Astrology - How To Get Along - Leo and Pisces

Water Mutable Fire Fixed

How To Get Along – Leo and Pisces

The Lion and The Fish

This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Pisces and Leo. You can get new info at Christofer's new website at: http://www.astrologygetalong.com.

Leo - Pisces

Pisces is Water and Mutable. Leo is Fire and Fixed. At first review, they appear to have nothing in common. Sometimes great matches are based upon having little in common. A way of filling out the needed qualities in a marriage, or union, or company, or partnership is to have a wide array of aspects to combine so that the entity will be more balanced. The Pisces comes from the inward, the subconscious and that which is below the surface. It has an empathic, sympathetic and cosmic view. It can get lost sometimes in its own workings and murky self-involved depths. Leo, not mutable; ready to stand firm on the plain, dominate the around, present itself proudly to all, and be practically always grinning from ear to ear - could almost be called a pure opposite of the Fish.

How these two could work together is compelling. The Leo sense of royalty loves to be admired and when they are feeling their happiest and grandest, they love to “protect and serve” – a favorite motto of police departments. If you are not a Pisces, you do not know that despite all of their inscrutable and emotional ways, they do feel a sense of “understanding it all”. As the 12th sun sign, they intuitively know all that makes everyone tick. Whether they actually do or not, that grand sense of inner comprehension gives them a sense of inner “royalty”. They don’t come out and say they are royalty, but their omniscience inner self lets them feel it. So, in a sense, the Leo Royalty goes with the inner Piscean sense of royalty. The Fish naturally admires The Cat. The Leo adores being admired. Because they are not alike, these two can fit together quite well. What other signs see in Leo as braggadocio, Pisces sees as well-placed confidence that can keep danger away. Pisces gets the big picture. They try to do that almost all the time. The big picture behind Leo is that they will put out lots of ego energy grandly doing good and making things happen. Leo looks at Pisces and sees the compassion and the mellow sweetness and the shyness blended with wisdom. Leo would never be that shy, if it were also that wise. This is amazing to Leo, and Leo ends up admiring so many of The Fishes’ qualities just because the Lion does not have them naturally. At this point, it is good to point out that when you see a lack in yourself, your admiration of that quality might mean that you are desirous of learning more about it. This is why “opposites attract”, that age old aphorism that explains so many things.

Positive Postulate: Leo leading the way and Pisces getting the protection, allows for the Fishes’ wisdom to “direct” the relationship. Pisces are often strong with finances and priorities, and Leo, though tending to extravagance, would tend to allow for Fish control, as long as they were both allowed the freedom that they both probably promised each other the first day they knew they had a future.

Romance Recommendation: Pisces loves romance, but especially they love to be romanced. There is a duality in them that sees romance very much as a two way street. Leo’s style is wonderful to observe and marvelous to speculate upon. How can the Cat that loves to be adored also be wonderful in giving in romance? The Cat is smart enough to understand the complexity of the Fish. It will be the challenge of this relationship to surrender to each other’s qualities and make this relationship an artful one.

Conflict Quotient: The Leo can be very impressive in conflict. Ironically, the impressive roar would probably not be needed with Pisces. Knowing it does not need to bring to the battle a deafening snarl, it would have to think creatively and positively about the argument with the Fish. The Fish can be brilliant, inscrutable, hard to figure and very difficult to actually “conquer”. They should work together, not to argue - but to come to resolutions that make conflict unneeded.

Peace Parlay: Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" The Fish has so much going on inside it that it can appear to be bored, while they are just reconciling their inner world. Leo can roll over on its back and be smiling about yesterday’s glory. They can enjoy each other in their unique way, whatever their state.

Keep Up The Interest Graph: The fact that they are in their oppositional state will mean that they will never suffer the lack of interest that many might. Pisces is always full of imaginative ideas, and Leo is always ready to try something new. They should not suffer from staleness as long as they care for each other.

Seven Year Itchiness: There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. We do not want Pisces to be depressed, lost or feeling as if they have no fun place to go to. Infidelity could be one turn of the fin away when Pisces feels lost. Leo will make sure that Pisces does not feel this way, if it knows best. Pisces can care so deeply and Leo can love so proudly that infidelity would be a very unfortunate happening.

Astro Compatibiity - Short Term would be 75%. The compelling issues of attraction are so strong here. Yet, they are so different, long term success would have to be downward adjusted at 50% Long Term. Though if it was a good match, it could evolve into a fantastic match.


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TaylorLynzie 6 years ago

Wow.... I have to say that this article is spooky. I'm a Pisces dating a Leo, we've been together for three and a half years going strong. I've always been the type to be wary of "horoscopes" but I believe that the astrological signs are almost always very accurate. I myself feel I am text book Pisces and my boyfriend pretty close as a Leo. I've never read anything about Pisces/Leo that ever went this detailed and was so spot on. The things you mentioned were uncanny. So I just wanted to say, well done, I think you've done a very great job at capturing all the different facets of a complex Pisces/Leo relationship. When you talked about the inner/outer royalty it really made me realize that I do think that way as does my boyfriend. So interesting, thank you for posting this article!


Brian 6 years ago

Now you know how I feel lol.

Im dating a leo and we are soo happy together


stephaine 6 years ago

wow i love justin bieber and im a leo and hes a piecses what should i do


asc 6 years ago

When i first met my piceses, we were inseperable. I used to read all of these articles and show him, and we swore we would never get to a bad point in our relationship. I moved in with him, only knowing him a month. It only took a month to fall deeply and madly in love with him. After several months, we faught,and got to a point that was already predicted (we both previously knew about because of reading our compatibility) I had read about a lot of people who made it work, but him and I just weren't ment to be. I still think about the love we shared so quickly everyday. It's hard to compare it.


nada 6 years ago

cant believe how the pisces(M) can make leo(F) fall in love so madly, there`s sth like magic between them!!! just happened to me, i am ashamed im a Leo now :P :P


KKK 6 years ago

i'M A LEO TOO... AND I HAVE BEEN GOT BY A PISCES, I LOVE HIM AND HE HAS SORT OF DISSAPPERED ON ME.. I TEXT,CALL NO TEXT BACK NO CALL BACK DAMN!!! WHAT'S GOING ON???


atriunna 6 years ago

wow my leo boyfriend and I are great togather lol


Nina 6 years ago

This article is so good, amazing analytics. I'm a pisces and I've known this one leo for about two years. From the first time I laid eyes on him I felt something and now for the past year I've been thinking about him more and more. Few days ago we met at a party and had some "looks" and then talked.. and now im just head over heels.. and dating another man. I really don't know what to do, because that leo guy has always had a different girlfriend when i've seen him. I'm afraid I'm getting myself burned with this one but we are definitely interested in each other and we sorta talked about it.. Man, I would give him my life. We'll see what happens..


Michelle :) ! . 6 years ago

I to am a Pisces gal, and find my self falling for a tall ,white and handsome leo, I have known him for a year now, been going regularly to pick up weed. What don't hate ,, It was my only excuse to go see him, and sure it was usually momentarily, I still left there feeling more and more desire for him, once we caught, eye contact, it was strong with a butterfly effect, too only momentarily, I was at his house just last night and I finally let it all out on the table , how i have been thinking of him, and how I am attracted to him He said he had no idea, I liked him, although he did say he had sensed something?? ya so then he asked me out on a omgosh date, , Now we have each other I know we could Keep eachother, so here is cheers to acting on those strong feelings, and to all those pisces, leo relationship hopefulls ! Enjoy ! . :) ! .


Lost 6 years ago

ive been involved with a leo for 20 yrs on & off......... I constantly question why we still dance this dance but can never separate.... the ride with him is a fine line between love & Hate............


Amber 6 years ago

Well, I don't know how true this is. I'm the leo in my relationship and I'm definitely the more responsible one, as well as more intelligent. I get bored of my pisces...he makes me hate him most of the time, but I'm in love with another pisces on the side so maybe that's why it works.

Would you say that since I was born close to the cancer/leo cusp I may not be a complete leo?


Cookiex 5 years ago

THIS IS SPOT ON IT'S SCARY! i'm a Pieces and he's a Leo and just wow! it's so accurate o.o but thank you who ever wrote this ^_^


kelly 5 years ago

I am a piesces lady, and this leo guy has been leading me on ever since I started my new job. I ended up developing intense feelings for him and dumbed my boyfriend because I was always thinking about the leo guy when Im with him. I told him that I like him, but im taking a break from relationships,And now he is really acting like a lion, He scares me, but I like him very much. What should I do?


Alex 5 years ago

I was a Pisces in love with a Leo (better way to say it, a TOMCAT).

We were very much as the article lists. I would say he was more threatened then anything. Sometimes we hold other traits. One of these I have is being raised by Sagitarus Parents. Yep, as you may have guessed I am a Water sign that is used to and LOVES playing with Fire!

All my "love interests" have been fire signs, or born near the cusp of a fire sign.

I am falling for another Leo as I type this. But biding my time, Ironicly he is married to a Pisces who strayed, and they are divorcing.


Loveth 5 years ago

It's awesome,am leo but may be I will get along with a pisces guy afterall his qualities is my dream in a man


SRC 5 years ago

Finally , something positive about Leo and pisces....!! I was overjoyed...!!! I am a Pisces female in Love with my Leo man . He is totally adorable , our ways are completely different but i am beginning to see his point of view more clearly now. This article helps... thanks a ton. ^-^


Caladan 5 years ago

Male Leo here.. Interested in a male Pisces recently acquainted online only. Something about him subconsciously drew me in although I'm not sure of his interest in me.

Over the years I have worked on correcting refining the overwhelming characteristics that come with being a Leo, to the point where no one can tell I'm a Leo. I enjoy channeling all that energy into my creative work.. But, even in the privacy of their undisplayed state, the natural qualities show themselves in other ways.

I have asked the Pisces out on a date this Saturday night and am now doing my due diligence to learn all I can about this shiny, beautiful creature. It has been a humbling experience and a valuable eye opener. Though most write ups predict an upstream effort, this one finally verbalizes my heartfelt rebuttal. I have taken the tips to prepare for an enchanted evening of art and ambiance.. Weather there is a love connection, a friend discovered, a sexy night, a next level or no connection at all... The knowledge acquired about this special fish is already helping me to be a better person. I hope the universe gifts us with a chance to enrich each others lives. Reading this article boosts hope.

Thank you!


Moe 5 years ago

Im a Pisces woman falling in love with a leo man for the second time in my life. The crazy thing is that my first relationship with a leo ended up horribly, but I am somehow so fascinated with the characteristics of the leo man. I love how blunt they are, I love how a hug from him makes me feel like no one can hurt me. I love how they bring out my desire to please, I love it that they are soooo damn manly! Leo men wear there hearts on there sleeves, so you will always know if something is wrong. My advice too any pisces datin a leo man for the first time is pay attention to his wants. please him but don't loose yourself in trying to please him. They are turned on by independence, but they still want their lady to need them. make him feel like he is the center of your universe and watch how smoothly your relationship goes. Notice the small things he does. Always tell him you appreciate him. Kiss him out of the blue. These guys love deep. ENJOY!!


Rachelle 5 years ago

As a Leo woman, I might add that it is good to use your easy going nature/ laid back capability with a Pisces. I get scared at times because of the feeling he might slip away, but being trusting and suppressing that possessiveness is what will make him comfortable. As a Leo, we like the spotlight from many, and in the same way, a Pisces must lend an ear to many. The key is to be sympathetic, and not jealous or possessive. Take your time and try to walk with him instead of running.


Leo 5 years ago

I'm a Leo and I'm in love with a Pieces. Sadly our relationship lasted 364 days. I poured my heart out and put my lion's pride on the line and I ended up with absolutely nothing.

I still love him and will do anything for him. I still feel like there is hope for our relationship, but based on our signs idk if this love is a TKO.


Danjo 4 years ago

Lucille Ball was a Leo and Desi Arnaz was a Pisces. They were together for 18 years and even after their divorce, stayed very close. He made her a star with his business sense and show biz artistry combined with her enormous talent and he was happy to remain the second fiddle publicly. Years after their divorce, he said that he credited everything to Lucy and she always said that he was the genius. Wne he died and she was leaving his hospital room with her friend in the car, she broke down sobbing saying "He was the one love..."

I'm a pisces and my wife is a Leo. We've been together for 23 years and our relationship seems very much like Lucy and Ricky's on that show. At least according to our friends and family. It's always been a rocky relationship in certain ways, but we wouldn't trade it.


crystal 4 years ago

I'm a pisces and for some reason i always find maself liking a leo. SMH im very interested with dis special someone. Dat i care about darely and like the article maybe true on some thing.But it all depends you and ya leo man. And if yall can make it work then it will.My leo loves to talk about him self and im cool wit it.I listen cuz dats a way to get to know each other more.But i don't pay non of dis stuff anymind. if you happy wit ya mate then things willwork. cuz im happy and i know things goin work with him....


Anna 4 years ago

Well, I am a Leo(f) and have been maried for 11years with piceces. It is touchy subject. I am the responsible for everything, bur sometimes I just get tired of doing everything by myself. Lots of women might like doing everything ,but I want him to be involve with something,even financing doesn't matter for him. I don't work I take care of my kids and for their education.even he dosent care how much money I will spend. He is very kind, generous and romantic, but I think Leo and picece are not compatible copel.


Celena Wise 4 years ago

I'm a Leo(F) with my male Pisces, And it doesn't work because I like to lead and he is easily manipulated.. He has no authority and it's very unattractive. But, I would give him everything I have. C:


Shell 4 years ago

I am a pisces and just started seeing a leo man. We have been seeing each other for 3 weeks and said we have something really good here and he wants to take it slow. 2 days ago he said he feels confused. He is scared of commitment he told me. I already have feelings for him. After saying he wanted to take a step back, he called me the next day. I really don't know what to make out of it, so I guess I will give him space to decide what he wants. Maybe I need to give him more of a challenge.


hem 4 years ago

i am a pices, but my leo leaves me in only about 2 months ????????i don't think so that its a good match.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

The Leo must really appreciate the breadth of the loving nature of Pisces. If the Leo is too egotistical and selfish, and young, it may take them awhile to appreciate. That's the problem with this relationship on its face. "Will the Leo appreciate the Pisces?"


Kidikirous 4 years ago

This is a spot on article, I'm a male picses dating a female Leo, we have all of the same morals, but I'm more of a visionary about them, the thing that seems to bother me is the ego of the cat and having Pisces wisdom I see it bringing out the ego in me not wanting to feel undermined or inferior. We are amazing together for the most part, she respects my creativity and dreamy qualities while I love how organized she is, but when it storms watch out, there is hurricanes lol.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

You have a strong point here. The Pisces can be as quick and clever as anybody, and also be so swift that people don't know they are bleeding until its half over. Its just that the core of Pisces is not to summon up the energy to fight. If you'll notice sometimes fighting types are not smart enough to know they have been bested, so you have to just pop them in the nose. So, anyway, the more the Leo grows the more the Pisces will appreciate. The more the Pisces lets the Leo just kind of be themselves, the happier everyone will be.


Happines 4 years ago

I realy appreciate this article..Am a leo dating a pisce,we'v dated 4months now,i realised wer vry different,i get so jealous when he tells me about his social life,but wen i do he doesn't get jealous..


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Try to learn from the Pisces. Everyone should try to learn from the Pisces. They are quiet, soulful, understanding and don't kick your ass when they are right. What's not to learn?


London816 4 years ago

im a leo male & im crushing hard on a pisces male. im a leo with a moon in sag. after a few days of talking with him i was just so phased by him. im very expressive & impulsive so i tell him everything i feel for him. good or bad. he's very rude. hard to figure out type of guy. it drives me nuts cause i just want 2 control him in a way. he's not emotional like i want him 2 be. i want him 2 give me his all like i would do for him. HELP ME ! its good & its bad ! -_-


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Back off Dude! The more you want, the more you should restrain yourself. If there is something special about this person, then let them "unfold", let them become, or slowly reveal, who they really are. Pisces, are super intuitive. They will adopt positions just to keep you off balance. Ever try to see a Lion fish? It's funny. You have to "not crush hard", or at least hide it better.


4 years ago

I'm a pisces female dating a leo male. We fight hard but love even harder, and we work well at resolving our issues. There's just something about this one.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

And that's what makes a match, when "that something about the other one" is so positive that it smooths out the edges.


Sass85 4 years ago

This makes so much sense...I feel like a star fell out of the sky and enlightened me! I realize now that the Leo is a large male cat, which helps to put the temper tantrums into a place of understanding. I never had cats growing up, dogs mostly and fish lol. The Pieces-Leo relationship reminds me a lot of an old cartoon. Where the cat is playing with fish, well they see it as play while the fish knows that its being tortured. It amazes me how the Leo interrupts their actions and its reasoning. When I look back on the Leo's in my life (family not boyfriends) I see but 1 similarity ANGER, I appreciate this article for giving me a better understanding.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Their anger is sometimes just noise. The Leo angry is kind of natural and automatic. But some are just rolling in the grass and growling. Others not so much. Pisces ability to understand can sometimes make them victims. Their consciousness is their protection. But still you have to watch out.


JasmineAtlanta 4 years ago

I am a leo(w) dating pices (m) 4a year now im currently prgnant and I just hate the way he interacts with females like especially on social networks I never admitted I love him but I do he is a real man willing to, work, while I go to school ANDetc. My issue is, how unACTIVE he is it seems like he is a whatever type of guy but how do I say I love u he already seen my blow.ups and he hates the way I approch him so we as leos should stop the angry yelling part and as article stated talk it out I how we make it I want to marry him


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

If you want to pursue a Pisces, you are going to have to learn much. And perhaps that is good. Leo usually goes to action, takes, makes pronouncements and intimidates. A Pisces with poise who is young and confident is too here and there, over the hill and back again to be pushed around by a Leo. If he ends up with a Leo type, it will be because he sees the value in it, and she has learned to become a diplomat. Patience Leo. And play it cool. Keep your paw out of the stream where he swims about. Be there, but let him see you through his watery eyes. That marry him part is a little tougher than you might think. This is a Pisces. Send me his Sun/Ascendant/Moon, and I will give you a mini reading. Look at the TRIAD article.


marymerry 4 years ago

It's about time I heard something positive about these two signs! I'm a Pisces (f) and have been dating my cat for about 6 months now. Christopher, you hit it on the nose, Thank you. Even tho our relationship is still new, I don't think it will ever grow old. We both have quit the imaginations, I don't think we'll ever get bored of one another. We maybe different in some ways (which is okay) I myself prefer dating someone that is opposite from me, (who likes to date themselves)yes we have a lot in common but it's our differences that balance us out. I'm lucky enough to have found (well he found me) my better half and so looking forward to see how much more this relationship grows.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Marymerry: Truth be told you really need each other. Pisces needs the Leo energy and outlook. Leo needs the soulfulness --- a reason to shine, and to shine on.


marymerry 4 years ago

Love to photos!


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Photos are nice, yes. Talk up the new photos. Have you tried the TRiad article? Free readings for you and your boy friend,. You have to get your sun sign, rising sign (time of birth) and moon sign (place of birth). I am writing a new article in which I do triad readings for couples. Look for the article.


meow8008 4 years ago

@JasmineAtlanta- Im a leo(f) and my husband is a pisces(m)...believe me, don't shout or easily get angry with him because it will only make him go away. They don't like dominant partner. On my experience, it was really hard for me to always adjust on his attitude. He is moody, childish, and get mad easily.We leo are playful and happy person and we wanted to be loved and adored, but don't expect pisces men to do that to you in an instant. You will wait in vain. because he also wants to be adored which is totally opposite to your needs.They are not aggressive like leo and aries. Unfortunately we are not a good match. If I've given a chance, I wish I didn't marry him. The reason I married him is because I got pregnant.We leo can easily forget the arguments but pisces don't.They will always bring up the reasons that make them mad at you.Goodluck to you girl!


steph 4 years ago

im a leo female, and my lover is a pisces male. and first off i am ashamed at how many leo women are with someone who they are truly unhappy with and pursuing other relationships. where's the leo pride? and loyalty at that! this article was amazing and inspiring to read. yes, we are soooo different but i love how mr.flow compared us together and showed that theres actual more to these two being together then just "fire boiling water, and water putting out fire" loved reading this, actually my fish and i read it together. one thing i know is problly a big factor is many relationships between these two and why many times it fails is the butting heads, the fighting because although the some fish shut down some.. don't. and its a full on battle. and believe me, weve seen our battles. however weve seen more victories. what we have committed to eachother are the golden rules for keeping any "union" (bc its not about me, not about him, its about what works best for us.. always) they are.. 1.without respect there is no love. yes we may fight, but we know what truly is crossing the line and when we test those and stretch the line, we both see how it effects one another and its soon fizzled out. 2.communication. luckily for my cat ears, i have found a fish who is not afraid to talk things out and his feelings. although still sometimes i can tell theres "vagueness" i think it was put in the article. "through wisdom, a house is built, and by understanding it is established."-bible. thru communication there rises understanding. NOW I AM A LEO! i do have a major ego, but i have drastically learned and accepted to put my stubbornness aside for understanding. anything and everything else is just sub lines of "respect" thru your actions you will discover what respect eafch person holds for the other. and once there is no respect.. you no longer care for the others feelings, and essentially relationships dies. KEEP ON KEEPIN ON!!! I HAVE FAITH IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. btw together for a year and half now and our imaginations have brought us to highs and lows i know few lifelong partners experience. Thank you so much Mr.Flow, very much enjoyed reading this (:


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Steph: For a Leo, you are remarkably self aware and dealing with powerful issues. The Pisces is probably affecting you well. Or, by nature, you are both helping each other. Good luck. Just realize the contradictory aspects will always keep you sharp, but, you will always have to deal with them.


Leonard 4 years ago

What i find weird is That my names Leonard and i'm a Leo

Just Sayin...


Matt 4 years ago

I'm a scientific thinker who doesn't believe in astrology at all, however, Zodiac signs are uncannily accurate. I think that the time of year a person is born modulates their personality, and probably there are sensible evolutionary reasons for this. So this is one area where astrology is useful. In this case the relationship between a Leo and Pisces is described very accurately. Spot on.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Matt: Whatever helps helps, right?


Thatgirl 4 years ago

I'm a Leo woman and I dated a picses man for 2years. He was an amazing guy he took me places bought me stuff and also gave me so much attention. "what A true Leo wants". But Believe me picses tend to get selfish sometimes. When we broke up for almost a year, we ended of things REALLY BAD. Picses man can say hurt full things and sometimes a picses man doesn't notice how much a Leo woman lets down her pride, for a Leo woman it takes alot to do so. Over all he did come back in my life and he said sorry and were friends again and well always love eachother. But personally In choosing not to go back. One tip I can give is not to roar at a picses but do the OPPOSITE AND be silent. They'll go crazy when you give them the silent treat kent. But my journey is done for picses now it's your turn. Take care


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Thatgirl: You do mention a good point for human dignity, if this were not an astrology piece, it is still good advice. Don't roar. Be silent. This works all around the world. You can always get to your point, but maybe have more attention. All the best.


Freesoda 4 years ago

This article is amazing! It is so refreshing to read something good about the Pisces/Leo match. Im a male Pisces 3/8 and my fiancé is a male Leo 7/31. Weve been together for 3 yrs and we have had our ups and downs but with commitment and compromising we always gravitate together and loving each other more. I notice a power struggle sometimes between us. I the pisces am some what of a control freak and my Leo is naturally a leader. I usually win, but compromise has been our best friend that helps us both to share dominance and knowing when to be submissive. My emotions are crazy and I tend to be a sponge, so what ever he gives off I absorb. Its usually confidence, anger, and a tad bit clinginess. I notice I bring him peace, serenity, and logic. So it's very apparent that we balance each other out very well. We agree to disagree but always wind up seeing eye to eye. I'm water and he's fire. We always seem to make steam;-) in a good way. I love being a Pisces because I embody all the traits from the previous 11 sign before me. Leo being a born ruler is what I feel most comfortable being with. Chris please give more advice you are awesome! Peace and Blessings my Leo/Pisces Pairs.


lovestruckpisces 4 years ago

I am a pisces girl, very much in love with a strong Leo man. He's afew years older than me, and he's unfortunately with someone else one day we began talking and he showed a very big interest in me, I was totally oblivious to how he felt, and afew weeks later when we say eachother he kissed me, the kiss was soo intense I thought my heart was going to come out of my chest. So after reading this article, it all started to make sense to me, We had a falling out, because I don't want to be the other woman, I want to be the only woman. I know its wrong to love someone else's man, but you can't help who you fall for. I know he's not happy with her, but I just don't know what to do, but this article is amazing x


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Freesoda: Sounds like you guys are in a groove of understanding. Leo doesn't need lots of arguments, they seek praise and acknowledgement. Pisces, on the other hand sees themselves like you have portrayed. They want to feel that their "wisdom" is at play. If he disses you, it probably your fault. You know what I mean? Always acknowledge him and don't seek to win too much.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Lovesruckpisces: Piscarians have been waiting for aeons to develop their souls. Waiting you can do.


lovebutnotloved 4 years ago

I'm a Pisces female who is trying too hard to attract a Leo male. We are business partners and friends. I love him for his strength of character and that he makes me more positive. I love how he brings me into reality and makes me finish what I start. But, he is always focused on business while dangling a relationship with me just out of reach. He says if we go there right now that is all we will be focused on and the business will go out the window.


lovebutnotloved 4 years ago

I'm sorry, I didn't finish my comment. I actually have questions. By trying too hard am I making him run? Do Leos tell you what you want to hear to get you to do what they want you to do?


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

lovebutnotloved: Dear Pisces, dreamy Pisces. You are struck by his style and strength. Don't know what your business is, but it sounds like each of you has similar but different agendas. Business and Love? Too much for a suffering heart. All the love techniques don't work if a paycheck is also in the picture. Sounds like he's right unless you can come up with a different plan.

Well, "making him run" sounds complicated by the business. Leos love being loveable and worshipped. This fits in with his program. Leo is the shortest way to spell manipulation. These guys are the ones who get the women to do the hunting for them. I think he is using you, but who am I? You decide. The way to really tell is to change the conditions of the relationship a little. I think he is happy right now. Are you?


lovebutnotloved 4 years ago

Yes, you're right I am struck by those things. Our business is writing. The paycheck isn't here yet. He is right. I have no different plan. I am not going to lose out on all my hard work. Eight months of writing and four books later, no way. I will put the romance on hold. Can a Pisces back off once she is enamored? Until he does something "to" me (i.e. cheats me in some way)I can't say he's using me. We both are artistic and have the same dreams and goals. We go to the same church.

How do I change the conditions of the relationship? I have quit calling unless he calls me. I only send business emails. We talk everyday because he calls me everyday...several times. Do trust and love go hand in hand? I'm not sure anymore. I say I trust him, but I have traded my rose colored glasses in on clear ones.


ryan 4 years ago

I'm a piceses dating a leo, this article is soo acurate .


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Ryan: Glad to hear it. The point of these articles is to understand that your "other" comes from their own set of values just like you do, it's just that they seem "odd".


Jessi 4 years ago

M a Pisces female dated a Leo male for a month! He was so sweet and loving , I didn't want to have a relationship with him but he ended up convincing me! He did a lot for me and was very loving, always made me feel beautiful and called me princess! He's very charming and manly. We got into several arguments and I noticed that he never admits that he's wrong he always make me feel that m wrong and that I overreact on the simplest things but it's not true. Then he started being hot and cold he complained how I don't show him affection in public and how m always busy with my friends and the other day we were having a deep conversation about my past relationships and how intimate I was with my exes then when I was telling him he freaked out on me and told me that he can't get over my past although I did nothing at all! I don't understand and he hurt me and shocked me so much!!! Then I texted him telling him that he's judging me on smt in the past ( no cheating involved) and that I was hurt and wish him good luck then he replied telling me that he loves me so much but can't accept my past!!?!?!! I didn't reply and I won't and it has been couple of days he never contacted me?! M shocked is it really over bcoz of this?!?!??


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Jessi: As a Pisces you are understanding not only of others but of yourself. The Leo sees things in a possessive way. He may care for you, but in your PIscean way, you were probably too honest and too colorful in the way you described your past. This would be typical of a Leo. He is showing you his basic nature. As a Pisces you should learn to be open, but not so completely forthcoming. This can always get you in trouble with a man even if he is not a Leo.


Jessi 4 years ago

Thank you so much for replying! U r definitely right!!! I learned a lesson that not everyone thinks the way us pisceans do! It just hurt how he reacted when I opened my heart and was completely honest! Do u think he's gonna realize and contact me again? Or r Leos usually stick to wat they say at the moment of anger?


Mizzy 4 years ago

Hi Jessi... I couldn't say for sure as every relationship is different but in my experience, once the Leo guy sees a side to u they don't like, it can switch off their feeling for u. This is not to say they aren't still attracted and they are very forgiving people who don't like to leave bad feeling between them and a person they care about but it seems that being disillusioned can burn away the 'in love' feeling and leave just the sexual chemistry. If he comes back, try to recognize if this has happened because otherwise u may spend the rest I your lives dancing between lovers and enemies. Good luck!


Jessi 4 years ago

Hey mizzy thnx for replying! It's true but if u really wanna be with someone and have strong feelings towards them u should never judge them on something that happened in the past. My past is pure but seems he sees it in a different way! M moving on and I don't think I wanna be with him anymore. I don't think we click and what he did is unacceptable!


Mizzy 4 years ago

Hi Jessi... I agree, Pisces tend not to judge people as we see all sides to a situation but sometimes people will simply react, based on assumptions or without giving the person they profess to love, the benefit of the doubt. I moved on too, as u are about to do, and met a lovely Cancerian who treats me like a queen, even knowing all my faults. Things r great between us but I will always remember the depth and potential with a Leo who meant everything to me for a while and who I can never quite say goodbye to. I hope you have better luck, haha! :)


Jessi 4 years ago

I am happy for u :) every girl should be treated as a queen. You know I have mixed feelings! I don't know if I really want to move on and forget about him and how loving and caring he is and give a chance to another man! I was so convinced that I am better off, but now that a week has passed I started missing him and wondering whether he misses me and whether he will try to contact me again.I have my exams now and it's really hard for me to concentrate :(


Leo guy 4 years ago

Hey jessi . You freaked him out by telling him abt your exes . We cannot tolerate it because we are vry possesive jealous and headstrong people . I wud suggest chase him prove your loyalty show your unconditional love . We are i agree mad ppl when we see some other guy has scorched our territory . He is waiting for you his huge ego wnt take d initiative since you r the criminal this time . Apologise and show your love n loyalty . He will melt and will come back i am vry sure.


Leo guy 4 years ago

Jessi one more thing initially he will show attitude n throw tantrums n no care attitude abt your feelings . But it will be all farce u keep going with showing your love for some days . Mst probaly he will yield during that period n if he is 2 stubborn n wnt yield jst ignore him n pay no attention to him that will make him mad n he will be chasing you instead . Bt i m vry sure he will cme bck if u follow my advice .


Leo guy 4 years ago

Sry nt farce bt pretentious . I warn u he will mak u kneel beside himself before forgivng . Sry bt we are really assholes its not our fault though its our astro makeup :D


Jessi 4 years ago

Hahaha thank you Leo guy! I really appreciate it! Yeah, I was thinking the same. I want to contact him but i dunno how to approach him! I can't apologize because I believe I didn't do anything wrong! He asked and I answered,but I totally feel him and know that he has a big ego! I feel he's waiting for me to make a move and contact him. It has been a week! Do I wait longer or should it be soon?! Do I give him some time to miss me or Is it just gonna make it worse?


Leo guy 4 years ago

U kno jessi even if u dint do anything wrong you will have to apologise its a must . He is waiting for this only . I told you leos think they r always correct . I did the same thing once i ended the relationship just because the person dint say sorry . N dnt wait any longer it will not be good .


Leo guy 4 years ago

We are drama ppl love drama u kno lik in movies but we r vry kind n forgiving ;)


Leo guy 4 years ago

Jessi what i cn make out he loves u vry mch but sumtymes jst for satisfyng our ego we even dnt stop frm hurting ourselves n dnt delay it vl b vry wrong


Jessi 4 years ago

Hahaha Leo guy you are very funny! I agree on the face that Leos love drama!! I love him too and I can't stop thinking about him day and night!! I see him between the lines each time I open my book and try to study. Usually,I wait for my ex to contact me and that was the case with my other exes but I figured that he's different and that's wat I like the most about him, his ego! He's so much like me, we are both very emotional.I have a big ego as well which is driving me crazy if whether I should contact him or not. The fact that he's so charming manly and loving is urging me to give it another try. I don't want to give up on us that easily! I will wait till after my exams and that will give it 2 other weeks for both to miss each others and reconsider giving another try :)


Jessi 4 years ago

Leo guy, I think I will contact him ASAP. You are definitely right! I will keep you posted of what's going to happen :) thank u!!!!


Leo guy 4 years ago

Bst of luck jessi :) god bless


Jessi 4 years ago

Thank you leo guy! :) we met last night and I spoke to him as u adviced me. I opened my heart and apologized for everything wrong that I did and told him how much I like him and he was happy to hear it and we r back together now :))))) I am so happy!! Thanks for u!!

U know he didn't act mean or anything, he was so nice! I had to talk a lot and repeat myself but it was worth it :) I will always take ur advice if I will face any problem with my guy! Thanks Leo guy :))))


Leo guy 4 years ago

U kno jessi he missed u vry mch in this week but just his ego was coming in so he dint talk he actually loves u a lot his jealousy proved it we are not jealous for jst anybody . We nevr do anything hal heartedly but in return we want total loyalty n dedication . I am vry happy for you :) .


Leo guy 4 years ago

U kno jessi he missed u in this week but just his ego was coming in so he dint talk he actually loves u his jealousy proved it we are not jealous for jst anybody . We nevr do anything hal heartedly but in return we want total loyalty n dedication . I am vry happy for you :) .


Leo guy 4 years ago

Sry 4 posting twice :) . I told u even in help v dnt do nything half heartedly.


Jessi 4 years ago

I am really glad that I got the chance to chat with someone like you :)) I really needed help and found it here. No wonder why I get along with leos, you guys are amazing ppl!! So caring and emotional.Keep in touch Leo guy :))) thnx again!!


another Leo guy 4 years ago

Just met an amazingly awesome pisces woman. 33 days ago to be exact. It's been crazy good. We are very comfortable with each other. Have done lots of things together already as well. Went from 0-100 in 4.5 seconds. Effortlessly! Easy! Our first get together we were together the entire day-14 hours. Talked about everything good, bad, indifferent, other. I didn't want to leave her side. I knew it was going way to fast though, think she did too. It was hard to slow down but we are at an easier slower relaxed pace now. Txt and email mostly each other every morning, during day and evening. Don't see each other everday. Once a week now it seams. Last thursday was last time. She said sadly she couldn't give me her heart several weeks ago, as it was with her boy friend would was killed 2yrs, 5 mth's ago. She offered me a life long friendship if I was willing. I told her I sensed her heart was else where, and couldn't pretend to understand her loss. And that if she needed to talk I could listen. I told her to try me, I was her man. I willingly excepted her offer of friendship. I really like this girl, think about her all day long. We have future plans together, like going to the mountains in NC in June, meeting my two kids-2 beautiful girls, this weekend on a boat ride sight seeing tour down a river, she suggested the idea and bought 4 tickets and then asked if it would be ok for her to come along. Of course I said YES! She likes to use "we" "ours" "us" when we talk and do things. Alright Pisces ladies, fill me in on the "we", "ours", "us", thing please. I love it! Like when we worked in her yard planting plants/flowers together, she said I love "our" garden. Gives me a sense of being a couple? or something?. Pisces let me know your thoughts please. There is so much more that I have left out of this message cause it is all so good but to much to explain every detail. First we have God, second we are completeley ourselves, divorced, kids-hers older 2 boys, communication, peacefulness,a sense of ease between us, truthfulness and honesty, flowers, dinners, wine, music, fireplace, chillin, hanging out, animals, adventures, parks, sunsets, living happy, caring sharing, a sense of helping others, working in her yard, nature, art, cooking together, our moms know each other, as our dads have passed, God has come back into our lives and He is first over everything, oh said that sorry, we have so many commonalities its frickin scary crazy good, from salad dressing to the way we wash dishes. I really want to tell her how I feel but want to take it slow and not push or scare her. But not so slow that she thinks I am disinterested, but just enough to keep going forward at this point. A few days ago she txted me and said she loves her new friend, I said who is that? she said you silly. I txt back that I just happen to adore my new friend. Our instincts and intuitions, and hearts almost beat as one I am afraid. I'm sure we are both romantics and sentimental, as I am. Sometimes when I look at her it's as if we should just fall into each others arms and gaze at each other. Any thoughts other than to keep going with the flow on this?????????Anyone????Pisces ladies??? Non-pisces ladies???? I decided that not having her in my life as a friend, would hurt me more than knowing she could not give me her heart. I accepted this. Even though she told me that she could not give me her heart, I did not hear her say that I could not persue it.

Thanks for letting me ramble all.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Another Leo guy: The mysteries of romance are very compelling when the object is female and the sign is Pisces, you are talking about much much to learn and know and understand. They aint shallow, and they aint without breadth.


another Leo guy 4 years ago

I shall heed your advice as well. She believes that God has crossed our paths for a reason, as do I. We just don't know or understand what that reason is at this point in time. With patience, He will unfold the mystery as to why. Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you your heart's desires. God has a plan.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

another leo guy: "Amen".


Pisces girl 4 years ago

Hey, I am a pisces girl who dated a Leo for 2 months. Everything was perfect at the beginning, he was very loving and caring then we had an argument and I broke up with him and after a week I went up to him and opened up my heart and told him that I like him alot. He told me that he got hurt and felt that I lied to him so I repeated myself over and over again and he seemed to be convinced.

We decided to give it another shot, so I tried to show him more love and caring than before and that I truly wanna be with him, but he was acting very cold and sometimes he would take so long to answer my msgs.

He was acting that he's busy 24/7 and has no time for me, I took his bad treatment and thought that he needs some time to get over what happened between us. I asked to see him and when I did he was so nice and loving. He was hot and cold, I was really hurt and confused yet I convinced myself that it's just a phase and it's going to eventually pass.

I went on a vacation and I was txting him from there telling him that I miss him but his answers were very rude so I ignored him. He called me as soon as I got back and he was very formal and insensitive. The day after I wanted to see him but he told me that he's busy and he can't so I couldn't Take it anymore I sent him a MSG telling him that if he wants to see me he should let me know, so he called me and asked me why m mad and that he's really busy so I told him that hes pushing me away and when I asked him what's really going on he didn't know what to say and he told me that he will txt me.

I couldn't stop crying and feeling worthless and rejected so I called him after couple of hours and told him that I can't take this treatment and that I can't take it anymore, I told him how he's hurting me and not appreciating the efforts m putting to please him. He told me that he's trying to occupy himself because he doesn't want to think about it and he needs more time to get over what happened . He told me that he will not change this treatment now and that he appreciate everything m doing but he doesn't want to show me and that he needs time! I told him that he should have told me that hes not ready to give it another try!

I told him m sorry but I can't accept this treatment and I can't don't think it's gonna work between us! He told me to talk about it when he's alone coz he was out with a friend eating. We hanged up and I sent him a MSG after an hour telling him that I like him and I tried my best but I can't accept the treatment coz m getting hurt everyday and that I wish him good luck in life. He never answered my MSG nor called me!

M really hurt, I just can't believe he didn't even care to answer me or call me to express his feelings! It has been two weeks and I never heard from him! M really confused! I like him and I can't get over him and over what he did!


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Pisces Girl: You are sensitive, emotional and caring. If Leo is not absolutely taken with you, he will diss you and ignore you and be rude. There is no surprise here from an astro point of view. He is out there combing his main and looking in the mirror and getting attention. You need to find someone who likes your characteristics. With a Leo, you have to start with a strong compelling interest and an abiding fire. I don't think you should hope for him to turn around. If you do actually want him to consider you again, you must absolutely ignore him, and then if he ever does call you, ignore him again. THEN think about what the H....you are doing.


another Leo guy 4 years ago

Pisces girl, I am very sorry to hear that. As Christofers Flow stated, he must have not been absolutely taken with you. I was absolutely taken with my Pisces girl. I'm still in awe over my new friend. It's been 54 days. Our strong complelling interests just happen to be God first, music and we both love the outdoors and are plant freaks. Honesty, openness and being non-judgemental make our relationship so relaxed and easy flowing. Of course fate may play a little role here too. You may have opened up to him a little too early and too much and he decided you were just easy game. Not really sure though. The biggest thing for me though has been being able to read her(the best one can with Pisces)listen, understand and I truly respect her. I have just had to learn a whole lot of patience. The surest way to keep something is to let it go. I wish you the best. Sounds like his pride got the best of him. His loss I am certain!


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Another Leo Guy: Well said and clearly so. Leo is a hunter. You can't be too easy to get. But that's a technique. What is important is real honest concern.


honeypot 4 years ago

I met a younger leo man and he is a child, treats me like crap and thinks everything is about him


Pisces girl 4 years ago

You are absolutely right! I don't think he liked me nor was honest about his feelings! I deleted his number and closed the chapter. I am moving on and since I broke up with him I had three guys asking me out so I guess it's a sign that there are others who are worth giving a try! I am done with this Leo :)


Pisces girl 4 years ago

Another Leo guy, I just saw ur comment! Thank you so much! I wish u all the best with ur Pisces girl. We r very emotional and loving, we just need to feel safe and appreciated. The more the person show us how he really wants to be with us the weaker we get. Just keep on showing her love and always keep in mind that we r very sensitive and could get hurt so easily.

I am really hurt and just can't believe that he doesn't care about me after him running after me for a year to go out with me! I dunno if Leo's act and could be insensitive and mean! I just hope that he will realize wat he did one day :)


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Honeypot: He is being a Leo. You, sweet Pisces are expecting a loving response. He is happy being him. You need to keep your Piscean nature from being harmed.


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Pisces girl: I am trying to protect you, by giving you a different point of view: If he ever does come back, make the way to your front door a hard one. It is not in the Leo nature to do much for Pisces that is kind and soft. THEY HAVE TO BE IN LOVE.


Pisces girl 4 years ago

I really appreciate it christofer and m definitely going to take ur advice. I will never contact him, I even removed his phone number. If God will bring him back to me I won't make it easy for him at all! He broke my heart into pieces and I'am not sure if I will ever be able to forgive him.

I'm trying to move on, no matter how hard it is.I just wish for him to learn how to be more sensitive towards ppl!


another Leo guy 4 years ago

Christofers Flow. Real honest concern nails it! For everyone in any relationship, I think.

honeypot: Move on. He's all take,take,take and has not learned to give. There are mature Leo's out there.

Pisces girl: Thank you for your kind words. And yes, how sensitive you Pisces are. We are just going slow right now. I think that's where we both need to be after the life experiences we both have endured. I think we are both afraid of getting hurt. But I'm more concerned about hurting her, and how I just cannot even imagine btw, but I am more concerned about hurting her than getting hurt myself. I even cried thinking about it. Underneath my exterior, I know I am a most sensitive, caring character.

The good news is that we both don't mind continuing to move forward. Of course I would love to get her point of view and how she feels about all of this some day. Somethings are better left unsaid though at this point. Nothing needs fixed, cause there isn't anything broke.


Pisces girl 4 years ago

Another Leo guy, us Pisces are always afraid of getting hurt, that's y we take our time before we get into any relationship. We need to feel safe and appreciated, we are looking for real unconditional love.

Don't be afraid of hurting her, it's true that we are sensitive but we always find excuses to forgive especially those who are dear to our hearts.

You are a sensitive guy, that's what Pisces women need. A person who understand us and feel us without us having to talk. We r really bad at expressing our feelings we just expect people to understand us. We are very deep, we think a lot and if u win our heart make sure that we will take u to another world where u find true love and happiness :)

Wish if my Leo guy was as sensitive as u are! I just want him to regret that's all! I don't want him Back I just want him to realize what he did!!


Pisces girl 4 years ago

Another Leo guy, us Pisces we are always afraid to get hurt, that's why we take our time before we get into any relationship. We need to feel safe, loved and appreciated.

It's very important to show us how much u really want to be with us, we hear sweet words and ur actions have to match ur words, that's very important! We need to feel that the person is honest and has good intention towards us.

Don't be afraid of hurting her,u r as sensitive as her which means that u both understand each others and care for each others.

It's true that we get hurt easily but we forgive very easily as well, especially those who are dear to our hearts. We tend to remember the good things and find excuses for our lovers mistakes, but we have a strong ego so u have to show us how sorry u are for us to consider giving u a second chance.

Most of the time we do, though.

Me forexample, I gave each of my exes 2 chances, it's just because I saw hope also our nature is to stick to Watever we know rather than trying something new! I ended all of my past relationships , it's coz when I give a second try I really need to see changements and efforts put into the relationship and they failed to convince me that they deserve the second chance they were given.

Once u gain our trust , we will allow u into our special world, where's true and unconditional love :)

Wish my Leo guy was as sensitive as u are! although m hurt from him but I can't stop myself from missing him. I will never contact him thats for sure. m moving on but Pisces never Like to leave bad feelings between them and their exes and since I didn't get a closure from him , it's making it a bit harder for me! But I always think , everything happens for a reason and wat god wants to happen will eventually happen :)


another Leo guy 4 years ago

Well Christofers Flow, I believe I have misinterpreted my Pisces girl as in wanting to take the relationship maybe to a next level? As you may or may not recall, early in the relationship she said she could not offer me her heart because it was still with her deceased boyfriend. She wanted to be honest with me. I respected that and told her so. I also new that I was falling for her, but with Gods help I gave up what my heart was feeling for her in order to really get to genuinely know this girl because I knew I could get hurt if I didn't. Being the eternal optimist, I did not hear her say that I could not pursue her heart. But I did so in a manner of just wanting to get to know her in a friendship manner and let things unfold naturally and slowly and see what happens. Nothing flashy or extravagant, just sincere and thoughtful, honest, the real me. Over the past 2 months, we've hung out and done many many things together and have gotton to be pretty darn comfortable around each other-her words.

So I guess in trying to understand what I would calls signs that she's kind of into me, I must have just mis-read her intentions from the start.

What I call signs:

1.The texting everyday at one point 80 between us in a day. Daily emails, 2-3 times a week phone conversations

2.Texts of good night and sweet dreams still as of last night

3.She loves my two grils. Tells me to give them her love.

4.Makes potential plans for my girls and then asks if she can come along.

5.The I can't wait to do this or I'm excited about doing that. (when we have future plans)

6. Besides that, we have a million things in common.

7.She has told me things she said she has never told anyone else, and she confides in me.

8.The looks and smiles we share.

9.Her wanting me to meet her family.

10. Telling me that if I may have done something for her that it really means alot to her.

11. She's Pisces so it obvious that nothing sexual has occurred, but the way she kind of brushes up to me or taps me to get her attention about something.

12. She asked me to go to the mountains with her over a month ago-we go next week.

13. Telling me she loves her new friend.

14. She texted me one time asking if I wanted to come over and watch a movie. As I was trying to respond to her within seconds, she texted again and said WELL? do you want too? As if to say-I want to know now!

15.She showed up at a park where I was at with my girls one day a few minutes after she texted me and asked where it was at. Her sister dropped her off and she said that I could take her home. I was like ok cool. Spent the rest of the day at her house swimmimg.

16.She had a beach house for Memorial day weekend. She said she was spending it visiting friends and family. I was good with that. I had plans to work around my house and get stuff done. That Friday around 6:00, 2 hours after I said goodbye to her, she asked if I wanted to meet her other brother/his wife and get breakfast and go boating all day saturday. I said sure. At 10:35 that night she started texting that she wanted me to come down to the beach tonight get drinks and listen to a band. Before I could respond her next text was- I need you to come and dance with me. Then her next one was- later we can walk on the beach and maybe stay up until the sun rises. I txted back now 11:00- I was tired. She txted back with a sad face. The she txted again-come on chicken! Pack some clothes and stuff. I responded no but how about I get there early to watch the sun come up in the morning. Then she called instead of txted. Almost pleading. So I went as you see, how could I not go after all that? Almost done... I got to the beach at midnight, she was on the sidewalk waiting, unpacked in minutes and we walked and talked on the beach until like 3:30 in the morning. I wanted to so hold her hands but did not. At one point though she was in front of me on a seawall and out of nowhere a wrapped my arms around her waste her head fell back on by chest and for a minute or so I just held her. Next day boating and beaching,live music,drinks etc all day. I went home saturday evening. Next day I told her I was wacthing the girls on Monday because there mother worked, She said Oh, we need to do something with them then lie atrs and crafts I was like Great. Well she was dead tired by Sunday and txted me Monday she felt sick. I said no big deal and told her to rest. She agreed.

SO... Tuesday I sent her an email thanking her and telling her what a great weekend I had with her. I said especially Friday night when I held you for that brief moment. Told her to have a wonderful morning.

This is the response I got back....

Hi there,

I too enjoyed walking on the beach, it was very cool to see the stars and the water at night. I probably talked too much because of my 2 martinis, so excuse my blah blah blah. :-)

I have to be honest with you Chris, I didn't mind that you hugged me, I am just concerned about your heart. Our friendship is wonderful, but it's just that, a friendship. I want you to know that I truly love you as a person. You are a wonderful son, father and man. I know that one day, you will find someone that will fall in love with you, respect you and treat you kindly and you'll live happily ever after. I hope that day comes soon for you because you deserve it and I know that is what you want. I am just not that person and I don't want to hurt your heart.

I value our friendship. I enjoy talking and hanging out. I enjoy cooking and working in the garden. But, you can't spend all your free time with me, the girls and working around your house. You really need to open your heart and start looking around. You need to get out there and meet the girl of your dreams. :-) I am afraid hanging out with me all the time will stop you from doing that. I'm not saying we can't hang out together sometimes, that would make me sad. But maybe not as much as we have been. You need some male friends that you can go out with and meet people. Join a sports team, talk to people at your gym, join one of the prayer groups at your church. You have to start living a little for yourself and I don't mean working in the yard. I mean socializing so that you can meet a wonderful woman and some new good friends.

I am taking my own advice and doing the same. As soon as I return from NC, I am going to start signing up for the volunteer work. I will meet all kinds of people that way. Those people will introduce me to more people and so on. I have to stop being such a hermit also. I know what I want for my life, I just have to make it happen. Sitting on my couch watching TV isn't going to fulfill my destiny. :-)

I hope that you understand and that you aren't upset with my honesty and opinions.

Hope your day is going well.

Gin

I am at a loss...well not really...She just appears to be the highly spriritual Pisces I have read about.

Thanks for letting me ramble.


Rijan 3 years ago

My gf is Leo n me Pisces , we been in relation for almost 5 years and 3 yrs of long distance, we've broken up almost 4-5 times and every time was serious and cries.and today we still love each other like nothing else..we just are amazing couples.


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Christofers Flow 3 years ago from Denver Author

Rijan: I rejoice with you. It sounds like you both can weather the changes. You obviously love your Leo woman. She must have a tremendous elegant way about her. And you, the Pisces who can absorb change and deliver love continuously. Maybe, its not exactly like that, but this is kind of what I can conjure up in my mind. Whatever the true images are, I wish you the best. Keep on seeing the unique value in each other. That's the secret.


Kate 2 years ago

Hi, Christofers. I am a Leo woman recently dating Pisces male. He had been a flicker of light in my life since my painful breakup with my ex. I like that he is caring, chivalrous, and unimposing. He does like his space sometimes, and for now I give it to him. But I expect that it will come to bother me in the future. For one, Pisces arent the only people who are sensitive - leos are too, and this pushing away can be hurtful. Another ptoblem I see with this is that, one a couple makes family and has children, you can pretty much forget about personal space. I wonder if he understands that. For now though, things are going well. We are very sweet together and I enjoy his company :). Tnx for a great website!!!


Kate 2 years ago

Hi, Christofers. I am a Leo woman recently dating Pisces male. He had been a flicker of light in my life since my painful breakup with my ex. I like that he is caring, chivalrous, and unimposing. He does like his space sometimes, and for now I give it to him. But I expect that it will come to bother me in the future. For one, Pisces arent the only people who are sensitive - leos are too, and this pushing away can be hurtful. Another problem I see with this is that, once a couple makes family and has children, you can pretty much forget about personal space. I wonder if he understands that. For now though, things are going well. We have some compatible placements: gemini (I) and aries (he) moons, and cancer (I) and scorpio (he) mars. We are very sweet together and I enjoy his company :). Tnx for a great website!!!


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Christofers Flow 2 years ago from Denver Author

Kate: You have made a good point about "personal space" and family. Pisces are quite compassionate, emotional and can be very warm and loving. However, a Pisces can also be changeable tin temperament when tired, under stress or going through demanding challenging times. Children (I have 4 grown children and seven grandchildren) can be delightful, but also make you feel crazy. This is definitely an element for a Pisces. They are loving, but do have their limits. I wish you the best. Relationships work out when people give each other space, and make allowances for others lacks and areas of personal need. Blessings. If you want to explore further go to my article on "Triads" and you might be able to see more in this relationship.


Jojo 2 years ago

Hi Christofers love your article. I'm a Pisces 28 and my Leo is 6 yrs younger than me you are soo right about us. My situation is we have known each other for about 14 months. When we first met and I asked his age and I assume he was closer to my age but he was 6yrs younger I was like oohhh no well just be friends. Ok so I have hung out with him once, he's brought dinner, took walks, even asked for a kiss goodbye. More time past we became intimate. Broke it off so to speak but remained friends introduced me to his best friend ( I think because we had a pregnancy scare I was about 4-5weeks didn't survive) . Now being a Pisces I really never took him serious because I always felt like it wouldn't be anything more I have seen other ppl and so was he he even started something serious. Being that I am flighty we saw each other got back in contact and the stuff above about the sex begin now. During all this time we were getting close like friends he'd real things about other women I was cool like i said didn't take him serious. He would come over and hang out and I'd cook he would say to my youngest daughter he gonna give her someone to play with and other little things. Like the other day he's living soon to the Navy so I said my heart is going to break when u leave and he said don't worry I'll give you mine. And he told me he love me last month and yeah we started back being intimate and hang out like a couple. I just told him to go away because I've always sad I don't want a relationship they are difficult and takes a lot of work that I wasn't ready to put in. I 've said this since day 1. Now after he kept begging I gave in. I overrated and threaten to hurt him and went off on the deep end about a questionable picture and he changed BIGtime. Now he's saying he forgive me but unsure if he wanna get serious because I'm violent and jealous. I have never laid 1 finger on him. He said he was going to introduce me to his family but they don't agree with the fact that I have 3 children and he only has a part time job. I was wrong I apologized to him and the young lady publicly. I have asked do you love me he said yes ok well were is this going he's unsure I cant take it. I'm 3/5/ 85 (time unknown) He's 6/5/91. I am Leo moon, Aries venus and mars gemini asc for sure he's libra rising Gemini moon and Virgo venus and mars. Before he'd say express your feelings now he's like ohh you going on the deep in your too deep. I hate that I let him end because I just want to run but something keeps making me stay an fight which I don't do.. he has a lot of short coming but I see his potential, he graduating with his degree, no children, don't do drugs been on his job for 3yrs and treats me amd my kids great. He even offered to pick up my daughter while I work. If I ask him to do something he's always there. I don't understand what is wrong I love him so much and I cant take it he's driving me mad. I keep asking what do you want if you don't want me let me go. he know I lot of guys want me and actual witness me ignoring them for him. I just don't know what to do he is my son coach well became his coach but I don't know why he wont tell me the truth or let me go. Pls help before I hurt him lol just kidding. Thanks


Christofers Flow 2 years ago

Your comment is a tome. I honor it and wish you the best.


Bunnie 19 months ago

Hi... Im a leo (w) with a pisces (m).... Its a long distance relationship... We started off great! But the one thing sparked too many things.... We argued alot but mostly over the phone... In person we were the perfect pair... We loved to cuddle and talk... Now he has moved farther away.... He say now he doesn't want a relationship... I said kool! But his action are that of a boyfriend... I want him but don't kno how to get things back on track...


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Christofers Flow 19 months ago from Denver Author

Bunnie: Leo (f) Pisces (m). I had a girl friend 40 years ago who said: "If you only hadn't left LA, we had a chance. But you moved to Denver. Romance does not stand a chance over distance." I can only say "Amen" to that. If he has moved "farther away", that is not only actual, but metaphorical and psychological and romantic. The Pisces is barely there when they are there. When they are not there, they REALLY are not there. The only astro advice I can give you is being a LEO, you should go out and find a Sag or a Scor or an Aries. I wouldn't go near the sea for a little while. This comment is based upon geographical distance. If he comes back, then revisit with me. Blessings.

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