Van: Actually neither is important to me. I know myself and if there is change necessary in me, God will point it out and Holy Spirit will help me to change.
How others see me or perceive me, makes no difference to me. God did not put me here to win any popularity contest, nor any beauty contest. He put me here to serve Him with the gifts He gave me to the best of my ability. The opinions of others means nothing, so long as I please Almighty God.