Dealing With An Aries Woman

 In dealing with an Aries woman one might find themselves in a situation they've never been faced with before. Most likely they'll be head over heels in love with this mysterious woman for no explainable reason. In very rare cases (usually only happens with Capricorns) you'll have a strong desire to run the other direction as fast as you can and only look back to make sure you aren't being followed.

I should back up a bit and clarify exactly what an Aries woman is for those of you unfamiliar with astrology. An Aries woman is, simply enough, any woman born March 21 - April 20. You'll find that Aries men may share some of the same qualities as the women, but I feel that the women are much stronger, as far as this particular sign is concerned.

So, the first thing you should know about Aries women is that they are extremely independent. They feel that they are their own person and nobody can ever shut that down. They might be dependent on someone else in many ways...financially or physically let's say...but they will never ever lose their sense of self. An Aries woman will never be part of someone else. There is no half of an Aries woman. It is all or nothing. She is not part of a Mr. and Mrs. She is her own self. She can always take care of herself at any point in life...she may just choose not to for whatever reason (valid I'm sure).

Next you need to know some basic characteristics of an Aries woman. They are intelligent, comical, dramatic, witty, seductive, and wise beyond their years. An Aries woman is strong and to the point. They often are very successful simply because they won't take no for answer. Saying no to an Aries woman is much more dangerous than saying yes. She'll take that no as a challenge and pursue to the end...an Aries woman always wants what she's not supposed to have...and she always gets what she wants. Many people have said that an Aries woman captivates them in an unexplainable way. "There's just something about her" is often a phrase used to describe this bullheaded female. They have this mysterious and subtle hold over people that even she cannot explain.

Loving an Aries woman can be the most thrilling and terrifying experience of your life. If she truly loves you (oh and you'll know), she'll be so devoted. Maybe too devoted. She will want to share herself with you. She will divulge secrets that she's kept locked up tight her whole life. In doing so she is trusting you with not only her emotions and her life, but with her soul. The problem is that an Aries woman won't understand if you can't do the same. She gives you her soul she expects yours in return. If this ram doesn't receive what she desires, she'll feel completely devastated that she let someone break her tough shell.

A female ram only let's someone in if she thinks it's for life. Once she has made up her mind that you don't feel the same (whether you actually do or not isn't important at this point..you'll never convince her otherwise), she will terrorize you until the next poor victim comes along. This could possibly be as short as a week, for as I said she has that way about her, but be prepared in case it lasts longer. Hurt is shown through anger with an Aries woman. She'll call you every name thinkable, use your weaknesses against you, tell other people what secrets you did share. This injured ram will use any means necessary (this includes violence) to ruin your life.

I don't want anyone to be afraid of an Aries woman. They probably sound like a bit much, but there is plenty of good to go along with the bad. And if you are caught up in a battle with one, I feel pretty confident in sharing my ideas of ways to escape. First...you need to make yourself very unappealing. Do things you know she hates. Take on characteristics she would never be able to deal with. Then beg her to be with you. Literally get on your knees and beg. Act like a sad pathetic teenager from some lame romance movie. Cling to her legs and tell her you are sorry and you want to spend forever by her side making it up to her. Keep telling her about how you'll never spend time with anyone else but her. An Aries woman doesn't want to be smothered. And she doesn't like pathetic.

It is very important that you do not blow off an Aries woman. If you are finished with her don't disappear with the cold shoulder. As I said earlier, an Aries woman loves a challenge and she wants everything she thinks she can't have. If you make her think she can't have you...she'll chase you around forever. Simply end the game. Make her believe she's won and she can have you forever...I guarantee she'll be out the door and after the next one in the blink of an eye.

 

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Five One Cows 5 years ago from Moo Town

I have found that so much of this is true from my own experiences in life.


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Aries woman 4 years ago

You are so absolutely right ... amazing analysis , and so is ur analysis on the non humans!


Ashley 4 years ago

You must have destroyed an Aries woman so now you think you have us Figured out your close, but not quite!!!! LOL


Shu 4 years ago

LOL, so absolutely true!


Aditi 4 years ago

You just made us Aries sound like a complete bitch to be honest ... Well ya we r fighters.. We like to get things once we have decided to get them, but not quiet true where u mentioned that we would do anything to make the man "who betrays or doesn't reciprocate our feelings " a living hell ... In short we are women that if we love the man ... No matter how badly he has treated us , we would always stand by him .. And also at the same time not let our dignity down, because when we say ' I love u ' n believe me it's the most difficult thing for us to ... . It is forever :)


aries91 4 years ago

you have us figured out just a little not quite LOL! i have to disagree about the part when you said we will try to make a guys life a living hell basically b/c we figured out that the guy isn't interested anymore, so not true, i know for myself, if a guy isn't interested anymore, the most i'll do is ask why he isn't interested anymore other than that, im gone and! now once you tell me you arent interested or i have already pinned in my mind that you arent really interest anymore than i will leave, but once im gone don't look for me to come bck. you were basically saying that we are spiteful, which in fact we are not, i know i am not


aries70 4 years ago

I simply do not agree. I do have a temper and my mouth can be a bit much.But the way I see things is if I had to say it then it needed to be said, there's no sugar coating things with me it is what is. Now your feelings may get hurt but in the long run I was right about what ever I said that needed to said. Has for realtionships I guess I can be a little controlling @ least according to the men that I have dated. On the other hand I will not chase a man down if he says he no longer want s to be with me I will simply replace him it's just that simple. It may hurt my heart and I will probably want answers so that I could have some sense of closure but other then that he can go on about his business. Normally when that happens they always come crawling back and I never ever want them again. So I disagree with what you you say about the Aries woman


aries 2103 4 years ago

Being an Aries I agree with the article.

If things are not my way I do try to get them my way anyhow at times.


Meghna 4 years ago

80% is correct....but not ALL of us are that unfeeling.....only when we're totally pissed and unconcerned. Plus, we give chase whether we have lasting interest or not.....most of the time....pls understand "interest" for aries, especially the women is very, very hot, yet very, very, fleeting. Its our nature...so!


Jasera 4 years ago

I do agree 50%, am not creating my own hype but yes we are foolishly innocent can do anything and everything for the one who we love. Yes, mouth can be a bit much but deep down there is lump of sugar not every one will realize... Coz It's smart world out for Aries. Aries are like (Barfees).


fab3003@yahoo.com 4 years ago

I was born in March 21. So beginning of Aries..for me, it is a complete turn-off if i like or even deeply fell in love with a a man but he had shown cold shoulder to me...i.,e, will NEVER haunt him or follow him. I don't like pethatic men surely, like most women of different signs, but surely will show the ones who resent me similar reaction..i.e, i don't want you either. Plus, i was engaged to someone for years and he hurt me BIG TIME....hen went back to his ex after i stood by him financially and emotionally....i knew secrets about him that wold have destroyed him and actually sent him to jail...but did not say A WORD...so the articl is Bull Sh....


Reader 4 years ago

Oh my brother. Some are so true, but some aren't. I am not violence kind of arian. I am smooth operator.


Danika 4 years ago

You make us sound like stalking whores us aries just know what we want and if u cant do it for us then on to the next most people see that as bein unstable and selfish but u people fail to relize we just want someone to love us and we want to be happy


sandy 4 years ago

you are such a loser and cannot stand with a strong and honest woman such as Aries woman.


Tom 4 years ago

100% true, I am married to one over 10 years and oh boy my life has challenge every single day.


tristan 4 years ago

im an aries grl and yes i agree ive been married 10 years+ and i know when i said ii do i meant it for life yes we have had some don falls but ik hat i want and im a lil tempered and mouthy but strong and powerful...


SKy 3 years ago

This makes no sense sounds like to different people one that has read about actual characteristics of Aries woman then takes his own little twisted theory at the end... Wow!


Aries Girl 3 years ago

Well, you need to live out of your box. Yes, most of us Aries Woman love the chase and being chased. But once I love someone, I can't destroy him. No matter what bad things he's done to me. So hold your tongue and words. I already read others horoscope and it's far more accurate than yours. BTW, by this I agree, Aries is straightforward. Yeah, you experiencing it now.


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Nakia Deon 3 years ago

As an Aries I don't know rather to laugh at this or hunt you down and run my horns through you.


Anne f.advincula 3 years ago

Yes! Its is true,im aries woman im very passionate,honest,especially to my wrk.but im very strong person.


Amanda 3 years ago

As an Aries...I'd have to say a lot, not all but a lot of what you said is not quit true... For onr thing once I fall in love, no matter how bad the guy may hurt me I would never even think about "hunting" him down or making his life a living hell.


pat 3 years ago

Sorry chap! Would rather turn my back and run,then being malicious. Yes we are a strong bunch who knows what they want and very simple and straightforward.


Beck 3 years ago

Some of this is right, but you have a lot of it wrong....... Us aries women are very strong, but we can come to a compromise. We are not as bad as you make out.......


Ariessssss 3 years ago

What a load of shit, I have never used any bodies weaknesses against them and whatever else you said we do to hurt people. I have found that people are more mean towards Aries cus they can't control or put them down.

Please post stuff that's true, cus it seem like you are just another Aries hater and wanna be her!!


kimber4 3 years ago

disagree with one part, if a guy makes me mad or looses my trust I will ignore him and move on, good luck finding me cause I won't be back. I wont make your life a living hell.. you might feel that way tho, because I have turned cold and have forgotten about you.


AriesK 3 years ago

Darling, darling, darling.

You spreads the wrong impression about us. Especially on 'ex-boyfriend'.

Because what end stay end.

kimber4 describe a perfect thought of us. If you guys makes us mad and looses our trust, we will ignore you so cold you might feel north pole is hotter.

Did one of our kin broke your heart? If yes, don't make the same fool mistake again. You, yourself, describe it very clearly what is wait for you after the break-up when all of us testifying that we just simply ignore you.


Kevin 3 years ago

So true , i am done with her and i think i gtg.


None of your business 2 years ago

okay... I just spent 10 min of my life to sign up to make a comment on this page? Alrighty..... But do you want to know the truth? Aries are the deepest ppl and they will not just submit. :) They are a puzzle and if I gave away all of the info, it would be too easy for you to put the puzzle together :) so good luck.... But if your Aries loves you, you will not need luck ;)


Arianraiyne 2 years ago

Well, this is true, when I fall I fall hard and if you f*ck me over then best believe you better not look my way or try to make contact with me ever again in life because I will sh*t on you. I can walk pass you and act like I never even known you. You don't care about my feelings that's like not caring about my life and if you don't care about my life then I could care less if you live or die :)


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Melv Rossa 2 years ago from Bandung

Why do Aries women still considered as bitches ? Coz we are jealous, possessive & outspoken...? I've seen other zodiac signs (Aquarius, Gemini) that is worst & more devilish than the Aries woman..at least , proud that an Aries wouldn't have done what other signs did, oh GOD, no one commented on other signs, it's only Aries all along, coz they follow us Aries, we have our own style of living our own life..who's jealous now?! Lol


Ariesenergy 2 years ago

Pisces women are the WORST! Sneaky, manipulative, cold hearted, cheaters, liars and total drama queens!


Suga T 2 years ago

Hey ladies Aries womens n the house well yes we love hard & forever but we dont play yo game to long because we are the best of the best so for the haters dont hate just enjoy us & treat us like the Princess we are aries womens dont follow others


Suga 2 years ago

Hey ladies Aries womens n the house well yes we love hard & forever but we don't play yo game to long because we are the best of the best so for the haters don't hate just enjoy us & treat us like the Princess we are aries womens don't follow others


canerlove 2 years ago

CAN any ARIES women help me out?... What do I do if I had an Aries women's attention but it's not the same any more. I'm a Cancer and made the mistake of letting her know that I was catching feelings for her before she caught feelings for me. I believe she likes the chase and I messed it up on accident. The problem is that she already has my heart. Am I screwed??..Is there any hope? She once was so very attracted to me and liked me a lot, but now we are just friends before we ever really got started with any relationship... Am I screwed!?


Fiery aries 2 years ago

It's true when u say their is something about us. It's also true when u say we get angry when hurt but it's complete bs to say we get violent or spend time focusing on getting the person back! First of all we like the Chase too much to spend time bitching! Once it's over it's over and ur biggest surprise may be how quickly she's inlove again with someone else ! I can tell u one thing about an Aries woman if you've hurt her she be gone like the wind and will forget that she was even with u


4/16Aries22 2 years ago

EVERY DAMN WORD! I'm In Utter Disbelief! Brilliant it's like me through and through lol


Ram 2 years ago

I would probably say 50% correct, i would like to some...probaly which would resemble for some of the Arian woman,

Yes, they are looking gorgeous in nature, even if they not they wanted to be like that,

mostly 90 % they will faith full to whom they are loving, only bed thing of they understand some thing that is right , who ever may be saying "no to that matter", they will never agree, in spite of the other person is 100% right, one more they do not want any time to accept their mistake until u will caught them with 100% proof,

they always like some body should always praise them

ever time they wants respect from others even if they are quareeling with others :)

they wanted to show up little extra as compare to others in party and all.

they are good at work but not in the morning hours are very lazy in nature. late sleeping lately getting up.

they understand a man very quickly

the always support their family member irrespective of any situation

one good or bad thing if they do not want let you know some ting , u can not get that by any means of communication from any body in that matter.

they love to pairing lions sign people for temporary, infacct aqurian also they likes most.


aries_16 2 years ago

I do agree with some parts, yes we know what we want outa life and we will get it. I say rather do it yourself then use others, what is it about others that just do not get us...I'm so sick of ppl thinking they know us. If any other woman besides an aries had to love a man n behave in the same manner its CUTE! But let an aries woman do it and its all over the internet, if a man wants to leave go ahead leave. We won't hunt you down..we won't make ur life a living hell we will simply smile and wave and wish u all the best in ur life ahead.


Kayla 2 years ago

You make aries woman sound like a blood sucking leech that you have to learn to get rid of. Your analysis coudnt be less accurate.


miya 2 years ago

Kayla no that's not true get with the prograñ honey wat yu sayinh will get you hurt and yes honey im a mars aries and that was very defensive to me of what you sed make me feel like you think we aries are stalkers wen we aint at all!!!


Mimi 2 years ago

My mama's an Aries, I like the fact that they are fighters, only sometimes they have to watch out not to fight the world. I'm a Taurus and my mom and I are best friends, Aries are loyal and strong, she is a great mom. But Aries tempers can be a down fall and they tend fight anyone who tells them no or has an opposite opinion. Pretty much fits with the mars and that Aries is influenced by the God of War. I'm the only person my mom can't fight with due to my Taurus traits, whenever she tired to pick a fight with me I would just hold my ground due to my stubborn Taurus nature, nothing she say or do could make me change anymore than her. Plus I'm a strong sign too so maybe that's why an Aries temper doesn't bother me, I can't judge my temper is just as bad if not worse than hers. Anyway I just laugh at my mom whenever she gets hot tempered or as I call them Aries fits of rage (which is totally funny by the way), but the one thing that is sure about a Aries, as fast as they get mad they can stop being angry just as quick. They are good mothers and friends, and very loyal to the people they are in a relationship with. If you like a little fire and having someone tell you like it is, then hang out with a Aries.


miya 2 years ago

Mimi i like dhat lol


Tukito 2 years ago

Hmm it seems an Aries woman and a Scorpio man are too similar. No wonder they always fight.


Aries !! 2 years ago

Ull Never figure us out that is all I have to say ;) !!


Alexandra 2 years ago

Most of the thing u said are true when I want something I have to have it I don't take no for answeer when I said I love u I mean it and if u love me back I won't walk away sometimes I do hate myself cs I do chase after what I can't have but that's who I am I hate challenging and I have to have what I want but we are not the most selfish people on earth we are the best


victoria 2 years ago

the writer hates Arien that's for sure


Little bird 2 years ago

I'm an Aries. This complete BS. Violent? Look, if a guy isn't into me I bounce. Sounds like you knew a mental case. But, that's a generalized synopsis of an Arian women. We do not need a man to complete us. If we find a man worth loving, he's lucky and will be treated as a king. Problem is..most men are not men anymore. So, we constantly have to pick up the slack. Aries women wrap circles around most. I'm the prize to be won! I don't have to chase a

man. When it's done it's done. This article seems to be written by a jaded individual. Whom most likely cheated. Every Aries women I know has a golden loving heart. Happy as well as strong. We bounce back like no one else!


sister11 2 years ago

i didn't think this review was fair.. if you want a good example.. think of Captain America, the woman Peggy, played by Haley Atwell is a Aries woman thru and thru and it shows in her performance.. my three exes when asked about me mentioned 'pure of heart', 'true blue', 'loyal and brave' and 'a steel backbone wrapped in silk' lol.. i think the mystique surrounding us is because a man instinctively recognizes her when he meets her.. he can't just be anyone, he has to be worthy of respect and admiration, be a man's man with the right stuff, if it's right, the Aries woman could be the love of his life and he knows it. Also, if he doesn't treat her right, she has to walk.. it's not negotiable.. all three of my exes had to die a little bit inside to let me go but they knew what they did. I would say when the right man could unlock everything inside an Aries woman, he knows the ecstasy of life :)


Killian 2 years ago

I'm a true Gemini. Ex wife and last ex gf were aries. Both were very intense and this article is very accurate. Ex wife threatened to kill herself when broke engagement and later harasses me until we got married. After divorce, she talked so much shit and tried to get me fired from work. Dated another aries for three weeks recently even though I'm remarried but separated. Never made move on her due her mean personality. I showed little interest and she has been hounding me and now I know why. She wants what she can't have. Finally after she found out I was married/separated she went off on me and I'm actually kinda scared. Admittedly I'm drawn to aries women, but their novelty gets old very quickly once their bitter harshness unleashes.


Killian 2 years ago

I also find it hilarious and fitting that some of the defensive comments made by aries women in response to this article clearly reflect and validate the author's description of their fiery and mean nature...


Free 2 years ago

I think Gemini girls are the best! Independent, fun, and playful


James D 2 years ago

I also am a Gemini guy. I found aries chicks to be angry and volatile. Kinda coll at first, but takes a toll on me. I need a positive vibe from girl or Im out (unless she z superhot)


sexyaries27 2 years ago

Yes most of it are true but it sounds like we're bitches. Aries women are the best lovers that's why we don't settle for less. Try to love one and you'll see. ;)


Dee 2 years ago

There's one fact about aries women that has definitely been proven over and over, if you read most of the responses to this forum. You all cannot type a complete sentence without a typo, or get through a complete thought that makes sense. You just sound ignorant and defensive.... Lol... Now go ahead and bash me...


zxc 2 years ago

xczc


Billy 2 years ago

The comments made by aries clearly validate what is mentioned above. Obnoxious , mean and inconsiderate are some words that come to mind. Saying that she loves you and than withholding love when things are not going their way. Evilest bunch i have encountered. ill tempered and rude not to mention the mouth they have on them , just filthy its not being blunt its plain mean and evil.


sandip parekh 21 months ago

Aries women are bastered? They have no heart at all. Just leave him. They are devil.


Doesn't matter 21 months ago

My Aries is the deepest sweetest woman Ive ever met. Sometimes misunderstood because she's so good at reading people it catches them off guard for better or for worse she just knows. But she is always searching for ways to better understand others and never from a place of judgement or self-rightcousness. But I can tell you that Everyman that she has ever had even the slightest romance with is still in love with her. The ones that left her are still regretting it. And that use to bother me but she amazes me everyday cause like you said "there's just something about her" and I'm never letting her go;) just don't tell her that jk she already knows and she appreciates " true love" . Aries women just want to love and be loved truly.


crista 17 months ago

This is somehow true. Except for chasing exes. I don't chase the ex, I simply date someone else. And quick.

I become really cold and erase them completely. I don't have time for games at all.


cora. 16 months ago

This is so true . My friend is an aries female. She lies, cheats, stalks, and whines all the time. She is a straight whore but when you call her out she's like I'm not a whore, until you list off the ten guys she screwed in a month. Lol this is so true.


zcouto 16 months ago

Lol! I sooo agree with Arianraiyne. As an aries woman, best believe i will s*** on you. As far as walking past someone like u never knew them is exactly what i do! I think our personality just won't tolerate disrespect! How can a woman continue to chase or dwell over someone who never really gave a f*** about you in the first place! That's embarrassing! Know ur worth!


alice 14 months ago

most of this is true.... love being an aries


Aries out of love 13 months ago

The truth of an Aries women, we fall in love to quickly and when we give our heart to someone, we want them to treasure it and appreciate it. We will spend a life time looking for our true love, but if you break our hearts we suffer dearly. We will be heart broken for a while but we are strong and will love again and take it as a lesson learnt. We just need to learn to be patient in love and relationships.


Penny 13 months ago

I actually found this article interested with me being an aries woman i found it somewhatt true!!!


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W1totalk 13 months ago

I know three Aries people. They have proven to be generous, kind, sefl-loving, and faithful when things are right. When things turn, it's like they become self-righteous butt cheeks. This girl I met just reminded me of that. Things get petty, assumptive, and blindly- deliberate even when wrong. If it were balanced, things would be cool, but its that all or nothing attitude and only general personal well-being, if you follow what they want. Even when they are wrong, they are right. Everything and anything could be a trigger. Everyone else, when they try, can evaluate themselves internally. I think I'm trying to escape their need to be dominant and simply live in peace and harmony with what I actually want.


zcouto 13 months ago

Lol! I love it..to Arianraiyne this is so true of me too!..i can't understand how or why any woman would stalk or even care about an ex. Move on ladies!


amish 10 months ago

My gf is Aries and she is shorttempered she is so much focused on her career and we love each other but her career is job of metro and I am a town person.my question is

Will she be happy after leaving her career for me?

Or she will criticise me after marriage

We will be happy or not.

I am a sagittarius


lady 6 months ago

I im a true aries woman i was born 27 march i was reading all that they say about aries woman but i have to disagree about one part about u saying if any man hurt us we will make therw life a living hell by telling there secearts to people, thats a lie i guest you dont really know everything about aries woman then, for one thing when we are hurt or if our bf hurt us, i will tell him about what he did in front of him, i will cuss him out, i dont even have time to carry his business to people, so come clear when u are talking about us


Freya 5 months ago

I am an Aries and I will say it's very true, I agree 100%; however, I will not chase you....well only for like a week but after that it's pretty much kiss my ass! Hahaahahahaa. We are lovable, funny, adventurous, outspoken, caring at heart but will NOT be a fool.


Lajoyce 4 months ago

I agree with this article about 90%. Being an aries woman myself, I cut people off easily if I feel the need to or if I think they are not as interested as I am. I have a great intuition about things like that! I will never hurt a person that I love with words or make their life a living hell. Now as for someone I don't love, that's a different story lol. I know how bold I can be and I only tell people the truth about themselves or situation.


Portia 8 weeks ago

I'm an Aries woman, born march 29, I disagree with the part that states we Aries women will chase exes, hunt them down and reveal their secrets! I'm never like that! And I don't have time to waste on someone who fucked up ma heart. I Luv hard and wants to be Luv in return. Cos m a lover of true Luv! If a guy leaves me, I may be down for sometime..but will soon pick maself up and moves on! And the funny thing is, almost all ma exes wants me back, but ma answer has always been a blunt "NO"! Cos nobody can have me twice in their lives! M currently with a Sagittarius guy and he's turned out to be a player, liar, cheater etc. But m still with him cos I want to hear that "its over" slip out of his tongue so I can go...but he's not saying it. And whenever I ask him to tell me what he truly feels, he doesnt talk. I know a lot of things that can destroy him, but never have I let it out of ma mouth even wen we are arguing and I don't intend doing it either wen m long gone!!

I'm proud to be an Aries!


Moron 7 weeks ago

I lie,I lie a lot when I'm angry,but it's not a full lie,it's always a half lie.When I find someone hurtful and is capable of hurting me,I cried at night..and the crying last for days because it sad that people is not as generous and loving as me.im scared of people that do not care of other people's life and problems that's why I ignore those types of ppl.as an Aries,I always want to help people but I guess not everyone wants my help,maybe it's time for us arians to think of ourselves and be more joyful about life

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