This is a constant story work in progress for all and it has much to do with the idea that we float back and forth from our human selves to our soul selves. And when others do this, too - it is difficult to maintain being constantly celebrated.
The key is for all of us to stay present and mindful in being and continuously work on self-acceptance. The world itself cannot constantly celebrate who we are if we ourselves cannot do this first. It is much like we are not able to love to the fullest and greatest capacity unless we love and nurture ourselves so that we have in turn, more to give.
It is not the job or responsibility of other people to celebrate us or make us happy. This is a bonus and a perk if we are so fortunate to have this happen. It is our responsibility to work on ourselves in total being - mind, body, soul and spirit so we can remain healthy enough to stay upright to participate and share and give to others where we can celebrate and enjoy life together collectively.
While it is very sad today that tolerance is something the world is still working on, along with Co-Existence, Acceptance, Respect, Forgiveness, Peace, Tolerance, Understanding and Compassion - if we all do the work to let it start with us and who we are as individuals we can then disperse this in unity with others of like mind and like spirit and like being.