I am assuming the readers of this response are familar with my hub ...
It is not what I "wished" for, it was what needed to be done. In this case, his wife and children needed him on earth more than he needed to be in heaven. I spent a sold half hour in discussion with the person I refer to as "Wolf" in my hub, disucssing whether or not this was something that should be done.
In this case, we did it simply because it was the right thing to do.
I've lived a long time on this earth as well, I only know five or so people who have been raised from the dead of the dozens or more that I know who have died.
We still discuss among ourselves, including Lonnie and his wife if this was the "right" thing to do. In this case, I'm sure it was.
The mistake we often make is putting the "and everybody lived happily ever after" at the end of these stories. That's not accurate. In some ways, life is harder than it was before.