You Can't Out-Give God - A True Story

Matthew 14
Matthew 14

Martha was a single mother, raising her now teen-ager since she was just a year old. During the darkest time of her life she got pregnant and without knowing how, decided she was capable of raising the child on her own. Her circumstances were NOT her baby’s fault. Though she had opened a child support case when her daughter was two, her Dad hadn’t ever paid as ordered, and not a cent for the last two years. The economy was bad. She’d lost her job, so understood times were tough. With arrears totaling six figures, he’d done everything to keep dragging her through court to avoid paying. This was so costly, as she couldn’t risk losing her job over filing her own court papers. An attorney was a must! Martha finally conceded to his motion to terminate his own parental rights. Of course, her attorney suggested she petition the court, using his petition as a responsive admission of the criteria. Though the termination was awarded, there would no longer be future child support; not that it mattered. Martha had put her faith in God to provide for them.

Yes, she’d lost her job, lived on unemployment, short-sold her home and had to down-scale back to renting an apartment in a different city. Thank God He provided her job in the nick of time, even though it was thousands less per year. Living on less would be just fine, except that the unexpected expenses continued to mount (i.e. $1,000 in car repairs, etc.). Not even a year later she had accrued $7,000 in debt. The one thing she feared most was losing her job again, while owing so much money. It’s bad enough having her credit score gouged by the short-sale, but a bankruptcy, too? No. She prayed God allow her to keep her job long enough to get her creditors paid in full.

This past weekend, she did what she could to be sure her daughter could try out for America’s Got Talent® in San Francisco. Martha’s grown daughter lived in the ‘Tenderloin’ of the big City with her husband and five-month-old baby (Martha’s JOY). While that area is so bad, there was recent news that the Housing Authority was going to move them to a larger place in a nicer part of the City! God is so good! As Martha and her teen daughter met her son-in-law at the BART station and walked into the heart of the Tenderloin, the poorest of the poor were standing in the food line, just outside their apartment. One of the women looked straight at Martha and shouted, “You got one week, bitch, with those blue eyes!” Martha's heart hurt for the people as she walked by, and yet she realized that woman was probably right. How would she ever survive in such a place, not having lived among them on the streets?

There was a homeless woman staying with Martha’s grown daughter, son-in-law and baby named Prada. Prada was going to try out for America’s Got Talent®, too. Martha’s two daughters and Prada went to the auditions for the day and got home around dinner time. Everyone wanted pizza. While the others ordered in, Prada told Martha about her favorite Greek pizza she was craving. Martha decided to go with Prada to get the pizza. Martha didn’t mind paying for the pizza ~ boy, did it look and smell awesome! As they made their way home, walking by the hungry on every side, Prada saw an old friend that went to the youth recovery program with her. He begged for some pizza, but she said she would buy him anything he wanted there at the corner Subway®. His face lit up as he sported his leather jacket, given to him by another friend. He felt so blessed. Prada used her food card to buy him whatever he wanted. Martha’s heart just melted as she saw the compassion the poor had for the poor. “That’s truly the heart of Jesus,” she thought.

Amazing Grace
Amazing Grace

After leaving Subway®, Prada told Martha she only had an eighth-grade education and was taking classes to get her High School diploma. Martha was proud of her, hopeful she would one day have a better life. As they continued walking back to the apartment, Prada’s glasses kept falling apart. She would take them off and try to piece them back together. She had super-glued them where they couldn’t be glued anymore; then, she taped them, but the tape wouldn’t hold. The feeble, broken frames couldn’t even bear the weight of her heavily layered prescription lenses. Martha’s heart welled, knowing she had always been taken care of by the LORD. Her life was so blessed, in comparison! She so wanted Prada to have a good pair of glasses. She thought to herself, “Prada gave out of her need; I want to give something to her that she needs – glasses.” Martha then asked, “Prada, where did you get your glasses?” After finding out it was at the local LensCrafters®, she said, “Tomorrow, we’re going to get you brand new glasses!” Prada couldn’t believe it. “Really?” Martha was so happy to see the heart-felt joy Prada felt. Yes, Martha knew she had debt, but could only think of God’s message to Prada: You gave out of your need and I will bless you above and beyond to provide what you need. Oh, God is good!

The following day, they went to LensCrafters®. It was going to be a costly sum, since Prada needed an eye exam, new prescription lenses and quality frames to hold them. As the ‘chi-ching’ sounded in Martha's mind ~ $350 plus this and that….$400…she had fleeting thoughts like, “This really isn’t your problem. You didn’t have to fix this.” Nevertheless, she thought, “This girl gave when it hurt; it hurts to give, but it’s the right thing to do. Even if I lose my job and can’t end up paying off the credit cards, Prada will have her glasses!” Martha confessed to the LORD it hurt to give, but she was going to trust Him.

Prada was SO HAPPY when she got her new glasses. She could even see better than before! Martha’s heart over-flowed with joy. On the walk home, another stopped to ask for food ~ this time, a newly pregnant mother. Martha asked her if she knew of the local food line. The pregnant mother responded she had eaten there before, but it made her very sick. Prada agreed; the food was horrible there. Martha knew she had already bought a pizza, paid for glasses and now, there was yet one more mouth to feed. One thing she learned is, you never go to a poverty-stricken area unprepared to give.

They all walked to McDonalds® and Martha told the pregnant mother she could get whatever she wanted. Only $9.00 of food? See, she wasn’t greedy! She was needy!! Martha wondered about the baby and asked if she would be able to care for it. The lady said, “No. I’m going to abort it.” Reality hit, that even if she did give birth to that child, it would probably be a crack baby and just another street kid that grows up to be homeless and hungry. Nevertheless, Martha told her that she could adopt the child out. She could receive money for doing so, too. Martha and Prada assured the lady that Jesus LOVES her and her baby. The pregnant mother asked if there was a church nearby. Almost in unison, Martha and Prada told her that the Church is IN her, if she believes. Jesus would be in her and with her. She seemed comforted by that message.

Philippians 2:6-8
Philippians 2:6-8

It was a long afternoon and sure enough it was time for Martha and her teen-age daughter to catch the BART back home. As they left the Tenderloin behind, Martha felt a sense of relief and grief, all at the same time. She thought of how repugnant it felt walking on those streets ~ kind of like a ‘hell’ of sorts. “Home” surely felt like heaven, in comparison. Then it dawned on her that The Holy God, came to this unholy earth to die for us, so He could live in us and be with us throughout our lives of trials here. What great compassion! That is the heart of Jesus!!

Martha took the next day off work to get some much needed chores and errands done. The following day, she went to work while her teen attended school. Since it was late winter, it was dark when she drove home. Still, she had to get the mail, waiting on that one last tax form. Sure enough, the tax form wasn’t there, but there WAS an envelope from Child Support Services. “What could this be?” she thought. “Another notice of a continued hearing for arrears?” She opened the envelope and realized it felt like a check. They hadn’t sent checks for years. In fact, any money was supposed to go on the electronic debit card she’d kept in the filing cabinet (always empty; never full). Straining to see in the dark, she made out a 6 then a 9 and a 1. “What ~ $6.91?” Wow. As she walked into the light, she couldn’t believe her eyes: $6,901.00!!! Her debt is PAID!!!

Matthew 25:40
Matthew 25:40

Martha’s thoughts raced, as the quiet voice of the LORD reminded her of what she heard in her heart for Prada, You gave out of your need and I will bless you above and beyond to provide what you need. This time, it was for HER.

You know, Martha never ‘tithed’ to any ‘church’, but she gives from the heart, as God leads her. This is a true story. I pray you have been deeply touched by Martha’s testimony. She learned so much from visiting the Tenderloin of San Francisco, watching the needy care for the needy, giving with joy that trumped her discomfort of adding to her debt. She knew it was God’s love and God’s direction to provide for Prada. Obedience is better than sacrifice (rituals) ~ and you know what? You can’t out-give God. Amen.

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PlanksandNails 4 years ago from among the Ekklesia

He who is generous will be blessed, for he gives some of his food to the poor. - Proverbs 22:9

Spiritual growth comes from difficult circumstances, but from it come physical and spiritual rewards.

Jesus Christ is not in the multi-million dollar man-made four walls business, but is in those who feed His sheep.

The spiritual result of the church body today is self-serving, and is a direct result of not serving the poor.

‘They are fat, they are sleek, they also excel in deeds of wickedness; they do not plead the cause, the cause of the orphan, that they may prosper; and they do not defend the rights of the poor. - Jeremiah 5:28


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

Oh, Amen, PlanksandNails ~ Amen! You know, Martha envisions taking a huge truck of blankets and pillows, even boxes of pizza down there to the Tenderloin ~ just to hand them out to those who live and die on those streets. The message of Jesus is that this life is temporal ~ eternal life awaits those who trust in Him. Some will go before others, but she wishes they be comforted both physically and spiritually, until that glorious day. Jesus made the Way and will not turn away a single soul that trusts in Him. If Martha hurt for these people, imagine the heart of God!! How does that song go? "We are His hands, We are His feet, Believers in Jesus, Children of the King!"


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Dave Mathews 4 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

Judah's Daughter: What a lovely and touching story, dear sister. Truly the more we do to help other, with what little we might have the more Our Lord causes to fall into our needy hands.

God Bless you dear sister and thank you for the glorious lesson on giving till it hurts.


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

Praise God, brother Dave!! AND guess what?! Martha called to let me know that GOD was not DONE giving to her and her daughter!! She had a meeting with the Social Security Office this morning. She knew it may be a garnishment of $140 p/mo (based on the latest contempt/court order for arrearages), but....

She is going to receive back-pay (since the Dad hadn't provided her contact information when he applied for SS) for over $7,000 (to arrive in the next five days), AND her daughter will receive approximately $350 p/mo until she's 18 (or 19, if still in school), regardless when the arrears are paid off.

WOW. I am so humbled to see the hand of God and His great love and redemption for them. We, as God's children should be encouraged, knowing we serve the Living God and His eye never looks away ~ and, if we grow not weary in well-doing, in due season, we shall indeed REAP ~ HalleluYAH!!!!


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Dave Mathews 4 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

Wow! God is surely working on behalf of her. By the way I had no idea that this was not a fictional story. This is great news.


His daughter 4 years ago

What an awesome testimony of God's faithfulness and true to His Word. It certainly is an understatement that we can NEVER outgive God. God bless!


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

AMEN, His Daughter! You know, everyone is surrounded by people in need and it can be overwhelming to think of providing something for each of them...this is why the prompting of the Holy Spirit is sooooo important. When He gives you a great love and burden for one, two or three, or maybe it's something you can do now ~ or haven't been able to since the last time (that's probably pretty much forgotten ~ lol) ~ what we do, as His kids is give as He leads and even at that time, if it hurts, but you KNOW it's the leading of the LORD (for He owns everything), trust and obey; amen!!

Martha's been her same giving self throughout the years of financial hardship. She NEVER expected anything like this to happen. She hadn't asked God to make it happen; she just let it go. God didn't let it go, and though it took 12 years, the TIME of jubilee (restoration) arrived. Hallelujah! We all praise God together!!!


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donnaisabella 4 years ago from Fort Myers

Hey Daughter! A very beautiful story of God's faithfulness to His children. I note that in one place you said, she did not tithe to any church but God honored her giving. It is true that God honors our giving regardless of where we give. The Bible says if we give, we will be given back. However, God also honors our obedience and when He says bring tithe so that there will be food in His house, he has promises and blessings attached to those. We can never outdo God in the many ways He is willing and ready to bless us.


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

Yes, that is true, donnaisabella. However, some feel that if they don't 'tithe' (a payment ~ this is a controversial subject), God won't "rebuke the devourer". Here we see such a beautiful blessing, above and beyond anything Martha ever expected, though she never was able to 'tithe'. I suppose she should be considered the 'widow' and her daughter the 'orphan' (fatherless), so God is her Husband and a Father to her and her child. He is their Provider, amen.

If God has prompted someone to give (tithe) to their church, to provide for the needs there, then that person needs to obey the prompting of the Holy Spirit. Someone like Martha should certainly never be looked down upon or feel 'pushed out' of the church for not being able to 'tithe'. It's not about the amount, when it comes to tithing or giving ~ it's about meeting the needs as one is able to give, with joy and love being the motivation. God is so good!


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Joe Macho 4 years ago from Colorado

My screen literally froze on this story as I was hopping through some hubs. I'm overjoyed it did. A wonderful message and beautiful story. God bless.


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

Wow, Joe Macho! Looks like God wanted you to receive a blessing today! I'm so glad and rejoice!! Thank you and we thank God together!!!


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ShalahChayilJOY 4 years ago from Billings, Montana

It is amazing how those with 'nothing' seem to always have something to share or to give while those that have seem to think they can't afford to give and don't receive much but what they can get for themselves?


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

And you KNOW it, don't you sister ShalahChayilJOY! See, people who don't have DO have compassion for others who don't have. They know what it's like to hurt, to need, to do without, accept what they have and certainly, take CARE of what they have to the best of their ability.

God also showed me that those who 'have' that do 'help' others to their own detriment are prideful. Pride comes before a fall and often times they end up worse off than they were to begin with.

Then, there are those who are greedy and 'needy', in the sense they will beg, borrow, steal, cheat, lie, bully, etc. to take from anyone and everyone they can ~ they are like vampires: charming enough to deceive their victims, devouring the life of them.

If the root of giving is love for God and others, and not love of SELF, it is ordained and blessed of the LORD. Praise God! Thank you for your awesome comment. I love you in Jesus' Name!!


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drpastorcarlotta 4 years ago from BREAKOUT MINISTRIES, INC. KC

Hello Judah's Daughter and Blessings! A very well written Hub as always. Pray that things are going well with you. God Bless you my friend always. VOTED-UP!


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Judah's Daughter 4 years ago from Roseville, CA Author

Oh, I've missed you also, sister drpastorcarlotta!!! We are soldiers in His labor, amen?! Amen! It's so refreshing to see your beautiful face and hear from you. Thank you for saying hello and I am glad you were blessed by this latest hub. Praise God! Love always, sister ~ JD.

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