everyday. I don't feel jealous but sometimes I do wish he was my boyfriend but getting into a relationship with a straight guy won't rely on that realm. It doesn't work out like that. It's impossible for me to be in a relationship with him but it is possible that I can try to seduce him. Flirting with a straight guy is something that everyone should never do. I don't want to make things weird where I'm just like trying to figure out ways where I can have a straight guy to have sex with me. I'm not in love with every man that's in this world. Sometimes I can't help myself by looking at him. Again i'm only attracted to chubby guys and he has a chunky body which is something I want. When I do think about him, all I can ever think about is laying him down and maybe rubbing his body. I read in one of the article about seducing straight guys that says all men likes blow-jobs so I would like to offer him a blow-job. That is if I got to get to know him. But what if he thinks that I'm nothing but a lame. I don't want him to think that because I have better experiences with communication and socializing with society but I do make mistakes when it comes to meeting new people. Not going to lie about that and sometimes I do meet the wrong people. I've never tried seducing a straight guy. My questions are will he accept it if I did gave him a blow-job?

Jfer Sabe 2 months ago

Sorry if my eng is not that good, its not my main language, im naturally Colombian.

I need an advice: There is a super good looking guy, he's 19 and i'm 17.

He is straight, and he knows i'm gay, we usually play gay jokes, even if we dont talk that often/ we're not that close and that stuff but we end it up with he saying that he's straight, and me saying that he's not my type... Anyways: He invited me to go 2 his spring house/vacations house, idk how to say that in english, sorry.. btw: to be with him, like you know go 2 the river, play some music, drink some liquor, but like i said, we're not that close, so ¿why me? he and me, alone... we went to a party months ago and i was like drunk and i tried to kiss him, i mean that definitely sounds like he wants something else right? I NEED TIPS, OR ADVICES, I DESPERATELY WANNA GET LAID ( BY HIM ) i have seen his boner before, i touched it accidentally 'cause it's so big, it looked like a plastic bottle then i tought it was and i just grab it, i felt BAD jaja anyways i really want him, any advice about clothing, corporal expression, topics, WITCHCRAFT CHEMISTRY ANYTHING! Jokes jokes, but, really, any advice?

Kyle 5 weeks ago

The poll indicates more have not even tried, than those who did or who failed at doing so.....Just try ;)

AN 4 weeks ago

I wish a sexy guy would seduce me!

Jamo 2 weeks ago

I always get someone on the dating website but I wish I could seduce a guy in for real without going on a website, but I don't think I can't do that in a country that will lock u up for 14 years, a country like mine.

Russell 2 weeks ago

I have tried so many times to get seduduced and have tried to seduce guys with no luck.

I so want play but can't find guys to play.

I am married 50y/old very fit and a fun guy.

I mix with a lot of guys and want suck and be sucked.

I am considered good looking.

What can I do to be seduced or seduce?

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