the meaning of dating
The Art of Dating
Getting to know you, getting to know all about you.
When you want to get to know someone you are willing to do more than just go to dinner and a movie.
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When you find someone who intrigues your mind and steals your heart you want to know all about them. You seek to know beyond their presentation and you wonder about their childhood, their dreams, their goals in life and how they view relationships. This is not about an interview but asking why or really to have someone further explain their reasoning.
It’s about wanting to spend time doing nothing in the presence of the person who captures your attention. It is not about rushing intimacy or creating some instant relationship with a stranger you really don’t know; it’s about something so much more. Mind, body, and spirit connection which creates an amazing bond between two people with mutual interests. When two parties give neither party looses.
Dating is about getting to know each other. It is a practice beyond the exchange of words but exchange of thought. Dating is the art of learning about a person.
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