Astrology - How To Get Along - Virgo and Gemini

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The Virgin and The Twin

This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Gemini and Virgo.  You can get an EBOOK with all 12 matchups for any sun sign, including Gemini and Virgo at Christofer's New Website: www.astrologygetalong.com.

Virgo is an Earth Sign. Gemini is an Air Sign. Virgo is Mutable. Gemini is Mutable. This makes the Virgo stable, but understanding and flexible in the qualities that they bring to relationships. The mutability of Gemini air seems to make more physical sense with air molecules blowing up into the atmosphere. Virgo’s mutability is most interesting because they have tolerance and patience, their groundedness makes them almost hypercritical, but also naïve.

Gemini could amaze the Virgo and keep it off balance. If the Virgo were attracted to the Gemini, it would have to admire the Twin. Sometimes Gemini can come off as shallow, but many times they can be downright brilliant and impressive. Virgo might be taken with a soul that seemed not to be burdened with the sensitive and turbulent inner life of the Virgin. Gemini can be quite philosophical and Virgo, though most preoccupied with the world as they see it might be convinced of the seriousness of Gemini. Gemini could see the earth sign’s practicality and love it for its fresh innocence, while still being able to dodge the Virgin’s critical tongue, with its own cleverness.

Positive Postulate:

Virgo’s secret nagging worries are always plaguing them. Their heads are always otherwise preoccupied, as they tend to theirs and others’ lives. Gemini can bring a real freshness and breezy light heartedness to the Virgo’s life. The cures that Virgo’s practical life style could bring to the Gemini could be very salubrious. However, Gemini does not feel tons of guilt and resists the very concept of perfection. This difference of opinion about life is a stark one, but could have a positive effect on both of them.

Romance Recommendation:

Gemini and Virgo would probably not be explosive romancers. Gemini’s malleability and quicksilver quality would allow Virgo to be a little more imaginative than they would probably let themselves be. Romance for the Virgo might need more sincerity, but a loving Gemini could certainly work on that.

Conflict Quotient:

Virgo and Gemini could really need to focus on getting conflicts actually resolved. While Virgo can be quite critical on a continuing basis, Gemini can retort with machine gun speed. If Gemini were inspired to be critical, they could do quite masterfully with their ultra sharp mind and tongue. This is not a scenario that would encourage relationship growth. In fact, it could be destructive.

Peace Parlay:

Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Gemini and Virgo, if they became a real partnership or couple, could live the peaceful quietude that Virgo might have been planning for, as they improve their gardens and add a beautiful den. Gemini, needing variety would tend to keep things more than just mundane. From a long term standpoint, this envisions an attractive horizon.

Keep Up The Interest Graph:

Virgo does not mind an “interesting life” as long as the basics were covered. Nothing is more interesting to Virgo than keeping the elements of life in control. Once that was addressed, vitality, fun and variety can be as appealing to Virgo as Gemini. Gemini might tire of Virgo’s almost painful insistence on their main concerns, but barring The Twins’ exasperation, they could remain interested in each other’s deeply felt love.

Seven Year Itchiness:

There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. The 7 year itch can trip up any union. Virgo hates falling prey to human things like this. Gemini by nature might be more susceptible. Virgo could be chronically worried about where Gemini’s attention was being aimed, and the 7th year might worry them more.

ASTROCOMPATIBILITY POSSIBILITY RATING: 60% Positive Long Term - 70% Short Term. If Virgo’s innocence and Gemini’s outer lack of innocence worked, there could be attachment. If Virgo honestly was captured by Gemini’s mercurial ways, Gemini could appreciate Virgo’s gifts and something long term might happen. Much here to be learned from each other.

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Comments 9 comments

Mara 6 years ago

Oh what an amazing article! I am a Virgo and have been with my Gemini man for 2 yr and...oh snap today is our 2 yr 1 mnth anniversary ( goes to call bf)....but neways yea we've been together for a while now and we definitely have communication problems at times but we are working on our own little techniques and keywords because we love eachother so much we'd hate to end anything! This is a very insightful article tho...thanx!


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Brown Kimberlybee 4 years ago from Navarre, Florida

im with a gemini we don't see eye too eye, but i got a feeling he's not going anywhere anytime soon. i sense that im probly gona end up marrying him. sense!!!


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

This is a strong declaration from a Virgo. The Gemini can certainly be benefitted by strong Virgo character. The Gemini is fun and alive and worth the time. Good fortune.


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Brown Kimberlybee 4 years ago from Navarre, Florida

Yes his a is my A , It causes problems because thiers a communication gap.Second im pychic @ have been for a long time, (IM 31 started seeing things around 6 or 7) and very interested with the spirtual world because that's all i know. He's Penecoastal. But i know he loves me, Its just hard because he's very one track minded while i'll told a conversation with a satantist, not saying that i agree with them im open minded @ allways looking for a knowldge.


4 years ago

I've been knowing my Gemini 4years going on 5. He is hella romantic and love spending time with me! The only problem is... I don't if he's the right one for me? I never gave him a shot! what should I do(I am a VIRGO)? Do Virgo's really mix well with Gemini?


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

?: If he is doing all he can do, then it's little naïve Virgo trying to make up her Virginal mind. Either, you should listen to what your mind is telling you and go out and find your "right one". or explore the possibility that you are a tad spoiled, young and inexperienced and should give him more of a shot. Gemini is a pretty nonboring sign. Go out with a couple boring earth signs and see what that does for your "interest".


Patrick evans 4 years ago

Ima gemini and just started dating a virgo lady. we hit it of great she started texting how awsome i was and how wonderful i was by respecting her and just caring for her, so i fall hook line and sinker for her. Those texts were extremely sensitive so that's why i fell for her. came close to having sex the second date but she stopped it,then it almost happened again th 3rd date but i stopped it this time just to prove shes mor than aone night stand. Now for the curveball!!!!!!!!! Since that night she has went in reverse at light speed. Blowing my mind and totally freaking me out. The texting came to almost nothing . So i ask her and she sas shes scared of getting hurt and getting to close. True her past Xs walked all over her and treated her like crap. Now to make it worse her job is getting cut turning her world upside down. I am now preparing to be completely shut out understanding she doesn't have tym to work on a relationship. just started studying her sign and holy holy shit she defines the description. VIRGO ladies HELP. I am willing to wait ,wait ,wait for this lady. SHE is truly mesmorising in beauty to look at. Eyes that almost hypnotize you. Any advice here would be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!! Its only been a month and a half of dating and i would marry this girl without any hesitation after a litle more dating. She said its nothing iv done and admitted after being single for 10 yrs she struggles leting me in and having someone in her schedule. look forward to all comments thanks. also the love that virgos offer is exactly the kind im looking for that's why im willing to wait . How long does a loving gemini wait for a virgo before calling it quits???


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Christofers Flow 4 years ago from Denver Author

Patrick evans: You are sounding just like a Gemini, so that should make you feel comfortable. Gemini is famous for creating electricity and makes its senses soar. So, a lot of this could be just you. You are right about her unemployment. Virgo can be very difficult later on in a relationship as they start telling you about all your flaws. A Virgo single for 10 years. You are talking yourself into a deep love. Get to know her. Let her see your real side(s).


patrick evans 4 years ago

hey i appreciate the advice and comment. This sign stuff is all new to me but freaks me out as to how accurate the personality descriptions are, just unbelievable!!!!!. Thanks again. After studying her sign and seeing how she defines it i am definitly waiting for her and going to set myself aside,shes worth the wait from what i know of her so far.

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