Tips to Avoid Constant Complaining

Constant Complaining
Constant Complaining

Constant Complaining

Everyone in life has complained about something, but there are others that complain constantly. The chronic complainers complain as soon as they wake up in the morning. They also complain about nearly everything that they eat; they complain about their own clothes. Why do some people complain about almost everything in their life? Maybe they are bitter about the hurt someone caused them. Or maybe the chronic complainer is still angry about their dysfunctional childhood. Most complainers are prideful and don't realize there are people in the world that has less than they have, and there are people that are not in good health as the complainer is, as well.

It could be many things that cause a person to be a constant complainer. Some people complain because it's a bad habit, and sometimes they don't realize that they are complaining. But all that complaining is NOT going to make life better; actually life begins to look worse because of the complaining.

If the complaining person isn't careful, they could slip into a deep depression from being a constant complainer. Our God in Heaven doesn't approve of his children being complainers. God actually wants us all to be grateful, and then He will bless us even more. Complaining takes away from our joy, our happiness, our zest for life, our enthusiasm, our wisdom, and our blessings. The bad habit of complaining can be exchanged for positive thoughts.


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Things people complain about aren't going to make situations better. Instead of complaining, do something to make situations better. Negative energy comes from complaining, positive energy comes from being grateful. The things people complain about: their jobs, their children, their spouse, their parents, their hair, their neighbors, their church, their car, and more.

Being grateful will make our lives better; it keeps us happy, healthy, in a good mood, and most of all in God's blessings. There are so many things to be grateful for: your home, children, parents, health, sound-mind, Godly wisdom, your Bible, and much more.

Instead of complaining about employment, be thankful that you have a job in this economy if you're working. When a person has concerns about their employment issues, it's a good idea to mention it in company meetings. Talking negative about your life situations will be put out into the universe and that will bring negative energy, that's what we don't won't especially after praying to the Heavenly Father every night. ♥ Solutions can be made more often than complaining. ♥


Verse of Scripture about Complaining

Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless children of God, without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain. Philippians 2:14-16 (NKJB)

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greatstuff 4 years ago from Malaysia

I agree with you esp. on God that want us all to be grateful, and then He will bless us even more. Great hub! Voted up and Shared.


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Brinafr3sh 4 years ago from West Coast, United States Author

Hi, Glad you like this hub, thanks for commenting. I'm grateful for Hubpages, no complaint here about it.

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Faith Reaper 4 years ago from southern USA

Yes, Brinafr, we are to be content no matter whether well fed or hungry, as He tells us in His word. Sadly, there are more than enough "complainers" in this world, and in doing so, they do not even realize they are harming themselves. "A joyful heart is good medicine." Vote Up Great hub. In His Love, Faith Reaper


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Brinafr3sh 4 years ago from West Coast, United States Author

Hi Faith Reaper, Agreed, 'a joyful heart is good medicine.'And complaining will zap the joy right out of a person. Thanks


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lilian1 4 years ago from Hertfordshire England

I so agree with your hub its true some people constantly complain when really they don't have much to complain about they don't see what blessings they really do have in their life voted up :)


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Brinafr3sh 4 years ago from West Coast, United States Author

Hi Lilian1, focusing on our blessings go further than complaining, for our own good. Thanks for commenting.

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