It would totally be up to the tribal council and the chief. You need to petition the council for a hearing on that.
Do you have any kind of native american tribal affiliation?
Visit your nearest tribal office to find out how to apply.
You might want to befriend one of the drummers at a powwow and ask how you can get involved.
These are just suggestions as women of the tribes generally have responsibilities and judgement over family matters, not on who is qualified to be a drummer, or singer.
Hope this helps!