"Are You Pro-Life or Pro-Choice"

"Are you Pro-Life or Pro-Choice"

This my Honey, the grand son that almost didn't make it, but his mom chose life for him and we're all happy about it.
This my Honey, the grand son that almost didn't make it, but his mom chose life for him and we're all happy about it.
This is my great grand son and his mother also chose life for him.
This is my great grand son and his mother also chose life for him.

"Are You pro-Life or Pro-Choice"

Deuteronomy chapter 5 - 17 : Thou shall not kill.

Abortion:To bring forth the baby before the full term of developement. To terminate prematurely.

I did a lot of thinking before I wrote this article, because of the feedback that I will probably get back in return. I will start by saying I'm not writing to judge or put down the pro - choice women. I'm writing about my opinion and thoughts against abortions. I will probably take a lot of mean hits, criticism and maybe even lose some of my wonderful fans. I'm writing what I feel is the truth. Many of you who have read my articles know my stand on truth. I'm all about God's truth, and he said thou shall not kill.

These are God's words, I didn't make them up. So, if I lose fans because of my honesty, then they were'nt my true fans to begin with. Let me say first that I do not believe in the abortion and slaughter of innocent babies. In fact, my whole family tree is pro- lifers. I guess that's why we have so many children. My thing is, I love children so much since they are a blessing to have and a gift from God. Do you know how many barren women there are in this world, that have broken hearts because they can't have children.

These women have tried everything to be blessed, just to have one baby. When other women are killing them like insects, because they're an inconvenience to them. I admit that there are some women that shouldn't be allowed to have babies. since they don't have the motherly instinct and therefore don't care about children. These are the women that should not have kids under any circumstances, because they will misuse and abuse them.

You know what I hate, almost as bad as an aborted baby, is the abused and battered children. Now, I do believe in spanking and discipline but not abuse of any kind. One of my daughter was in a terrible situation and going through deep depression and got pregnant. Which at the time was a very bad and disrupted pregnancy. We did a lot of talking, and she did a lot of crying and mental suffering over her situation. She knew I didn't believe in abortion. Some kind of way she made it up in her mind that this was the only solution that she could live with. I didn't tell her not to do it, since I felt like she would come to the realization of not doing it on her own.

I told my daughter that she was a loving and caring mother to her one son, and I didn't think she wouldn't survive, the repercussions of having an abortion. My daughter mistakenly went to an pro life clinic. Thinking it was an abortion clinic to get info on abortions. They showed her an abortion video of the suction machine as it tore the baby from limb to limb, My daughter called me crying her eyes out, saying mama I can't do it, I can't do it.

She left the clinic heart broken. She couldn't understand how any mother, could do that to their babies. She made the decision that day, for better or worse to keep her baby and I was proud of her and her decision. The realization sank in when she realized she would be taken another human beings life. My heart hurts for all the little babies, that don't get a chance to live. They don't have anyone to speak for them.It's sad because they to small to speak for themselves.

My daughter would always say that she couldn't see how this baby was a blessing. As of the timing but once he was born her whole attitude change. Now she can see what a blessing he truly is. My grandson is a beautiful little boy that I call my Honey. He just turn three years old and he such a sweet and blessed little boy.

It might be easy for some of you to get rid of the problem or hindrance. Just remember if it's got a heart that beats and that's a life in the palm of your hand. If there's a medical problems or a vicious rape, I guess there should be options but not because you don't want anymore kids. Make sure you take the precautions and birth control. Then you want be put in a position, where you have to decide whether or not a poor innocent baby has to die.

All I'm saying is. If you don't want the baby have it and give it to some barren women, that would love it and raise it with care. There are a lot of women unable to have a baby and you could bless them with the baby that you don't want. Think of giving your baby up as a blessing to the baby and the women that couldn't have any children. You will be allowing your baby to have a life with someone else. there are always other options. Choose life over death for the babies that would love to live, if they had their choice.

Benny Faye Douglass

© 2009 benny Faye Douglass

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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Tom thank you for your comment and feedback. I can tell you're hurting,and my advice to you, if you believe in God is to pray that your daughter, will see the truth for herself and return to you. I also will pray that her eyes be open to the truth and you will be brought back together Tom the good thing about kids is they know the truth. Godspeed. creativeone59

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tom hellert 6 years ago from home


No one will speak against you tou wrote a gtrat Hub and the slithrery liberals in the area try to prey on those who don't have so many followers and they don't like to comment on things like this especially when it is so well written and personal- they know they will be torn apart verbally- few can assail your reasons in my opinion.

my daughter was not planned- I love her she is 15 but she has abandonrfd reason for the madness her step-father fills her with-lies about me- and that is worse for me we were so close and now.... poisoned by t a demon she has to live with- maybe someday she will be released and come back.... Good job


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much for you well informed comment and feedback. I understand everything you said and there are circumstances that are called for sympathetic measures, but my question is doesn't the babies have rights, they didn't ask to be conceived. thank you and have a blessed evening. creativeone59

DreamLiving 7 years ago

A fetus is a baby. Killing is murder. So why am I pro-choice... God will judge the liars, murderers, etc. We must educate women to prevent unwanted pregnancies. We must offer alternatives so that women will not abort their babies. But, we must not give the government control over our bodies. Watch the Handmaid's Tale and and Demolition Man to see the reality of what is happening in America. As we continue to give the government control, we open ourselves up to more and more regulations. I don't agree with smoking. I'm asthmatic and so are my family members. I agree with limiting areas, but not stopping humans from smoking. I agree people should buckle up. I'm a retired police sergeant. But, it's wrong to pull people over because they don't have on a seatbelt. Period. But, the government got that law through. No longer is probable cause needed for a stop, just witness to a seatbelt not being buckled. Children are now being removed from homes because parents take them to church too much. Then, there's the recent removal of a teen from a home because she spoke too enthusiastically about her Christian beliefs. Currently, the UN Convention on the Rights of Children is being pushed and these are the types of "ideas" in the law that will usurp the authority of our Constitution. Make no mistake, opening up the can of worms of taking away a woman's right to choose will destroy our rights for our bodies. Once the government has a say, we will be no different than China that can make decisions the other way as well... limiting how many children can be born. And, make no mistake, minorities will have the greatest restrictions. Sounds far fetched but other countries did not jump to the extreme right away. Hitler was methodical in his insanity. Keep the rights and find another solution. These are the last days so don't willingly give up rights now! Even if one doesn't believe God's word, there's no reason to give government control over our bodies when we can find other solutions. C-One, I agree abortion is wrong, against God, and He will judge for He knows each woman's situation more than we do. Daily, women take the birth control pill which aborts a child, possibly every month (as it is believed that the pill makes the uterus uninhabitable for a fertilized egg). Women take the morning after pill now at the hospital or, in the privacy of their homes. Abortions are in so many forms now that Roe vs. Wade is the tip of the iceberg. When women have real alternatives, abortion will decrease. We don't need to open up a can of worms (surrendering rights) to address the abortion dilemma. We ask women to keep the babies... then what. How long is the support there for them... I had difficult pregnancies and ran the risk of losing my job. During one, I was given meds that are never to be taken while pregnant. The decision to bear the children or not was not made by those who didn't know my situation. I love my children and all the struggles and challenges have been worth it. But, there are women who abuse their children, put them in microwaves, shake them literally to death... Educate, prevent, adopt out, develop new technology for transference... these are great ideas... eradicating Americans' right to choose for their bodies should not be changed. If everyone works together on the issue - to protect all rights'- then an acceptable solution will be found.

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so such for your support, your comment and your feedback.God bless you also. creativeone59

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Bibowen 7 years ago

Thanks for having the courage to step forward and tell this story. May many more follow your example as we defend the defenseless. I don't know how many fans you lost for writing this, but you gained one. God bless.

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you and God knows I'm glad too. thank you so much for your comment and your feedback. you have a very blessed day. creativeone59

JGelineau 7 years ago

Thanks for sharing your opinion. Your grandson is beautiful and I'm so glad that your daughter changed her mind about having an abortion.

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you for your comment and feed back . have a blessed day. creativeone59

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spiderpam 7 years ago from USA

It's funny how people who are pro-choice are already born. I'm pro-life!

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thanks for your comments and feedback, I don't think I'm brave, I'm just a mother that loves children and don't like to see them hurt. thanks again. Godspeed. creativeone59

thetruthhurts2009 7 years ago

I'm pro life!

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Hello, hello, 7 years ago from London, UK

You are brave to write about a subject which is almost impossible to answer completely or correctly. Thank you for a well written hub

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you for commenting back, I just shared an experience about my daughter's thought about abortion until she saw what really happens to the little babies, thank you V. have a blessed day. creativeone59

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Veronica Allen 7 years ago from Georgia

That's how I feel. But so many only look at what's in front of them right "here and now", and not how it's going to effect them in the future. I'm just so happy that my mother (although a young mother when I was born) choose "life" for me and not "death".

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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

You're right about judging, I try not too. what about the babies right to life, don't they deserve to live whose going to speak for them. creativeone59

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Veronica Allen 7 years ago from Georgia

You were very brave to write about such a sensitive subject. So many women are on the side - "it's my body, my choice" - and yet in the end, it is potentially an innocent child that may lose his/her life. Because of my bible-based belief, I am defintely pro-choice, but on the same line, just like you, I will never judge another woman's choice, for it's not for any of us to judge.

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