Astrology - How To Get Along - Aries and Scorpio

Aries and Scorpio

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This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Aries and Scorpio. New Info at Christofer's new website at:

Aries - Scorpio

Scorpio's romantic aspect is based in intense deep inner feelings and Aries is in most everything for the energy and fun ot it. At first glance, this does not look like a "natural", but there are always reasons to hope. Aries is Cardinal and Fire. Scorpio is Fixed and Water. Looking at it on the surface, Aries is fiery and fast, intelligent and into "movement". Scorpio is intense, achievement-oriented and does not necessarily think movement has any particular advantage, unless there is a strong reason for it. Scorpio has a stubborn quality, somewhat like Cancer, but stubborn, not necessarily for home, but whatever Scorpio considers to be personally important. With the Scorpio, they don't separate personal from significant and important. If they are feeling it, it is personal of course, but it is by their nature, not trivial or subjective, but rather it is "it". They function from the base of their being.

The Aries in pursuit of the Scorpio would find a compelling and magnetic individual. Scorpio could be attracted to a youthful, high energy person. Aries does not come off as frivolous and silly, so Scorpio likes that. Both of these are "strong" in their presentations of themselves. The Scorpio and the Aries could create a smoldering fire. Compatibility is going to probably depend on individual charts. It is not impossible to imagine. It could be a "high end" Hollywood type dynamic union, but also, it could end like one. No one is going to back down here. Neither fights for the fun of it, but both are good at it. If it lasted, the Scorpio would probably get its agenda, and Aries would be free enough to pursue its interests.

Positive Postulate:

Since Aries and Scorpio are dynamic persons and neither are "lazy", they could share much in values and pursuits. These two, headed in the same direction, could make quite a partnership. Positively speaking, these signs could be a public and dynamic pair. Regardless of how the genders work, it seems a pairing that could be serious. Scorpio would have to vote yes on most all issues, and Aries would have to spend their time figuring out what they considered worth making an issue. The Scorpio could enjoy the Aries personality. The Aries would have to really love the Scorpio, in order to overlook the stubborn insistences of what appear to be less important things. And this would be on a day to day basis.

Romance Recommendation:

Aries and Scorpio would have a very high romance factor, as long as Scorpio stayed a bit light-hearted and Aries enjoyed "intense romance". Don't take any fights into the boudoir and things could go great. Any current battle brought into the bedroom would probably play itself out there.

Conflict Quotient:

Aries and Scorpio can both defend themselves, and also, take an offensive position. Conflict would almost be prophecied with these two. Discussions could be long or short, depending on how angry Scorpio got. Neither of these signs will be intimidated, and neither would give in, just to give in. Both could be high-minded enough to make concessions, but they would have to see strong reasons for doing so. This is not a death pronouncement, It just means they will have to work things out. The unexpressed, the unaired, the hidden could spell doom. The discussions could be noisy, but healthful.

Peace Parlay:

Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Scorpio can take time for inner contemplation, and quiet periods could be helpful in an overall sense. Aries might take some convincing that a little peace and quiet could be good for them. A Biblical phrase might fit here: "Peace, peace and there is no peace". A good attempt at peace and boredom might be the "spiritual correction" that each needs, but one that could slip away.

Keep Up The Interest Graph:

Scorpio and Aries are a good "keep up the interest" signs, but Aries could tire of Scorpion "gravity". The pull of Aries trying to always accommodate Scorpio could fatigue Aries, and Scorpio always watching what Aries is doing next, could be distracting from Scorpio's main purposes. The basic material is there for potential long term high interest, it's just difficult to know how the two will act after a high-mileage relationship.

Seven Year Itchiness:

There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns, as time goes on. Others are not. Scorpio could use the 7 year itch as motivation to make a fundamental change. Aries could use the 7 year itch to "finally get light-hearted again". If they truly are committed to each other, the seriousness of Scorpion values could save them. As I have said in other analyses, Aries could stumble into a new relationship, not knowing that its subconscious might be overly engaged in the prospect of infidelity.


ASTROCOMPATIBILITY POSSIBILITY RATING: 50% Positive Long Term - 70% Short Term. This, as a young relationship, might have tons of appeal. Time is not necessarily the friend here. Scorpio can put on weight, if frustrated, but Aries could find Scorpio more appealing as time goes on, if Scorpio lightened up. The newer this relationship is, the more that there is a possibility that it will work. But once they get going, complications of Scorpion intensity and Arian ego could make for a difficult future.

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negacrowbar 7 years ago from Inglewood, California

I didn't think Aries and Scorpios could ever get along. LOL.

Mark 7 years ago

Hahaha So True @ Negacrowbar

Jessica 7 years ago

I have been in a non-committed relationship with an aries for nearly 17 months, and this fits us to a T. We are constantly bickering about nothing but are completely crazy for each other. Yet I think deep down we both know it will never work out, when we get frustrated with one another we purposefully piss each other off but we are both too stubborn to admit we're mad. I would give anything to make aries and scorpios compatible. I have never believed astrology until i read over 20 aries-scorpio relation stories and realized they were all sooo fitting.

haniyyah  7 years ago

well i like this bot who is an aries so i wanted to read this to see how it would be he want a long term i think and i only had one long term realationship so idk if it will work

Mirza 7 years ago

I'm an Aries that lasted lasted almost 10 years with a Scorpio. It's just exhausting and even trying to make it as friends afterward takes a lot of effort. I suppose I could be more patient and less of a controller. He always felt he was in my shadow and kept propping himself up. To me it was just someone endlessly blowing his own horn for approval. There's a part in my heart that wonders if we can truly make it work. I'll need a Scorpio point of view on this.

Tanica 7 years ago

Oh my goodness, you guys make me feel like I am not alone! Me and my Aries lover is ALSO in a non committed relationship! What is with the Aries and their flirtatious ways? Sheesh!! For a year we have been fighting back and forth, but we can't seem to get enough of each other. I literally text him and do things to him on purpose just to piss him off, because I don't feel as if he is showing me enough attention. It has gotten really bad, and I swear I cannot help it! I am just passionate about romance, and life, and he is so laid back it annoys me! lol I think all us Scorpios if we are so passionate about loyalty and romance, we really need to just give in, and let them be. Aries is so laid back, they will not change just for a relationship, but best believe they will make changes accordingly to make sure their business is booming. So there is the difference. We have to learn to pick our battles for this to work. As hard as that sounds, I think I'm ready to do that, because now I am actually in love, and if you love someone you will do whatever it takes to make something work.

Tam 7 years ago

Scorpio is clear about things but Aries are not, they will take you to do the contrary eventhough they are wrong, they just want to be creative in their own way and will not admit that they made a mistake. I have been having that issue for over ten years. My husband is arrogant, irritated ect but they only thing that is keeping us is our marriage, is that we are good parents, good providers to the family, we enjoy to go to church, we like to go out and have fun, we enjoy our vacations, we are professionals, we love our family, we don't get in trouble with the law nor we use any substance but you ask my husband for a favor and you are clear about what you want, he will do his own thing and will sabotagre everything and then he thinks he did it right, lol. I think he is not aware of what he does however is been clarify what he did but he just does not see it. I guess I have to live with him all my life but I guess we have to look at the positive things also, no relationship is perfect.

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

You sound like you have reconciled your differences to a survivable degree. Aries is very head strong. Scorpio sees so much and you have enumerated all of the good and valuable things about your union and family. And you are right, no relationship is perfect. Maybe he sees more than he will admit to. Maybe not. Hang in there Scorpio.

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spiritdancerocean 7 years ago from Santa Cruz, CA.

This is very interesting as my husband who died in 2000 was an Aries and we did a lot of good work for the community together. Very passionate and my best lover with his Moon and Mars in Scorpio

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

Aries and Moon and Mars in Scorpio, now there is a template for action and zeal and ambition. Also, a great heart.

stephaniee 7 years ago

I'm an Aries having dated a scorpio for 4 years straight and then on and off for the past year. We love eachother so much but at the same time can't stand to be around one another. Its mad, reading these forums and about the signs I'm trying to understand it. Its like an addiction, its very intense. But strangely i feel he's the only person I can relate to. At the same time I can't stand his secretive side it makes me not trust him.. But if u really love someone I guess you have to make the necessary sacrifices to make it work. Even if u can't reason why u should. Sometimes love doesn't have reasoning

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

My book is coming out in a couple months and it addresses the importance of transformative harmony, as do my readings. As I have said, If you are attracted to someone and find each other "irresistable" that tells you that you probably have something to learn from each other, and something to give each other. With Aries and Scorpio, things can seem maddening just because you both are wired so tightly. That is going to be a part of the relationship. The more you reflect on these issues, the more it can drive you a little crazy. Back off, a little, let things be, and see if things don't get a little easier. Keep each other in respect and dignity.

Ray 7 years ago

omgosh!! this is the truth! i like a scorpio and before i even read this i was complaining to my girlfriends about how this boy is a mystery and he irritates the hell out of me... but i can't quit him. he gets mad when i push the issue and i get mad when he doesn't give in. i feel like blowing up as arians often do but i don't because he wont even bother after that point. and he wants to persuade me he's right but he doesn't because he knows i'll blow. its give and take. we are learning each other. it's exhausting but worth it.

Penny46 7 years ago

I'm an Aries and I've dated a Scorpio off and on for 5 years now... the love we have for one another is amazing, No one else compares to him, but all at the same time, I hate him, he drives me crazy. But I'm Not myself when hes not here. Hes something I need in my life, and I've, we've accepted that, were in it for the long hall. Hes currently in The United States Marines. Its hard, but our love will go on. Trust and honestly is key!!! Love you Hunni =D

Tyler 7 years ago

my name is Tyler I'm a male Aries and im in love with a Scorpio who hates me so I don't believe that she would ever like me like this says!

this page sucks it's all bull shit

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

The tone and tension embodied in the above comment demonstrate the inherent psychic negative energies that when combined together create explosive manifestations. I rest my case.

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

In my book: How To Get Along With All of Those Sun Signs, I often declare that it is mutual attraction that inexplicably brings certain odd pairings together. If someone hates you and you love them, then maybe natural forces are at work, preventing you from having a relationship that ends up being a complete wreck. Sometimes nature is very wise!

Melissa 7 years ago

i was in a long distance relationship, on and off for 3 years with an aries. i live in canada and he lives in lebanon, and the weird part is that we had only met in person once, but he fell in love with me instantly. and over time, we kept strong contact and i eventually had feelings for him too. we adored each other to death, but we bickered all the time, and we used to do so many things on purpose just to piss each other off. for instance, he started going out with this girl i knew (who was supposed to be my friend) WHILE telling me that he loved me. plus, our fights would get so out of control sometimes that he'd throw insults at me and at my friends. and in the end, all that made me not talk to him for several months. meanwhile he was DESPERATELY trying to win me back, always apologizing and trying to get me to talk to him again. i always said to myself that it was because he didn't know what my intentions were, nor did we both know what exactly we wanted. in the end, though, after 3 long years, we saw each other again. and for 3 days we had the most incredible time together. but it messed up because my parents didn't want me to be with him. so he got quite discouraged and started acting stupid again, not trying to do anything to be with me, not trying to make something out of himself to proove to everybody that he's worthy of me ... there is so much more to our story than i've said, i can write an entire novel about it. we've been through so much together, and it's been so hard, but the bottom line is that we don't understand each other the way we want to. all these things about aries and scorpio relate so much to what we had. and it makes me feel so hopeless because i don't see a way to make this work... now i've been forced to cut off all contact with him and im supposed to forget all about him, but i can't. i just can't. i worship him and i know he's crazy about me, and it kills me that we can't do anything about it anymore.

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

Its almost as if the attractions are so powerful, but the potential sabotage is so present, that these kinds of relationships often have purposes of transformation and learning, as opposed to pleasure and ultimate fulfillment.

Jupi 7 years ago

I've been with this scorpio for a year and half now. It started out great. We talked on the phone from morning to night non-stop. As months passed, we talked less. We fought more, he couldn't trust me and fought with me over the littlest things. I gave in sooooo much to try to make him happy. I do hate him when we fight. I feel like this is such an unhealthy relationship yet I can't move on from him, because I love him so much. I just wish he understood and stop hurting me. I'm just not strong enough to leave him, but secretly I know that he'll be better off without me in his life.

lozz 7 years ago

i think an aries guy fancys me so i wanted to cheeck this out. all he likes to do is argue with me so i annoy him on purpose. but when he really annoys me i wont shut up till ive got vengance on him. my friend says that sometimes it seems that i like him and this annoys me all the more. my opinion is that arians like to fight they love the constant thrill of a new challenge and are bored by somone they can easily dominate and when a scorpio argues back they thrive on it, annoying the scorpio ever more but if scorpio is in love he or she will forgive aries but thers only so much one person can take. but scorpios or arians don't like to call it a day and give up. scorpio and aries have so much in common personality wize they hate eachother! im the sort of scorpio that will battle to the death evn if im inches from death myself and an aries wont stop until they have completed their challenge. not much hope for me, is there? but im upset now cos i feel i have upset my capricorn friend by asking him how he would like to die and he said "asleep" and he asked me and i said i wanna die saving somone elses life and he wouldent respond, or even look me in the eyes. i feel i made him feel like a coward and im upset about it. i can't help wanting to save a life for my death then it would have been worth me dying, wouldent it? i miss my capricorn friend already, he still wont talk to me, he normaly sends me an email but he hasn't yet i hate offending him, he offends easily like i do any advice?

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Christofers Flow 7 years ago from Denver Author

Your Aries friend and your Capricorn friend kind of sum up the Scorpio dilemma. Scorpio knows that life is a game, it just has high stakes. Capricorn does not want to talk about dying and sacrifice. Their mind is in conquest and achievement. Aries is too much like Scorpio in many ways, but they are not as serious as Scorpio. They can walk away from a battle if they have to. Scorpio is invested. Thus, their game playing is more serious. They even ask curious hypotheticals that discuss the investment of life itself. This is what I mean when I say that our relationships are for our growth. You asked a Scorpio question, and got a Capricorn result. While you are shaking your head over others, ask what it is teaching you.

nicole marie  7 years ago

Hello! WOW, yes!! The past year ive become VERY interested in spirituality (astrology and psychics, etc!)Yes, i do believe astrology is very real, considering my love of two years... he is a Scorpio and i am an Aries. I feel I can not live without this man, and he can never 'give up' on us either despite the frustrations and what not! We seriously get in a fight (over nonsense) and don't speak for two weeks---it's crazzzy!!! yet everytime we come back, it's like nothing ever happened. LOL. I am going to follow my intuition on this one, and KNOW that we will be together for good for a lifetime. :) i know it wont be roses and daisies, but when the love is so intense, how could you ever give that up, real love up, for an easier path with somebody more compatible or simple?? that doesn't make sense to me! LOL.And as Shakespeare says "The course of True Love never did run smooth" .... i really really feel he is my path no matter what trying times we've been through! I feel he is the only man i could TRUST with all my heart, and i feel his love for me is so deep, nothing can keep us away for too long. :) I hope im not crazy for believing so, LOL.

I will have to check out your book Cristofer ;) This is all very interesting stuff!!

nicole marie  7 years ago

Hello! WOW, yes!! The past year ive become VERY interested in spirituality (astrology and psychics, etc!)Yes, i do believe astrology is very real, considering my love of two years... he is a Scorpio and i am an Aries. I feel I can not live without this man, and he can never 'give up' on us either despite the frustrations and what not! We seriously get in a fight (over nonsense) and don't speak for two weeks---it's crazzzy!!! yet everytime we come back, it's like nothing ever happened. LOL. I am going to follow my intuition on this one, and KNOW that we will be together for good for a lifetime. :) i know it wont be roses and daisies, but when the love is so intense, how could you ever give that up, real love up, for an easier path with somebody more compatible or simple?? that doesn't make sense to me! LOL.And as Shakespeare says "The course of True Love never did run smooth" .... i really really feel he is my path no matter what trying times we've been through! I feel he is the only man i could TRUST with all my heart, and i feel his love for me is so deep, nothing can keep us away for too long. :) I hope im not crazy for believing so, LOL.

I will have to check out your book Cristofer ;) This is all very interesting stuff!!

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Lisa 7 years ago

I really like reading these different point of views its very intresting. Only because Ive been dating this guy I'm an Aries and he is a Scorpio we have been knowing each other for a while but I didn't really take intrest in him like that unil June of 09. I had to leave for school in Aug so I thought it was just goin to be a fling. But when we started hanging out and being toget her all the time I had sooo nuch fun with him I couldn't let him go. I was sad because I thought we going to have to end it but he told me that he would travel the distance to come and see me if I wanted it to work. Now Its only December I feel like we have been together for years. I'm soo in love with him we have our little arguments but at the end of the day we always come back together because of the love we have for each other... I don't know if this is just something tempory or not...

Quorrah 7 years ago

The Aries (male) I was with broke my heart. He is quite egocentric and seems to state the opposite of what he really believes often. I miss him and I saw him today (he didn't see me). I hope he finds happiness. I'm not open to giving my heart to anyone now and will play it safe. (I'm a female Scorpio.)

TrueAries 7 years ago

Wow I find this article really interesting. I would lean towards those who say that Aries and Scorpio could never work. I don't think it can! I was in a relationship with a Scorpio for nearly a year and it ended in a protection order against him!

Ouch. Scorpio = just too intense, petty and jealous for Aries, perhaps.

Elizabeth 7 years ago

Wow... this is painfully true. I've been in a relationship with a Scorpio man (I'm an Aries woman) for about 5 months now, and we get into a fight just about every week. We stop talking to each other for about a day or two, then he calls me to patch things up and talk things through. There's something very addictive about his personality, and I love the challenge he gives me everyday. He is very secretive and I'm always trying to figure him out, and when I question him too much he gets mad (this is how our fights usually start). Despite how often we fight, I really can't let go of this guy! Maybe I'm just sticking around for the make-up sex. That's what I love about our fights. Hahaha :)

Meeka 6 years ago

lol, how that explains me and my lover Aries. Its all about power between us, and neither of us likes to give in. I do it just to shut him up sometimes but make sure its half hearted and he can hear that. We fight and really push each other to the brink where one of us would become upset or threaten to leave, and then the other does a complete 180 and comes to the rescue to comfort - right before making one last stab. He's even admitted to me he fights sometimes just to see how far I'll challenge him.

I believe its all lust, and I believe he is getting confused between love and lust. Considering he is afraid of commitment and romance (which i'm sure all us scorpios would agree is what we live and breathe for in relationships - at least the Aries has the sex covered!). Although I have to admit, he is trying his hardest to 'woo' me. I'm hesitant as I believe at a chance he would be disloyal and I can't bear to have my heart broken again. Which I believe he'd surely do at the '7 yr itch'.

But I'm so drawn to him at the same time as i feel as though all the things i'm afraid to tell a normal guy in case of hurting their feelings i can tell an Aries as he would challenge the feeling/thought. There is just that connection.. but no spark?

Or is this a recipe for self destruction of ourselves?

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Christofers Flow 6 years ago from Denver Author

I pose a nonprovable theory that those people we are attracted to helplessly, and who give us whole loads of struglle and pain are there for OUR OWN transformation. Just watch people struggle with these relationships, and you see the "going back" to certain individuals and certain types and you realize that something unconscious is driving them back to learn some lessons. Probably the biggest lessons. And the biggest lessons are the ones that are the hardest to learn.

Jessica S 6 years ago

Ha, I'm having a really deep thought process here, you all have some of the smiluar things to go through as I do. Though I've been with my Scorpio for about four months now, and things are really getting serious. We DO have a long distance relationship for the moment, but are soon to see one another.. I'm In school and so Is he. (I'm an Aries.) I am one year older than he Is so I will wait for him, and I don't mind. because he's everything I've ever wanted and more. Sure, Aries tend to have flirty sides of them, but ever since Ive been completely tied down to this scorpio, It's so magnetic..I can't get enough of him, can't let him go.. I know things will turn a little different and get so much more deep when we finally meet up..But I am prepared, I'm so In love with this man..~ :3!

Kim 6 years ago

There so many posts stating relation with scorpion and aries, so its definitely sure by now to me it will work out for us too, I am scorpian i love my aries but as mentioned through out discussion i face same problem which other does, but i got solution too, when u guys fight rather then quarrel or debating, just get away for sometime, i am sure aries will come first to be sorry, I have never seen flirty side of my Aries but as being true scorpion i doubt him a lot... :P

Whatever it is, after so many hazel we are together, and i pray we stay together for always.

I pray for all you guys too, and Small advice for Aries, "YOU GUYS ARE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT" so give chance to say scorpions too... lolz, give this message to my aries too, if i will say this directly i afraid he will be angry. ;)

P.S. Scorpian

chubi 6 years ago

i am a female Scorpio and i have an Aries boyfriend. we are in a serious relationship and have been dating for 2 years and 3 months. We don't click as much as we used to , the only time we do click is during and right after sexual intercourse. we love spending time with each other, well i think he does. i love spending time with him but sometimes he just wants to be alone. next year we will be in a long distant relationship, do you think it will last?

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Christofers Flow 6 years ago from Denver Author

The lasting question is the most difficult to answer. Sometimes there is a relaxation of intensity and power with age and becoming accustomed to one another. It is too true that both of you have so much tension, that a little relaxation would be wonderful for both of you. But that might be years down the road; after you have "lasted" long enough to get there. Your question is the hardest one of all for this pairing.

kas 6 years ago

I'm a scorpio and I'm kinda attracted to Arians personality ^.^

Hayley 6 years ago

Oh my, this is so so true! I was never really into star signs until recently when I looked at the 'love matches, and love signs' And i've been with an aries man for 7 months and I am a scorpio. We have been through thick and thin and we do love each other a hell of alot but we disagree and aurgue over the most pointless things. The description on scorpio is so real for me, and also the aries for my boyfriend. I am very calm and he is VERY aggressive at times and short tempered. We are so different but like they say, the oposite attract which I believe in that. I am a very possesive, jelous and STUBBORN person who will NEVER let anything lye and don't forget a single thing.. where as my boyfriend says stuff he don't mean all the time which hurts my feelings and I don't forget it, but he forgets the second after he says it. Which is very hard I admit, but if you feel there is something there for each other, try your best to make it work, it can happen.

Jim 6 years ago

I'm a Scorpio who likes an Aries girl. If I lived in the same state I would have already told how I feel, but we don’t. I was visiting some friends and family and met her quite unexpectedly. I liked her so much that I made the effort to see her by herself. I know she likes me but I never made a move. It wasn’t just that I was in another state; I was about to take a trip half way around the world for about a year. I like this girl way more than I probably should; I hardly know her and yet I can’t stop thinking of her. I never get caught up or infatuated with anyone, but it’s something about her. I never told her how I felt because I felt that it wasn’t right, asking her to wait for me. I just don’t want to miss my opportunity to be with her. What I haven’t told you is about three months into my trip I came back. I had no intension of seeing her again; I was out with my friends and there she was. I convinced myself that the fact we lived in two different states was a factor that was far too great to conquer; I no longer believe that to be true. I met up with her several times during that trip home. I knew I liked her from the moment I met her. I should be back in the states in a few months and roughly six months after that I plan moving back to Miami. Should I tell her how I feel over an email or simply wait a few months and tell her in person? I haven’t told her that I’m planning on moving back; I haven’t told anyone except my family. Part of me thinks that it might be a little awkward, because I’ve taken so long to make a move. Awkward or not I’m going to take a shot; it’s just a matter of when.

Griss 6 years ago

Just do it Jim im an aries girl and i know straight up is what's better and the sooner the better too.

tiffany 6 years ago

i am with an aries and i really like him we have been together almost 2 months and dispite all that i have read about aries n scorpios not getting along i really want this to work. everytime i see him or even think about him i smile. he is amazing! sometimes he is sweet and sometimes he is not but arnt all people like that?? i mean there has to be a way to make this work he does not know this yet but i think i love him and that's not easy for me to say but after reading all these comments i am scared to love him cuz i feel i mite jus get hurt. i jus fnt kno wat to do now.

tiffany 6 years ago

hey i jus wrote the comment above under the name tiffany if u have any suggestions that mite help please email me or facebook me under tiffany defreese in fayette county georgia thank you!!!

It is possible:) 6 years ago

Aries female and scorpio male. We have been together 12 years!! We have never been happier and we hardly ever fight. Maybe we got it out of our systems in the earlier stages of our relationship. We are high school sweethearts and also did the long distance thing when we went off to college. Def. not easy times. We loved each other and worked through it. Now, we laugh at all the petty fights we had and how it was more then worth it. We have never been happier or more in love with one another. He is my best friend, lover, he is my other half. Sometimes, the more work you have to put into something the even greater the rewards:)

swtpuj 6 years ago

I'm in a three year relationship with a Scorpio. I have to admit, the relationship is far better now, than in the beginning. We have been in a long distance relationship and we have been together. Initially we kept bickering and bickering like anything. Many times I felt it was hopeless to be in a relationship with such a guy. I'm an Aries female and he is the Scorpio guy. I left him so many times, only to come back. Sometimes he would want to leave and would come back. I agree, it was next to impossible. But we decided to work on our relationship as much as possible. It was to the point that I left him for sure and it was final the break up. We gave it a last chance and it has been beautiful after that. We are so much in love and understand each other a lot. I really see a wonderful future ahead for us. I believe we will last for a long, long time-it just requires both person's efforts all the time. Equality, fairness, self-respect, self-sufficiency, love, forgiveness, touch, quality time and words of affirmations really have brought us closer.

Aries 6 years ago

Aries is the great sign of the zoodiac, get it and bear it. Enough said.

Scorpio 6 years ago

The funny thing about this article is that yes, despite what everyone had said about their scorpio/aries relationship..I'm still too stubborn of a scorpio to just believe it and back off. Have to find out for myself, probably because of the challenge. I'm sure an Aries will read this and ignore the warnings as well..damn stubbornness.

Shelle 6 years ago

Ive been with my boyfriend almost a year and he's a Scropio and im an Aries. W

edwardcat 6 years ago

Aries and scorpio. well its to simple! Aries are into fun and their own ego. Scorpio reads to much into them. They are just simple people. To expect much more from a aries will always confuse a scorpio. Scorpio is so deep and complex they tend to presume Aries is to. Both Scorpio and Aries are nice people. Take away the emotion and look at each other logically you will see what i mean.

XANGELICAL 6 years ago

I'm a Scorpio and my guy is an Aries. Every aspect and characteristics described above are definitely in tune with our relationship. However, my guy is as sweet as can be when I try to start a fight. Instead, he tries to calm me down and do things my way. In the year we have been dating, not once has he ever disrespected my ways or beliefs. Though he is a little laid back, sometimes forgetful and at times, inconsiderate, I would not change him for anything or anyone. He is the only man that has proven to love me the way that I am (flaws and looks). We both have gone through alot of personal mishaps, but our relationship grows stronger when we both help pull each other through the difficult situations. The trick is to always put yourself in the other's shoes, learn to forgive and forget and to always, always try to work together as a couple.

6 years ago

Im a scorpio woman who also likes aries men. They're witty, fun, always well groomed and exciting but they always have the wondering eye! and their nonchalant attitude to everything drives me crazy!

aries41 6 years ago


fire and ice 6 years ago

I'm a scorpio sun/pisces moon, married and having an affair with an Aries man. He literally barged his way into my life, just when I'd almost forgotten what it was like to love (completely let down by my emotionally detached Virgo sun/aquarius moon husband, tried so hard for 5 years and finally gave up).

My dear Aries showed me what it was like to feel love and passion again, and he made me feel so alive. We are 4 months into your secret relationship, and it's been an emotional rollercoaster for me.

But somehow he's slowing down, and the passion level is dropping. I'm so afraid that everything will revert back to the way it is with my Virgo husband...I just don't want to go back to that cold place, forced to lock up my emotions all over again...

XANGELICAL13 6 years ago


arianne0788 6 years ago

Im an Aries girl and i Have a scorpio bf. We often argue(pointless/nonsense).I am the one who always calms him down.scorpions have mysterious personalities. i don't understand them.but i love my bf. i don't want to wake up one day that im out of patience. i don't know what to do.

bhak86 6 years ago

I'm a male Aries and generally speaking I find that I cannot stand female Scorpios... like more than any other people in the world. They consistently lie, cheat, and manipulate. The actual reason I was reading this article was because I'm not big on horoscopes but I find it odd that whenever I meet a women who I utterly cannot stand she always ends up being a Scorpio and I was wondering if we were supposed to be natural enemies.

JustMe2714 6 years ago

i am an aires i find that leos and aries are more compatiable but leos can be selfish at times but amazing people

JustMe2714 6 years ago

i am an aires i find that leos and aries are more compatiable but leos can be selfish at times but amazing people

sandrajcs47 6 years ago

hi, i was born on April 7, 1980. How can i figure out what planets i have in my chart?

kel 6 years ago

ive been with a scorpio for the longest time, we never have big fights or bicker at eachother we both madly want eachother forever nd we get along great

Sasha 6 years ago

I'm a Scorpio male, absolutely into an Aries female. She keeps me around and spends time with me, here and there. Whenever we get together - it's amazing and lots of fun. Obviously there is something that is attracting us to each other.

But I found out that the only way I can co-exist with an Aries is if she's fully committed. Aries are usually so damn attractive in terms of personalities and this one has her own customized one that can only be described as Aries Supreme 5000 lol. Magnetic, aggressive and adorable at the same time. She can't commit fully, and I'm leaving the country to travel the world for god knows how long in 5 months.

Unfortunately, today I had to cut it off, as much as I hated doing it. I can't handle just a little bit of her here and there. It's either none or all. A little bit distracts me from life goals. None doesn't. All only empowers me to get to bigger heights but I can't have all.'s back to none.

I hope that one day, when the timing is better, we will reignite. So much potential for proper fireworks and a long, exciting journey there. Only time will tell if it will ever realize.

ARIES209 6 years ago

I met this guy a few years back and we only talked when he came into the store I worked at. I thought he was drop dead sexy. I never new what sign he was but it was instant attraction. I stopped working at the store and ran into him we exchanged numbers. We hung out one time and I know he is the man for me. I am an aries woman he is the scorpio man and plays into the characteristics of his sign. I find him irrestible and want to spen every moment with him but he seems to not call or text me back. I am willing to not be so stubborn and let him take control and follow his lead. I do not have a problem with him be the "boss" I just can not ever get any of his time. Any suggestions?

Scorpio2 6 years ago

I've been involved with an aries man for nearly 3 years and it drives me nuts because I don't think I'll ever trust him. We started being with each other when he was with someone else so i can't stop thinking he will do it to me. I keep these feelings to myself and we never fight about anything. I think regardless of your sign, there are always ways to make something work. Although, maybe I'm not true to who I am if I am always keeping everything inside just so I don't come across as a crazy scorpio.

hanna 6 years ago

I'm a scorpio female married for 12 years to an aries.we are still committed to each other but more for family reasons than others as we've fought so much and he drives me crazy.but there's definitely a basis there of friendship,attraction and understanding. you gotta tough marriage out in this day and age,we're all such sooks now and want a perfect life.

Fiyah 6 years ago

Hello all, I am an Aries female in love with a Scorp male. WoW weee! Ha Ha! I have been in a non committed (yeah right Ha!) but committed ( he can't seem to go no where else but to me)ting with this cat for close to two years... lol Like so many on here, we have been in an off and then back on thing the whole time. He backs off when he feels that intensity that all has said. At 1st I was only in it for the sex ( was in it to sting me but he got the horns Ha!). The sex with these stingers are fire (fiyah!!) The lust factor is on with this cat! However, I love the control he has over himself, the smooth laid backness, the powerful eyes, all this just snatched my heart. I have an ego from hell and he loves it! He love the way I dress, move and states I am the "IT" lol lol. I knew I had him once he started taking me around family and all his friends. I have this man wrapped around my middle finger (Ha!) yet, he makes me feel so insecure at the same time (which is rare for me) He is sneaky secretive; he hides his feelings very well and his thoughts (they speak in zig zags and never get to the point,trying make us figuer them.. Such a waste of energy. Im am sneaky and manipulative and be down right mean at times (very matter fact and frank as hell). The only thing about him that is a little different from the rest on here is that he is not a lair...he is so straight up with me its can be right down hurtful. Another thing too... he tend to say the opposite of what he is really feeling... like some kind of test. Once I caught on to this shyt.. it made me pull out the horns! I use to sit back and let him run his games and it would piss me off, but I would never say anything... jus let him say and do whatever (hell while he was I was doing me lol) But one day, I pulled the horns out! Oh boy! lol He did not know what to say or do... I told him it was over at the end of my bucking! Next thing you know... the scrop was singing and dancing a new tune (bored was sex great that night! Ha!). Right afterward that he ignored me as usual(and u know how we Aries can't stand that)Yet I said kool do you! I jus got all GQ and went out to where I knew he would be and ignored him and flirted and laughed and had a great time all the while I knew he would be watching.. ha ha! he was on me like super glue! Yet I left him hanging he blew my phone up for like 4 hours and he still did not obtain me! Ha Ha! The point of the story is this! Make them work and keep them on their toes! They like to give up their scropio powers (trust me they have mad power!) and still feel in control. You can never let the chase end and bringing out the stinger must not be in anger but in intense love and love making! My Scrop don't like to fuss but if you want to get them express themselves u have make them feel they are going to lose u... then they will start singing like a jail bird.. afterward they pull away... so what! have fun while they are in that complex state! Don't worry they are thinking about you all the while! It even turns them on more not knowing what u are doing. They love to miss you! While u are out having all that Aries we love to have they will be thinking about you and a 101 sexual moves to put you in to make fall deeper for them and heyyyyy fellow Aries we live for that 3 ring circus type shyt they can bring... all day long. lol lol So yeah, I well keep'em... I love the the depths his mind can go, even tho I am simple as hell and he is complex, I enjoy the challenge, the unpredicting behavior is my addiction. He is my krytonite and I am his super woman Come on guys, the sex between an Aries and a Scropio is off the riker scale!!! The best sex I have ever had in my life!!! We create new postions to add to the Kama Sutra books Ha Ha!!! Fire, Ice, calm before the storm, sexy, loyal, circus of the stars, high speed chases, and super heros, fierce love and being comfy with each other...what else is left to do but conquering the world together. HA! Love You Flex my scropio lover!!!

6 years ago

I'm and Aries female and have been in a serious relationship with a male Scorpio for 2 and a half years and we're perfect for each other.

Dawn 6 years ago

As a Scorpio, I've found that it is INCREDIBLY difficult for me to get along with people born under Aries. The only exception that I'm aware of is probably just because she's my best friend and we know each other well enough that we just don't talk about certain things or the other will blow up and we'll fight.

As a general rule, I stay away from Aries folks when I can just to avoid all the drama and confrontations that I've found that they bring. The girls, in my case at least, seem to be the worst. It's unfortunate, but true. :(

Shannon 6 years ago

Hmmm. . .I must say I don't really agree with the majority of this summarization of the aries/scorpio compatibility. I am a scorpio, my boyfriend Chris of 4 years is a Aries. I will agree with most astrological sign information, but I also have to say that it depends on the actual "person" not just what sign they are under. My boyfriend, is the most patient, understanding individual I have ever met, not once have I thought he would be flirtatious with any other woman besides myself, if anything I think the Scorpio is the more flirtatious sign of both. It takes commitment and trust from both parties to make a relationship work, you can't base astrological horoscopes to judge what's best for YOU and your significant other. I also will say that I have a about 7 close friends that happen to fall under the aries star sign or whatever you call it, and they are the closest people in my life. I think every person will react with a different sign differently, but I really believe that it depends on the persons life, morals, their childhood, upbringing and current lifestyle to influence a positive or negative aspect in their relationship. I won't say that at some point we struggled, but what mid twenty year olds don't, espcially at this time in history. Communication has been the biggest part of our relationship, being I LOVE to talk all my emotions out, and he was always hiding his emotions inside because he knows how heated us scorpios can get. That and past relationships coming in and out have been the only hard part of our relationship thus far. We've lived with eachother for 2.5 years, he has truly changed my life and I have influenced positive qualities in him for the best. our sex life is amazing, and I wouldn't change it for the world. He is my best friend, and my heart truly aches with the thought of losing him. He is my life, and I can't wait to get married and have children together. We have the same views, values and future goals and that in itself is a huge step for most relationships. The last huge blow out, over communication and the fact that he always wants to please me has been the biggest argument, I love to be the star of attention lol, but sometimes, I enjoy a good fight. He realized that and we are better, that was about 8 months ago.

I will also add that if you go through the different, million different websites of compatibility of all the signs you will see that they DO NOT all match up, every horoscope is different, so why would you want to base your relationship on garbage?? Communication, and trust is what I would say to all couples in the aries/scorpio love match, with that you will go far.

One more thing, sorry I am on a rant!! How did our grandparents go through life without horoscopes?? All the media saying do this, do that, you need to listen to your heart and truly want to be with that person to make it work. :-) GOOD LUCK ALL!!


Sunny 6 years ago

Whelp, Scorpio Adult female here. I had a three month romance, clothes on believe it or not, romance with an Adult Male Aries. Very respectful, mindful, mannerly...gosh everything I'd like to have in a man. Problem for me was that my life is not such that I would want to engage in a committed relationship, so I let him go with honesty and integrity. He took that well, but I found him angry thereafter, rather immature actually.

So folks there you have it. A Scorpio woman, with some integrity, honesty demonstrating forthright behavior and keeping her clothes on. An Aries man wanting a committed relationship that took it like a man and acted out childishly.

Not the norm I'd say. Can't believe everything you read.

Peace, love and bowling forever!

Jordan 6 years ago

Aries does not mix well with us Scorpios.. my experience has been that they can only think of themselves - which may serve well for them in the business world but not in friendships and romantic relationships.

I tend to avoid Aries all together because as scorpios know, if anyone crosses us, our claws will snap!

true114 6 years ago

I have been in an on again, off again relationship with an Aries male for almost 12 years. Yes......I am the intense Scorpio female. I love this man from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet.....he just drives me crazy!!!! I know that he loves me, but his attitude towards everything is so nonchalant that I most times I feel that he doesn't really care about anything one way or the other. He says I'm to sensitive. To dramatic. We have an awesome connection in the bedroom, but other than that we are usually at one another's throats!!! I've gotten to the point that I know this is an unhealthy relationship, but the love I feel for him is so intense that I can't walk away.

Erica 6 years ago

I have an Arian sister who can't stand to be second best, I have an Arian tutor at uni who dislikes me and I am just waiting for the shit mark he is going to give me, I have an Arian neighbour, female, her and I have nearly come to blows over a 5 year period and finally 6 months ago, we blew up at each other and haven't spoken since. No Aries can stand a Scorpio getting the upper hand in anything. They can piss you off and when they do, it's all "i don't hold grudges' shit from them and innocence while Scorp's are labelled over the top and nasty. You bet, piss me off and I'm not going to be backwards in coming forwards. No, Aries are deep enough and who's sneaky? Scorpio....think again, Aries are very very very manipulative..they have to win, have to. Forget this realationship if it's only about sex. Sex is over-rated.

Melissa 6 years ago

I'm a Scorpio and I'm messing around with a Aries... He acts like hes addicted to me and tells me he loves me.. But honestly I can't stand him at all.. All he does is talk about himself about how great he is blah blahh blahh.. We get in alot of arguments but yet we can't stay away from eachother. One reason i even still talk to him is because I want my revenge on him.. My plan is to make him sooooo crazy about me that he's fucks up his whole family because he lies to me so much about everything

Melissa 6 years ago

He thinks I'm stupid but I'm not

Sonny 6 years ago

Scorpios are idiots.

they are stupid and extreamly sensitive.

Too sensitive to take a damn joke they make me sick.

you can't live a happy life with an attitude like that.

I don't hate scorpios because on how vengfull they are because they don't usually get back at me without me getting back at them last anyways.


you probably are so damn annoying your self that the aries man you talk about probably is just playing around with you teasing you for fun.

I don't blame him.

Megan 6 years ago

I am deeply in love with an aries male and he's also my boss.

We are now together but we just have to bicker and the only time we're not bickering is when we're in the bedroom.

He is crazy about me but he is also 14 years older than me which is why I think it may work. He is explosive at the best of times but he can curtail me and I can temper him.

Here's hoping we can make it work because as much as we are crazy about each other and can't get enough, we also bicker like hell.

Still Waters 6 years ago

My dear Sonny, remember that water can put out fire with little effort. Enough said.

Arress 6 years ago

@Still Waters


Into totall misery and anger.

It's why everyone hates scorpio.

foxy_arian_girl 6 years ago

im an arian girl. my first boyfriend was a scorpion guy. as what i have experience with him. he is a quiet type and we'll follow everything that i want. and when im doing something wrong he never gets mad, he never argue with me. im the one who's into argument. and everytime were in bed, everything is great! scorpion are the serious one. it gets me boring cuz he let me do the lead on our relationship which i think is not good. it should be balance right. so i broke up with him but were still friends after all. and now we are both in a relationship with someone else but everytime that we feel like doin it no question ask we're goin to meet and do the thing. no offense but when it comes to sex aries and scorpio are very hundred percent compatible.

Brenda Bootsy 6 years ago

WOW !!. This is soo unbelieveable. I read everything, and it described my boyfriend and I to the "T"!! I'm still in shock at how freaking close this came to the good and bad times of our relationship. This is absolutely crazy, and without a doubt 100% TRUE!!!!. AMAZING. . . . 8-0

Scorpio male 6 years ago

Im a scorpio male and I met my aries gf about 10years ago.I love her,she drives me up the wall with her spontanious nature.we've had our ups and downs and must say that everything Ive read here pretty much I can relate to and seems to be true with our signs.I can't seem to commit fully to this women who I love more than any other women I ever been with and it all has something to do with me as a scorpio wanting her..seeming to need her to commit to me as much as I am into her.Even though it seems impossible.I love her but I get so jealous at her aggressiveness and her flirtatious ways with others...makes me wonder at how she willingly puts herself in the position to be swept up by another man..I almost did lose her one time...i fought for her and won her back..and our relationship seems to be much stronger today...but still feel i don't have her fully...which is why we're still not married...shes asked me so many times to marry her..and all I do is stall...I know she loves me and I love her..we can't stand each other..yet we can't leave without one another..its amazing and incredible...but I fear that in me feeling like she is too open with others..that it will only open her up to infidelity in the end..why does she need to pull other mens strings..when she has me...?I don't get that..because as a scorpion male..I only see her...

AG 6 years ago

Wow! so sweet scorpio male... I am an aries girl and i think you should set aside your doubts and trust her, and marry her. I know for sure if you do marry her. she will love you and will only see you... just remember to keep the fire burning... Aries girls wants fun and not a boring life.

kdubbz 6 years ago

im an aries girl ive been with my scorpio boyfriend for a year and 6 months we were best friends for 3 years before we realized we liked each other more then friends. he told me he used to talk to his girlfriends about me all the time and they would get mad and most of his girlfriends didn't like me but i didn't care i was still gonna be his friend cuz i didn't like him like that at the time but everyone else seemed to see it. we have the best sex ever and we get along great we have had our fights and break ups but we always end up together i love him so much i can't let go i know we can make it last forever. it all depends on the people if you really love them and they love you, you guys will work thru everything. i mean the way the describe the relationship between aries and scropio is true in most ways but i know deep down we will last forever.

Scorpio male 6 years ago

Its so amazing,the connection you get from the begining between our signs...Its like I truly ran into the only woman I been looking for my whole life...we challenge each other my Aries woman and I,we argue,we laugh,we have shared very intimate,passionate feelings for one another.The best of friends it seems..the one and a scorpio male..I see my aries woman and I see a perfect woman,the unconventional one,so sexy,so alive and so wild and free.It kind of scares me and at the same time keeps me paralyzed in place.I can't see myself giving up on us..patience is a virtue I hold onto very strongly and I feel its more than worth the fighting over.As one of the posts above mentioned about another couple,it seems so perfect for them and I feel I will get there one day seems to be so within grasp..I can almost touch it..Thanks for inputs,I found this page to be so helpful in reguards to understanding that many others feel or are going through similar experiences.

Sheldon 6 years ago

I am an Aries and I had a big argument with my Scorpio friend. I tore up all the cards I gave her and told her that they were totally meaningless to her. She then told me to get out. Ever since we had an argument. I think of her everyday and miss her immmensely. She was such a good friend. Then I had other people starting to interfer by telling me bad things about her and yet I still would not give up on her. I saw her 4 weeks after our argument. I didn't say a word to her, but I could see that she was not too happy by the look on her face. What can I do so that it wont' hurt so much? Is time a great healer between Aries and Scorpio? I need a Scorpios point of view?

Sheldon 6 years ago

I am an Aries and I had a big argument with my Scorpio friend. I tore up all the cards I gave her and told her that they were totally meaningless to her. She then told me to get out. Ever since we had an argument. I think of her everyday and miss her immmensely. She was such a good friend. Then I had other people starting to interfer by telling me bad things about her and yet I still would not give up on her. I saw her 4 weeks after our argument. I didn't say a word to her, but I could see that she was not too happy by the look on her face. What can I do so that it wont' hurt so much? Is time a great healer between Aries and Scorpio? I need a Scorpios point of view?

Scorpio male 6 years ago

Aries and scorpio can either be the best of friends or the worst of I have heard and have come to experience first hand,so when these situations arise where our egos get the best of can guarantee that neither us being scorpios or the aries will back down.Its not in our nature...Me,personally as a scorpio have learned to adapt..and yield as best as possible to my aries needs.Only because of love her.I have also found that we tend to hold onto things longer than aries she will probably more than likely either be holding a grudge...or is moving on...I think you should initiate the first steps into an apology and give her a chance to bring her own guards down so she can do the same.Other than that...this seems like another casual fight we scorpios and aries have together..just got to work with it..and try to fight for what you believe is something good.Hope this helped.Good luck.

Scorpio male 2 6 years ago

Scorpio male - no one should get married if they don't trust their partner completely. The jealous sting you feel when you think she's flirting with someone else, the questioning whether her feelings match yours won't go away when you say I do. A piece of paper doesn't guarantee you a person.

Scorpion king 6 years ago

I'm with Scorpio male 2. I had a gf who was aries and i felt like i had to constantly compete for her. Bid her good luck within ther first three months. In marriage, peace of mind is the most important thing. There is no excuse for anyone to play the field while they are with me....Letting herself be swept by other man...are you kidding me???

lolita 6 years ago

oh my god im related to so many couples in here that's amazing! lol. my husband drives me nuts now, before we were happy best friends ive always defending him in any ways! cuse i hate when somebody putting down someone that i love so we were having so much fun that everybody were jealous! even my sister but what i hate the most about them is they influencable, selfish, think they always right,sometimes coky,and most putting you down you who's their lover and good for them in their life no matter what. so i can't stand him doing that to me when were fighting cuse i do recognize that i have temper a real bad one and im sensitive but i can't help it that's me! if u piss me off prepare yourself to go to hell cuse i'llkill u with my mean words loooool. but like every couple we love each other and we're trying to make it work no matter what cuse we say to each other:{ u aint going nowhere u stuck with me foreverrrr loool.....}

Scorpio male 2 6 years ago

now that's a sad comment.

Clara 6 years ago

I am an Aries woman with a new Scorpio man. Years ago, I vowed to never deal with amother scorpio but here I am again. We have been seeing each other for the past two months. This man completely drives me wild. He makes me feel beautiful yet very insecure. I just want to ravish him. I feel so possessive over him. I want him to myself and I get extremely jealous at the thought of him with another woman. I feel like I have to compete for his attention. our love making is very intense, passionate and animalistic. I am falling in love with him yet my mind tells me to run.

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fiery gal 6 years ago

I am an aries chick with a scorpio guy i am seeing. Man he is very quiet, laid back complete opposite of me. i am out going and loud. i don't hide my feelings but it seems like he doesn't care because he is very preserved and holds his feelings in. BUT i know i care about him dearly. :) he is an amazing person. I am working on myself to make this potential relationship work.

miss_scorpio 6 years ago

nah i don't blive in this crap.. my bf is aries n his da most understanding, loyal, unselfish ive eva known,,, i as a scorpio women i think im more flirty than my aries bf,, but do agree sex is amazing hahah.. its not about astrology,, biggest question is how men n women can get allong,,, ahaha peace

Scorpio male 2 6 years ago

If you don't, then what are you doing browsing through this hub?

Aries woman married to a Scorpio 6 years ago

We've bee together for 10 years, married for over 5, have two kids together, and are among the happiest couples I know.

We worked through most of the stuff early on. We both changed.

There was jealousy on his part at first, but I was brutally open and honest, telling him in horrid detail about every crush I had, but never cheating, and he realized he could really trust me. He is now the least jealous of all men I know. He's friends with the guy I was madly in love with for a year while we were dating.

His home/family is his thing, so I compromised by allowing it to be our mutual area of interest, putting money into making it a comfortable nest, not something an Aries loves, but not a bad thing for family life. In return, he has no problems staying with the kids whenever and wherever I want to go. It's great having that freedom once you're a married woman with kids, especially for an Aries.

What I appreciate about him is his ability to take my brutal honesty and his insights about life in general and my hidden motives in particular. I need that.

Scorp man 5 years ago

I am super attached to a girl I just met. She's an aries (obviously.) I can't get her out of my head, and neither can she. We fight like cat and dog and then make up.

I always seem to say the wrong thing. I guess I do take myself too seriously. Any advice on maybe lightening up a bit? I really want to make this work...

Chaarna 5 years ago

To the Aries woman above; I agree! I think what will trigger Scorpios jealousy the most is _not knowing_. We're into control, and not knowing what's going on and why it's going on will be highly destructive.

I am scorp sun, rising, mars and venus, but I am very rarely jealous. My Aries told me early on what the deal was with him; that he enjoyed flirting, but never would go further than that. I appreaciated the honesty, and had but one request for him; never do it infront of me.

I think if something is true with us scorps, it is that we value honesty. As long as Aries keeps it honest and feeds information to the point other signs might think would be blunt and a turn off, Scorp will have no grounds for jealosy. We'll be flattered, and definitely not scared off. There is no darkness in this world that can scare a Scorpio! Aries should be able to take information like this from Scorpio as well. Which means the Scorp has to open up and actually share things. Try it sometime, Scorps. It's sooooo hard, but it's worth it! Just close your eyes, take a deep breath and just blurt out some of those emotions you keep locked up; there's positive ones in there: tell them to your Aries, he'll appreciate it!

With that said, I am definitely not perfect. The Eye for an Eye approach is something I can not help, and would give the world to loose. If my Aries is distant because of work, I will get distant because of spite.

Long story short: It can work, but both needs to communicate about all the big things as well as the little things, Scorp needs to open up a little and Aries needs to realise that in this relationship there is two egos that needs to be fed. One just isn't as open about it.

Blah 5 years ago

I like an Aries guy who is mysterious and I'm a Scorpio and people say I'm predictable and non-mysterious. This page is confusing me.

Kay 5 years ago

I'm a Aries Woman, and he is a Scorpio Male. There is just something about him that drives me crazy,We just seem to click. We talk about the most random and crazy things ever and its great!!! I honestly haven't really felt like this for anyone in a long time. I kind of goofed and ended up getting into a relationship with someone else, but ended it because I wanted the Scorpio man much more(the only reason I was dating other people is because Him and I had a talk before and he didn't want a relationship) But when he found out I had a boyfriend he said he never said he didn't want a relationship(although he did!) There was just something about him that I just couldn't resist,So I broke it off with the other guy and now choosing to just stop seeing other guys and see how things go with him. I really hope they go the way I want them too, like I said we click, theres just something there.

Ariesgal 5 years ago

I'm aries, he's scorpio. We dated for a year and then broke it off when I left for grad school, now we've been back together for about 9 months, after a 10 year gap. Yeah, 10 years apart and now we're back... some things never change. He can be controlling, even/especially in the bedroom, but it works. The sex is EXPLOSIVE!!! We're kind of a strange situation now where I'm the one with the better job and more money but so far he is hanging in and I am trying to be a little bit more considerate of his feelings and not my usual barging through life ways. :) Anyway, moral of the story is we really do love each other and this amazing connection and bond we had so many years ago never died. When we saw each other again it was fireworks and nothing had changed. So hope this time we last!

yng 5 years ago

scopios repspect the honesty from the aries and the realness

Danielle 5 years ago

I am a 28 year old Aries (yes, age is a factor in this) and I am engaged to a 38 year old Scorpio male. We have been together for 3 years now, planning a summer wedding next year. I have had my wild days, and when I found my mate, I was fresh out of the latest less-than-fulfilling relationship. I now have the undivided adoration of a man who I find to be as magnetic as he is maddening. We Aries women have a strong fire, mine being only tempered by his deep Scorpio water. We are perfect opposites, in such a complementary way: he is reserved to the point of appearing cold, I wear all my emotions in my eyes (no hiding anything from his piercing gaze); I am ambitious with my own fires burning, he is slow to action to the point he turns me into a nag; I am a clean freak, he is a pig. But there are the good points, and as most things with us, the good stuff is almost primitive: I am woman, he is man; I am fire, he is water; I am loyal, he is doting; I am the butterfly, he is my flower; I am heart, he is body; we fit together so well in these ways that our only conflict comes when either of us step outside our own circle and into the other's space. As long as there is respect to not "boil the water or put out the fire", life is harmonious with us. I really feel that he is my life mate, specially designed to be there to teach this Aries to be the woman, to be soft and learn that in the right man, control can be relinquished. It make hims feel powerful to let him slay my dragons (event though we both know I am perfectly able to take care of myself). He adores me for letting him be "the man" and I "the woman" even though are planets have given us different mindsets. I have my moments of doubt, those awful days when I hate him for making me burn so hot, it reminds me very clearly of that Eminem song "Love the Way You Lie" (i.e. "...When a tornado meets a volcano..."). But then I look into his eyes and see that for him, there is no woman on this earth but me, so deep is his love, that I can't help but let those fires bank a little bit. No man has ever loved me so much that is was a tangible thing, and as an Aries, I will not let it go without an epic fight. I love him, and I know no man will ever be able to compare to the singular, soul-felt, sexually-charged, outright worship of the Scorpio man!

Someone xD 5 years ago

I'm a Scorpio, and I usually attract MANY Aries friends.

I really do love them. They usually last a year or two, and usually ends up with a bitter fight. Oddly enough, I'm usually not the one to end the friendship.

It makes me extremely upset, too, because they are usually very close to me; dear to my heart.

Scorpios! Try to stay away from Aries.

They will leave you very sad, most likely. D: >

aries 5 years ago

i was with a scorpio we realy loved each other but now um with a leo

KelzScorpio1031? 5 years ago

I'm the Scorpio IN L?VE with my Aries 1st friend, 1st best friend since we were 4 years old! We're engaged & MADLY IN L?VE after only 1 month courtship & haven't even had sex yet! We've noticed TOOO MANY signs that we're meant to be that to deny it....we'd HAVE to be psycho! My cell # is his entire birthdate! The extra # is 7....Completion! His employee ID # is my childhood address! We complete each others sentences & can absorb each others pain....we ARE a match made in heaven! We even did the l?ve match, romantic compatibility, couples compatibility, sexual soulmate on MATCH! I prayed to God to give me signs that this is true l?ve 1 night before I went to sleep. When I woke the next morning, both of our horoscopes were in my email like each day except this is thee 1st time I've read my daily scope!!!

On August 16, 2011,


One day you'll realize that the l?ve you've been waiting for has been right in front of u the whole time! Considering you're always on the go at breakneck speed, it's easy for u to miss the obvious. Slow down & read the signs before u miss the l?ve of your life!


You're forever drawn to the danger of l?ve. The more potentially bad for u, the more u rush headlong in true moth-to-flame fashion! Being 1 of the most stubborn signs of the zodiac, you're not easily convinced to choose otherwise. One day your perfect bad boy will come in, for better or worse!

Destiny Confirmed!

I'm sure most of u believe in God, regardless of how true ANY horoscope reads.....ALL IS POSSIBLE IN GOD! And NONE of know what our rib/ribcage looks like! Media has played a hugely demonic part in intercepting our true l?ves & fates with their superficial brainwashing. NO ONE has ever dug up a perfect diamond without having to carve the roughage off of it & then carve the facets that we know as a diamond! In other words, it's takes TREMENDOUS pressure, time, heat to form a diamond. Tooo many of us are expecting our soulmate to just fall out of the sky or show up in our mailboxes in absolute perfection! It doesn't exist! Quit being so difficult, let go, l?ve deeply, let God, & LIVE A GLORIOUS LIFE! ?† ;-)

Chazzy 5 years ago

Me and My aries girlfriend just getting started.. and God, were fighting as hell! .. we didn't expect everything that we will attracted to each other as love at first sight, yes, she's not the passionate one, and she is selfish, she admit that, and I cried so many times about that.. but I can't let go her for some reasons.. She can't give me up to for some reasons that we can't find.. we enjoy being with each other , but when we fight, better have some pail of patience, because we scorpios, have to be patient as soon as possible, because aries is the one who give ups the fight anyway because they forgive and forget unlike us.. And I really don't understand why Arians flirts so much, like were getting insecure that there are times that I think that is my love that good enough to make her stop that?.. but after that she'll return to me and say, i love you, don't let go.. what's up with that?.. darn.. this will be a complicated match.. but what can I say.. we love each other.. in an odd way.

Guest 5 years ago

Aries (female) and Scorpio (male) going on 5 years and still strong!!

Best relationship I ever had. Completely dependent on trust and understanding. If you can sit down and listen to what the other person has to say, then you have a good chance (true for any relationship).

Scorpio K 5 years ago

Hi Jim! I'm a Scorpio who was engaged to an Aries man. We were together for 7 yrs. I caught him texting & calling another girl for 3days straight, constantly. I've caught him talking to few girls before but I know he was so in love with me, he just gets tempted sometimes. Our relationship was so amazing & we were always inseparable but one day when I caught him, didn't want to admit it. He left to his friends house, broke up with me over the phone, hid from me. I found him at his friends house, & his friends wouldn't let us talk. I had noticed lately hes been excited hanging out with his friends. I think his friends controls him. For a long time he didn't really have friends. It was just me & him. Do you think one day he will come back & realize? Do you he just need time because he's frustrated. I'm still crazy in love with him but now, he acts like I never existed. He made drastic changes all in one day, shortsaled the house, got a new number, cut all contacts for me, doesn't want see to me anymore, but then I asked him if he wants me to completely move on, he told well knows in a couple of months here I will give you my new number, & we can start talking again (we just email now & he hardly responds).

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JJ 5 years ago

Hi i'm Ares man (25) and I was in a relationship with a Scorpio (22) for two and half years. At fist everything was perfect to the T but with time and getting to know scorpios temper and stubbornness it just got to the point a needed a break, but after 5 months of no contact what so ever..

It just took a eye contact from car to car (since I live close by the college she attends to) and she was calling me... have been dating for about a month ... god I LOVE HER I rely need her back in my life I don't care how a pain in the a** she can be some times.. I just feel something that pulls me towards her and my hart just what's to go nuts when i'm close to her .... I hope it works out

Alexis.A 5 years ago

I'm an Aries and I have a Scorpio sister, boy do we fight a lot. No I'm not that sort of person who has to be always right, I just want people to be honest with me. My sister is a compulsive liar and when she's in the wrong, she gives a pokerface, Scorpios will NEVER admit they're wrong. They will argue till their very last breath, never mind if the argument doesn't make sense anymore. My sister is also VERY competitive, if she loses she will trash things up, everything must be ME FIRST! Oh and she's a vindictive little bitch, like if I ignore her(not on purpose), she has to go on her crazy revenge schemes to 'PUNISH' me.

I see people talking about all these crap about Aries when Scorpios are the ones who are INSANE! I would say Scorpio guys are milder though but them girls make me wanna tear my hair out!

cassie 5 years ago

i just got out of a relationship with a scorpio man, and i am an aries. he was too much to handle. always said that i didn't care enough and i didn't give him enough attention and stuff when in reality i was busy with school and work, and i like 2500 miles away from him. however it was a great relationshipwhen we were close. now he just finds reasons to fight with me, so i really see where this is acurate.

the funny thing is we broke up and another guy came into my life who is also a scorpio. we get along great yet he's leaving soon. i think i want a relationship more than he does. with all this in the past idk what to think. scorpios haunt me, i swear, and i love scorpio men. weird.

starreaux 5 years ago

scorpio and aries have a certain magic you can't put your finger on matter how much they fussy they can't live without each other ....

ariesgirl 5 years ago

I'm an Aries, and my best friend since child hood is a Scorpio. We get along great. we only fight every so often, but we couldn't live without each other.

Scorpio19 5 years ago

My boyfriend is an Aries. He says what's on his mind, but I try to not rock the boat. But little does he know, Im ready to let him have it. But this is dead on. We haven't really argued but we have become angry with each other. We are both stubborn and strong. He is very similar aggressivly to me but we all know Scorpio's always have an extra trick up their sleeves. The passion is definitely there. But he makes me so mad I just want to physically fight him.

scorpio 412 5 years ago

me and this guy has been dating on and off for about 5 years now. im a scorpio and hes a aries it gets really messy and its really hard but somehow we always manage to find each other again

jazzy baby 5 years ago

im the happest i have ever been and im a aries and hes a scorpio.sometimes he pisses me off cuz he can act like hes better then me but at the end of the day we make up i love him and would trade it for the world reading all this i can see it may be hard cuz some of the post dounds like me and him its like when im right im right and that's that and he will give in or say sorry with even knowing why he sorry and it kills me but we find our way everybody is diff so im wishing for the best for us don't want nor need anybody but my botty bear

Scorpio Female 5 years ago

I'm married to an aries, over 30 years now. I'm having the 30 + itch! He can't keep up wth me and he's only one year older than me!

Lind 5 years ago

I love a Libra guy and I am an Aries girl

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theastrology 5 years ago from New Delhi

Hey! Nice Article on .. Here, I have got good information about Aries and Scorpio zodiac signs.


Shaina 5 years ago

Wow I have always been intersted in astrology as a hobbie. I never really believed a relationship was more then the here and now. I have been dating a Scorpio man for a year he and I have the exact issues other scorpio-aries relationships have. He is a very jealous hearted person I am a flirt by nature but mean nothing by it. There are trust issues because of it and I don't trust him because he can be very hush.hush about other aspects of his life. When we love its like nobody exists but us, however when we fight its on. Were both possesive and have a high ignition point with one another. He doesn't seem to grasp that if he puts limits on me it only makes me want to fight the condition to which he expects me to adhere to. I have went back and forth for months with how I see this longterm. I can't stand being away from him even though he drives me nuts. I can't live with 'em can't live without 'em its really frustrating. I know a lot of it is because of the sex. It'S like nothing I have ever experienced before. Scorpio men are highly irrisistable to me and I to them apperently considering this is my third relationship with one. If we could just accept certain things about each other I think we could be content with each other for life but were both wicked stubborn so only time will tell..

Zendi Paul Gunat 5 years ago

Great comments indeed. I an aries met a scorpio lady 5 months ago, the starting was pretty amazing, but as time went on it became extremely complicated but thanks to horoscope it gave me a detail process on how to go on with a scorpio woman. believe me I had to make my self venerable to accusation and all manner of disregarding attitude then things started working out very well for us and am soon getting married to her which means I would have to be more accommodating.

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Christofers Flow 5 years ago from Denver Author

Yes. You will have to be more accommodating. With two driving and independent types like this, there has to be an understanding that everything is "quid pro quo". You give and you get. Sometimes the calculation is tough to detail, but in an over all sense you have to give without pain and receive with thankfulness.

justanotherface 5 years ago

i think for us Aries chicks... well i know were a hand full sometimes but who isn't. Yes we have our differences between each other,(aries and scorpio) but i think really if you want us to be completely by yourside, because honestly were not ganna stand aside and let you tell us what to do all the time, YES! we are still going to have our strong voice and

justanotherface 5 years ago

(continued)...beautiful strong independent personality! we are not just another girl off the street. We are woman of strength, pride,and compassion we love because we know its a reason to live for. We fight for what we believe in because we are believers in life. We have complete faith in life even when all hope may see lost. We find a way, trust us, love us, show us how crazy you are about us, how much you adore us. Tell us you love us every now and then let us know that you care that you will always be there no matter. After all forever is forever. right?! don't back down now... Scorpio... you want a challenge... well so do we! and we don't mean war. We mean just don't lose faith no matter how hard it gets. No matter how rough it is! If you really love us you'll show us not just say it. And that doesn't mean by buying us roses and expensive gifts all the time. Love can't be bought, which im pretty sure we both believe in. We LOVE your intensity, your passion, and your complete determination in life. And that doesn't have to go for just the sex like everyone keeps saying that, that is the only thing that was good out of the relationship. Were all about action! We have to see it to believe it, to be completely sure of somethings. (not everything; ex: faith) Were just as afraid as you of being deeply hurt and betrayal is a huge NO! Im hoping that all my fellow arians still stay true to the truth, even if it hurts.If a relationship isn't working break it off before you move on.Please!And scorpio trust is earned... By showing us, just like we gotta prove ourselves to you u gotta prove yourself to us. And try your best to be understanding, please. Aries don't forget you MANNERS! and pactients, after all its a virtue.other than that keep up the magic;) everybody everything happens for a reason so don't worry about the hard times cause if you two can pull through that you can make it through anything. Its all about understanding, pacitents,trust, and balance. good luck to all the ones in and out of love:)

Erica 5 years ago

I'm an aries woman I am having a bit of difficulty lol with my scorpio bf. He is rather mean to me....Like I'm really sensitive and get really hurt and won't say anything and he'll just keep going on like nothing happened and when he notices that I 'm not responing then he tells me that he was kidding and to forget about it. Like I love him but he just does things to me that makes me thinks twice of him but I can't let him go even if I tried. I am 19 and he is my first real relationship and he is 24 he had many relationships more than I did and other things....anyway we were Friends first and only friends like I was waiting for a true love to come along and then bam before we knew it....well I started falling in love with him and vice versa. We have come along way together we are best friends..we spend every minute together only us everyday and when it's good it's going great but when it's ugly then it's ugly. But scorpios are really rude very inconsiderate of the one's they love feelings. Note my father is a scorpio very violent and mean hates everyone including himself I was raised by him.....and all of my mean traits come from him. So this is to all the scorpios out there funny how only the scorpios are talking shit lol....Don't be quick to judge

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Christofers Flow 5 years ago from Denver Author

If you had a Scorpio father, and he was as you say, then you probably need to think about your current relationship in psychological terms. Once you have him, now, what are you going to learn from him. Maybe, you are supposed to learn something and then go on. Who knows? But this is definitely more complicated. Of course, Aries is so dynamic, pondering father issues may be too arduous.

Priscilla 5 years ago

Guys, cheer up! Its bad but its not that bad lol. Ive been dating a scorpio for over 2 years now. We fell in love really quick but when we started dating, we couldn't stop fighting. We would fight once a week at least. And the reasons were always silly, too silly to be true. After a while we stopped fighting so much and now a days we already know how each other work and I guess we just adjusted to it. We changed because we love each other to death and we want to make this work. He is very emotional and sensitive and I do have trouble dealing with it sometimes but it only helped me have more patience. It took him a while to understand I love romance and every now and then he surprises me with something new and exciting and I just love it. He is very jealous and controller and I do like to think Im the boss but we found ways so he can control and I can boss around lol. Mind over matter, always, and you can make it work!

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Christofers Flow 5 years ago from Denver Author

Observe above my continuing comment. Romance is designed to make you transcend yourself. You have to use your conscious mind to make changes. The positive aspect of love and romance, economic survival, the maintenance of family life, the desire to parent your children, etc. is enough to actually change the rambunctious, aggressive, selfish nature you were born with.

alliah 5 years ago

i am scorpion girl, and i am so inlove with my aries boyfriend what ever it takes i'll wait for him..his my ideal future husband

Tmscorp 5 years ago

This sounds alot like me and an Aries I've been dating. I think I might be in love with him but I don't want to get ahead of myself. and freak him out, even though he says I won't but I still feel the need to hold myself back just a little even though it kills me a little..

Tmscorp 5 years ago

Except the arguments. We haven't argued yet. I hope they don't come either because we both said we don't have arguments. I think our synastry keeps things in a harmonious state. ^_^ - Scorpio Woman

Shef 5 years ago

LOL you all are so true! I am a scorpio and like an Aries friend who don't like me back!We had 3-4 big arguments in past 2 years due to which we went away and just because of my efforts again back to the same friendship again. Its like a circle of arguments-separation-friendship which just goes on and on.

chantel 5 years ago

would this all be true for a scorpio moon and aries moon?

our sun signs are cancer and pisces...if you have any input please email me!!! this is my 2nd relationship after a divorce, we have a baby together and it would mean a lot to have some tools under my belt to make it work.

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Christofers Flow 5 years ago from Denver Author

Aries Moon will give secret anger. Scorpio Moon will give complex internal ruminations. Cancer and Pisces, now that aint bad. No drop dead fights. Let the Cancer be the boss. Let the Pisces be wiser and show kindness. This could be very harmonious and loving. Cancer back off on the loud demands, and stop tapping the foot impatiently.

justanotherface 5 years ago

I am so sick of people saying that the Aries is self-centered, and very demanding in such a ways as being negative!!!aahhhh.... it is so frustrating. I feel that it isn't fair to say all those things because were also generous, kind and can be very compassionate!

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Christofers Flow 5 years ago from Denver Author

Aries can be generous, kind and compassionate. Each sign houses souls that are wonderful and evolved. Signs express things negatively in different ways. Aries are actually very talented and total achievers. You can have wonderful examples of high level souls in each of the 12 signs. How a person expresses themselves gets down to the totality of their chart.

5 years ago

My ex girlfriend is an Aries and she was a lying sneaky b*tch. Selfish and cared nothing in the world but to get stoned everyday and sleep. She was very immature for her age.

Ivy 4 years ago

I've been communicating with an incredible Aries man for a few months now. His hot and coldness frustrates me so much as a Scorpio woman. And my emotions frustrates him. However he keeps drawing me in...

I run away and hide for a short time then he chases me, I fall for it and then he disappear for a while and then it repeats. LOL

There is some magic between Aries and Scorpios.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

There is some magic indeed. Sometimes its alchemical and makes you feel immortal. Sometimes it feels like it kills you, but then you get reborn. There is definitely something you have to teach each other.

Ivy 4 years ago

That's so true Mr. Flow! I have learned so much from him. I've learned to not be so serious and inflexible. He is thankfully opening up to me, but wow I've never experienced this kind of intensity before!

amazon27 4 years ago

12th year w my aries...had our ups and downs in the beginning...always have the passion...married 4yrs. ....worked through it all..understand each other and have a wonderful marriage....I am 100%so scorpio and he gets me.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

amazon 27: That is great! This is dynamic. The key is understanding each other.

Ivy: Yes. "not so serious and inflexible" - perfect.

lolaluv695 4 years ago

I was looking for hope and now I've found it. I'm a scorpion woman and I've been with my Aries man going on 7 years now. It's been a rough ride. First year was great its what set me in for the long haul. My Aries is actually the only man I've ever been with. After the first year its like our relationship went to hell. He kept his cheating and flirtatious ways secret but it all came out in time. Insecurity set in trust destroyed but still couldn't leave eachother alone. And we have tried many times longest we have managed to be apart is a week. Fast forward 4 years later and two kids. Infidelity are a thing of the past but no trust insecurities lots of arguments and short fuses. We know by now that we just don't want anybody else we love eachother and we are great parents. The issue of marriage is now upon us. I love him I would marry him today because there's no doubt that he is the one I want. It's not that simple for him. He is more realistic we don't get along and we don't understand eachother. Who wants to get married knowing that they have a high probability by nature of getting a divorce in the future because of our differences. I needed some confirmation that we "a Scorpio and an Aries" could work and could survive together. I've found some inspiration here especially when I read about the couple that's been married for 30 years. Still could use some advice on how to understand eachother better and get along.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

I am glad for you. Read the "Triad" article and send me you Sun Signs, Rising Signs and Moon Signs and I will do a free comment.

Briana 4 years ago

I am a Scorpio woman and I'm in love with this guy and he's an Aries,all I can say is that everything they say is so true,we have only been dating for 2 months and it's still pretty steamy lol but I'm afraid in the long run we won't be together and that upsets me..I've never had sex with a guy and it be that good!!!

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Briana: It's dangerous for you to be you. It's dangerous for you to be with him. "Dangerous" I mean to be a psychic type reaction. You should respect each other first before anything else. Then deal with each other sensitively.

Dispair29 4 years ago

I don't know if this page has given me hope or the sad truth! I am Scorpio female and have been hurt so bad in the past in giving my heart away, I tend to fall fast and hard, not sure if that has anything to do with me being born on the cusp of saggitarius 22nov.... Anyway I met an Aries 3months ago and he is a bit of a playboy or his past is definitely and he has been honest and told me about it saying he wants to settle down and I can trust him, he has never met anyone like me before and see's me as his future..... I have already realised I can be controlling but I have also been very supportive mentally and financially while he was out of work during this time....he is really suspicious of me and my where abouts and displays the same jealousy as a Scorpio yet I have given him no reason, we have been fighting a lot in the last 6 weeks and 5 days ago he stopped answering my calls After I turned off my phone the night before after a fight, called next morn 5 times and have had no a stubborn Scorpio and someone who has been hurt bad before I have not called since as I feel if he wants me truly he knows how to contact me....but I am getting weaker by the day and want to contact but I know I will never know his true feelings if I contact him...I feel if he comes back then he really loves me and I was not "used"during the last few weeks when he needed help. Would really appreciate some advice as to what to do here....we are both early 30s but in love there is no sense!!! He is 5apr if that helps as I don't understand the moon signs.....should I contact him and always wonder if he cared enough he would contact me....he broke the contact....,or should I wait and if it's meant to be will......thanks in advance for advice :)

nonyabusiness 4 years ago

This makes Scorpios look bad. I am a female Scorpio and let me just tell you that Scorpios are ride or died friends and lovers. For you not to trust us makes us go crazy and then we tend to do things that would hurt because you don't trust us in the first place. Yes, we are overly protective and sometimes possessive but we make it up to you in loyalty and love. I know that I am a hard person to get along with if I am in a bad mood or just need my alone time but that's goes with my personality. Word of advice:let us come to you when we are angry or upset. My boyfriend is an Aries and we both work at our relationship non stop. I think people need to realize that its not just one person that's at fault in a relationship its both sides and you have to be able to work at it.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Despair 29. I don't feel confident giving specific advice on these emotion filled situations. I know that people keep going back to sad and despair filled relationships because they are trying to learn old lessons, and since they can't they go back. And somehow, you can't tell people to seek peace, because that's not "meaningful". What I just said is true of romance in general. These signs can't back off and they can't dish up anything but what they are. That's why the continual stress. I would advise taking a psychic vacation. Give yourself a break.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

nonyabusiness: I agree with you. Its just that Scorpio's inner self often gets lost in the translation. Scorpio gets misread a lot. They are deeply sincere.

scorpio gal 4 years ago

im a scorpio..and im in a relationship with aries!!! although we hav misunderstandings...we imensly love eachother...and i blame myslf for the fights...problem is here...hez da nicest person :((( jus cant live without him..

Brittany 4 years ago

ok..i find this funny...cause, i feel like the roles are swicthed here in a way. im an aries female, he's a scorpio male. i fear he is too flirty and always set in his ways, and im so into the deep inner spirituality of people. the two of us our extremely in love with each other. (i'd say) unfortunatly, he cheated on me... 3times, (in the 1st and 2nd month of dating)......i can't bare to leave him....he is in jail because one of the girls was 14, that he cheated on me with (he just turned 20) and im so lost and confused as to why he would have done that. he did it in the beginning of the relationship on the second month and when he found out that i knew about it, he cried and begged and pleaded for me to forgive him...he thought i was going to leave him and i found him trying to commit suicide and i saved him..he cried again...he wrote me letters everyday (even if we were right next to each other)and they would say how much he loved me and how stupid he was for what he did.he keeps saying "please...marry me?" in his letters...he gave me his things, he gave me his $100 dollar cologne, he gave me muffin mix ( :D ) cause he LOVES to cook and bake. he told me a thousand times he wants me to be the mother of his kids and he wants knowone else to be his wife and mother his children, but me. we are both so young, and i truly want this to work. he is all i think about, he is on my mind constantly. he makes me stop everything im doing because i can't concentrate on anything BUT him. im afraid to say yes to his actual marriage proposal and then find i made a mistake because of the cheating...he always wants sex, and im a guessing he sees me as a game....his family says he hasn't ever been this serious about a girl ever...that he spoke about me all the time. before he went to jail, he lived with his parents and he would always bae me little deserts and stuff and deliver them to me and act like a stranger and then make me laugh. he is silly in public places and so am i ....we love the same music, we both love psychology...we both love writing.....we see alot of each other in each other...and i think that's why we are attracted to each other. any advice would be great

happy scorpio 4 years ago

Hi im married to an awesum Aries man for 6 years..we've been together for 14 years. He is kind, loving and a wonderful human being, a husband God has blessed with. we have arguments not serious, the sex is "OMG". So scorpio girls if you find an aries man..don't let go.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Brittany: Since you are a Virgin and he has his record of activity, I would say that you are in for a great deal of learning, patience and devotion. If I were your father I would worry for you. Since I am just a theoretical observer, I can say that an Aries has boundless energy, so you have much to give, and you can recover if you are hurt. The promise and the hope of love is what keeps the human race going foreward. Just be advised that a scorpio male full of his own sense of himself is hard to control. All the best.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

happy scorpio: Sounds great. All the best to both of you.

Brittany 4 years ago

hello, im back for an update. i recently received a letter from my scorpio "bf" and he said he didn't want to be with me. he said "ha! you think your going to marry me?! pshhh!" saying things like that but afterwards saying "i love you, you are my beloved." , he had 18 pages of this bipolar writing. it is quite confusing and i can't seem to let him go. i am currently trying to date a friend of mine (a libra) and trying so see if my feelings will go away for my scorpio, but i guess i can't shake him. he has mesmerized me beyond anything i've ever known, now i feel the need for him. but im trying to hide it, trying to push out the feelings by dating my friend. its working halfway. i want to know how to fix the relationship between me and my scorpio...before i get too far into my friend (libra). please do not judge me..please. i just need advice and this is the only place i can get it

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Brittany: If you are mesmerized by a person that writes pages of bipolar literature, and you have a happy, charming Libra right there for your choosing, there is no question. Just because has a spell on you doesn't mean you should drink the poison. Get your mind and heart in a calm condition and go seek peace with a Libra, or Taurus, or Virgo, or Pisces.

maryjane 4 years ago

OMG Im a ARIES and my Partner also Father of my Child is a Scorpio.. we fight all the time when we are toghter and when we are apart we miss eachother like crayze.. Hes really possesive and im laid back and out going! this is really buzzy. I love him so much that im going to do everything to make it work.

Brittany 4 years ago

So this will be my final update. The libra man I spoke of before was lying to me and betrayed me. Trust was lost. But guess who stuck around...yep, my Scorpio. I told him that I couldn't be with him and that I'm moving on. And now I'm receiving letter after letter everyday and even one that was sent to my mother begging me to be with him, for me to Marry him. But I'm sticking to your advice christofer. I'm moving from my hometown, getting a job, looking for myself and im focusing on my future. But I will always love my Scorpio man but I have priorities that need to be tended to before I set off with someone who can't make up his mind. Thanks christofer for reading and responding. I will always love my Scorpio ...

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Brittany: The stronger and more stabilized you get, the easier it will be to get back in touch with your Scorp. All the best.

steve 4 years ago

Well I had a relationship with a scorpio for 20 years. Our success was based on compromise. Although the relationship has it's share of feistiness, we are the envy of other more compatible and more boring relationships. If you can make this relationship work, you do amazing things together and even for each other...but you both need to look inward and choose battles carefully.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Steve: Well said. The boring part that people fear is not in this combo. The time spent contemplating your fights can be really valuable. The deeper part of this reading is that both get a chance to transcend themselves, if they want to try to. But, that's for "church", and these two don't tend to be geared that way.

Zendi Gunat 4 years ago

I am an aries man, i gave my love and my entire commitment to a scorpio woman some time last year, indeed i had the most amazing and painful moments with her. The beginning was dandy but currently flames have turned to dust. We are not lovers and we are not friends. I am not perfect so i didn't expect perfection from her, but i one thing i know for sure is that i tried to make it work but it didn't, not becos i wasn't strong to hold on but becos i realized i was the only one trying to salvage the relationship. She is the type of woman that can silence the roar of hungry lion and send it to deep sleep ( every man desire ) but she treated me like shit. I have a very painful story to tell but i can't go on cos am trying real hard to forget about her. The point here is that no matter how death a scorpio see's an aries, spark him or her with tenderness, undivided attention, fedelity and eligance as far as i am concern, he will light up with the burning desire to make u happy for the rest of your life.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Zendi Gunat: Zendi there is a powerful statement of pain here. The crucible of human love and emotion is such that it can feel that it won't end, and that it will last forever. The pain will end. The Scorpion is extremely complex. If you can think about the idea that she is not entirely in touch with her insides. Blessings.

Brandie 4 years ago

I am an Aries deeply haunted by an encounter with a Scorpio. I've never had quite this reaction or pull to someone, especially so quickly. He's a broken, weak Scorpio according to him, and until our meeting I was the strong hopeful Aries. Now I'm just a mess. I feel obsessed and wish he were healthy so I could pursue the intense connection we had before he remembered he had too much hurt inside. I haven't been the same happy go lucky me since I met him.

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Brandie: Your problem appears to be a fantastic method for serpentine seduction. Apart from the dark imaginings of a novelist, I would say you should truly figure out what all this means to you. If you are saying, "I wish he was healthier, because I love him so when he is better", that's one thing. If this is just a deeply plotted romantic trick foisted by a morose Scorpio, then it's up to you to determine this. Play a card. My suggestion is to back off and see what he does. This might give you a reading. Blessings.

Brandie 4 years ago

Thank you for your response! I had decided to do what you suggest before finding this site. i hope it all works out, I'll be sure to post if anything does. :D

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

This is intriguing. Get back to me if you feel comfortable in doing so. Blessings.

Brandie 4 years ago

I backed off, and didn't speak to him for over a week. Still deeply affected though. He contacted me after 9 days. He has started therapy, and is just as haunted by me as I am him. He just needs to get healthy so we can see where we stand. I know what I want, it's just a matter of him getting whole again. I will update again hopefully with even better results. Again, thank you so much! =) blessings to you as well!

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Brandie: There is certainly nothing wrong with restored health. Once whole, a couple can make real analysis. All the best.

youthful Aries woman 4 years ago

I was wondering if you could do a compatibility reading for me, involving my boyfriend's birthday and my own (for specifics, not just general stuff based on sun signs alone)? Your article seems to be the most accurate that I have come across so far and I definitely believe in the transformative possibility idea regarding personal growth. I am a female aries, with a libra moon...and he is a male scorpio, with a libra moon...I am a horse in the chinese zodiac (1990) and he is a snake in the chinese zodiac (1989)...we are both in our 20's and we have known each other since we were 16 or 17 in high school- always had extreme chemistry. Everything on the internet so far has gone really back and forth about us. In the last year I have experienced tremendous personal growth within myself, improvement of my faults, expansion of my perspectives, and how I communicate with other people in general. I almost feel like a completely different person, as if it is somewhat surreal- I still feel like I am in a major transformative phase (a very positive one). I have noticed some very big changes in my scorpio too (after we took a year break from each other)...but I am not sure if my scorpio guy is being sincere with his changes or if he is just saying/doing what he thinks I want to hear, which he is very good at- he has impeccable intuition for what people want, and he usually knows how to get his way with them by playing into their desires. Then when he has them hooked, he changes...but I am kind of feeling as though he is genuine about his personal growth and maturity this time. I always tell him that he is quite the sweet talker. I go back and forth on feeling like he's sincere and/or possibly playing me...but he feels the same way about me, or so he says. If you would be okay doing the compatibility charts with our specific birthdays, please give me a contact email that I can reach you at. In the last year I have become very spiritual and interested in astrology (I have checked out your articles on and over over that time as well)...I am not sure if this matters, but my mother is an Aquarius and my father is a Cancer (parents can have an impact on how their child's sun sign develops- which is something I saw on a previous comment on this blog).

youthful Aries woman 4 years ago

Correction (towards the end): *I have checked out your articles on and off over the last year

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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Female Aries/Libra Moon - Male Scorpio/Libra Moon - I do not do personal horoscopes at this time, but I appreciate your asking. Your guy is a sweet talker with insight because of that info that you have given me. Libra provides the sweet. Since you are obviously so devoted to conscious development I would say that you are going to always be like you are. No doubt. You can't expect him to line up with you. It occurs to me that he could be more demanding of you. You sound like you are on a wonderful path. If you want something from my heart, it would be that you could get your foot off the pedal a little. You are at a very dynamic time of life. When people come to the end of their twenties they are hitting their first Saturn return. This is where big change occurs. Go to an astrologer that will do a complete compatibility work up on both of you. When you are dealing with a Scorpio you always have to figure out how many layers deep you are. Libra Moon gives a strong sexuality in your deeper nature. I don't mean prurient or sensual. I mean you identify your natures sexual and psychic together. When a woman says: "Now this time, you are going to do this right?" And he is a Scorpio, besides being a man, you could be looking for complications. Blessings on your both. Remember consciousness is everything.

Alexis 3 years ago

i am a Aries and I am in love with a Scorpio and he loves me and we are still together but we fuss from time to time but we talk about it and get an understanding but he thinks his the boss and me to so its hard sometimes to CAUSE HE GETS ON MY NERVES AND SO PLAYFUL!!!!!!!!!

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

Alexis: Expect to get on each other's nerves. That's what you both have bought into. Neither of you is going to submit, act sweet and submissive and accept the other's bossiness. All of this is OK, as long as you see it as part of the deal. You both think you are the boss. Nice if you can talk. That makes all the difference. Don't call each other on the carpet. Don't lay down some challenge. Just keep on trying to get along. Blessings to you both.

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MaeMG 3 years ago

I'm an Aries lady and at one point in my life had this magnetic affinity towards a Scorpio gentleman. It was strange I was drawn to him for some reason, but I set myself apart from him and never gave myself the chance to get to know him fully. I've read stuff about the compatibility for this pairing over the years and read people's stories. I don't think it's necessarily about the difference in personality itself, it's more about the maturity to understand that both of you two individual people that react different ways and learning how to work together not work against each other.

Plus it's not just about sun signs either, there's so much to your own natal chart. Yes, I'm an Aries, but I do have major factors in my chart that offset some of my Aries traits. For example, my moon is in Cancer so instead of being direct and bold, I tend to actually think and be affected by things emotionally rather than impulsively act. My venus and mars are both in Earth signs (Taurs and Cap) so that gives me a more grounded approach in how I love and how I react/act to certain things. My rising sign is in Gemini so I give off this totally different vibe when people first meet me. By just my own natal chart, the typical Aries personality description doesn't always cut it. So I do think it's important to look at all these factors and not just the sun signs by determining compatibility. I think when you look at yourself and who you are then look at the person whether their sun sign is in Scorpio or not and see them who they really are (full natal chart and all), and accept it just is then you can learn how to mesh together, learn together, and work together. Awesome hub though! :)

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

You obviously have not read my article about TRIADS. It has about 600 comments. I do FREE readings for people. I address the sun, rising and moon sign mainly. If I took more, it would be just burdensome. I want these two be interesting for others to read too, not just the subject. Go to my TRIAD article, and submit a request. See you there!

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MaeMG 3 years ago

Awesome! I'll definitely check it out! :D I definitely understand the burdensome part, I've been reading up on astrology and the different aspects of my natal chart.

PoshXBecks 3 years ago

Im an Aries and my boyfriend is a Scorpio.

Hes the best!!!hands down!!!...for best of all...he gives me 200% attention..i also NEVER get enough of him...he never bores me and always keeps me on the toes...i love that!

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

When a Scorpio is that much in love, then you are the absolute object of his complete attention. You are in heaven.

Bramble 3 years ago

I am an aries woman who is an empath and introverted. I feel very grounded, accepted, and loved by my scorpio guy. He is very nurturing and giving and draws out the best in me.We do have lots of amazing sex and interesting adventures, both being go-getters and having a lot of physical energy! I've read a lot of negative things about aries with scorpios but obviously this can be a great paring :)

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

Yes. It can be virtually magical. The more "transformed" the individuals are the better. You say you are an "empath and introverted". That is fascinating. If you know your rising and moon sign that might reveal more. Take a look at my article on "TRIADS". It might shed some light. However, if you are completely happy, my reading might do nothing more than confirm WHY you work so well together. Blessings.

Bramble 3 years ago

Hi Christofer, thank you. According to an online calculator my rising sign is aquarius and my moon sign is cancer. I'm not sure what you mean by "transformed," I have always been this way :)

In many past relationships I have been all of the truly rotten things a stereotypical aries can be, a real nightmare at times to be honest. Leo is supposed to be one of my best matches, but I've come to think we should just drown them all while they are kittens/cubs. Cancerians are always purely toxic to me.

This is the first scorpio I've dated, maybe he is just special, maybe I am too, but we are happy and that's what matters. I really dislike hearing people say they read about incompatible sun signs and decided not to date someone because of it, so I wanted to share my own experience with this :)

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

Bramble: Sounds wonderful! I wrote these analyses from the standpoint that no matches were "verboten", but some are more challenging. That is why I use the concept of "transforming". That simply means that some signs are going to urge you toward internal change if you are going to succeed with them. In the end that is what romance does for us and to us. Sometimes its quicker than others. Sometimes it is gradual. But we always change each other in love.

The idea behind the TRIAD is that it shows you as more of an integrated self. You are not only an Aries in your basic ego, but you are an Aquarius Rising and Moon in Cancer. That means your outer personality is Aquarian. That modifies your Aries in that it makes you a little more humanitarian and understanding, but also a little bit of a know it all and impersonal. This takes the "edge" off Aries and makes you more delightful at a party, or one might say a bit "otherworldly". The Aries/Aquarius combo makes you unique. Then, your Moon in Cancer gives you an emotionally unsettled but maternal and familial nature in your core. This can have the dual effect of making you a bit more testy than even the normal Aries, but also more "warm and cuddly" when it comes to family issues. This also has a softening effect on Aries, while making you a bit more complex. In my view, your relationship with Scorpio is benefitted by your Cancer Moon especially. Good luck and blessings.

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Jean Bakula 3 years ago from New Jersey

Wow, I clicked on here because my husband's parents were an Aries (his Dad) and a Scorpio (his Mom). They got married a little later in life, or at least what would have been considered later in the 1950's, 27 and 29. I never was able to get their birth times, so could never do Natal charts on them. I think she had an Aquarius Moon, and he had a Virgo one. It was a case of Water putting out Fire. They were kind to each other, but usually didn't seem to really connect, I always thought they were the most mismatched couple I ever knew. Even though he was lethargic for an Aries, she got so jealous if he even went bowling once a week. Everything had to be her way, and she had phobias about practically everything. I think a stronger man would not have taken as much of her nonsense, and a woman who was a lot more sociable would have been a better match for him. But they did live past their 50th anniversary. Of course, divorce was very frowned upon at the time when they were young, and I suspect she was in danger of becoming "an old maid" a terrible fate in the 1950's. So we have to look at the context of the time period too.

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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

Yes. I concur with your interesting cultural observations. However, it is easy for a third party to look at a relationship and analyze it from a virtue and fault perspective. What people forget is that the silent agreements, tolerances and unstated agendas all go into a relationship. My wife and I are extremely tolerant of each other. Others say, "How can you put up with that" to each of us. They have not seen our giggling and affection as we both make fun of each other with high mindedness. This is a personal example, so you can take it or leave it, but I would remind you of the song "No one knows what goes on behind closed doors". That is not just romantic, it also can apply to the things that a couple chooses to understand about each other.

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Jean Bakula 3 years ago from New Jersey

That's so true. The two people in the relationship are really the only ones who know what's going on, no matter how much we speculate.

Alina/Aries female 2 years ago

As I was recently getting into astrology I realised that the mesmerising, magnetic and absolutely incredible man I felt so safe and comfortable around was a Scorpio! I was 14 when I met him as he works in a company next to my house... from the first sight we just developed an unbelievable friendship and understanding... never had a fight in 3 years, only got in the warrior mode when coupling up against somebody/something. It's just this inner feeling as if we knew each other for decades... I loved to spend time with him despite the inability to understand from the people around us... He would always no matter what stand up for me, fight for me and I would absolutely do the same. Esentially we were only friends but both felt deeply connected and the desire was there... but he has a girlfriend of many years and I wouldn't have dared to ruin their relationship, again, because I actually do love him but in a way that I respect his relationship and wish him the best in life and absolutely wouldn't do anything for my selfish pleasure... We now ocasionally meet sometimes due to my busy schedule and new life because as I've grown up I have stuff to do with my life, but whenever he drives by going from work, he stops and we have a conversation sometimes for hour or so... Scorpios are my favourite zodiac sign, I admire and respect their personality traits, especially the will power and determination they have. I think I learned a lot via my Scorpio friend and it was only to my benefit, I hope he gained something valuable from me... I also had an astro reading and in my chart I have Rahu in Scorpio and I was told that Scorpio Sun people draw my attention... I guess it's true! :)

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Christofers Flow 2 years ago from Denver Author

Alina/Aries Female:

What can I say? I will make it short. I can think of no better sign to have a nonsexual long long term relationship with than a well behaved and intense Scorpio. This is the way life should be. I admire your restraint because you are obviously taken with him. Scorp vibes emanate from them. This is all very good.


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