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When did you start to form an idea of who you were?


I've always been a pretty introspective person, so I started to form my own coherent self-identity pretty young. My older brother, on the other hand, spent so much time living up to our parents' expectations that I don't think he even tried to find out who he was until his late 20s. When did you start forming your own identity?

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    Volitans 4 years ago

    I know that religion was certainly something holding my brother back. We were members of a pretty strict church, and as the oldest he felt a very strong pressure to conform and set an example.

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    Volitans 4 years ago

    Interesting story, thanks for sharing! Personally, I'd have given you the win just for not going with the happy ending.

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    Volitans 4 years ago

    What a great thing to tell a 7 year old!

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    andrew savage 4 years ago

    Do you think Satan will rule the world on 21 Dec 2012?

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