Words can Hurt or Heal... What did yours do Today?

Words can deform the world

We develop social attitudes as we age by years, which strongly influence our behaviour. We internalize the attitudes of the society around us by making the attitudes our own.

Due to the fast life routine, self-governing and our busy schedules, we limited our selves, paying less attention to our social skills influencing people to lose the value of words, although words are the start of everything …. Love and friendship start with a word... Fights and wars starts with a word

We use words daily to communicate and interact, it shows;The average woman uses 7,000 words a day and five tones of speech; also the average man uses 2,000 words and three tones.

yeah it is a fact; women talk more than men but as a matter of me being a woman I will defined that as we don’t talk much other than we just communicate better...However we should think before we talk and use our 7000 words or those 2000 for men carefully cause as there are words that will never be forgotten.

Change your words... Change your life

When you tell a person you appreciate the effort or how beautiful they are… applying those positive words will reflect positively on that person.

On the other hand when you tell a person you are good for nothing or you are not worth it…applying those negative words gain you nothing but making a gloomy person.

In both cases your word will be remembered altough in the second case your words will not be remembered in a way that you would like.

Adding more positive words in our dictionary and thinking before we speak, will surely help in improving our life because words can do magic to people it can give you what ever you wish for.

By words you can have your dream job, a lovely family, a good friend besides for sure it will make you a heart winner. Treat yourself and others to something special. Do your plans on how you're going to spend your life while thinking only of yourself as you're always there for others on every other day.

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Petrules 5 years ago

loved it :)

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Nell Rose 5 years ago from England

Hi, you are so right! words can be very hurtful and can be remembered for years, being positive to someone can make all the difference, well said!

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sam-eg 5 years ago from Happy Land Author

hi, thx for your nice comment, also your right Nell hurtful words will be remembered for years, were that exactly why we should choose our words carefully

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epigramman 5 years ago

...you speak like a writer and think like a philosopher and your communication skills are of the highest value and merit - we can learn from you and your wise profound ways - thank you for the insight and the world class effort you have put into this hub subject.

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sam-eg 5 years ago from Happy Land Author

Thx epi for this encouraging and thoughtful comment, your words are exactly the positive words I was talking about in my hub , so thx again for giving a brilliant example for what i wanted to say.

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Ann Marie Dwyer 5 years ago from South Carolina, USA

I have long held a solitary communication rule: Specificity is the rule. While I write far more than 7,000 words in a day, outside my classroom I may use 500. Certainly, it cannot be said I have nothing to say, rather I choose what I do say to be concise and specific. And when all I have to say is critical, I choose nothing at all.


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sam-eg 5 years ago from Happy Land Author

Hi, Ann thx for giving a very good example for the MSG in my hub that was a very nice comment :)

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stars439 5 years ago from Louisiana, The Magnolia and Pelican State.

Words can cause more than pain depending on what they are. Great hub. God Bless You.

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sam-eg 5 years ago from Happy Land Author

Thank you so much Stars 439 for your time to read my hub and your nice comment

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sunkentreasure 5 years ago from RUIMSIG, SOUTH AFRICA


Bless someone today with words of kindness

Do something nice for a friend

Sow seeds of encouragement into a stranger's heart

Tell your loved ones you greatly adore them

Make someone's day precious and beautiful

Give God praise for His greatness

Strengthen your companion with fruits of joy

Add faith to your neighbour's life

Bless someone today and remember - Jesus loves you.

© Bernard Levine

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sam-eg 5 years ago from Happy Land Author

This awesome poem go perfectly with my hub thank you for your share Sunkentreasure and your time to read my hub

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