Because my girls are always with me and always watching I do try to be kind in all situations. I've noticed that the more I do that, the more it just becomes the "normal" thing for us to do. It really doesn't seem like a big deal or a choice at all, rather it is just how we do things. I love that, when I was in teacher's college we called this "creating a culture of kindness." I hope that always describes our family.