Discipleship: No Freebies

Most of the significant things
done in the world were done by
persons who were either too 
busy or too sick! There are few
ideal and leisurely settings
for the disciplines of growth.
 ~Robert Thornton Henderson~

Swing The Bat

It is ingrained in humanity to want something for nothing. We always seek bargains and deals. Even in our spiritual lives, there’s a latent expectation that we can obtain vitality at cut rates.

However, like anything else there’s a direct relationship between input and output—we will receive benefits of spiritual strength, growth, and change equal to our diligence.

When I coached Little League, there was a young fella who’d get called out on strikes without ever taking the bat off his shoulder. No matter how much encouragement he’d get, the bat never even flinched in his hands as the pitches sailed past him.

After every strike out I’d get eyeball to eyeball with him and say, “You know, your chances of hitting the ball increase significantly when you actually swing the bat.”

Too many of us say we want to hit a homerun in our spiritual lives or at least we want to put the ball into play, yet we stand and watch as pitch after pitch flies past us.

We say we want to develop character and spiritual resiliency, and then stand by and do nothing as opportunity after opportunity after opportunity comes along to challenge and stretch us.

More often than not we employ a combination of the gimme, gimme, gimme, fastfood, and get rich quick mentalities to our spiritual lives—we expect instant results with zero effort.

We want patience, and we want it right now, thank you very much. We haven’t got time for meditation or self-examination or digging out the weeds and briars in our lives.

We desire to fix lifelong issues immediately, and get spiritually rich quick. The basic premise of all get-rich quick schemes is to make a whole pile of money with very little cost. . .fast!

We all know that is bogus—deep down we comprehend that we do not get something of value for nothing, but that knowledge never seems to prevent us from wishing to do so. When we peel away kneejerk denial of that fact, it’s clear that every one of us is on the lookout for a freebie.

Reality slams up against the notion of getting something for nothing because in the stuff that matters there are no freebies. Perseverance isn’t picked up at the drive-through window.

We cannot grow beautiful gardens without hoeing, raking, working the soil, and getting our hands dirty weeding—we cannot hit a homerun or even put the ball into play without swinging the bat.

Why do we think we can grow spiritually strong without investing sweat? The words spiritual discipline can make people get antsy and squirm around—there’s something almost grim about them.

Yet discipline has the same root as disciple, which certainly implies that discipleship and discipline are yoked together. Perhaps it even demands that to be a disciple of Jesus Christ means to be disciplined.

When we seriously apply the spiritual disciplines we discover them to be an indispensable and joyful means of grace.

Isaiah 30:15-18 - NIV

This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: “In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it.  You said, 'No, we will flee on horses.' Therefore you will flee! You said, 'We will ride off on swift horses.' Therefore your pursuers will be swift!

A thousand will flee at the threat of one; at the threat of five you will all flee away, till you are left like a flagstaff on a mountaintop, like a banner on a hill.”

Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!

Faithless & Feckless

The prophet Isaiah penned those words roughly 2700 years ago, yet they are directly relevant to our 21st century mindset.

God speaks across the ages to us: “Repent. Rest in me for I am your salvation. Be quiet, relax, trust me.”

We respond by rushing to and fro—filling our lives with activity on top of activity on top of activity. We try fast-talking shortcuts and easy sounding gimmicks rather than sticking to basics.

The Israelites response to trouble and difficulties was to flee on horses rather than trust God. We are no different. The modern horses we hop on instead of trusting and drawing close to God are the Get Busy Horse, the Fill Our Schedule Horse, or the Shop, Shop, Shop Horse.

In times of urgency we jump on these metaphorical horses attempting to find answers, comfort, direction, or security everywhere and anywhere except by exercising faith in God.

Events press in and swirl around us—we have to do this, we have to do that, we have to go here or there. If we’re not careful, if we do not put intentional safeguards in place, the stresses will consume us, leaving us emotionally, spiritually, and physically exhausted.

We’ll see it in our closest relationships, which will be strained. Husbands and wives who love each other deeply will snip and snap at each other because of the pressures of an overloaded schedule.

The most momentous relationship of all will suffer when we get caught up in a preoccupation with the urgent. God will get short shrift—even though we realize that he is the source of our vigor and intensity. 

We know God is our shield and protector—that understanding is woven into our heads, yet it so easily unravels. We lose it, and in our faithless and feckless manner, we consistently flee on one horse or another.

Even so, God keeps calling us, always pouring out grace: “Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!”

Very early in the morning,
while it was still dark, Jesus
got up, left the house and 
went off to a solitary place,
where he prayed.
       ~Mark 1:35~

The Christian ideal has not
been tried and found wanting.
It has been found difficult
and left untried.
   ~G. K. Chesterton~

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What Do We Value?

When we read the gospels, we discover that Jesus of Nazareth regularly carved time out of his strenuous itinerary to be alone with God, to spend time with his Heavenly Father.

Multitudes followed and clamored for him. Religious leaders yammered at him and tried to trip him up with trick theological questions. His disciples were constantly making mistakes and monopolizing his time.

Yet in the midst of all the push and shove of happenings, Jesus made it a priority to spend precious time alone with God. We are to do likewise.

Our inclination is to make excuses, throw our hands up, and say that our calendars are just too crazy and hectic. We’ve got so many plates spinning that it requires all our attention—we have to keep up pretenses as we try to satisfy every obligation.

What we need to discern is that everything flows out of our daily personal quite time with our Heavenly Father. Who we are when we’re alone with God, is who we are—all the various masks we wear to impress or please others are stripped away.

If we are not routinely cultivating time with God, then we will be out of alignment, and all those spinning plates will frustrate and discourage us, and probably come crashing down.

When we’re balanced—when we’re spiritually aligned because of time alone with God, then the spinning plates will be invigorating. It comes down to a single question: We have to decide what is important to us—what exactly do we value?

People, even hustling people with over-filled agendas always manage to find time for those things essential to them. So, what does our lifestyle choices tell us about what we see as crucial for our well being?

Family, job, hobby? Where does our relationship with God come on that list? Yes, it really is that simple. If we view a tight connection to God as essential, then time alone with him will be given significant emphasis.

We’ll fail at it more often than we succeed—we’ll miss the mark and have to reapply ourselves. A yearning to run away or give up will beckon us, and in those heart-check times, we must determinedly keep at it.

Remember this: No matter where we are or what horse we choose to flee on, our Heavenly Father says to us, “Repent. Rest in me for I am your salvation. Be quiet, relax, trust me.”

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Mentalist acer 6 years ago from A Voice in your Mind!

The Lord helps those who help themselves...


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Kaie Arwen 6 years ago

This may be the best article you've ever written.............. thoughtful truths, blatant honesty, and a simple message that so many forget. Impeccable and inspirational........ thanks for this.......... it was a great way to start the morning........

Kaie


Donna H. 6 years ago

Ken, I can't stress strongly enough how big it was for me to see this one at this specific appointed time! Thank you so much. I'm running an online Bible study group of very diverse people. It "feels" as though most of them don't want it to be much work or actual study time, and I was beginning to wonder about the whole idea... A couple of them have encouraged me to keep it going, that some others there may have just expected a light devotional rather than actually needing to put some of their own effort into it. And I'm re-learning humbly that I'm just the guide/facilitator and the Holy Spirit is the actual Teacher/Inspire-er.


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RevLady 6 years ago from Lantana, Florida

A moving hub that shows a sensitive awareness of the need to seek first the kingdom of God. Your point "We have to decide what is important to us—what exactly do we value?" is clear. God must take priority in our lives if we are to live in harmony with ourselves and the Divine.

Thanks for sharing Ken,

Forever His,


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Amen, Mentalist acer.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Kaie - Thank for your kind comments. Much appreciated. I'm glad you found this inspirational. Blessings.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Donna - I'm glad the Holy Spirit used this to give you what you needed this morning. Peace & blessings.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

RevLady - You're welcome. Thank you for your words of encouragement. Blessings.


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Pamela99 6 years ago from United States

Ken, This is a very inspiration hub and oh so true. God must come first on our priority list. I heard another wonderful sermon this morning in church not unlike what you've written. One thing though, I never pray for patience! God Bless.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Pamela - Thanks for your affirming words. Much appreciated. Blessings.


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tjmatel3 6 years ago from McDonough, GA

Ken, you cannot sow corn and reap peas. Thanks, brother!


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Saintatlarge 6 years ago from Canada

Ken, you have given another home run. Thank you. A very respected man of God has said, "God is not looking for workers as much as he is seeking voluntary lovers". Lovers love to please because their hearts are satisfied with life and give because they want to, not because it's an obligation. This changes the whole perspective and priority of our lives and Holy Spirit is the one true person who can teach us to love God as we each will let him. Blessings, St.L.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

tjmatel3 - You're welcome. Thanks for sharing.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Saintatlarge - You're welcome. Thank you for your thoughtful and encouraging comments.


pastella13 6 years ago

Hi Ken

That's right, and we only reap what we sow. This is a moving hub with truthful words.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

pastella13 - Thank you for stopping in & sharing. Blessings.


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Dave Mathews 6 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

In the late 60's my first year at University, in my B/Sc course in computers my first professor taught me one simple and easy lesson that I in a way always knew but had never heard it said in such a way.

He told me that in computers the basic rule acranym is "GIGO" Being a Christian lad I thought maybe he was making a reference to God so I raised my hand to ask, before he'd finished his explanation.

He said NO, it was not God he was referring to but that the acranym referred to garbage, "Garbage in Garbage out," but, that he liked my idea better, what God puts in God expects out.

GIGO has been my creedo ever since, no matter which way you wish to apply it.

Brother Dave.


pnksocial 6 years ago

What we reap is what we sow. No one can deny it. Thank you for this wonderful article. It helped me.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Thanks, Dave. Those are good words to consider & keep in mind. And as you say, GIGO works either way one interprets it. Blessings.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

pnksocial - You're welcome. Thank you for sharing. I'm glad this piece was helpful. Blessings.


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vogue4us 6 years ago from USA

Amen.Eloquently said,thank you.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

vogue4us - You're welcome. Thank you for sharing.


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heart4theword 6 years ago from hub

Yes, time with God, is time well spent. If we want to grow closer to Him, we do need to spend more time with Him:) Another awesome hub! Enjoyed it thoroughly:)


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

heart4theword - Thanks for stopping in & sharing. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Blessings.


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carolina muscle 6 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

Another inspirational hub.. thanks!!!


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Thanks, CM.


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Micky Dee 6 years ago

Suffering can be the school of life. When we look at the biographies of many influential people, we see that in many cases they become much stronger because of difficult experiences. Someone who is pampered and has everything can fall into deep despair when even the smallest problems arise.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Micky Dee - Very good observations. Right on. Thanks for stopping in & sharing.


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Lamme 6 years ago

What a marvelous and inspiration hub! I am guilty of being too rushed, even too rushed to spend time in the Word and in praising Him. I have been working on trying to sit back, trust in the Lord and give Him more of my time. Thank you for this important reminder.


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Ken R. Abell 6 years ago from ON THE ROAD Author

Lamme - You're welcome. Thank you for stopping in & sharing. Blessings.

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